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November 29, 2017 2:46 pm at 2:46 pm in reply to: Hashkafic views on taking money from the medinah #1415428WinnieThePoohParticipant
Avi- I really did not want to take this thread off topic, especially since this had been dealt with on so many other threads, but since we are having a respectful discussion, I hope everyone does not mind that I answer you.
1. I can’t answer for everyone’s level of emuna and extent of hishtadlus they have to do. I do know that the during the Gulf War, people in Bnai Brak who were definitely in line of fire did not run to sealed rooms because they were assured by… (was it Rav Shach Z”TL? or rav Kanievsky?) that the Torah of Bnei Brak would protect them. And they were protected.
2. I think it’s because saying it is a political message, and because there are problems with adding tefillos that are not part of the mesora. But plenty of shuls end davening with “Acheinu kol bais yisroel” and a kappitel tehillim, usually more frequently level during an active war/military operation.
3. Yes, not all are learning, and it would be great (in my opinion) if those who are not making it- shabavnikim and also regular people who are not cut out for full time learning- had other options within the system. Theoretically, it would be better for boys at risk or trouble makers to get out their aggression in the army, learn some discipline- including being forced to attend davening- that is what function Nachal Hareidi serves (Nahal Hareidi is a misnomer- practically, it’s mostly for Chareidi drop-outs and dati leumi who want something more sheltered than the hesder units). But there is a real spiritual risk of going to the army for a typical Hareidi boy- you can’t deny it- and so for most boys, it would not be better for them to go.
In terms of how to do the learning- you can’t compare someone learning in a hesder program (5 years combined learning and army) to someone learning full time for 10-20-30 + years. There are those who learn just for the sake of learning, there are those who learn to teach. There was in the past some capacity in the army to be a Rav Chayal, I think it was called- I know there were chareidi boys who joined and served in that way, and taught Torah as part of their service. I doubt it exists today- the army is not encouraging spread of Torah among the recruits (remember the furor over some officer who encouraged his soldiers to daven or say tehillim before they went out?). As far as using their analytical skills for military intelligence- great idea, for those who don’t want/can’t continue their Torah studies and are looking for jobs. But for those who want to learn- let them learn, without strings!One more point, the chareidi community is dynamic and change needs to come from within, if and when it is appropriate, not when outsiders dictate it.
WinnieThePoohParticipantMC, I didn’t mean that he backed off the campaign, but that he backed off of his role as the center of it, and instead, as you say, put in on the shoulders of the chasidim. That is how I understood the sicha that CS quoted, but, of course, not being a Chabadnik, I am sure that my interpretation of it is not how Chabad chassidim understand it.
November 29, 2017 11:26 am at 11:26 am in reply to: Hashkafic views on taking money from the medinah #1415128WinnieThePoohParticipantAvi K-
1. there is so much history of distrust, of distortion of people’s intentions, of stereotyping on both sides.
Chareidim have long memories of the early days when the secular Zionists pushed their agenda, pulled people away from Yiddishkeit and tried to interfere with mosdos chinuch. Things have changed, secular motives have changed, but the suspicion is still there- and anything that smacks of interfering by the secularists, especially when it comes to the chinuch system, will put the chareidim on the defensive.
2. Yes, many of the jobs that chareidim take have low salaries (hmm… yeshivas budgets are small, partly because they receive less government funding compared to public government schools, and so they can’t afford to pay their Rebbeim large salaries…Although I think Rebbeim do get paid more than BY teachers, and their salaries are linked to Misrad Hachinuch scales, so you can say that all teachers get paid low salaries). Part of it is idealism, or of wanting to stay within a frum Torah-oriented environment even when working, and partly do to lack of skills in other areas. But that does not mean they are lazy or shirking responsibility or expecting hand-outs.
In terms of discrimination in hiring, as I said in point 1, there is a long history of distrust on both sides, and chilonim are scared of chareidim whom they really don’t understand. Peleg’s actions of course does not help. I can’t say I blame them for not hiring chareidim, I’m just pointing out the obstacles to those who are searching for jobs.
3. As discussed over and over again on this issue, the lomdei Torah feel that they are protecting Am Yisroel. Just as there are many jobs in the army- and you wouldn’t say that the base cook is doing less of a duty than the combat soldier, so too the lomdei Torah have an important job. The problem is that the secular public does not recognize the importance of this job. Besides, if we were honest, the army really does not want (or need) a mass amount of chareidim serving, it would be a logistical nightmare!
4. Despite the rhetoric often spread on this forum, the world is not divided into Zionists and anti-Zionists. There are those who don’t believe in the shitas of the medina, but love E”Y and understand that this is the government they got and they have to live with for the meanwhile, as long as the galus continues. They are not traitors. They vote for the parties that they feel will best represent their interests. They pay taxes, they pay VAT on the clothing and food etc they buy for their large families, and they are as deserving of social benefits as any other citizen.November 29, 2017 11:16 am at 11:16 am in reply to: Hashkafic views on taking money from the medinah #1415130WinnieThePoohParticipantDaas Yochid- thanks for the compliment. If only you knew how many times I re-read my posts before posting, delete full paragraphs or posts that I don’t think are to the point or necessary, rewrite, and then hope even after I post that I won’t be attacked or my words taken the wrong way…
WinnieThePoohParticipantCS, your last point I think everyone can agree with- and it’s true of all tzaddikim. Which is why when we learn, we say “Rashi says” and not “Rashi said”, not because we think he is still alive and talking, but because his influence and teachings live on beyond him. If this answer truly reflects Chabad Hashkafa today, then we can end the discussion here.
But even so, we still need live leaders and teachers to guide us, we can’t just live based on what was taught and written before us, trying to interpret these teachings and apply them to our times.WinnieThePoohParticipantThere’s an important post by CS a bit back that no one commented on, but I think is very important.
I’ll quote it to remind people:
“In a famous sicha 5751 the Rebbe got very emotional and poured out his heart, which was highly unusual.He said that he had done everything to bring moshiach, and that klal yisroel as a whole, throughout the genesis,had accumulated enough zechusim to me r it moshiach so what more could Hashem be waiting for!?!
He continued that it must be that Hashem doesn’t want the Nossi hador to bring moshiach because he wants moshiach. Rather, it needs to matter to every man woman and child.
Ave then shockingly the Rebbe concluded that he’s giving it all over to us regular people-is up to us to bring moshiach.”
To me, this means that the Rebbe realized that the Massiach campaign went off track, people got carried away and started focusing too much on the Rebbe. So he backed off, had the stroke soon after, and eventually was niftar. It sounds like he abdicated being the “Nasi HaDor”. And he expected his Chassidim to back off too, but their actions indicated that they did not.
If they had listened to what the Rebbe actually wanted, and not what they wanted to hear, things would be very different today and Chabad would not be so different from everyone else.
November 28, 2017 2:31 pm at 2:31 pm in reply to: Hashkafic views on taking money from the medinah #1414115WinnieThePoohParticipantAvi K- re setting curriculum. Yes, the secular majority is worried about the time when there will be a chareidi majority who are undereducated, and are worried that the economy and highly technical industries will collapse. To solve this, if they could get away with it, they would force a core curriculum on the Chareidi schools.
Counterargument: 1. force has never worked. Chareidi schools give varying amounts of secular subjects- just looking at the numerous chadarim in my neighborhood, it ranges from 0 to several hours a day, without any force. But if you force it, likely as not, those who now give secular studies will stop in protest.
2. I do not think that the term “mass of people who refuse to work” is accurate. Unless you define work as being in hi-tech or being a lawyer, etc. Many chareidim work- it may even be a majority- they work as educators, in kashrus, as business owners, and in many areas that service the chareidi community. There are many training courses for those who need to brush up on their skills. For those who want a job outside of the traditional chareidi job market, something funny happens. Even when qualified, suddenly no one wants to hire them. The same chilonim who are screaming that chareidim should leave Yeshiva and go to work, are the ones who don’t want to hire those who do want to work in these fields.
3. What has prevented many men from going out to work when they are no longer producing in their learning, or when they need the parnassa, is that work has been linked to army service. For the chareidi bochur/young avreich, going to the army is a spiritual non-starter. Get rid of that condition, and many more would join the workforce, as you see among chareidim in the US. I believe the Tal Law saw the fallacy in linking work to army service, after a certain age, but the Tal Law no longer exists.
4. Do you really think that the Yeshiva world will hold by exams set by the Chief Rabbinate to determine who is a talmid chochom?WinnieThePoohParticipantMoshiachChat- while it would be nice if you can quote the texts, if that is too hard, then you can start by giving the source- which medrash, which gemara, etc. so others can look it up for themselves. Not good at this issue myself, but I know others have managed to include texts or links to sources.
I must admit though that I personally will not be able to follow the Rashi/Tosfos, having never learned Gemara. I may be nice, but I am not Harav Pooh 🙂 Perhaps others here will do the honor, or if I can get my husband interested, he’ll look at it for me.Oh, to answer another point- I don’t look to see who is Moshiach because that was not what I learned to be part of the 13 Ikrim of emuna.
November 27, 2017 5:08 pm at 5:08 pm in reply to: Where did all these Chabad warriors come from? #1413132WinnieThePoohParticipant770- peirush on Avram in MD:
It has nothing to do with Chabad.
It’s because traditionally on the CR threads on Zionism and tznius dominated the controversial topics, and got everyone riled up. Were new such threads opened up, the assumption is that the Chabad threads would fall down in rank, and be forgotten, as everyone would get distracted by the new/old hot topics.November 27, 2017 4:30 pm at 4:30 pm in reply to: Hashkafic views on taking money from the medinah #1413097WinnieThePoohParticipantThere is a set curriculum in the girls’ schools, but they still have independent say over it, and as I said, give parallel testing on that curriculum. The boys’ chadarim do what they want- some have more, some have less, some have none. The chadarim generally get less money than the BYs, AFAIK.
My memory of the details are fuzzy- so I googled it. This was a big issue for Yair Lapid et al who wanted to force the LIBA- the core curriculum on the chareidi schools- i.e. give 11 hours of secular studies/week, or else lose your funding. A law was passed, was not enforced and was repealed when the chareidim joined the government after the next round of elections, because they did not want government interference in their school system, even in those schools that did teach the minimum secular studies- an issue they are very passionate about.
This is what I found in Haaretz, from March 2017 on an article about why the Chareidi schools don’t take the standardized tests:
““We won’t allow any procedure in which the Education Ministry is involved,” Gafni said, feeling free to speak on the record. “It’s our educational independence – we decide, not the Education Ministry. We decided this back in the days of Ben-Gurion, who assured our educational independence. We won’t accept dictates, and we won’t accept the Education Ministry’s oversight.”…When it comes to funding, the Independent Education System is far from independent – the state finances it to the tune of 1.2 billion shekels ($326 million) annually.”So yes, like so many things in E”Y, this defies logic- chareidi schools get funded (some, not all) but don’t follow the core.
WinnieThePoohParticipantMoshiacChat- at the risk of being a target of your sassiness again, when no insult is intended…
You mentioned a couple of times that the Rebbe brought down medrashim, or a Rashi and Tosfos to explain his views, and urged people to check out the sichos and see for themselves. You must realize by now, that posters here will not be looking this up in the Sicha, practically, because they don’t have the Rebbe’s sichos on their bookshelves (gasp!) and also because they want to see the sources in their context in an unbiased way. Can you please provide us with the actual primary sources -the medrashim and Rashi/Tosfos that you are referring to?WinnieThePoohParticipantAfter the Rebbe was niftar, I expected to see mass depression or going off the derech – after all, how does one continue after everything that was predicted proved wrong? It had the potential to be another shabtai tzvi disaster. Yet, that didn’t happen (BurnTFACE seems to be in the minority of those who were disillusioned and left Chabad) -and now after reading this thread, I understand why. The “abandoned” flock never perceived themselves as abandoned! Because to Chabad, the Rebbe’s shita wasn’t proven wrong. The Rebbe is still the Rebbe, still Mashiach, the 7th Dor continues as long as there is no new Rebbe. A whole generation has come of age since the Rebbe was niftar, and still nothing really changed!
Meanwhile, the rest of us wait for Mashiach without cheshbonos of who he might be – that part we leave up to Hashem.
November 27, 2017 3:15 pm at 3:15 pm in reply to: Hashkafic views on taking money from the medinah #1413001WinnieThePoohParticipantI don’t know Random3x…but either way, the government was trying to force its agenda. In Israel, there are established parallel tracks of schools, that are recognized by the government but are allowed to set their own curriculum. Yes, there was talk in the last coalition to change that, but B”H the status quo has remained. It seems they are less at risk than schools elsewhere, where liberal “values” have become the new religion. Just trying to point out that Joseph’s fear, although theoretically valid, is B”H not a fact on the ground in Eretz Yisroel.
November 27, 2017 2:19 pm at 2:19 pm in reply to: Hashkafic views on taking money from the medinah #1412871WinnieThePoohParticipantHere’s a different way to look at it- Torah Mosdos take money from the government in order to survive. So it is a way to be marbitz Torah. What a zechus for the government- the country certainly needs it. Like it or not, they are supporting Torah and those who study it.
By the way, it goes a lot further than money for yeshivos and the necessity for mass fund-raising. It includes medical care from the kuppot and National Insurance. I once met a woman in a clinic who could not continue with her treatment for lack of funds. I don’t know if this is widely done- not having medical and hospital coverage, assistance for kids with special needs, etc. is a very big deal.
About accepting money and therefore being compelled to teach anti-Torah curriculum- this is a universal problem, remember the girls’ school threatened with closure in England because they did not teach a certain accepted liberal value? At least in E”Y there is a concept of chinuch atzmai, the government actually recognizes that these schools are outside the main school system and pretty much can set their own curriculum. Every so often there is a struggle over this, but the status quo has remained and B”H the children in Chadarim and BYs are not learning anything treif. The girls BY schools, for instance, do not do bagriyot, but have their own recognized testing system. Can’t say the same, for example, for schools in NYS whose students take Regents exams.WinnieThePoohParticipantMashiachChat- I didn’t say you were bashing gedolim, nor that this was a big issue, I just politely asked that you call them Rav, as appropriate, and now I will add, and please do it consistently, not just sometimes. I do find it problematic that you are used to referring to them as Mordechai Eliyahu or Soloveitchik. It is not a compliment. The fact that you are using a phone has not prevented you from typing out long posts, or being sassy, as you call it, so I think you can manage another 3 letters, R-A-V.
Thank you.WinnieThePoohParticipantMoshiacChat, in the interest of maintaining the (more-or-less) respectful tone of this thread, when you refer to Rabbanim, can you please use their well deserved titles? e.g. Rav Mordechai Eliyahu, etc, lest people jump to the conclusion that you don’t respect them since they are not Chabad Rabbanim.
WinnieThePoohParticipantCS, thanks for addressing my questions.
One point- I don’t think the fact that there was a Nasi or Av Beis Din supports the 1 Moshe in a generation concept. There needed to be a leader, practically, and usually he was the greatest, but that did not mean that he was the main source of spirituality of that generation. Remember the chain did not include the shoftim or melachim- the acknowledged leaders of the time. Other than Moshe, there were always multiple Neviim in the generation, with different missions- and while one may have been more prominent- like Shmuel, that did not mean there were not other Neviim. Once Nevua ended, the chain went to the Anshei Keneses Hagedola- the Rabbanim as a whole, it does not say the mesora went to the Av Beis Din or the Nasi. The task of passing on the mesora, bringing down the Shechina was on all Rabbanim as teachers of Torah Sh’Bal Pe. Moshe as one leader was necessary since the Torah that he received is One. But that came with a danger- relying too much on one individual mortal to connect to Hashem- as we see what happened with Chet HaEgel.You have acknowledged what most of us have suspected, that chabad thinks they are the true and only derech, the only way Mashiach will come, the rest of us are left out in the dark, nebach, but that is how it is in the world of hierarchy. well, the rest of us disagree. Mashiach can come from anyone. We are all trying to be oveid Hashem in the best way for each of us, and hope our actions will make us worthy to bring Mashiach. There are 70 Panim L’Torah, 12 shevatim, multiple LEGITIMATE paths to Avodas Hashem. Elu V’Elu Divrei Elokim Chaim. There is much Torah out there that supports that there are other derachim. In fact, you might argue that since the 7-generation-7-Rebbes–bringing-Mashiach concept did not work out the way Chabad expected it to, that maybe the concept was wrong. It’s funny how you bring the GRA down as an example of someone who could not be Mashiach or bring Mashiach because he was not Chabad, Well, the GRA sent his talmidim to E”Y. Many thought that was the beginning of the days of Mashaich. He was supposed to join them. There are many stories about how he set out for E”Y but turned back, because the time was not yet ripe for Mashiach, implying that the GRA had a lot to do with bringing about Mashiach. I know a story is not evidence, and no one knows what went on with the GRA, but it shows you that there are sparks of Mashiach everywhere. Chazal say that Chizkiyahu Hemelech could have been Mashiach, but the generation was not worthy. R’ Akiva believed at first that Bar Kochva was Mashiach. Neither Chizkiyahu nor Bar Kochva were Chabad Tzaddikim. So if in the past Mashiach could come from other sources, same applies for now. And good thing for that, since as you admitted, there are no Chabad TAzddikim right now.
Since we are all being intellectually honest here (I think): can you answer this question:
Tomorrow Mashiach comes. And he is Litvish. Or Sefardi. Or a Gerrer Chassid, etc. Will you accept him?WinnieThePoohParticipantYerushalmi in exile-
perhaps they are afraid where they will find him?
Actually, based on answers given above, (the logic is somewhat circuitous, but I think this summarizes what was presented above.) the 7th dor is not over since the mission was not yet accomplished (source: CS’s HS teacher). So the last Rebbe still holds the title of the Moshe of the Dor. The Dor is established by the Rebbe- as long as there is no new Rebbe, there is no new Dor. And as long as there is no new Dor, the last Rebbe remains the Rebbe. Besides since no one replaced him, the bit of Moshe Rabbeinu’s neshama in him was not passed on, so it remains with him. No chance for a new tzaddik, for a new Moshe/Nasi B’doro or Moshiach B’doro. wait- how can that be? No possibility of a Moshiach?
I can finally understand why Mesichists believe the way they do, it is the natural progression of the basic concepts as presented here.WinnieThePoohParticipantBecause you might splatter someone else walking near you who is not wearing boots.
WinnieThePoohParticipantA lot has happened here since you answered my questions, so I will ask you to please rewind a bit. Since you enjoyed the first set, I’ll throw some more at you.
1. You actually didn’t answer the second part of my first question, about why the line of chabad davka were the conduits to bring down the shechiina but not other greats, but just nitpicked with me using the word avos not literally to mean all 7 of our great ancestors, and not just the 3 actual Avos. If I get what you are inferring though from your other answers, the chabad zaddik is in a class of his own, he is the only Moshe in the generation, everyone else is a lower madreiga, just as zekeinim were lower than Moshe, including other great rebbeim from other lineages, even those who lived in times when tzaddikim were more abundant than they are now, as you say. If this is in fact what you are saying, it sheds light on a lot of the issues raised in the previous (closed) thread.
2. We say “Moshe kibel Torah M’Sinai., Umesora l’Yehosua, VYehoshua L’Zekeinim ,etc.” The idea that the leadership on one person was unique to the dor that received the Torah, and then next, as Yehoshua was an extension of Moshe. But after that, it was always a group of Rabbanim/chachamim/Neviim who channeled Torah to the people. There was not one great leader. How do you reconcile this with the Nasi/Moshe B’Doro concept?
3. You state that chabadnikim could not choose a new Rebbe because they could not find a good enough tzaddik. But based on what you said, all they need is a beinoni, who strives and hates sin, and then Hashem will gift him with the traits of being a tzaddik so that he can lead the flock. Was there no one like this in all of chabad, all striving in Avodas Hashem along the systematic understandable path that only chabad provides?WinnieThePoohParticipantA couple of broad questions (from someone with a very Litvish way of thinking):
1. You called these concepts “chassidus 101” which means that they are true for all chassidus, and are not just Chabad/tanya tenets? If so, then all chassidim have the concept of tzadddik. Presumably, every group will believe that their Rebbe is a tzaddik. You stated that the tzaddik has the neshama of Moshe Rabbeinu, and every generation has one. But if every group has a tzaddik, then every group has its Moshe Rabbeinu? Or are some Rebbes/Tzaddikim bigger than others, and the rest are just imposters (no disrespect to any Rebbe meant, just trying to understand how this fits the bigger picture). Along a similar vein, when you quoted from the Rebbe that he was the 7th generation, implying that like the Avos, each Rebbe brought the shechina down one level, with the last Rebbe having the mission to complete the process and bring Mashiach, my question is: what about all the other great Tzaddikim/Rebbeim thru the generations outside of the chain of Chabad- they were not capable of this too? why exclude the Besht and the Maggid of Mezeritch and Rav Shmelke and the Noam Elimelech, just to name a famous few?
2. I think you are saying that being a tzaddik is not a process a person can do himself, as you call it a gift from Hashem. It is not that someone worked on himself to get to this level, but that Hashem chooses a leader in each generation and bestows on him the level of Tzaddik. Would that be correct? Does that explain the Rebbe hierarchy (in any chassidus)- how automatically a son/son-in law/ nearest relative takes over from the previous Rebbe and becomes a Tzaddik, no matter what his age or level of Torah learning?November 21, 2017 3:37 pm at 3:37 pm in reply to: Yeshiva Boys Are Allowed To Wear Colored Shirts! #1408409WinnieThePoohParticipantRanbi: “it is better to look sharp with a nice shirt and look like a Mench rather than a white shirt with coffee and sweat stains.”
I find this line funny. Of course, those who wear a white shirt stained with coffee and sweat stains, were they to start wearing blue shirts, would be walking around in a blue shirt stained with coffee and sweat stains. It’s not one or the other.
November 20, 2017 11:26 am at 11:26 am in reply to: Does “Chasidish” refer to both Satmar and Lubavitch? #1406204WinnieThePoohParticipantFor those of you educating the rest of us about chasidus- can you define the following terms used in various posts above (unless they are typos- but then again until now I didn’t know Gesze was a word)
post #1405695: “the friendlier rebbe” – was there really such a Rebbe?
post #1405694: “chadimdim”
post #1405442″ “litvishe Chassidus” (isn’t that an oxymoron?)November 20, 2017 10:47 am at 10:47 am in reply to: Living in Israel while being unknowledgeable of Hebrew #1406190WinnieThePoohParticipantShopping- don’t be quick to judge. Maybe they just arrived a few months ago.
Or maybe they are like one of my kids who was born here, attended school in Hebrew from age 2.5 but still is not fluent (speaking, comprehension is fine) due to language processing problems. So while most young kids pick up a second language without a problem, some don’t. (Answer to your question, slominer) There are probably adults like him too, who struggle with languages even though they may manage without obvious problems in their mother tongue. So not every adult who doesn’t speak Hebrew is being lazy or doesn’t feel it is important to learn.WinnieThePoohParticipantI had chicken pox at age 5.
I wanted my kids to acquire natural immunity, and it was still not part of the mandatory vaccinations, so I opted not to vaccinate. We waited a long time until they were exposed and came down with it. All my kids caught it from each other, the first actually caught it from a classmate who was vaccinated and had a mild case. My baby at the time caught it too, real bad- was too old to be covered by my immunity but too young to develop her own as a result, meaning she could get it again. Not wanting to put here through it again, and knowing that the actual disease was becoming rarer and rarer as more kids were immunized, I decided in the end to give her the vaccine.November 19, 2017 11:21 pm at 11:21 pm in reply to: Living in Israel while being unknowledgeable of Hebrew #1406005WinnieThePoohParticipantIt really depends on the location- where I come from It’s pretty common to find adults who are not fluent- some people are just not good at learning a new language, and some may not pick it up because they are not so exposed to it. Sorry I can’t give you actual numbers or statistics, but considering that there are several shuls where announcements and droshos are in English, I would assume a large number are not comfortable with Hebrew. The large critical mass of English speakers makes it easier for those who don’t know Hebrew to function, but it doesn’t mean that there won’t be situations where they will need Hebrew and be disadvantaged without it. For example, I was at a parents-teacher meeting at my kid’s preschool. Lots of mothers chatting in English. Some were translating the teacher’s instructions to another mother. But when the teacher talked for an hour in rapid Hebrew about child development and what the goals were for the year, I am sure this woman was completely lost. Which means that the child is losing out because the mother cannot be as involved in her education.
I would recommend that the family in question try to learn the language as best as they can, even if they don’t know it now. It will definitely make it easier to adapt to a new country.WinnieThePoohParticipantI agree LB, it is hard to know from a temperature how cold it really is, because “cold” is a combination of things. 50s and sunny is different from 50s and windy/rainy. If you are walking in an exposed area- say a Jerusalem neighborhood on a mountaintop, you’ll feel the extremes more, than if you were walking down a city street closed in by tall buildings. Also, it depends what you are used to. For a NYer, a winter day in the 40s is mild. For Israel, it is bitter cold. Colder climates are more prepared for cold- buildings are insulated and heated, people go from their heated homes to heated cars to heated work-places, and often don’t realize how cold it is. In warmer climates, like Israel, the homes are built for warm weather and the cold can really penetrate. You can’t really warm up inside, (unless you wear lots of layers) so I think you feel the cold more when outside.
I’d say take a coat.November 18, 2017 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm in reply to: Living in Israel while being unknowledgeable of Hebrew #1405367WinnieThePoohParticipantIn areas with a lot of Olim from English speaking countries, there is a lot of English in the community, (even among chareidim) and they would be able to get along to some extent- they can find English speaking doctors, shopkeepers usually have some English, and when they get stuck, there is usually someone around to translate. But many things would be hard for them to navigate without being able to communicate, for example, PTA meetings. Also job options would be very limited.
Unless the kids are sent to Yiddish speaking schools, they would have to learn Hebrew to survive school. Even in schools that teach in Yiddish, I have a feeling a lot of the socialization among kids outside of the classroom is in Hebrew (unless they are sending to a school from a community that only speaks Yiddish at home too). There are many children who are olim who barely know Hebrew when they come and they do learn- they take ulpan, get help in school etc. It’s doable, depending on age of child, but can be a challenge, especially if there are learning or language disabilities.WinnieThePoohParticipantJoseph: 3.5″ type on my Mac, but I did use other computers with both. I even remember a teacher in elementary school showing us punch cards (see, I really am ancient Joseph). Does anyone remember ZIP drives and JAZZ drives? The answer to the memory storage problem! ZIPS, if I remember correctly, could be used for both PCs and Macs so it was a good way to transfer data between different users.
When I got my Mac in the early 90s people were starting to get portable cell phones, but it was not so common. The cell phones were so cumbersome at first that they were really not all that portable. My parents gave me one to use when I traveled alone places in the car, since it was only used for that purpose, I still considered it a car phone. That changed pretty quickly though – the goal became to make them as small as possible, credit card like. Now ironically the trend is reversed, since you actually have to see the screen on an iphone.
WinnieThePoohParticipantShh.. syag, that is top secret.
LB, no- back when I got my first Mac people used these clunky cell phones (also known as car phones) and thought they were very techonologically advanced. I got my first cell phone sometime during the PC phase. It was cool- I could fit it in my pocket and play Mancala and Snake on it and actually call anyone without needing change for a pay phone. Actually, my current phone isn’t all that much advanced,
To put things in context, my first Mac was a desktop that came with 4 MB RAM, which I upgraded to a whopping 8 MB. It had a floppy drive, but no CD drive or internal modem. Eventually I got an external CD reader and external modem. To get internet, I used a dial-up service and tied up my phone line the whole time. Hmm. come to think of it, my current MacBook doesn’t have a CD Drive or a modem either…November 12, 2017 10:49 am at 10:49 am in reply to: Proper etiquette for bochor speaking to girl’s parents #1401402WinnieThePoohParticipantDr. E- that’s only if he comes with a fleet of cars and lots of gifts for the girl and her family. And the girl should be offering to water the cars. He should avoid eating what the father offers, however.
WinnieThePoohParticipantI went from Mac to PC and was happy with the PC, and then back to Mac again, because that was what work gave me. Now I love the Mac and when I look at a PC I can’t even figure out how to get started- the newer versions of Windows are so different from what they used to be! But if I had to buy myself a computer, , I don’t think I could afford the Mac and would have to get used to to the PC again.
November 9, 2017 2:49 pm at 2:49 pm in reply to: English speaking countries are safest for Jews #1400241WinnieThePoohParticipantSome other ideas to consider:
Perhaps it is the religious background of the country? Many non-English speaking countries were traditionally Catholic and may have a culture based on anti-Jewish Church teachings, even if these countries are not as religious now, the anti-Jewish sentiment is still there. Example, France, or (pre-war) Poland. Germany on the other hand was heavily influenced by Martin Luther.
Maybe the English speaking countries tended to be greater melting pots, attracting people of different backgrounds, more tolerant. Didn’t succumb to Fascism or Communism.WinnieThePoohParticipantwhen is the last time you found a sponge in a sponge cake?
WinnieThePoohParticipantHere’s another scenario that rephrases the OP’s question, without the complications of CY vs CS.
There are various kosher l’mehadrin hechsherim, different people hold by different ones. None are treif, obviously.
Say I eat a wide range of those, we will call them Hechsher K, L, M, N and P. Hechsher K is found on many items, and is one of the few hechsherim that is accepted by everyone, but it is also more expensive than the others on things like chicken and meat. I am very price conscious when I shop, buy things when they are on sale, and when it comes to a choice between 2 brands, the price will be the most deciding factor. So I will not buy chicken with K hechsher because it is so much more money than M or N.
If I was sending in a snack item for a kid’s school party, or preparing something for a friend’s kiddush, I would make sure to buy/use items only with Hechser K, but those are not expensive, and they are to be consumed outside of my home.
Now Reuven is coming to my house for shabbos, and he only eats hechsher K. Do I accommodate him and buy the more expensive K chicken? Should I ask him in advance what hechsherim he eats? I know there are many people who are makpid on certain hechsherim at home, but when they go to another frum person, they don’t ask questions. But as the host, how far should I go to try to accommodate their optimal standards?November 8, 2017 2:07 pm at 2:07 pm in reply to: Did Jews Living In Medieval England Speak And Read And Write In English #1399145WinnieThePoohParticipantWhat a fascinating history/linguistic lesson this thread has become!
So the question really is, did the non-Jews speak, read and write English in Medieval England? If it was the language of the peasants, we can assume that they did not read or write it. So any Jew who may have had contact with them would have needed to know how to speak the language to some degree, but reading and writing it would not have been necessary.WinnieThePoohParticipantI once caught a lizard that way. Trapped him under a plastic container. I dragged it across the floor that way, but then realized that he might get out (in the wrong direction) when lifting it over the threshold of the back door. So I slid a piece of hard plastic- (like a heavy plastic tablecloth) underneath, and secured it over the container with tape. Then turned it upside down, still covered with the plastic. Once outside, I untaped the plastic and dumped him out over the porch wall. I was real proud of how brave I was. I think I just washed out that container really well with hot water and lots of anti-bacterial soap.
WinnieThePoohParticipantless chumras, I get New Utrecht (and New York, New Jersey, etc) it’s the Old New Utrecht that leaves me scratching my head.
WinnieThePoohParticipantJoseph, I did not say to visit the World’s Fair, but the site… it’s still there in the present, and is a somewhat interesting place to visit.
Note that the OP did not ask how Brooklyn and Queens differed Jewishly, or which was better.
And the crazy street numbering is to keep out unwanted guests, of course! If you are referring to KGH, then you would be talking about numbers in 60s and 70s that are sometimes re-used as Ave, Road, and Drive. You can also throw in a Crescent and a Terrace. The Streets are a separate numbering system, and run parallel to said Aves, Rd, Dr. At least the numbers are in order- other neighborhoods have non-alphabetical street names.
Please explain streets in Brooklyn: New Utrecht Ave and Old New Utrecht Rd. I always wondered why the old and new don’t cancel each other out and just become Utrecht Rd- would save room on the street signs.WinnieThePoohParticipantI don’t think it’s the money aspect- a girl would prefer a free date in a park than one in a pizza shop. First, even if it is not in their neighborhoods, they still might run into people they know. Second, it’s usually crowded and not a great place for a conversation, with everyone on top of them staring and listening in. Also, not the kind of place that encourages lingering over a long meal. Better for the guy to run in, buy a few slices, and take them to a nice park or some place to eat picnic style where they have a bit more privacy and nicer ambience. Keep in mind though, it’s kind of hard to eat pizza politely (hands needed), a girl dressed up on a date might feel a bit awkward eating pizza with a guy she just met.
WinnieThePoohParticipantLB, if the Mets or the US Open don’t interest you (or it’s not that time of year) you can do some shopping on Main St in Kew Gardens Hills, eat lunch at one of several pizza stores, get some take-out and baked goods for shabbos. then head over to Flushing Meadows Park- feed the ducks, take a nice long walk around the park, visit the Queens Museum, the zoo, the site of the 1964 World’s Fair, etc. You can even visit Trump’s childhood home in Jamaica Estates.
YY- the Dodgers and a “used to have an airport” don’t count, since LB can’t go back in time. As far as 13th Ave in College Point, Queens …I don’t think it has what BoroPark’s 13th Ave has to offer. Maybe there are other 13th Aves?
WinnieThePoohParticipantMany differences- starting with the accent.
Queens has 2 airports, a baseball stadium and a tennis center.
Brooklyn has Coney Island, an Aquarium and 13th Ave.
Here’s one you in particular might find interesting- Brooklyn has 770, where the Lubavitcher Rebbe lived. Queens has the cemetery where he is buried.October 24, 2017 1:40 am at 1:40 am in reply to: Were there 70 Versions of the Greek Septuagint? #1388841WinnieThePoohParticipant“I thought that there were 70 versions of Torah in Hebrew?”
No, there is only one version. That is a basic principle of faith, the Torah we have is the Torah that Moshe got on Sinai. I think you are referring to that there are 70 different ways of understanding the Torah.- meaning different layers of meaning behind each word.
October 23, 2017 8:48 am at 8:48 am in reply to: Are all these protests in Jerusalem really a kiddush hashem? #1388200WinnieThePoohParticipantThe Rosh Yeshiva of Ohr Yisroel, whose shiur was interrupted the other day by the Eitznikim who apparently think that their Torah is better than his, came out with a scathing statement against their behavior, comparing them to Arab terrorists who are destroying everything kadosh. The Yated also came out against the protests.
We can’t expect the earth to open up and swallow the makers of machlokes, as it did for Korach (who by the way, was considered a great Talmid Chochom and a Gadol Hador before his desire for Kavod corrupted him) or a fire to consume the “offerings” of those who think they are aspiring for holiness but are actually defiling the Torah. But hopefully, these voices will be heard and Kvod HaTorah restored.
WinnieThePoohParticipantIs there a Yeshiva World Underworld too?
October 22, 2017 9:26 am at 9:26 am in reply to: Are all these protests in Jerusalem really a kiddush hashem? #1387802WinnieThePoohParticipantZD -I have no desire to defend the Eitznikim/Peleg people, but I need to correct what you wrote. They were not arrested for not being in Yeshiva; in a random check, their names came up as not having registered for the draft, hence they were arrested as deserters. It was bein hazemanim, the yeshivas were closed. I don’t think we can begrudge a yeshiva bochur some time off (even soldiers get time off), it does not take away from the significance of their learning. Yeshiva bochurim are human, no one can expect them to be stheiging away 365 days a year, 12h a day without burning out. the point of bein hazemanim is for the bochurim to recharge so that they can focus during the upcoming zeman. They get off from Motzei Yom Kippur until Rosh CHodesh Cheshvan (by the time Sukkos is over that gives them 1 week of free time), and then no break until Purim and Rosh Chodesh Nissan. There are many bein hazemanim yeshivos were the bochurim spend their mornings learning even during vacation, they are entitled to take a day or two away. A yeshiva schedule can be pretty grueling (night seder can run until 11 PM, plenty stay in the Beis Medrash even later), and so when used correctly, bein hazemanim improves a bochur’s learning. And better off vacationing at the Dead Sea than protesting on the street. B”H the zeman starts today.
WinnieThePoohParticipantIt’s a mitzva in the Torah to give tzedaka to aniyim, take care of orphans and widows..so yes, you will still need non-profits to properly keep the Torah. And schools and yeshivas and shuls, which are usually non-profits, will still be needed.
WinnieThePoohParticipantKabed es Avicha Ves Imecha
“es” expands the concept to include more- Chazal teach us it includes a parent’s spouse (i.e. step parent) and older siblings. I don’t know any source that says that it includes other relatives. Respecting an aunt would be like any other older person who deserves respect, especially if elderly. Honoring mother would trump honoring your aunt, unless it means doing something against halacha.WinnieThePoohParticipantWhen I wash my fridge shelves in the tub, I first line the tub with towels, so it does not get scratched by the edges of the shelves. B”H never had them shatter, but I imagine this would make it easier to clean up the small pieces of glass if it did.
October 19, 2017 7:54 am at 7:54 am in reply to: Are all these protests in Jerusalem really a kiddush hashem? #1386731WinnieThePoohParticipantPeleg is taking to the streets to protest the arrest of bochurim who did not register for draft deferments as required by law. They did not since they followed the psak of their Rav. Which is fine- there is a machlokes about how to handle the draft issue. Most gedolim say to register as required, get your deferrment, and leave it to the chareidi politicians and rabbanim to make sure that the legal status quo remains as is- that as long as a bochur is learning full time in a recognized yeshiva, he can get a deferment. Those who follow R’ Auerbach’s pska of not registering, not cooperating at all with the army or recognizing its authority, are doing it knowing that they risk arrest for breaking the law. The true kiddush Hashem would be if they stick to their ideals and proudly take the consequences. The protests are totally uncalled for, since it is their choices that lead to their arrest.
When Shinui came into the government several years back, and forced thru changes to the draft, there was a huge crisis. What was the response? Tefilla rallies. Non-violent protests with government permits. Lots of davening. Within a short time, the government fell, Shinui was out, the chareidim back in and quietly behind the scenes they halted the damage of the giyus law. There is always a threat that things can revert again, and that is why we need a lot of tefilla, and smart actions- actions that do not antagonize the secular majority, that do not give fodder to the Lapids of the world who run on campaign promises to get the chareidim into the army. These protests are the surest way to gain Lapid votes and force thru further draconian giyus laws, C”vSh. And then there really will be a draft problem, not a contrived one. -
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