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  • in reply to: Clones In Halacha #1470510
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    A clone would be more like an identical twin- same genetically as the person who donated his cells to the clone. Yet, since genetics alone do not
    We’re assuming that somatic cells that were taken from another person and converted into an early embryo in the lab were then implanted into a surrogate mother. The question would be is the birth/surrogate mother the halachic mother (I’m sure halacha already deals with this) or the source of the maternal DNA- ie the mother of the person who donated the cells to be cloned. I’m surprised you did not ask who would be the father- the only possibility I can think of is the source of the paternal DNA- the donor’s father, but I wonder if that would be halachically valid, whether if differs from a “usual” case of IVF, which most poskim hold that the paternal genetic donor is the halachic father (notable exception being R’ Chaim Kanievsky who apparently holds that an IVF baby is not meychuas to his genetic father).

    in reply to: Unsold fax machines #1470523
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    We have one of those- and had a hard time finding one to buy at the time, and this was several years ago. Basically, getting an all-in-one printer did not work for us since there’s no phone jack next to the desk where we keep the printer, and the shelf by the only accessible phone jack is not big enough to hold the large all in one printers, so we have a separate fax machine that only gets plugged in when needed (there are still those people/companies who won’t accept a scanned document by email, only a fax, for whatever reason…), and a printer/copier/scanner that gets used much more often.

    in reply to: Homeschooling #1469657
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    MIndful, you bring up some good points how homeschooling can benefit kids. Of course, not every parent is capable of teaching, with the knowledge, patience, creativity it involves, even with on-line support, so that would be a factor why it works for your family, but may not for other families.
    You describe how your kids are better off because they don’t have pressure, stress or grades, etc. Also, they are not exposed to some of the bad behaviors and negative social interactions that can sometimes happen at school.
    The thing is, that these things do happen in real life. At some point the home-schooled kid will join the workforce, and have to interact with co-workers. Some might not be so nice. There will be deadlines, and stress, and pressure, bosses to please and reward/punishment in terms of salary, bonuses, getting fired. They may have to work with a team and conform to company policy. Will kids who were educated in a stress-free bubble and be trained to be independent learners be able to handle this? Is there research out there on the success of home-school kids in the workplace? And how long does home-schooling continue- also for HS? Will these kids go to regular yeshivos/seminaries/colleges (if applicable) or study independently?

    in reply to: The Meshugas of Sports and Super Bowl #1466653
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    If you are going to assur footballs made from pigskin, or hush puppies, you would also have to assur shtreimels and borsalino hats.
    basar v’chalav is assur b’hana’a. Skins/fur of non-kosher animals are not a problem.

    in reply to: Poppy seeds, YUM! Okay maybe it’s just my yatzar hara but #1463221
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    I think the level is really too low to have any effect on you unless you ate tons of them, but who knows?

    in reply to: Does Torah Support the Existence of a State? #1462358
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    I agree ZD, use of the words “bible” , “Hebrews”, referring to the Malchus as a corrupt dictatorship, not differentiating between Shaul Hemelech’s reign and Beis Dovid, leaving Hashem’s choice of the melech totally out of the picture- none of this is exactly Yeshivish shproch. No wonder why this thread was in moderation for so long.

    in reply to: Poppy seeds, YUM! Okay maybe it’s just my yatzar hara but #1462357
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    That’s because poppy seeds have low levels of opiates in them. Opium is produced from the pod of the poppy plant that contains the seeds that fill your hamentaschen. Remember the scene in the Wizard of Oz where Dorothy and co. fall asleep in the poppy field that the Wicked Witch planted?

    in reply to: Does the state really support Torah? #1461757
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    “The main point is that in rural societies there isn’t much to do in Winter and after dark. ”
    But Jews were not part of the rural society- they were not allowed to own land, and they were not working the land- that was what the peasants did. They were mostly traders, shopkeepers and craftsmen, their work was not seasonal like farming. If you could afford candles, then you could continue making shoes- or learning – into the night.
    I don’t understand the argument though- what does the number of Jews learning in shteibels 100 years ago have to do with how many Jews are learning in Yeshivos in E”Y right now? How does the fact that there may or may not have been more people learning Torah back then impact on how much the Israeli govt is paying the 140,000 yeshiva/Kollel men now?

    in reply to: @Chabad Shluchah Please Explain Why Davening To/Betten a Rebbe is Okay #1461622
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    CS, I would advise to stop while you are ahead. What you write will be interesting and enlightening, but will not change anyone’s opinion on these practices, if anything, it will reinforce them, which is what I think happened with the last thread. You’re just asking for certain posters to attack you and Chabad in general, and I think we’ve all have had enough of that. I am sure you have better things to do with your time.

    in reply to: Chabad Shlichus – Risk of Sacrificing Own Family’s Ruchniyos? #1461430
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    Interesting mashal, 5ish.
    So if you ask Hashem for rain, or a shidduch, or parnassa or a refua shleima, since you are asking Him to do things for you, it is not davening? What then is davening? Only the shevach part, not the bakasha? Or are you trying to say that it is who you are turning to that defines it as davening- if I ask Hashem to give me $2000 to pay my rent it is davening, but if I ask a person, it is not.
    If you asked someone to pass the ketchup and there is no ketchup in the house, or the person is miles away- meaning it is beyond the ability of that person to do what you asked, but you turn to him anyway assuming he has some super-natural ability to help you, is that ok?

    I’d like to remind everyone of an exchange between Rochel and Yaakov- Rochel demands of Yaakov: Hava li bonim- give me kids, or it’s if I am dead. Yaakov got angry at her and answers, Hatachas Elokim anochi- am I instead of G-d who has withheld kids from you? Yaakov felt it was inappropriate of Rochel to ask him to do something that only Hashem can do. Rochel’s answer was (see Rashi), your father davened for your mother…meaning, her intent was not that Yaakov should be the one bringing her kids, but he should daven to Hashem for her so that Hashem would give her kids, just like Yitzchak did for Rivka. He answers- but unlike Yitzchak, I have kids, it is you who needs to daven. Rochel answers- then daven like Avraham who did not have kids. Yaakov- but Sora gave Avraham her shifcha. So Rochel gives Yaakov her shifcha, and has surrogate kids through her, and eventually, her own children.
    A lot of important hashkafa here- the power of a tzaddik’s tefiilla vs the power of the tefilla of an individual with a need. The importance of hishtadlus- or some would call it a segula- to actualize a tefilla. And the fine line between believing that the tzaddik has G-d-like ability (which is what Yaakov was afraid Rochel was saying) vs the Tzaddik is intervening with Hashem (which is what Rochel meant).

    in reply to: PANDAS #1460807
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    Thanks golfer for your support.
    I came here for support and to see if anyone else has experienced this. I found the replies mostly very helpful and have gotten back way more than I expected or hoped for, thanks everyone.
    By the way, I’m not so bothered by Health’s lack of presenting credentials- I don’t expect to get and follow actual medical advice from an anonymous forum, and even if a poster tells me he has a degree from — medical school and has been treating this for — years, I still have no idea if he is who he says he is. It’s just more info to mine, and keep in mind.

    in reply to: Wait time in Dr.’s office #1460803
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    I’ve found that the doctors I have to wait a long time for are behind schedule because they give more time to each patient than is scheduled. Which is a good thing- they actually do a thorough exam, listen to the patient, take time to explain things, and don’t just shove you out the door because your 10 min is over. The problem stems from the tight scheduling of the appointments, which in the system in E”Y, is beyond the Dr’s control. I once went to a Dr (a specialist who only works 1 morning a week) and several of us realized we were booked for the same time slots- and these were appointments made long in advance, not emergencies that were squeezed in. The dr still gave each patient the time she needed, which meant that not only were patients waiting, but the dr had to work overtime. When i asked her why they schedule an impossible schedule, she said that this way people can get appts within 6 months, and don’t have to wait 1 yr.

    in reply to: PANDAS #1460472
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    Health, what does hypochondria have to do with having emuna in Hashem that the treatment will work?
    Also why would SSRIs be indicated if he does not show signs of depression or OCD? And why the rush to other meds if B”H he is responding to antibiotics? CBT is something I would like to pursue.

    in reply to: Can an Ehrlicher Yid be a Foodie? #1460334
    WinnieThePooh
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    Just a reminder, the OP’s question was not about appreciating and deriving pleasure from Hashem’s world and enjoying the food that we eat, the question was about making such enjoyment a priority to the extent that it defines the person and his purpose in life.

    in reply to: PANDAS #1460191
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    Health I know I should just ignore you, but I am quite offended that you call me a hypochondriac. My son- actually all of the family- has gone through so much these past few months, and also last year. I am wondering what is your threshold for sympathy- the number of years of suffering, the number of children affected? Would you tell someone with a broken arm they are a hypochondriac because they only broke one limb while other people have it much worse and have broken legs and arms? I admitted from the very start that B”H my son’s symptoms were not as bad as many of the cases I have heard about, and his treatment so far seems more straightforward, B”H. But I don’t know what the future will bring- will the inevitable next round of strep bring out worse? In case you haven’t noticed, I don’t usually start threads, and I did so now because I had a real need for support and understanding. Sorry you missed that point.
    The only reasonable part of your post was the advice to test everyone else. I actually already did that and 1 kid is a carrier. B”H we found that out before he could re-infect his brother.

    in reply to: PANDAS #1460173
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    PANDASdad- when I started this thread I needed to vent, wasn’t sure there would actually be enough people in the CR who could actually help or even heard of PANDAS. Was wishing there was some sort of support group. It is so comforting that so many of you have come out to share your stories and advice, although at the same time, painful that others have gone through this, and seemingly much worse than we have had, I cringe to think about what may happen the next time my son gets strep or even something else, since each reaction seems to be worse than the previous one.

    WinnieThePooh
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    One more thing-scientists who designed viral vectors are aware of the potential dangers inherent in using viruses and have accordingly adapted these viruses for safe use. when viruses are used to deliver recombinant DNA, the real virus is not used. A special packaging cell containing viral proteins prepares a viral capsid with the DNA of interest inside – not the complete viral genome, just the components necessary for getting the DNA to where it needs to get. The virus is missing the essential genes to produce more of itself – it can only be made in the packaging cell. These fake virus particles are used to infect the target cell. The DNA of interest integrates into the target genome. Not the viral DNA, because it is not there. No new virus can be made, it’s a dead-end infection.
    With all due respect to your grandfather, recombinant DNA technology has totally revolutionized research biology and made huge contributions to medicine (think insulin, growth hormone..) It is not the same field that it was 40-50 years ago.

    in reply to: PANDAS #1459288
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    Dr MamaBear, from one bear to another, hugs, and may our cubs have a refua shleima. Your story makes mine seem like child’s play… How do/did you hold yourself together through all this?
    I have been wondering something when it comes to my child- while his symptoms were sudden onset, some of the symptoms are extremes of tendencies he has shown in the past- for example, he was always a clingy baby, could never be put down, and had sensory-seeking issues when he was younger. These were things that he outgrew, and now came back suddenly in full force, much more extreme. In all your experience- is there a predisposition to PANDAS- is a certain type of child more susceptible? Or certain symptoms more likely to come up because there is already a neurological wiring in that direction?

    in reply to: PANDAS #1459202
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    Health, yes.

    WinnieThePooh
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    Re your question about the theoretical hybrid pig/cow, to explain what Mentsch was referring to:
    if one would discover a new breed of cows, even though it has the signs of a kosher animal, we could not automatically eat it, since our Rabbanim have established an additional criteria – that there is a tradition (mesora) that the animal is kosher. Without that mesora, we cannot eat it. These are real questions that have come up from time to time. Since your new hybrid obviously cannot have had a mesora establishing it as a kosher animal, we cannot eat it. In this way animals are different from plant products.

    WinnieThePooh
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    josh your description of the horrors of recombinant DNA is not based on reality, at least not the one that I live in (I have worked with recombinant DNA using viral and non-viral vectors). Once the recombinant gene has been integrated into the target genome, it is no longer “infectious”, The virus that was used as its vehicle of delivery is long gone. The gene can’t just pop out and enter some other cell and integrate into its genome, which is what you seem to be describing. What can happen is that if the modified plant in question is mated with another plant, there can be recombination between the chromosomes and therefore genetic inheritance to the next generation. But they cannot mate or cross with anything, only with species similar enough genetically to them- so the trait can spread only within species that are close enough, not the entire ecosystem.
    In terms of us being affected when we eat in, whole genes cannot enter our cells from the digestive track- first because the DNA content of what we eat is broken down to its molecular components, and second because there are no transporters on the cell surface for genes, only the building blocks can enter (hence the need for the virus carrier that you described). Even if a gene could enter, it would not spontaneously recombine with your genes. Is this could happen as you describe, then anytime we ate a plant we would be acquiring plant genes and eventually turn into plants, and we would have to be as wary as regular food as GMOs. If GMOs are causing cancer or infertility- IF – it is because of something else, not because the recombinant gene is entering our genome.

    WinnieThePooh
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    I took a look at ref 12 in the list- it stood out to me because of the journal it was published in. Turns out it is a letter/interview by a scientist who conducted a well publicized but unpublished (at the time) study about the affects of GMOs on fertility and mortality. What is interesting is that for each of her points, there is a rebuttal by other scientists. One by one they question her results. Some of the issues that they raise: there is a much higher than normal death rate among newborn rat pups in the control group, and lower weights in controls than is normally found in these rats. This was a rad-flag to them that there was something wrong with the way these rats were taken care of during the experiment, which raises questions on any conclusion made from the study – when the background death of controls is abnormally high, it is hard to conclude that the even higher death rate in the experimental group is due to whatever they claim. Another issue, since rats were grouped together several in a cage and the food given out freely, sometimes along with regular food, they have no way of knowing how much of the GMO each rat actually consumed. Also, The GMO food was not matched to the control in terms of strains, type of food, nutritional content etc, so there are other factors that can affect the results besides whether it was GMO or not. Basically, hard to know if the results are meaningful since proper protocols for taking care of the animals, for feeding them, for determining the origin of the food and the actual GMO content were not followed.

    WinnieThePooh
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    Akuperna – experiments on small rodents actually proves a lot, and is used all the time in valid science, as models for many diseases, preclinical trials for meds, and to dissect basic biological processes. Such experiments in the present have proved that a drug may have potential to cure a particular cancer and serve as the basis for designing a phase I human clinical trial. Or show how a particular gene mutation leads to a particular disease. You cannot dismiss the studies that the OP brings down just because they were done in rats, this is not something reserved for eugenics and pseudoscience. Please stick to valid arguments involving things like flawed methodology, improper design of controls, conclusions based on correlations and not causations, results that are not reproducible.

    in reply to: Chabad Shlichus – Risk of Sacrificing Own Family’s Ruchniyos? #1458861
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    from the OOT kiruv families that I know, they have to be a lot more involved with their kids’ chinuch than those living IT, which is ultimately good for the kids. The kids grow up knowing that they have a special tafkid in life, that it is meaningful to be a fum Jew, and they are used to hearing/thinking about the meaning behind the practices that are taken for granted in many a frum home. In this way, they come out stronger.
    It takes certain type of parents to be able to pull that off which is why kiruv is not meant for everyone.
    CS is right that these kiruv families are not as isolated as a lone chabad shaliach in the middle of nowhere, but then again, the chabad shaliach has a strong network/support system, with many others doing exactly what he is doing- for example, kids may be studying online with other kids of shluchim around the world, while the kids from the kiruv family is going to the local day school with kids who are not frum.

    in reply to: PANDAS #1458544
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    Doctor is wary because of the empirical nature of the diagnosis and treatment, (e.g. treat with antibiotics, if there is a response, great, if not, treat longer…) and probably because he came of age before PANDAS was identified, and it’s taken some time for attitudes to change and controversies to become mainstream. But he is going along with it now, since the meds seem to be working, B”H.

    WinnieThePooh
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    It’s not ok to eat a mule because it does not have split feet/chew its cud, not because it is a result of kelayim.
    Once made, we are allowed to eat kelayim and/or benefit from it. (except to use a grafted esrog for the 4 minim)
    I’m wondering if you ever ate a grapefruit- it’s actually a cross of an orange and a pomelo, made back in the 1700s (check out Wikipedia). Totally kosher.

    in reply to: PANDAS #1458225
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    Health, nothing you quoted contradicts what I have written here, or the advice given by the Dr, so I am not sure what we are arguing about. Your first post described a regular treatment protocol for strep throat, not PANDAS (which by the way is exactly what we did for my son’s first strep infection), and your second post about PANDAS basically just discussed the pros and cons of the various choices of antibiotics to use, and a cautionary approach to long-term prophylactic antibiotics (which as I have said I do not want to do in any case).

    Mexipal-thanks for your well-though out comments. I don’t see the signs of OCD, I’ve gone over the check-list of OCD symptoms in PANDAS kids and really don’t see them. Don’t see depression, change in appetite or food avoidance. I’ve questioned him about what he feels and he does not mention anything connected to anxiety or fears, he only talks about the rages and that he gets scared when he rages by something inside of him that he can’t control. The lack of OCD symptoms is why we at first avoided the diagnosis. But he had so many of the secondary symptoms, it is actually eerie reading about the symptoms- some things that I had never even connected to PANDAS. He showed signs of vocal tics- he made these strange trilling sound with his tongue, and would drive his siblings crazy repeating their names with silly comments and ditties. No cursing- B”H he does not know curse words, but would have these outburst when he would start shouting “so-and-so should die” etc. Extreme clinginess, constantly crying and moaning that he needs a hug. Uncontrollable rages, with a look in his eyes like he was possessed. Spinning, sometimes while holding objects like belts or broomsticks that he would flail around. Trouble concentrating in school, could not get through the whole day, especially complaining about math, which has always been a weak spot though. More infrequent, and came up after the other symptoms subsided- sensitivity to light, complaining of muscle pain in legs and weakness, difficulty walking.
    As I said in a previous post, I was nervous about going to a “PANDAholic” who might miss something else because of her bias. My pediatrician is also skeptical because the diagnosis is clinical, and the treatment is empiric, and it’s hard to know anything for sure, and treating with long-term antibiotics is not something to take lightly. For the 2 months he had symptoms, we hesitated concluding it was PANDAS and did not want to put him on antibiotics. But then he had another strep infection- which had to be treated. And to my surprise, his symptoms subsided almost right away, with a few blips here and there. That’s when I started to believe it was PANDAS, and turned to the specialist, with my pediatrician’s support.

    Daniel, thanks for the info. I wanted to get omega-3, but the pharmacy I was in only had it in syrup or these huge pills, neither of which I thought he would take. I am so nervous about introducing anything to him right now. I think I will wait til the current episode is behind us, IY’H and then look into overall changes to be made to improve his health. We have not done bloodwork now, my Dr has not though to do it, the PANDAS Dr thought we had enough info for the diagnosis and did not require further testing. We did extensive testing last year- the only deficiency he showed was vitamin D, folate was fine, as far as I remember. We have to remember that we are dealing with a child who is going through a lot, and testing in itself can be stressful, so unless it is really mandated, I don’t want to repeat them.

    in reply to: PANDAS #1458007
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    Concerned mom- re husband’s reaction. I am not sure he really sees what is going on- he’s not the one who is home and dealing with the issues. I don’t think he really hears what I am saying when I describe his behaviors, he tends to tune me out if he thinks I am kvetching about something. So when he does see him act out, he thinks he is doing it on purpose and that it is because I don’t know how to handle him, and that I should go for parenting classes. Now I admit I do not know how to handle him when he goes into one of his rages, I don’t think a run-of-the-mill parenting class is going to help. I now have a name of someone who is familiar with PANDAS, does CBT and can help me deal with it – something on the back-burner right now as I see how things progress.
    Anyway, he is also very anti-meds, and his suspicion about long-term use of antibiotics stems from a close relative of his who was treated that way for rheumatic fever and suffered bad side effects- so since PANDAS is associated with long-term antibiotics, he doesn’t want to hear it.

    in reply to: PANDAS #1457997
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    Health, I didn’t say I didn’t understand your post- I said I could not see it because it was still under moderation last time I was on here. As I mentioned, my son did have an acute infection- a positive throat culture, actually his second in 2 months and was put on the antibiotics for that. By the way, the antibiotics of choice – azithromycin- is believed to be effective not only because it kills the strep bacteria, but also because it has some neuro-protective effect as well, so it actually goes to the root of the problem- the autoimmune attack on the brain.
    The issue is how long to continue the antibiotics- the protocol I got from a practitioner who is up on the latest research- who actually is part of the latest research – is to continue until symptoms subside and then slowly taper the dose.
    There are those who are on low dose antibiotics as a prophylactic to prevent future strep infections. While I understand the feeling that you don’t want your child to ever go through this again, I also don’t want to destroy him with antibiotics either. B”H I don’t think his case was as severe as some of the cases I have been reading about to warrant such an approach.
    I was considering CBT, but the therapist told me he would not do treatment unless he had a clear-cut medical diagnosis. Now that he has one, B”H he is doing much better, so so far I have put therapy on hold to see how it plays out. It is definitely something I would consider though.

    in reply to: Can we stop hiding? #1458017
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    I have no experience with your specific issue, but I have seen some of the Jewish publications tackle sensitive emotional and psychiatric issues. Perhaps you would consider writing a letter to the editor with your story and ideas for a support group, and provide an email address where people can contact you and in that way, you can start a support group.

    in reply to: Forcing Children to Become Adults #1458018
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    So your question really is, is it ok to force adults to become adults?

    in reply to: PANDAS #1457873
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    Thanks for your support. I’m curious what you have to say Health, but as I write this your comment is still in moderation.
    BigDeal and Daniel, The Dr is the female pediatrician from Brooklyn’s daughter, the protocol is the same. I was nervous approaching her, since as my pediatrician pointed out, a big believer in PANDAS has a bias towards that diagnosis. But when he came down with his second round of strep in 2 months and his Dr treated it with the antibiotic of choice for PANDAS, and he markedly improved within a few days of starting treatment, I started to believe it was PANDAS and contacted the expert.
    We have not gone the psychiatric route yet- I was about to pursue that and was investigating names of Drs when he started the antibiotics and finally showed signs of improvement, so I have put that on hold.
    He has not had blood work now, but had extensive testing done last year when he also showed signs of PANDAS. Strep titers were high, but all that told us was that he had had a recent strep infection, which we knew. No signs of inflammation/autoimmune antibodies at that time. I was told that the more accurate test, the Cunningham panel is not available in E”Y.
    It is hard to trust instincts. I thought I was doing him good by giving him this probiotic- which is important when taking antibiotics, especially longer term, and is helpful in building up immunity, which I thought was good for him since he is always getting sick. Even consulted with the pharmacists, who is a bit of a naturalist. But after his reaction on shabbos, I did some more reading and found out that probiotics- especially those that contain benign strep strains like the one I bought, can trigger symptoms, and the last thing PANDAS kids need is something that boosts their immune system.
    Daniel, how long was your daughter on antibiotics? What supplements are good for PANDAS kids? I’m giving him vitamin D. Don’t want to bombard him with too much, because I am afraid he will balk at taking anything.

    in reply to: Emergency Notifications in EY #1457472
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    It’s hard to tell Joseph when you are kidding.
    As you can tell, this is a sensitive topic for me…

    in reply to: Do you take your shoes off when at home? #1456536
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    Cant’s stand (in) shoes, even those claiming to be “comfort” shoes. They come off first thing when I come home, and then it’s crocks. Can’t walk barefoot either.

    in reply to: Emergency Notifications in EY #1456535
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    Is it a proper “welcome me back gesture” to poke fun of what might be a traumatic experience for other people?
    Bad manners are bad manners, whether done by old timers, new timers, or old-new timers. Just pointing it out so that all posters can learn to be more sensitive when commenting.
    In any case, my comment was not meant to be personal- I don’t know Toi and was not around here in the old days- and I usually try to avoid getting “personal” with posters here.

    in reply to: Golden Age Shiduchim #1456269
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    We had civil and government classes in school. They covered the levels and format of government, how bills become laws, election processes etc. It was not a “halacha” class in US law – i.e. did not detail the actual laws themselves, it would be impossible in any case to teach every law. And a lot would be state specific, and then what happens if a person grows up and moves out of state? Ignorance of the law is not a valid legal defense, but it is probably impossible for any person to know every single law on the book.

    in reply to: Emergency Notifications in EY #1456255
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    BY the way Toi, I think you should pick other things to joke about. There is nothing dumb about an air raid siren to someone who has experienced them. It’s pretty frightening being woken up in the middle of the night by the loud wail, getting the sleeping kids into the safe room, and then waiting to hear the boom. And we live in an area that was not targeted, B”H, Kal V’chomer for those in areas where missiles actually fell.

    in reply to: Emergency Notifications in EY #1456227
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    We still have them too. We actually had them replaced a few years ago- the home front command had a set-up in a neighborhood mall and you went with your old ones and got new ones. I can’t remember if we replaced them all or just upgraded the kids’s masks to larger sizes (the old ones were designed for babies). It can’t have been all that long ago, considering the age of my youngest.

    in reply to: Emergency Notifications in EY #1456061
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    It took 40 min because the governor (or whoever was responsible) forgot his password and could not get into the system. I kid you not- saw this on a different news site.

    in reply to: Could we have dinosaurs if we wanted them? #1456056
    WinnieThePooh
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    hmm..an 80 ft high cow- would have to have a very strong heart and circulatory system to pump blood that high, and yet have a way that blood vessels would not burst from such high blood pressure. Bones would have to be strong enough to support such a large body. digestive system would have to handle eating enough food for such a large animal. that’s a lot of genetic engineering.

    in reply to: Golden Age Shiduchim #1455415
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    Learn something new every day. I never thought that a Jewish marriage in itself is a legal marriage, I just thought that the mesader kedushin is qualified to sign the civil marriage license, and that it’s 2 separate things.

    in reply to: Golden Age Shiduchim #1454535
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    CTL- why is that fraud? One is allowed to have a Jewish halachic marriage without a civil license, no? Legally there would be no difference between a couple who lives together stam, or a couple who lives together with a kesuba. Is it fraud to live together unmarried and collect both pensions/ss? if not, then why would it be fraud to do so with a kesuva? The rav is just ensuring that these couples are not violating halacha. Please explain.

    in reply to: Could we have dinosaurs if we wanted them? #1454209
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    RebYidd people already do make dinosaurs the same way they make cars- in factories on machines, using plastic and other man-made materials. check out the shelves in the toy stores, you’ll find many inanimate models.

    in reply to: Could we have dinosaurs if we wanted them? #1453319
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    It’s not enough to have some dinosaur DNA to clone a dinosaur- you need an intact genome, all the chromosomes arranged in the proper way in an appropriate carrier – the nucleus of an actual cell. If say, you had a dinosaur egg with genome intact you could theoretically activate it and transfer it to some surrogate, but you can’t just take a few snippets of DNA found in some fossil and randomly insert them into some other specie’s egg and expect to get a dinosaur. And you can’t modify a bird genome to express dinosaur traits unless you know the sequence of dinosaur genes encoding those traits- which we don’t.
    Anyway, if Hashem wanted us to live side by side with Dinosaurs, he would a) not have destroyed them in previous worlds or according to other opinions, b) created the actual creature and not just the fossil.

    in reply to: Could we have dinosaurs if we wanted them? #1452766
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    That plots sounds familiar. The science behind that imaginative piece of fiction was not very plausible.

    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    I believe for many of these kids, it’s not that they are choosing a secular lifestyle because they think it is better, or have integrated into the secular world, but they are running away from a world in which they were hurt, rejecting what they perceive has rejected them. Their lifestyles are often not considered “normal” even by secular standards. But if they can get past their pain, recover from their addictions, etc they can return to the life they rejected.

    in reply to: Natural #1450990
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    Hey, LC, it’s starting to work- I had too little sleep last night but wasn’t grumpy and was able to be calm with my kids. My tantruming terror actually had a good day today and even offered to pay me some of his own money to make up for the way he has been behaving lately (I turned him down, and told him his good behavior is all the payment I need)! The house is neat, bedtime went smoothly, I have all the ingredients ready for tomorrow’s meals. Make way for SuperMom!

    in reply to: Natural #1450611
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    Thanks, LC, but it hasn’t taken effect yet.

    in reply to: Yeridas Hadoros #1449670
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    “The days where cruelty, paganism, and even immorality were ideals to uphold are far gone.”

    I guess you don’t read the news. Cruelty seems to be dished out on a regular basis in many parts of the world. Immorality has been put on a pedestal to admire. OK, I’ll give you paganism (although there are places in the world it is still practiced). But the western world is far less religious nowadays than it was in the past. Is atheism any better?

    in reply to: Emergency Notifications in EY #1449646
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    But the situation in EY and the US are quite different- most of the US is out of missile range of its enemies, even if they would be stupid or crazy enough to shoot a missile. It would be impractical and unnecessary to implement the type of readiness that Israel has in the US.
    The more serious threats of Iran or N Korea involve nuclear warheads- all the precautions and civil preparedness won’t help against those.
    Growing up during the cold war, I can remember drills in school where we were told to hide under the desks with arms over heads. Yeah, that would have done the trick.
    who remembers this:
    “This is a test of the Emergency Broadcast System. In the event of a true emergency…”

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