Rav Chaim Mintz talks about this here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PvuOXbvpREA&t=0s . Personally speaking and correct me if I’m wrong, Most girls are not as into looks as guys are, so it shouldn’t really bother them (of course there’s exceptions). It’s interesting how this question seems to always come up. I would assume there would be a general answer that everyone sticks to and thats it. It could be there is and I just don’t know about it.