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1. You shouldn’t have facebook because it doesn’t pas (it doesnt bread).
2. GET MARRIED, MAN!
Maybe Im on to something or maybe I just have an overactive imagination Im betting on the later.
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haifagirl
The emperor has no clothes.
jphone
Im sure there are non Jews that have and do dress up as chassidim to be funny at their holidays or parties where they dress up.
Pop
Very often kids don’t listen especially when they get into their moods. Also if the father doesn’t want to talk during laining and he needs to drag his disobedient kid out of shul he has no choice but to grab him or her firmly and march him or her out. I didn’t witness the situation but even if I did I really wouldn’t know how hard the father was holding her. However I am pretty sure that if he was hurting her she would have started crying or said ow ouch it hurts or started screeching or something similar. So lets not brand people as child abusers over a minor incident. As much as you think you will be the perfect father you will also get it wrong many times and I hope nobody sees and judges you the way you are judging this man. Lets not be so busy with how this guy parents his kid when it is possible and quite likely under the circumstances that he had no other choice but to firmly walk her out so as not to disrupt the laining.
Mammele
Would you slow down. The financial situation is not what it used to be. Many homes no longer open on Purim and even those that do have shorter hours and give a lot less than they used to. I know some groups who collected last year by night and day and dint hit the $2000 mark. Maybe some of the older group of BM boys over 20 are still able to haul in a few thousand but the kids in the limos for the most part don’t make that much.
Until opening this thread i didn’t know that the Reuvenim made it to the Superbowl. Baruch Hashem that i am no longer interested in these shtusim.
popa
Im not sure this qualifies for literal child abuse but it is bad chinuch. The truth is little kids don’t belong in shul unless they can play outside with the other kids. If they are too young or too clingy to their parents they belong home. There’s no inyan to bring a little girl to Shul unless your goal is to bore her to death and disturb your fellow congregants in the process.
Some parents are just plain stupid when it cones to these simple common sense things.The crying babies on Rosh Hoshanah is inexcusable. I mean seriously you want it on your cheshbon that you disturbed a whole shul concentration by Shemonah esrei musaf of Rosh Hashanah?! And you think you’re gonna have a good year?! Naar vos du bist!
Torah
Its not a lack of Tznius if a girl says gut shabbos to the guy unless it is obvious that she has ulterior motives.
This is a grave matter.
Health
I.don’t disagree with what you said.
I M Here
These organizations are ruining the mitzvah of Tzeddukah for klal Yisrael and I firmly believe that many of these Tzeddukah organizations should not be getting a penny from anyone who really wants to do the mitzvah of Tzeddukah.
I actually very rarely give to the organizations that run splashy chinese auctions and raffles. The lower budget Tzeddukahs that don’t waste fortunes on advertising and all kinds of videos and gimmicks are more real and should receive our masser money. The more a Tzeddakah spends on advertising the less they can expect from me.
Popa
They asked someone in our group who just said sure and they jumped in. It happened quite quickly and none of is were sober. We were regular teenage boys with booze in our system. I like to think that some of us in the group would have said no if asked but who knows. Most teens and even adults tend to let themselves down with their conduct when tipsy. Unless you are a seasoned drinker who can hold his alcohol and keep his wits you are no different and would.also make lapses in judgment. I’ve been by many a kiddush where an adult had one too many and we heard “things.”
But either way I think the main issue is boys shouldn’t be drinking because it leads to all kinds of behavior. The Limo is a side issue.
Torah
I don’t say good Shabbos to girls however I am a mentch and would respond to a girl who wished me a good Shabbos. But it doesn’t happen in borough park lol.
bpg
When alcohol is involved and with loose girls out on the streets looking to cause trouble all bets are off. When I went collecting about 10 years ago there were plenty of issues of guys doing things they would never ever do but yknow its Purim and Purim means free reign to do anything. I remember clearly one Purim we were collecting and these girls just approached us on the streets of Flatbush and asked us “can we check out your limo it looks so so cool” and of course we couldn’t say no…
Its crucial that anyone going in a limo goes with a good group of guys but its certainly something that can lead to trouble.
mdd
I was told that Rav Moshe held that bizman hazeh there is no longer such a thing as tinok shenishbah so basically they are all meizidim of some degree. They know they are Jewish and they know that there is such a thing as being an Orthodox Jew and they have an obligation to pursue their heritage.
Dont tell her how much money you have if it will cause her to spend too much and become a self absorbed conceited blank.
DaasYochid
Do boys ever listen to rules?
HAHAHA
Mom
I took them and lost some weight, gained it all back after being off it. Also I found out they are illegal and the guy was taking huge risks bringing them in. They are illegal for a reason. There are other diet pills that are not illegal that you can try. Look into Qysmia.
lakewhut
See if you can round up some of our non Jewish neighbors to protest.
zahavasdad
Just fyi, I live in BP and said Good Shabbos to everyone I passed, granted I only walked a block and a half to Shul this Shabbos, but even though I look “litvish” in that I wear a bend down and no beard, (NO BEARD?! YES, NO BEARD) I received a good Shabbos back from EVERYONE. You should know that most people will not be the first to say the good Shabbos, but if you say good Shabbos I think 99.99% will respond with a gut shabbos.
MorahRach
As a rule in life if anything is turning you away from Yiddishkiet avoid it like the plague and if this place is doing that, and it shouldn’t but if it is then maybe you should take time off.
These days the groups collect so much less than they used to so most of the money will be going to the limo its mamish a waste of tzeddaka money. Furthermore, limos can lead to issues and you have every right to be worried. If you can convince him out of it, thats the best idea. If he is adamant about it you may have a problem.
Mom
Look into Qysmia its a prescription diet pill that is supposed to be good.
Mom
Look into Qysmia its a prescription diet pill that is supposed to be good.
Mammele
If any part of it is unkosher ie. not in acordance with Halacha the whole “thing” is a chillul Hashem. Get that straight a lot of people dont understand this. If the whole thing is not in accordance with Hashems Will and part of it is a chillul Hashem then the story, issue whatever under discussion CANT be a Kiddush Hashem.
deja vu so much deja vu here
morahR
Don’t fall for the peer pressure lol.
I can’t say I have ever forgotten that I ate a meal unless it was a quick and light meal more resembling a snack. You just inspired me with a thread idea. Now if only I could find a needle…snort.
Mod-42
I believe the purple hair part.
DY and Curiosity
We are the only 3 people who didn’t read Harry Potter. I can’t say I didn’t read part of one of the books but that’s as far as I got.
I just don’t like being left out being that I am a long time member here lol hence my comments on this thread.
Superme
I really think its best to let things go forgive and forget and move on when no permanent damage has been done. Honestly, what do you want to accomplish here in this thread and what do you want at this point with things being as they are?
Random non refrigeration required things have ended up in the fridge 😛
beni
“The other heter is that there is no chashash hirhur if the women are singing “shirosh v’tishbochos l’Hakodosh boruch hu.””
So I can hear your wife sing Shabbos zmiros? Me thinks thats not muttar.
Curiosity
Thought you were single…unless you are Yekke…
Popa
So you think engagements should be under 4 months? I hear that. What do you think is the perfect length of time for engagement?
torah613613torah
Satrt your own thread and a different story for all the people who were skipped 🙂
Or just make up a story with us as the characters I think that would be cool.
At what point should I be insulted that I wasn’t mentioned?
You dated a girl for four months?
Under most circumstances especially in the Yeshivish velt that is way too long. But with older people dating, or divorcees…longer dating is more normal and accepted. However four months if they see each other more than 2x a week is a lot in all circumstances me thinks.
purplicious
Dont recommend non Jewish music on Yeshivaworld (or elsewhere for that matter).