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HaLeiVi
Nope
I saw from the Ksav sofer, Noam Elimelech and others that you can’t bribe Hashem and you can’t do wrong things and just say oh Ill give Tzeddaka and that will just wash it all away.
Also, although its a great thing to have a Tzaddik daven for you I heard bsheim I think it was the Chofetz chaim and others said it as well that a persons own Tefillos for himself are more effective than even a Tzaddik Davening for him.
says me
Because if he gets banned he can always just create another user name.
Redleg
“Untoward events happen so rarely that when they do, they make the news.”
Untoward events happen so often that when they do, they don’t the news. You really don’t know what goes on the goyishe velt. Or even by frum people who become warped.
popa_bar_abba
According to the Medrash Adam was created androgynous or as a sort of siamese twin with her on his back. (Ever since then men have been telling their wives “get off my back.” Hosafas atzmi.)
Rabbi Orlofsky likes to use colorful language and expressions. I don’t think he believes all men are pigs, however he was speaking about young teenage boys who are looking for gf. Those boys tend to be in it for one thing and one thing only.
It is also true that any adult male can be a pig. Hashem created men with a very powerful drive. If it is not guarded and reigned in, a man can easily becomes a pig and addicted to his desires.
LAB
Now I know where you honed your sense of humor.
live right
Hilarious.
Their claims are ridiculous and you can’t bribe Hashem. If the blockage stems from things you aren’t doing that you should be or things you are doing that you shouldnt then giving a ton of money to Tzeddaka wont change it because its not a matter of gaining zchusim you are blocking your own shefa (abundance…) with your aveiros.
The good people rarely if ever make the news. Don’t judge us by the bad things you read in the paper. I davened this morning with a bunch of yidden who took 45 or so minutes out of their busy mornings to daven with kavannah to Hashem and declare berabim Shema Yisroel Hashem Elokeinu Hashem Echad. This won’t make the paper but there were probably close to a million if not over a million people that did this today. That’s a fact that you won’t find in the papers.
Zk
If she’s 7 years older it could be a problem. I’m personally not a fan of guys marrying girls older then them and I think the bigger the gap the worse it can be. Him 7 yes older is fine. I know of bigger gaps.
Torahmom
I feel bad for your daughter she’s going to rebel her brains off in Israel if this is how you treat her.
Imnot5
You should try to find a teacher. I don’t really know what you expected. You want me to show you the moves from here? What you don’t see? Squint harder.
Mods
May I or may I not post the number to the Lakewood Beis horaah? You have threads with phone numbers of various Rabbonim so I don’t understand why my posting of the number wasn’t allowed through.
You may, just don’t post it by itself without any explanation.
Why can’t I post the number to the Lakewood Beis horaah?
I know someone who had chives and had to go to a doctor. Maybe they had hives?
Why would you want to do that?
Popa
Neither does mine, but thats because im not in kollel yet.
Im starting to like this thread.
Mods can we ask you ANYTHING?
It’s dejavu all over again.
So now he must be holy. Badum tsh.
Dy
Its reliably unreliable.
Shmuel d
You can call any Rav and anonymously ask any questions. Call the Beis horaah of Lakewood they don’t ask you who you are ask away.
Superme
You know what I went through? I’m a guy and I went through all the garbage you teens are going through in the male version. I’m not a mean person. You can’t read one post a person writes size them up and jump on them for it.
Rabbitofberlin
This story is in tuvcha yabiu I’m sure he has better things to do than to make up stories about Rav Aharon when he has hundreds of living talmidim as well as many grandchildren who can dispute it. With all due respect I think you’re an idiot.
Frum
His point is that people got used to dressing untznius to the point that they don’t even realize what they are doing. I live in boro park which generally is better than other neighborhoods well generally but not always I was surprised to see a woman with 2 sweet looking Bais yakov girls neither older than ten or so dressed in uniform looking like eidel BY girls and mom is wearing a skirt that while standing is at least an inch above the beginning of the knee from the top. Extremely untznius skirt and there are others like her out there. I have grown tired posting about this topic because it’s getting worse and the people who can do something about it are not reading these threads. I’m assuming most of the posters here keep hilchos tznius properly therefore we are preaching to the choir.
Rebdoniel
I think that the stares insults and jeers came from something else. There’s more to the story that you aren’t telling us.
Superme
I’m on her side. I probably care about her more than you do.
Every day after Shacharis, his father would learn for two hours, and was mapkid on this learning period his entire life. One day, a wealthy merchant knocked on the door of the Kotler family, and informed them that he would like to buy a sizable amount of furs. However, it was the set learning time of Rav Kotler. His wife knocked on the door of his room, once, twice, and three times, and urged her husband to utilize this opportunity for his business.
From Revach.net
Streek
Just one more word of advice, if you try to do it all you will feel overwhelmed and end up doing nothing. Take one idea from this page that strikes a note with you and that you feel you really need and will really work for you (even if you feel like it is hard and feel too lazy to try) and work on that. Dont even try 2 things. Go with one good one and really do it well.
TAOM
You are welcome. All the best!
Kneedeep
Why dont you read the article I mentioned?
Google Rabbi Mordechai Hochman and The Ten Tribes Beyond the Sambatyon.
jewishfeminist02
Listen, theres a concept of tefillas shav where you simply arent supposed to daven for that thing. Theres other concepts of tefillah as well. Tefillah isnt magic, Hashem wants us to help ourselves and do our best and then daven for His help, if we arent doing ours we can Daven but Hashem is not going to answer such a Tefillah. If you dont go to work but Daven your heart out you will starve to death because you didnt do hishtadlus. We are required to do Hishtadlus in every area of life. There’s bechira, and Hashem gave us a brain if we choose not to use it and then just Daven then we are being foolish. Tefillah is when you did all you can and the rest is in Hashems hands.
oomis
Right, because before the sin they had no interest in physicality. So clothing was created to cover that up, instead now clothing is all about making you think about whats covered up!
zahavasdad
Sometimes the messenger is to blame. We all have bechira and if someone chooses to do something or chooses not to do something they must take responsibility for that.
Wolf
Doesn’t the story go that he penned it before he left?
kneedeep
Read the article he deals with Eldad HaDani. I dont personally believe it to be real either so that makes him and I. There are many who think Eldad was a fraud.
keepitcoming
I have the same problem except now I got fat. Its a big problem. Im thinking of getting hypnotized.
stlws
They dont allow you to give out private info here so whats the use.
The one from 54 minutes ago? I beg to differ.
the-art-of-moi
You are welcome. You should know that the internet as a whole is not a good place for people contemplating suicide chas veshalom. You can google about suicide and internet if you wish. You need to find things that make you happy and make you feel good about yourself. Wasting time on the net doesnt make one feel better in most cases…
I would like to add that many people think that life is supposed to be easy and thats why they get so upset when its not. The Lubavitcher Rebbe said that life isnt fair. It wasnt meant to be. Everyone is here for a reason and everyone is given different challenges that will bring out the best in them. I cant have your challenges because they arent tailor made for me to bring out the best in me. Hashem doesnt make mistakes. He created you with the life setting you need to become great. Furthermore he created you with the personality and tools that will enable you to overcome your challenges to bring out your inner greatness. Don’t stop davening and dont stop believing in yourself. You are great and you have infinite potential inside of you. Push yourself to accomplish great things.
Mods why the hold up of my post?
Inappropriate wording.
kneedeep
The Sambatyon is a mashal. I also used to think it was real (because I was educated by simpletons) but later on I found out that its a mashal.
Google Rabbi Mordechai Hochman and The Ten Tribes Beyond the Sambatyon.
DaasYochid
“The best way of minimizing the chances of your kids going off the derech is to not have a derech.”
Not sure if this is a joke because its not very intelligent.
There is a big mistake a lot of people make regarding Tzniyus. It really isn’t about the men. Men also have hilchos Tzniyus! It’s about you and Hashem. Hashem wants us to focus on and accentuate who we are on the inside in our hearts and souls and that’s what we should be projecting outwardly to the world. Even if no men are around a woman should dress appropriately because of who she is. She should take pride in knowing that she has inner beauty and uniqueness because of how Hashem created her and that she is an original there never was and never will be anyone quite like her. By not dressing appropriately be it a man or a woman you simply cheapen yourself and show that all you are is a nicely shaped piece of flesh that looks good in designer clothing made to attract the eyes. You basically are saying you don’t think you are worth anything and you don’t think humanity is worth anything other than how attractive they look. If I look good enough to be noticed then I am worth something if nobody notices then I am worthless. This is what the corrupt fashion world and the corrupt society we live in wants us to believe. This in essence is a big part of the Greek philosophy that hasn’t disappeared and in fact has made a huge comeback in the world.
jbaldy22
I googled it and none of them work and all proxy avoidance is blocked (if you set up your k9 to block proxy avoidance) so if you properly set up your k9 you cant get past it. Stop spreading baloney.
YekusielShmidt
Totally untrue. Getting rid of K9 is not that easy and 99.9% of the info online for uninstalling K9 doesn’t work.
My question is on the frum stores that try to move tznius fashion in a certain direction. They mamish dont chap the enormity of what they are doing.
jewishfeminist02
You cant walk into oncoming traffic and pray that you wont get hit. If this place is clearly dangerous to her shes not allowed to be here therefore choosing to remain here and “praying” that it wont damage her is moronic. Hashem isn’t the tooth fairy. Theres rules to prayer and when its just not going to work. Do you honestly think that after what happened to her Hashem wants here here? If the answer is no or any shade of no then praying will be useless.
Shopping613
“but must you be so harsh?”
You aint seen nothin yet.