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Sms007
I hear you…but how many girls bend like Rus in real life? Most don’t. I don’t think its a chiyuv for a girl to bend that way. If it is quote me sources.
A girl can’t bend over because she has to worry maybe a guy is watching her? That’s extreme I think. I’m a guy and I try to watch what I see but I can’t condone making women miserable because we have a yetzer hara.
I would say that if the bowling alleyy is packed with guys maybe a girl shouldn’t go. But if there aren’t a lot of men there and they can get a lane next to other girls it shouldn’t be a problem.
Iluvhashem
So what’s the “new” Hadar. Meaning what’s the new place that has the reputation like the old Hadar?
Wisewoman
You want to spend Shabbos with the Amish?
Pashuteh Yid
Hashem calls Cham Arur so all his children are Arur I believe Eliezer was a descendant of Cham so that’s why he is Arur. Avraham wasn’t insulting him just stating the facts.
I think part of the problem is the world molester sounds too benign. We should call them serial child rapists. That would wake some people up!!!!
mosherose
“Al tarbeh sichas im haisha. Its better that they talk to theire friends than engage in idol chatter with theyre wifes.”
For once I agree with you, idol chatter is avodah zora and one should be prepared to give up his life and not do avodah zara.
But talking to ones wife is a mitzvah.
Anyone here not pro handing molesters to police is either
1. A molester
2. Ignorant
3. Has no kids
If you had kids and someone molested them you’d probably give him the baseball bat treatment. They are monsters and deserve to be locked away forever.
Go to Idaho
Definitely Idaho.
BP Totty
Surprised they don’t know who Mike Tyson is. Baruch Hashem the sheltering has worked. However it couldn’t hurt them to know some history so that they’d know that Che Guevara is the guy that discovered America.
ICOT
Not sure he’s Jewish….
Sacrilege
Herring doesn’t have a bad smell at least not fresh herring. Maybe only to anti-fishites.
WiseWoman
Also look into getting enough sleep and exercise. Exercise is a major stress reliever.
I’m not a huge drinker of wines or any alcohol for that matter but I find that Segal Fusion Red is a very drinkable blended wine that many non wine drinkers enjoy.
Not expensive and worth every penny.
http://winelibrary.com/wines/44383-Segal%2527s+Fusion+Red+750ML
popa_bar_abba
I would think going to the zoo was entertainment enough. Its hard to please people today.
WiseWoman
Maybe look into eating less carbs and only carbs with a lower glycemic index. Complex carbs. Avoid whitebread and sugar.
Sacrilege
The gasp with stars again! Wow 🙂 I’m sure they just pretend to be eating like Avrahams Malachim.
Sacrilege
I hear.
55 is big but nothing like 60. Ad meah veesrim amen.
Sacrilege
The guy you dated did the right thing. He shouldn’t have been watching your body while you bowl. But I agree women can’t be locked up there have to be some outlets for women other than food.
Moq
You realize if anyone argues with you now its Lashon Hora?
Apushutayid
“Food is excellent. So far, I havent found anything on the menu that supports my latest attempt to lose weight.”
Last time I checked, dieters shouldn’t be going to restaurants. Its asking for trouble.
Helpful
I’m a guy, however I have seen many frum yeshivish looking girls going bowling. I have seen other types as well but I think we have to be careful before we go ahead branding bowling as not tznius. I do think that to a certain extent if you don’t let girls do anything you are almost forcing them to rebel.
GAW
“Because tznius and refinement means a lot more than just clothing to most frum girls.
I approve, and think this is correct. Yeshivish Girls would not be caught dead bowling.”
Yeshivish is relative. I think you are referring to the real eidel yeshivish types. I think a typical girl would go bowling.
Sacrilege
“There is a place in Chester NJ where for 4 hours (and a meager $1,695) you spend 4 hours driving late-model exotic super cars. You drive 5 cars for 20-30 minutes each on a scenic road course, and then you rotate.
I wanted to get this for my father for his birthday, but unfortunately he works to hard and cant take the time… Hopefully for the big 6-0.”
Sounds amazing actually! Do you have a link for their website?
P.s. I cant believe you have $1,695 to plunk down for your dads birthday. You must do well in business. Or have a nice trust fund lol. Its nice to see that you would do that for your father.
Feif Un
Well said.
sms007
“rather its not so refined for girls to move the way you have to when you bowl with other men around.”
Im not sure what that even means normal bowlers just bend over a little and throw the ball. Is that the problem?
Sacrilege
Thanks for trying to help maybe Ill just open a thread and see what happens.
BP Totty
Lets not forget that some people like to keep their appetites. 🙂
so right
You are clearly an extremist. What is wrong with girls bowling?
Sacrilege
I have a Seminary question. Which of the more yeshivish or Heimish (I mean for regular Brooklyn girls) Seminaries (anywhere in the world) would you say spends the most time discussing Hashkafah and really gives the girls a tangible understanding of Yiddishkiet and real spiritual growth?
Sacrilege
Lol. Thanks.
Sacrilege
Technically but most people call them deep fryers. They leave out the fat part lol.
Coke
You heard of or know most girls your age?? You must be a serious yenta/macher!
Sacrilege
I’m sure the guys must love talking to you on dates, you know your booze and cars.
Poster
Deep
Telegrok
That is nasty. Wow. I’m impressed with the lengths that some people go to to get their “fix.”
Orange juice is refreshing but it is too sweet.
tryingtoimprove
It warms my heart to hear that you have stuck to your decision to change. May Hashem help you ocercome all of your challenges.
Sacrilege
“Deep fat fryer”
Can you get any more graphic?! lol
Sacrilege
I’m really good at posting online is there such an option on the application? 😀
You guys have a better idea? Its not like theres a whole bunch of affordable Jewish women babysitters looking to go take care of kids.
The options are limited and those who can afford it and dont need to work watch their own kid.
TheChevra
I personally own this guidebook and find it very helpful. Its called aiding talmud study. Take a look (you may be able to find it cheaper on Amazon or something but see it first on Feldheims website)
http://www.feldheim.com/cgi-bin/category.cgi?item=0-87306-428-3
whatelseisleft
Dont give up. Not everybody learned how to learn in Yeshivah. What it takes is a commitment and dedication to learn how to learn. Just like you have excelled in other areas of your life you can learn to excel in learning. Why is it that when it comes to learning people give up quickly yet they never give up on trying new things in business, trying to make it “big” people have all the energy and motivation in the world and try and try and try.
I guarantee you that in a year or less of serious commitment (a 2-3 hours a day minimum no distractions) you can know how to read the average Gemara without looking at the other side.
Sister Bear
All articles about the story have the boys name as only Avigdor and the father as Yaakov.
Sacrilege
Yeah your’e totally atypical. Your father is lucky to have such a mitzvah girl lol.
We say Sim Shalom 3x a day. Its for all Jews who need peace and security. Have Kavana when you say it.
Oomis
I personally find that Scotch brand is of better quality and worth the extra shekels.
Sacrilege
Do they have any male volunteers? What do they have the men do?
Sacrilege
I’m not trying to mess with you, its just extremely odd for a girl to be this well versed in whiskey and bourbon drinks, names prices what’s good what isnt….