Warrior

“Tznius is a womens issue. It is not ‘tzniusdik’ for men to be discussing the tightness, length or colors of a womens garb.”

-If you dont do something about it you leave men no choice.

Does anyone even remember to wear leggings/tights anymore or is that already rules out of the tznius guidelines? Not having to cover midcalf probably includes leggings, without that im not sure it counts.

To all the man haters- YES men are “making the tznius rules” and yes men address the issue. You want to know why? Its because MEN are the ones who are AFFECTED by the issue! And dont give me that “men shouldnt stare at women”. All it takes is a split second to see someone pass by in front of your eyes or to see someone when you are walking. Should men wear blindfolds? What are you trying to prove by dressing like that? Are you that low on confidence? And chabadgal did you ever walk down kingston in the summer?
Dressing in a super tight dress doesnt make it right just because its long.

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Just rent 2 different halls like the chassidim

Don’t worry. Shluchim get tons of money from non chabad people so don’t feel bad for helping out those who get stranded. Especially pandering to those who they are mekarev in exchange for handsome donations.

Sorry Mr 770Chabad. You can deny all you want and try persuading all you want,but the fact of the matter is that chabad does NOT accept or respect any other minhagim other than their own. And please dont bring up the Rebbe’s ways since you are not the Rebbe and neither are all the other chabadnicks, who only “follow” the Rebbe when it is comfortable for them. And before you attack me for being anti -chabad or even better a “misnaged” ( a word you guys cant use enough), I have known chabad my whole life and have even lived in Crown Heights for several years. The hatred that they spew out against other Yidden is shocking. The only thing is they try to cover it up by showing how kind they are to Yidden who have almost no Yiddishkeit, which allows them to bash everyone else. Not one farbrengen goes by without several mentions and jokes bad mouthing “litvaks” or “misnagdim”. You cannot sit at a persons Shabbos table without hearing an “inspirational story” of how when a litvish chazan cries on Yom Kippur he is doing so in order to impress the crowd, but when a chossid cries, it is because he means it, and that is the difference between us chassidim and those misnagdim (snags). Wow thats a lot of Ahavas Yisrael. And you know what else, they dont repsect any other Gedolim unless they maybe had some connection with a Chabad Rebbe in the past, and they dont respect anyone who has not PROVED themselves to be a “friend” of chabad. This is despicable, everyone is guilty of hating chabad unless they showed some type of closeness to chabad. You guys think that everywhere outside of Crown Heights, Yidden are sitting and talking about how much they hate chabad. Newsflash! WE have much better things to do such as focus on Torah than talking about chabad. Noone even brings up the subject cause nobody cares. But when you are in Crown Heights its like, wait does this person like chabad? Is this person close to chabad? Thats the first question in order to know if that person is chabad approved or not. To chabad a Jew who doesnt have chassidus(Tanya) does not have Yiddishkeit, and any Torah and mitzvos they do is worthless. Everyone should learn Torah from chabad but it cannot be the other way around. You know what, you should probably focus on your own off the derechs and “modern dressed” women than on other Frum Jews who can probably give you some tips on ben adam lehavairo. Why dont you focus on Chabad BT’s who are treated as second class citizens who noone wants anything to do with, after you lure them in deceptively convincing them that they will be just as accepted as any other Lubavitcher. That is the furthest from the truth. You pick up BT’s to become chabad and once they are in you throw them away to the wolves and offer them only the most incompatible shidduchim ever which is why so many of them are so lost.

I don’t know why you had to bring up a specific example and mention names but anyhow, אין דבר עומד בפני התשובה. Nebuzaradan who was in charge of destroying the Beis Hamikdash saw the boiling blood of Zechariah and in order to try calm it down, slaughtered thousands and thousands of Yidden on it. He saw that it didn’t stop until he called out if he should slaughter more Yidden, then the blood stopped boiling. As soon as he saw this he trembled how it took so many lives for atonement of one man. What will happen to him for slaughtering so many! He immediately went to convert to Judaism.
Also the story of Rabbi Elazar ben Dordya who didn’t leave one harlot untouched. When he heard that his teshuva will not be accepted,he cried out to the mountains, the sky, the sun moon etc.. that they should ask for Rachamim on his behalf. Not being able to get a positive reply, he saw that it was up to him. He sat and cried out until his Neshama departed his body, and a voice came out that he was welcomed to Olam Haba.