waiting4mashiach

So if for the most part we are in agreement that some sheitels may be in the letter of the law but not the spirit of the law-how can the communities we live in make a change?

Do you really think that as cherrybim stated “the general olam cannot endure or accept a kol koreh g’zerah”. I think I give these women more credit then that. Why is it felt that the women wont accept this? I don’t know any (frum)women who would be flattered being called a “hot chanie” . It is very derogatory.

popa: The modern wig is a new invention,Chazal could not ban it. Modern day Rabbis have however come out against them. See the link that I posted above(there are many others as well). My irk is against the very LONG wigs ONLY-which I feel are not “in the spirit of the Law” as a poster above put it.

Bais Yaakov drills (and enforces)to our daughters to keep hair tied, as its more tznuis.(Do you feel this is wrong?) When they get married(some-not most) buy 16″ & 18″ sheitels and wear them loose. Is it rebellion?

smartcookie:I’d like to keep my extreme form of anonymity for now and will not indicate if I am a he or she or what kind of covering I prefer, black hat, scarf ,sheitel or whatever.