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One of the graduates is planning on going into teaching. If you went to a bais yaakov seminary, you could get a teachers certificate without the controversy. If you are more modern, you could go to stern and get a Jewish education teaching certificate as well. If you want to teach Hebrew language in public schools, you just need to have a teaching degree and pass an exam created by Brandeis, and then you can teach in a public school. What is the point of this program anyway?
VogueMemberTry searching Janglo
VogueMemberThey can have the bochurim run purim carnivals to benefit specific programs in the yeshiva, say- the resource room, or smartboards. If you raise money for these individual items, then you don’t have to worry about people saying “why are you raising money for tuition?”
VogueMemberinteresting
VogueMemberMods, please close this thread and continue the discussion here: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/drug-addicts-in-yeshiva
VogueMemberNobody ever stopped them. As a frum person who would have gone to a kiruv school if there was one in my area and now is considered a bais yaakov girl, and who plans on sending her children to mainstream schools, I would think its ok.
VogueMemberBut the one thing we can learn from this is that if we are not willing to accept a female orthodox rabbi/ maharat, that perhaps, the community rebbitzins should become more active in our shuls so that perhaps, this never would have happened.
VogueMemberkk, I can go along with that.
VogueMemberWhere am I from?
VogueMemberThere is going to be a speaker from the Yeshiva Maharat, and there is a “rabbi” from YCT in my community (the rabbi heads the shul that the woman from Yeshiva Maharat will be speaking at), the shul has no mechitza and the woman in a picture is not tznius (and I am not talking about her hair, that is the least of my issues, I mean the collarbone is not covered).
VogueMemberI would immediately head to a bais din.
VogueMemberno, but without pull, I would never have found out about the seminary. I feel like I was “pulled and pushed” into it.
VogueMemberI used it to get into a seminary, and I was miserable there. I regret it, don’t use it.
VogueMembernever mind… I mean, the only “chabad holiday” would be the rebbe’s yahrtzeit. I am not lubavitch either, but I have friends who went to public school who were really bais yaakov girls and would send teachers links to chabad websites to explain holidays better and then teachers were more understanding. I mean, there has to be a way to fight these charges, and I guess the idea was a bit radical off the bat. I work at a non-Jewish place, and if I need to explain holidays in a nutshell, the chabad website has simple explanations that can be easily understood, verses there aren’t really any black hat websites for litvish people that explain this information because litvish people don’t necessarily use the internet.
VogueMemberif your boss signs it, and you give them a chabad calender, then it shows that you could not have possibly made these purchases. Give them lists from the past five years.
VogueMemberUm, yeah, duh, maybe give them a list of days you take off of work, and they will see all the Jewish holidays are included, and automatically take them off your account?
VogueMemberExplain to her that if she has an eating disorder, that she is not only risking her life, but she is taking the risk that she might not be capable of having children as a result of the effects having an eating disorder would have on her body, which is a major reason that, for example, when I have a son, G-d willing, of shidduch dating age, I would specifically rule out anyone with the possibility of an eating disorder/ symptoms of an eating disorder for that reason. Additionally, if a woman has an eating disorder, and she does have a child, the child may pick up on the mother’s cues, chas ve’shalom, and decide that not eating is cool as well, and then end up in a bad situation.
This is not the right environment to put oneself into or risk putting future offspring into, so why should she do this to herself?
VogueMemberBecause people are just full of excuses.
May 17, 2013 6:06 pm at 6:06 pm in reply to: Kiruv on College Campuses to Solve Shidduch Crisis #953202VogueMemberRight, but we aren’t supposed to actively encourage people to convert that is against our religion and it is What missionaries do to us. In general most places that give conversion classes don’t accept anyone so easily because otherwise they might make people Jewish that go back to their old religion later on.
I don’t want to start a whole new debate but many potential gerim most likely decide to go through a conservative or reform conversion because it is much easier Than a frum conversion.
May 14, 2013 6:37 pm at 6:37 pm in reply to: Kiruv on College Campuses to Solve Shidduch Crisis #953195VogueMemberRight I hear I was just pointing out ideas so that it would not look like I am sexist.
May 14, 2013 6:10 pm at 6:10 pm in reply to: Kiruv on College Campuses to Solve Shidduch Crisis #953192VogueMemberI know some Jewish people who go to that school. Also I am not saying not to do kiruv on women at all, for women, they could have an event where you bake challah and learn about hafrashas challah, while learning about people such as Rebbitzin Kanievsky, and her challah recipe.
VogueMemberOhr somayach – yeshivish
Riets- modern
VogueMemberWe should also reach out to college campuses without hillels and open up. Jewish cultural centers for college students where they will have regular access to shabbos hospitality and shiurim by young couples but occasionally bring in other guest speakers for shabbatonim and have kosher food for students to eat.
VogueMemberWe can do extra Kiruv on non affiliated guys on college campus advertise free beef stew on a Thursday night while watching a football game and teach them about shomer Shabbos athletes who sacrificed their careers in order to keep shabbos whole telling them about different foods traditionally eaten on shabbos.
VogueMemberBecause you are paying money so that your children will actually be able to do school work- in public schools, and I have several baal teshuva friends who went through this, instead of other children working around the Jewish kid’s religious holidays, they would just go up to the teacher and accuse the kid of not putting in any effort and my friends would have to get all sorts of people involved every time and if they did not receive special ed services, they weren’t so successful in convincing the teacher they were doing everything they could. So in the end, the religious girls in public school did no group work, no science experiments, and yes, they passed their classes, but they were not prepared for college.
Better you pay tuition for a school that has more days off, yet requires children to do a dual curriculum and where your child is actually able and required to do the school work and the teachers know their schedule, than to have a child in public school. Obviously their are other reasons to send children to day school, but this one is the biggest one.
VogueMemberJust to clarify one math thing, if there are 112 girls and 300 guys and each guy goes on three dates, that means that the average girl got 2.67 dates. That means that some girls had a shorter shidduch list.
May 13, 2013 8:12 pm at 8:12 pm in reply to: Chassidush school in Brooklyn bans thick glasses #953271VogueMemberNechomah: Not necessarily, I have been wearing the same frames for three years now, and only because my mom keeps on harassing me, I will probably give in and get new glasses. My personal opinion is that if you insist on being in style, then you need to find a way to do it without breaking the bank, such as getting your designer clothes from thrift stores (provided they are in good condition), or get everything on sale. The thing with glasses is that it usually has to do with eye insurance, so assuming everyone who wears glasses has vision covered in their insurance plan, I don’t see what the point of the rule is. And you can get this style for cheaper than hundreds of dollars.
May 13, 2013 2:57 pm at 2:57 pm in reply to: Chassidush school in Brooklyn bans thick glasses #953267VogueMemberRight, but most insurance companies only let you get so many prescription eye glasses frames, and they are expensive to just replace right away.
VogueMemberShul!!!!! Been doing that three out of the last four years
VogueMemberTry finning an encyclopedia on Biblical personalities.
VogueMemberAlso, the hamodia posts ads in their classified section, its available online for free on their website.
VogueMemberAlso brooklyn dot luach dot com
I only know because I almost moved to flatbush a month ago…
VogueMemberWhere I live, they have plenty of newspaper dispensaries, but most people these days read the paper online and pay for the e-subscription.
VogueMemberI didn’t listen to it…
VogueMemberThank you, do you know where I can get these seforim from?
VogueMemberI tend to wake up half conscious on a typical morning and don’t regain full consciousness until the middle of the day, so I almost never say brachos with kavana.
VogueMemberWomen can do sherut leumi instead, that is what many dati leumi do.
VogueMemberbump
VogueMemberAlso, all of these drugs affect ones ability to function, stimulants need to be prescribed in order to allow the person taking them to benefit. For example; many people these days have adhd, depending on what medication they end up taking, they may have to see a psychiatrist (or I think if you are taking concerta, you can just see your pediatrician for it, but otherwise you need to see a shrink) and if the doctor prescribes something like focalin, then you need to get it from the pharmacy and not from some drug dealer on the street, if you get it from a drug dealer, the drug dealer is probably adding extra stuff to it and that stuff could be dangerous and it won’t end up helping your adhd. The same concept applies to all drugs, including pot. However, history has proven that most people who use it don’t need it for its medicinal benefits and end up in so much legal trouble and end up addicted (by legal trouble I mean more likely to do other crimes when high) that the government has decided to make it illegal to the general person.
ADHD medications, or any other prescribed medication, by law in the US is not allowed to be given to the person other than the one it was prescribed to. That means if I have a prescription for, even allegra, I cannot give it to my mom legally if she needs it, even if it was prescribed to her. This prevents her from having interactions if, chas ve’shalom, there are ingredients in my allegra that are different from her allegra.
VogueMemberMy cousins did that, they went from jfk to florida, then from florida to jfk, and then from jfk to israel to save a couple thousand dollars.
VogueMemberI know that. It’s just not feasible at this time.
VogueMemberI wish and I am doing everything I can. There just aren’t as many options out here.
VogueMemberThanks Sam
VogueMemberI have been searching for a job for two months… I almost never get out of my neighborhood these days because it isn’t feasible. I haven’t seen any of my friends in ages… that is why now it is an even bigger problem.
VogueMemberIs he in the tanach? Or is he the gadol hador? If the latter, you can probably at least find him mentioned with anything shas related.
VogueMemberThat makes sense and I agree it’s just really difficult. I have some relatives that are modern. And their friends ask me about them…
VogueMemberMy mom is opposed to underage drinking. It doesn’t matter If it’s shabbos. I go to a shul that has the minhag of everyone getting a small cup with grape juice or wine. Just guess which one I end up taking.
VogueMemberUh yeah: mods please change the title to guys only: re: girls
but there’s one of those already
VogueMemberThat’s the problem. It was much easier in seminary…
VogueMemberAre you a girl? Do you share this account with your spouse? I mean sometimes you quoteparts of Talmud other threads have you talking about carpools with your kids. Which is it?
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