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Veltz MeshugenerMember
Back to my original post: the reason that I don’t get this whole BTL thing is because my buddy took college as a joke and dropped out after the first year. It doesn’t make sense how he’s in Harvard law with this BTL. I doubt he wouldn’t gotten into Harvard law had he stayed in college.
I think what your portraying is not so accurate. First of all, if it were true that he slacked in college even for one year, it’s unlikely that he could have gotten into Harvard. In order to get into Harvard he would have had to have a GPA of at least 3.7 including all courses that he took before getting his BTL, even if they weren’t counted toward his degree. Most people don’t even get a 4.0 in Yeshiva, and if he got straight Bs in college his GPA would have taken a hard hit.
Second of all, slackers don’t do well on the LSAT. I know there’s a yeshivishe myth of the guy who takes the LSAT on a whim and gets a 180, but that is, as I say, pretty much a myth. I took the LSAT myself; I know other people who have taken it and gone to top schools; none of them fell into it. They literally worked hundreds of hours to prepare for the LSAT.
Third and less relevant, if it’s any consolation to you, if he did indeed exploit the system to get into Harvard, he is in for a rude awakening. He will be graded on a curve against people who are used to getting straight As in top schools around the country, people who have worked in the most intellectually demanding fields, and people who have known nothing but hard work and success their entire lives. If he’s the slacker you seem to think he is, he will certainly be exposed and forced to drop out.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberBenignUman: why didn’t you answer me about people in Georgetown being underemployed? I also think you’re wrong about your next post.
1. I know someone who thought he was smart and he couldn’t even be in the top half at Harvard. Now he spends his time crying on the phone to other law students about how hard law school is. So you can’t be confident in your abilities to even be in the top half.
2. I also know someone who transferred from Georgetown to another top 6 school and he ended up in the same far flung low paying unprestigious office as my other friend from Georgetown. In this office, they don’t even have lockstep bonuses the way that real preftigious firms do – they either pay you by the number of hours you work, or they pay you on contingency. How would you like to work for a firm that only pays you a bonus if you win the case?
3. You might as well admit it – people at Harvard are smarter and better looking than people at Georgetown.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberBenignUman: Nobody at Georgetown gets decent jobs. I had a friend who was top 15% there and the only job he could find was in some far flung office in Westchester because he didn’t get a job in NY. I don’t know how he’s going to cover his loans because the firm can’t possibly pay as much as the NY firms. He’s lucky that Monsey is close enough to commute or he’d have had to move to some podunk town to get any job at all.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberIt’s possible; I know of someone who got into Harvard with a BTL.
The reason it works is because law schools are obsessed with the US News rankings, and one of the only ways that they can control their ranking is by controlling the numbers (GPA and LSAT) of the incoming students. So a yeshiva graduate who gets a high LSAT score is in some ways just as attractive to a law school as a Princeton graduate with a high LSAT score.
In terms of jobs, a strong majority of students at tippy-top schools get jobs that can help pay off their debts, while at lower ranked schools a strong majority don’t. So it might make sense to go to borrow $150,000 to go to Harvard or Columbia but not to go to University of Maryland. I did a ton of research about this, so if anyone has specific questions I can try to address them.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberVeltzMeshugene: “[Y]ou can’t know that without having the foggiest idea what it is that you don’t know.”
Yes you can. By hearing it from someone who does know.
“It teaches them to be slackers” – Any empirical evidence to provide an informed basis to that undefined generality?
1. No, you still can’t, because you have no idea what the person is basing his claims on. Furthermore, it’s pretty obvious that one person’s opinion of the general usefulness of a subject is not indicative of its usefulness to other people. Every day in colleges worldwide, there are people studying math who think it’s a waste of time because they are going to become psychologists. But the people who appreciate math will never find that out if they never try it.
2. I have not done a study, and I am sorry if my post gave the impression that I had. However, it is reasonable to imagine that encouragement of apathy toward secular studies would have at least some effect on engagement with other pursuits. Anecdotally, I feel that it affected me that way strongly, and my social circle to an uncertain extent.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberNot you OOM. I actually pretty much agree with the viewpoint that you’ve expressed in this thread, but most, or at least many people, disagreed.
Just to break down what I wrote; people who admit to not having studied much (and it would be clear without the admissions) talk about how unimportant it is to explore new areas of knowledge. But you can’t know that without having the foggiest idea what it is that you don’t know. In support of those points, people post that Hashem will be happier if you do other things; which is an assertion that is so bizarre that it is hard to begin to address.
FWIW, I take this somewhat personally, because I bought into that attitude for too long and I strongly regret it. Even if there were no value at all to any secular studies, it would still be worth studying them just for the exercise. It is very difficult to minimize and denigrate effort in one area while sustaining effort and production in another. It’s pretty clear to me that the message that secular studies are unimportant doesn’t teach people to allocate resources to avodas hashem; it teaches them to be slackers.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberPretty much. Whoops, there I go again.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberTo this day, purple? What’s that, almost two weeks now?
Veltz MeshugenerMemberAfter the recent decision of the DC Circuit on the recess appointments, it is unclear whether previous agency action can now be called into question because the officers were not legitimately appointed.
February 21, 2013 3:59 am at 3:59 am in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935162Veltz MeshugenerMemberIMO, the reason for the rise in divorces is that people need to daven more. Also, the reason for the rise in Facebook usage is that people need to daven more.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberIn this thread, ignorant people debate the relative importance of things they don’t know they don’t know; using undefined words and uncertain norms.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberI can’t believe that we’ve gotten this far without anyone mentioning the conflict of interest that the Kashrus agencies have. They benefit from being asked to give hechsherim. Starbucks has not asked them for a hechsher (and there are various urban legends about this). How can you then trust them when they recommend that you not drink there? In such a case, it makes a lot of sense to evaluate their arguments but not to accept their specific psak – especially when their psak is so much stricter than their strongest arguments would indicate.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberI think that you have to tovel a keli if you buy it from a non-jew but non-jews can have non toiveled kailim.
Also, even if you did have to, would it make the food non kosher?
February 19, 2013 4:27 am at 4:27 am in reply to: Lawsuit against Williamsburg stores dress code #930851Veltz MeshugenerMemberWait, so admitted mistakes are not mistakes if they are made by people who are otherwise good writers? That’s, well, that’s perverse.
February 19, 2013 3:56 am at 3:56 am in reply to: Lawsuit against Williamsburg stores dress code #930847Veltz MeshugenerMemberChevron, I’m glad you asked. Although I would still maintain my position no matter what the OED says.
February 19, 2013 3:29 am at 3:29 am in reply to: Lawsuit against Williamsburg stores dress code #930844Veltz MeshugenerMemberDY: Haifagirl was right. That Merriam Webster (and other dictionaries) decided to pander to illiterates and define flaunt incorrectly because a lot of unlettered people do is unconscionable. Their incorporation of the incorrect definition should not be cited as proof to anything.
Veltz MeshugenerMember1. Chevron and DY: If a dishwasher at least arguably cannot become treif, then how exactly would one utensil within a dishwasher make another one treif? Is the entire dishwasher filled up with water at the same time? Are we assuming that if some amount of treif food was stuck to the pan and went into the dishwasher and during the wash cycle that food touched a coffee pot within the swirl of soapy water, that the pot would then be treif? I mean, maybe. But I can’t imagine that if it happened in your kitchen sink, your rov would say it’s treif. Why should it be different if it happens in Starbucks?
2. That is not how halachic suspicion works. If someone knows someone who switched the milk in a specific case, that does not mean that there is a halachic chashash that the milk was switched in other cases.
2a. I don’t believe that there’s a substantive difference between keeping Cholov Yisroel as a din or as a chumra. Since nobody can claim that it has the status of treif al pi halacha, it becomes a matter of what words you use to refer to it, but the milk is the same.
And the reason that they wouldn’t is exactly this; they have a hashgacha that they presumably pay significant amounts of money to, so they obviously want to get frum customers. They wouldn’t switch the milk because if customers find out and tell the rav hamachshir, they will lose their hashgacha and not be able to cater to the frum community. (In the case of a convenience store who happens to carry cholov yisroel milk, I miiiiight think that it’s at least worth a case by case examination.)
Veltz MeshugenerMemberI know less than nothing about kashrus but to my ignorant eyes it seems that people in this topic are piling chumras on top of chumras and wondering why other people aren’t keeping them.
IIRC, a strong case can be made that dishwashers cannot become milchig, fleishig or treif. The same goes for microwaves (although for different reasons, I’m sure). Now, when we have a store that has some treif keilim we are mechuyav to assume that all the keilim are treif because they may have been washed together? When a store with Kashrus supervision makes one little mistake, with a microwave, which is arguably not a problem at all, and they lose their hechsher as a result – people say that they wouldn’t eat in Dunkin Donuts with a hechsher.
Same idea for cholov yisrael. Is there a source for the idea that we need to suspect that someone switched it? There is a halacha about wine, and there is a halacha about meat, when they’ve been left open with no supervision. But both of those are assur gamur if they were switched and there is a significant motivation to switch since they’re expensive and the price difference is drastic. In the case of milk it’s at worst switched for chalav stam, the price is cheap and the difference insubtantial. Does it follow that there is necessarily an issue to drink milk that’s been left unsupervised?
February 19, 2013 12:56 am at 12:56 am in reply to: Lawsuit against Williamsburg stores dress code #930840Veltz MeshugenerMemberI can probably make a case for being the most liberal person who posts here with any regularity and I think that this lawsuit is a disaster that will waste money and accomplish nothing.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberOf course marrying for money is worse* than marrying for intelligence. I can’t believe someone would even claim otherwise on a frum discussion board.
As a general matter. Obviously, if you marry the intelligent person so that you can plot together to take over the world, it’s worse than if you marry a rich person so that you can heal the naked and clothe the hungry.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberSaysme, which of those things did you not do in camp? And did you not go on trips, have parties, hang out, etc?
Veltz MeshugenerMemberPBA: that is where the term came from, yes. I thought you claimed to be a rabbi, but from the last couple days of posting it looks like you’re a lawyer…
Veltz MeshugenerMemberOne of Many: (I see that PBA called you OOM but that becomes confusing with Oomis…) I have no pretensions about my understanding of seminary, and I have no problem explaining the limited information that my opinion is based on. I readily admit that the hashkafah and halacha that girls learn in seminary is not something that I value at all, mostly because I believe that it’s not legitimate halacha or hashkafah. I see the appeal of a ten month extended camp, and I see why it costs what it does, simply based on multiplying the cost of camp by ten; but I question its value as anything more than that. We can debate the specifics of the halacha and the hashkafah and the camp and the mechanisms through which people are induced to participate in the seminary exercise; but that’s my story and I’m sticking to it.
Though seminary ends up being one of the largest “investments” (LOL) that middle class frum families make, it is not susceptible to “objective” studies because it does not purport to offer anything “objective”. And as PBA pointed out, my mother, wife and sisters all went to seminary and I saw nothing in their experiences that justified the stress and financial strain that it involved.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberham and cheese
Veltz MeshugenerMemberIn a world of “check the box” shidduchim, why is it weird? That’s how it’s supposed to work.
February 15, 2013 12:35 pm at 12:35 pm in reply to: Can One Report a Driver to Police for Grabbing a Designated Handicap Parking? #930118Veltz MeshugenerMemberWIY: Handicapped parking in the US is likely not the same as it is in other places, and YitzchokM also implied that the motivations of the questioners were unclear and that the answer makes no sense if one understands how handicapped parking works. In that context, it makes perfect sense to question whether R’ Chaim understands the practicalities of American handicapped parking rules.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberOne of Many: Of course you can calculate values for services rendered. Why would it be any different than for sneakers? If you are going to school, you are presumably going for a purpose and that purpose has value. People calculate that value all the time when they decide whether to go to university. How much value does this have? What are the alternatives and how much do they cost? That it is sometimes not immediately obvious doesn’t mean it can’t be calculated. And Seminary really doesn’t seem to be a hard case.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberIt makes perfect sense to have a settling in period before getting completely distracted with shidduchim. Other yeshivas have similar policies for college.
February 15, 2013 1:25 am at 1:25 am in reply to: Can One Report a Driver to Police for Grabbing a Designated Handicap Parking? #930112Veltz MeshugenerMemberSeilish: I guess it depends how you define relevant and worthwhile.If you define it as something that almost never happens and is of little consequence when it does, then yes, I agree.
February 15, 2013 12:38 am at 12:38 am in reply to: Can One Report a Driver to Police for Grabbing a Designated Handicap Parking? #930108Veltz MeshugenerMemberAll of the people in this story should get a hobby so that they could stop distracting R’ Chaim Kanievsky from his.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberFirst you say that money and seminary mean different things to different people. Then you say “…it’s [?] unlikely to be a financially prudent decision based on beneficial analysis of what money and seminary are worth to that person.” Given that money and seminary mean different things to different people, how exactly were you able to evaluate the financial prudence of the decision “based on…what money and seminary are worth to that person”? Do you know this person or something?
Although money and seminary are worth different amounts to different people, there is a range within which one can surmise the decisions are made with healthy motivations, and outside of which one can surmise that the motivations were unhealthy. As an analogy, if a wealthy person spends $140 on sneakers, it can be unobjectionable, while if a desperately poor person spends that same amount of money, it would lead one to question the prudence of that decision, despite the poor buyer’s clear indication that he values the sneakers over insulin for his diabetic grandmother.
Also, how exactly does having less money and it having been harder to come by make someone less capable of making “financially prudent decision
based on beneficial analysis”?I didn’t say that the person is inherently less capable. I just said if they were to make this particular decision it would likely be based on an unhealthy motivation.Finally: Can you explain how this statement
…you get to do all kinds of fun things that someone else pays for, while convincing yourself that it’s important for Hashem that you do it.
segued into what you have just explained?
I don’t think they are necessarily related, except insofar as they reflect a certain amount of scorn for seminary as anything other than 10 months of camp. The initial scorn addressed the supposed value to Hashem that allows people to justify spending other people’s money on extended camp. The second part was addressing the scenario of a poor HS graduate paying for seminary themselves.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberNo, good point. Let me rephrase a bit:
Money is worth different things to different people and so is seminary. But in the context of someone who 1. Doesn’t have much money and 2. worked very hard to get what little money they have; I think it’s unlikely to be a financially prudent decision based on beneficial analysis of what money and seminary are worth to that person. In such a case, a decision to spend the money on seminary is likely based on some sort of undue or unhealthy social pressure.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberOne of Many: It would be silly for me to jump to the conclusion that it’s a waste of money. Money is worth different things to different people and so is seminary. But in the context of someone who 1. Doesn’t have much money and 2. worked very hard to get what little money they have; I think it’s unlikely to be a good decision, barring some sort of undue or unhealthy social pressure.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberYBrooklynteacher: But who will watch the watchmen?
Veltz MeshugenerMemberSmile e. Face: If you know people who had a substantial portion of the cost saved up on their own, and used that to pay for it, then I apologize for suggesting that such people are having others pay for it. The criticism in that case is that they are terribly brainwashed if they would spend $8,000, which much be incredibly hard to earn as a high school girl, and blow it on seminary.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberDear Popa,
I hate people who are better than me, or do better than me. This applies across the board, but let me just give the example of three categories: wealth, attractiveness, and brains.
There are relatively few people who are smarter than me. This is an empirically objective fact (and I urge you to not “fight the question” but rather to address it). However, when I run into such a person, it bugs me a little. Not too bad. However, if that person is both smarter than I am and either better looking (most people are) OR wealthier (most people are), then I want to punch them in the face. Luckily, I have not succumbed to that desire – the worst I’ve done was put poison in someone’s coffee, and then knocked it over after they had just a little (which caused terrible acne so mission totally accomplished, but whatever).
Is this normal? If not, what should I do to deal with it?
Veltz MeshugenerMemberEveryone would want to go to seminary. It’s amazing – you get to do all kinds of fun things that someone else pays for, while convincing yourself that it’s important for Hashem that you do it. Don’t push too hard for it, though. Your time will come.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberToday I saw a bunch of people with ashes on their foreheads. This reminded me of yom hamisa.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberAssuming the original question before the thread descended into nonsense – it depends. If you don’t eat chalav stam then you are oveir two issurim – since you don’t eat chalav stam, you must believe that there’s an issur to eat it outside of the issur to eat pig’s milk, since you keep it even where there is no legitimate chashash of pig’s milk. However, if you do eat chalav stam, then the only problem with it is that it might be pig’s milk – which in this case is all it was.
Now, this might sound like I’m saying, if you eat chalav stam you eat chalav stam, but it’s actually much more lomdish.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberHere’s a story I posted in the gedolim stories thread.
R’ Moshe was hounded by someone who disagreed with something that R’ Moshe had paskened. The man went out of his way to pursue his cause against R’ Moshe. A few months after the issue subsided, another posek (I think the book said R’ Tuvia Goldstein) came to visit R’ Moshe and he saw that antagonist leaving the house. He asked R’ Moshe if the man had come to apologize, and R’ Moshe indicated that the man had not. It turned out that the man had come to ask R’ Moshe for a letter of recommendation because he was trying to find a job. R’ Moshe had written the letter. R’ Tuvia(?) expressed surprise at the man’s chutzpah, and at R’ Moshe’s acquiescence. R’ Moshe said, “The gemara says, “yeish koneh olamo b’sha’ah achas. Maybe this is to be my sha’ah achas.”
(Story was in a book by Rabbi Frand An Offer You Can’t Refuse.)
Veltz MeshugenerMemberTorah613: No, but it took a lot of learning mussar before I was able to stop feeling guilty.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberBe happy that you not only have the opportunity to put more effort into davening with kavana, but you get the side benefit of being a mentch! (Oh, and don’t say anything, in case that wasn’t clear.)
Veltz MeshugenerMemberI think it’s great when cousins get married. It is marbeh simcha when more than one person in the same family gets married! However, they should be careful to marry different people.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberGolfer is a Litvak.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberI don’t believe in feeling guilty. If I was trying to be cute, I’d say that was my guilty pleasure.
February 12, 2013 2:34 am at 2:34 am in reply to: Calling people with questionable smicha Rabbi #995580Veltz MeshugenerMemberThis is a great topic because all the people ever who didn’t get smicha were equally accomplished in Torah and all didn’t get smicha for the same reason and all had the same position although it’s not clear from the earlier posters whether it was in klei kodesh or not. It goes without saying that all the people who did get smicha are equally accomplished in Torah and all have the same occupation as spiritual authorities in which they are called upon to rely on their Torah knowledge regularly. That’s why it’s important that there be a rule that all people with smicha be referred to the same was as all other people with smicha, and all people without smicha be referred to the same way as all other people without smicha. Relatedly, if you follow the rules carefully, you will never make the tragic error of calling someone “rabbi” who didn’t deserve it.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberBenignUMan: LOL. It’s probably important to set out strict rules for which part does which work.
But there are roles within the frum community that are not serious talmid chochom, but in which capable minds might serve well. Does the community lose something by allowing such people to become doctors and lawyers?
Also, I’m not sure I buy the argument that the people with no zitsflaish become lawyers. Lawyers bill almost as many hours as talmidei chachamim learn.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberHeimish means buying cholent in the gas station on Thursday night.
Veltz MeshugenerMemberWizard you are switching the subject in the middle of your post. We are discussing “capable minds” and you say that the bright boys stay because the ones who leave can’t sit. But what about all the ones who are bright and can’t sit?
Veltz MeshugenerMemberand to jaymatt- yes it is an emergency…my entire future depends on this cuz its either this sem or no sem…
Um… Nope. Still not.
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