I question whether you are an eishes and certainly a chayil.
Sadly, his petirah while newsworthy is no more than that and deserves exactly the amount of coverage it got.
Eishes Chayil – is a double falsity.
in the Sefer מנהג ישראל תורה the author writes (source needed – I will bli neder look it up) that any name other than the one the interred used other than what was used for Aliya when he was alive is considered דרכי האמורי