thursday night its for “leil shishi”, friday “toameyhoo”, shabbes night before you go to sleep when your wife is not looking you are eating a little out of the pot, shabbos after davening your freind made a kiddush then for sure you have to eat a plate,then by the seudeh for sure you dont want to eshame your wife, “melave malke” you take a rest and the next day sunday unexpected you see in front of you a big plate with “chulent”…….. and if you are very lucky you will make sure to go to a “vach nacht” in middle of the week to win another plate…………