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September 4, 2012 11:28 am at 11:28 am in reply to: 8 BILLION dollars spent on nothing every year! #960428uneeqParticipant
Shopping: Stopping Iran is a political issue, not a financial one. An issue that Barack Hussein Obama has handled very poorly.
September 3, 2012 8:09 pm at 8:09 pm in reply to: 8 BILLION dollars spent on nothing every year! #960425uneeqParticipantShopping613: I don’t mean to be offensive, but you have an extremely limited (and mostly wrong) understanding of the Boson Higgs particle and what the scientists are trying to achieve. It makes you look silly when you try to explain to others.
One more thing- I personally am against government funding of such projects, but stating that all our tax dollars go to an 8 billion dollar, multi government project, is also foolish. Even if the U.S. alone would pay for the whole project, it would still make up for only .15% of taxes paid in 2011.
uneeqParticipantapushatayid: “whether he should or should not have joined the contest, whether he should or should not have sung whatever songs he did, are not relative to the discussion of whether millions of non jewish viewers were impressed with the way a jewish boy conducted himself.”
There is no discussion of whether millions of gentiles were impressed by him or not. The discussion is whether he caused a chillul hashem or not. Your attempt to stray this discussion off topic is obvious.
uneeqParticipantThere are credit cards with no international fees. Sign up for one of those, and make a card for your daughter.
If your not comfortable using credit, try using a debit card. I use Capital One, and it costs me $2 and it basically changes my money at the exchange rate. Those $2 charges cab add up, so she may want to pull out the max each time.
Or you can use checks, but generally that would be with a standard 1% fee.
And last, you can send money the old fashioned way. Give her cash to take with her, or send up money every so often with someone who is traveling. In my Yeshiva, one of the Rabbis would hold money for students, so it wouldn’t be too risky.
uneeqParticipantWe had many, many, false alarms in my Yeshiva due to sensitive alarms, though to make up for it, it detected and blasted the alarm, when a massive fire took over our kitchen.
popa- Trust me: Israeli buildings are pretty flammable. Also, consider that many Yeshiva and Seminary students do stupid things. In one case, I woke up in the middle of the night choking from smoke. One of my roommates didn’t realize that hookah coals aren’t meant to be disposed into a garbage can…
August 24, 2012 12:57 pm at 12:57 pm in reply to: Dr. Phil, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, mom from LKWD #901093uneeqParticipantSo basically PuhLease is a troll. Or she used to share the screen name with her husband, and that was her downfall…
uneeqParticipantFor six hours, every single time? It is a stretch.
It’s not a stretch. Also, consider that even karov levadai is considered vadai in every place I’ve seen.
It’s still not always/vadai. Besides, following Rashi and the Rambam lechumra is not the ikkar hadin either. The Tur’s lashon is ??? ????? ?????? ??? ?????.
Some reading comprehension- Following Rashi or Rambam “LeChumra”, only applies where they argue, such as after 6 hours if there is still meat in the teeth, according to Rashi assur, Rambam, muttar. Or if one chews on meat for a baby, Rambam assurs, Rashi matirs. These arguments are what the Tur suggests that you should always be machmir. Now: If a person ate a piece of steak, Min Hadin, according to both shittos, it is assur to eat dairy within 6 hours.
It is also clear from the Taz that the Rambam, (Rashi) and Rif hold that it is assur midina, not just a chumra to eat dairy within 6 hours. Additionally, he notes, that even those that are meikil and hold one hour, (ie. obviously not bnei torah), only can rely on the Tosfos if one does Kinuach and Hadacha. (I understand that the kinuach and hadacha would downgrade the issur according to the Rambam from a issur vadai, to a chumra because of a chashash, while the mekilim hold that the one doesn’t have to be choshesh for the various possibilities.)
Then you also have the Pri Megadim, who holds that even if you have a scenario where according to both Rambam and Rashi it would be muttar to eat dairy, still he holds that during the 6 hours, lo plug rabanan and ein lifrotz geder.
The minhag is in accordance with what the Rambam held lehalacha, but it is a minhag, not the ikkar hadin as the Rambam himself held; as I explained the Rema.
Ayen the Taz 2 and Shach 9, who obviously hold that it’s not just a minhag, as minhagim are meant for everyone, not just bnei torah. Nor is it that in every argument where there are mekilim does it make the more stringent shitta just a chumro.
uneeqParticipantFirst off, I go with the Mechaber like many others.
Second, the Rambam holds that even cleaning your teeth within 6 hours doesn’t help. That even after cleaning one’s teeth he is choshesh for meat to be stuck in them. It is not a stretch to say that without cleaning ones teeth it is a vadai, that meat is be stuck inside. This would explain the chumra of chicken.
Thirdly, you have Rashi, who holds that the shuman stays in the mouth and gives flavor for 6 hours (aside for the problem of meat inside the teeth, which he holds is never batel, unlike the Rambam). I don’t see how you can differentiate between eating it together and eating meat and milk one after another, as we all know, ta’am ke’ikar. You may want to learn the sugya inside.
Fourthly, being that nowadays the general population (re:not everyone) accepted the halacha of the Rambam and the Rashi, an ashkenazi that is batel milk to drink after meat, is being mevatel “issur” lekatchila.
uneeqParticipantSam2: I agree. I just wrote the same and didn’t see your response until after. It’s always the “pashut” topics that people tend to have wrong the wrong understanding.
uneeqParticipantAccording to the Rama, the minimum is 1 hour, which you’ve never differentiated. According to Rashi, if you have meat in your teeth, it is assur to drink milk forever until you take out the meat. That is because the meat is considered real meat. Only according to the Rambam is the meat considered considered “batel” after 6 hours, but until then, there is no difference between eating them together or drinking the milk 2 hours after. I’m sure you can explain why it’s different than washing down your mouthful of steak with a cup of milk.
The Rambam does not hold that there’s a chashash of meat as you say, rather he holds it’s vadai meat. That would also helpfully explain the Rambam’s shitta of assuring dairy after chicken, as it would have certainly been a gezaira l’gzeira if there was no vadai chicken.
What may be pashut to you, only signals a lack of understanding of Siman 89.
uneeqParticipantYitay: Within 6 hours of consumption, any meat eaten is still considered meat, whether you hold like the Rambam or like Rashi (Maran paskens both), as long as there is meat in the teeth or even just the flavor that stays in the mouth. I haven’t seen anyone argue with that.
uneeqParticipantYitay: See this quote of R’ Shachter (Midway through the post, in hebrew)
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/making-bread-in-fleishig-pan/page/2#post-360338
You may want to read the whole thread if possible. While the milk may be batel beshishim, it is certainly assur to be mevatel in order to eat it with meat. That is the accepted psak based on the Tzemach Tzedek, and brought down by the Darkei Tshuva, and Badei Hashulchan, and approved by R’ Belsky.
uneeqParticipantThe videographer that my photographer hired, refused to put together my wedding video. After a year we finally got the video, edited by someone else, with 2 polar extremes of quality within. While the actual video was good, the editing was terrible in the beginning and spectacular in the end. The video of our families taking pictures ( which is about 15 minutes) was set to loud jewish disco music, instead of slow, calm music. It’s painful to watch.
However, the last 10 minutes was a recap of the whole wedding, pictures and video clips, with the perfect music. The difference in quality is mind boggling. I’m still unsure of which video guy did what.
uneeqParticipantyitay: I disagree with your conclusion. It is not the accepted p’sak.
uneeqParticipantEveryone keeps bringing up the “homey” definition. Thats too literal though as Oomis points out. How would you describe a person who has heimishe hashkafos?
In every sect you can say that there some sort of general fabric that classifies who would part of the group. For example, MO, I would say generally subscribe to JB’s hashkafos, are usually more zionistic etc. Yeshivish are more likely to have an English conversation peppered with Gemara words, etc.
What stereotypes can generally describe a hashkafically heimish Jew?
uneeqParticipantI still don’t see any clear answers. Maybe it would be easier if someone can state the difference between heimish and yeshivish? (I assume that there is)
July 9, 2012 7:57 pm at 7:57 pm in reply to: what is your worst language? what's ur favorite? #1006454uneeqParticipantzahavasdad: There’s nothing wrong with a Jew speaking French. Aside for the fact that French sounds the way it does.
P.S. My grandfather knows French, but B”H I never heard him speak it.
uneeqParticipantChoppy: It only matters how much they cost on sale. ‘Cause thats the only time any of us would buy. Charles Tyrwhitt’s go for $40 on sale.
uneeqParticipantIt’s 3 years later….Does anyone have a clear definition of Heimishe yet?
uneeqParticipantI agree with daniboy. Charles Tyrwhitt. I also have Brooks Brother but they don’t hold up to time and washing. Also the Charles Tyrwhitt stay much whiter.
uneeqParticipantdon’t post this.
don’t post this.
uneeqParticipantThey probably came from your soup…if you used unfiltered Brooklyn tap water.
July 9, 2012 5:57 pm at 5:57 pm in reply to: what is your worst language? what's ur favorite? #1006450uneeqParticipantMY WORST WORST WORST: French! The language sounds like a bunch of drunk people barfing on each other. I can’t believe that no one has mentioned it. Every time I hear a Jew speaking this language, I get a chance to work on my Ahavas Yisrael.
Favorites: Piglatin
Gibberish
GibLatin- My homemade concoction of Piglatin and gibberish. It is impossible to decode, even for the NSA.
sdrawkcaB- I have a friend that can speak Backwards in real-time speed. It sounds awesome.
uneeqParticipantYour email should be ok to use again. Change the password for any websites for which you use the same password. Never, ever, give your password or information a website that you are not 100% sure that you can trust. Many emails can contain a link to a carbon copy of a real website, for example paypal, of course asking you to sign in with your sensitive information.
You should educate yourself on how to stop viruses and worms from taking over your computer. Also, you may want to learn how to tell when an email from a friend is from a hacked account.
Some other tips to include- don’t sign up for any random websites. If you’d like to, then make a separate email account for spam.
uneeqParticipanthello99: Just wondering- how do you link to a specific post?
uneeqParticipantI’m bringing this thread back on topic, for those who may be interested:
uneeqParticipantyichusdik: Assuming, arguendo, that I agree with else everything you wrote, I still object to the last paragraph: “There are frameworks that could support solutions that can be adapted to work for the chareidi oilem, such as hesder and nachal chareidi.”
This is an outright fallacy. The frameworks from the outset, even in groups such as Nachal Haredi and the Shahar program are flawed by design. The design flaw is that once a soldier joins the army, even with specific terms to keep certain religious liberties, the IDF still has the capability to renege their commitments to those terms. They have done this in the past and they will do it in the future. Until the IDF starts to be as sensitive to charedim as they are to women, there is nothing left to debate.
uneeqParticipantTo those that are claiming that the aveira of Toeiva is similar to other aveiros with the same label: If you go through the Vayikra 18, basically the Parsha of erva, it ends off 18:26 that all the previous mentioned aveiros are “toeiva”. Though, it is interesting to mention that there is only one aveira in that parsha that also has the word “toeiva” specified in its own posuk-you got it, Toevia!
Now if you’d look in that Parsha you would see such chomur aveiros, such as incest, and bestiality, and none of these aveiros were considered (by God) as disgusting as Toeiva. That is the reason I believe that until today, people are more zealos against Toevia than other aveiros labeled as such.
uneeqParticipantHealth: By buying these products -“Pride” – (hopefully they are clearly labeled as such -so other products in Target are Muttar;)
you are directly being Meesiyah Leiday Aveira!
Toeiva isn’t illegal in the US. Giving money to these groups can only possibly change some marriage laws, not laws about personal preference. Whether you give these groups money or not, no one can stop the Ta’avtanim from committing their aveiros.
I personally, prefer not patronizing stores that support the advancement of Toeiva ideology. A Hashkafic decision, but not Halachic.
July 5, 2012 7:22 pm at 7:22 pm in reply to: The Laboratory II – Try Your HTML & ASCII Art Experiments Here #1054108uneeqParticipantMy previous post is custom made, invisible ASCII art
uneeqParticipantinterjection: 99% of people disagree with you. After browsing the subject on websites like Imamother, the consensus is that men doctors in general are not only better doctors, but also gentler, more sensitive. Do some research to hear women’s opinions, and you’ll see that basically what I (and Health) say is correct.
uneeqParticipantBTGuy: If you ask me, – +1, equals to zero…
uneeqParticipantPBA: I promise I wont make any copies as long as you let me scan it…
uneeqParticipantYitay- Thanks but I saw that already and it’s not enough. In YD 69:26 the Pri Chadash says that he wrote a lengthy piece on O”C 261 which I couldn’t find at all.
http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=41539&st=&pgnum=111&hilite=
June 14, 2012 4:59 pm at 4:59 pm in reply to: Can someone with unfiltered internet be a ???? ?????? #1134174uneeqParticipant@yichusdik @jbaldy
Don’t waste your keystrokes on a obvious troll. Myself being an experienced troll in a past life, it easy to tell that the OP is trying to convince himself of his own nonsense that it has become so ingrained in him that he actually believes it. He learnt this trait from our forefather’s relative, Lavan. Lavan was such a professional liar because he managed to convince himself that his lies were true. All these “issurim” that people are discussing are not issurim at all, as rabbiofberlin has mentioned. It is an eitzah tova at best, as there can be no more issurim invented after the chasimas hagemora. Period.
Next topic: If someone has a filtered TV (yeh it’s possible) would the Debreciner allow him to be the shatz?
June 12, 2012 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm in reply to: A Brand New Never Before Discussed Topic for Zeeskite #1017530uneeqParticipantcoffee addict: If floss picks make things easy, it’s because they don’t actually work. I can’t count how many times I’ve flossed vehemently with the floss picks, only to to re-floss with real floss and -WARNING:TMI!- get 3 times the amount of guck that I managed to get out with the picks.
My favorite brand is definitely Crest Glide, although not the really minty one, because for some reason it leaves my mouth numb, and a really bad type of numbness.
uneeqParticipant@zichmich there are other things that affected me by not having a TZ, like recently the electric company offered a discount to anyone who uses less electric, but only with a TZ. It comes up time after time for me and I’m sure others too. Thankfully, today I called my CC company and they have a fake TZ filed for me, so when I try purchase something using my Israeli CC it verifies the TZ bec that’s what’s on file. I managed to sign up to phone service after all but I think that TZ won’t always work unless its verifying with my CC company.
Another solution I found is one of the methods that companies use to verify a TZ. It goes like this: A TZ is made up of 9 numbers. Add up the 1st, 3rd, 5th, 7th, 9th numbers. Now add up the rest of the numbers 2, 4 etc., and multiply by two (only the second set of numbers) .Now add up the sum of the first group to the total of the 2nd group. If the final number is divisible by 10 with no remainder than you have a possible TZ number. If not, then definitely false. Here’s an example of this with made up numbers 033071804. Parentheses mean that the number is in the even sequence and is multiplied by 2.
0+3(6)+3+0+7+1(2)+8+0+4 =30. If the last number were to be anything but a 4 it wouldnt work not 123567890. I hope I was clear enough. Enjoy! (You can also guess randomly as the odds of hitting a possible number is 1/10. Also I think a regular TZ starts with 03 so start the guesses from there.
uneeqParticipant@nechomo thanks
@zichmich A passport doesn’t in place of a TZ. Although i was able to open a bank account at bank discount, i can’t use it for paying bills online or to sign up for golan telecom.uneeqParticipantI don’t think that Ivrit is the Lashon Hakodesh, because many of the invented words are the exact opposite of Kodesh. However, I do believe that it still takes precedence over other languages being that is a modern spinoff of Lashon HaKodesh and no other language can boast that. There is also nothing less inspiring than watching a fresh ba’al tshuva guiding himself through halacha and mussar seforim with ease without the language barrier. While in other places, even many (though not most) Yeshiva trained men can barely grasp whats going on in those seforim.
uneeqParticipantUnfiltered internet is eating chazir and having a treif kitchen.
Last time I checked, after the chasimas ha’gemoro no further gezeiros can be made.
“??? ??? ????? ??????”
You may argue that somehow a gezeira can still be made nowadays, but at the end of the day, an issur robbonon is not a issur de’oraysa no matter how important it may be to keep it.
uneeqParticipantHealth: Actually, he’s backing me up. You were assuming that basic morals can’t be disproven from a logical point of view, and only from a Torah POV. He clearly negates that by quoting RSRH that there can be no personal morals without the Torah. There could, however, be morals set up by a community in order to keep the society functioning smoothly. That means that morals are not “absolute” as ben levi states, and if you ask me, I would not call “subjective morals”, moral at all.
uneeqParticipantHealth: The book is Permission to Believe. I don’t have the book so I can’t stand behind what I’m saying. However, he can disprove all philosophical approaches, but that still doesn’t prove God 100%. Occum’s Razor is never 100% reliable. There can be other philosophical approaches that he hasn’t disproven that have never been theorized before. But he is very logical in the book IIRC, he doesn’t prove points based on Psukim and hashkafa.
uneeqParticipantHealth: I’m not sure which book you mentioned before nor why you didn’t mention it again. But either way, IIRC, in R’ Kelemans book he proves that all philosophical approaches for banning murder are flawed.
uneeqParticipantSam2: Don’t mean to be rude, but Ders didn’t answer you the first time and probably won’t answer you this time. Silence speaks louder than words.
uneeqParticipantBen Levi: Well said! I once read a piece by R’ Lawrence Keleman in one his of his books, where he proves that if it wasn’t for God there would be no morals. In there he proves that without God, there would be no logical explanation for people not to kill each other.
uneeqParticipantfar east: Don’t read my posts, read gregaaron’s. He got my point well and clear. Bestiality marriage would be legal by precedent and so would incest marriage.
But anyways, great point you made. What I write is so false, that you can’t even point out one flaw. Must be hard admitting to losing an argument that barely just started.
May 14, 2012 10:08 pm at 10:08 pm in reply to: Major Jewish Music Labels Delaying mp3 Releases #873921uneeqParticipanthello99: Exactly. Kinda like how the victim Tnuva got boycotted for no reason last summer. Then, due to financial issues they had to raise their prices to make ends meet. Oh whats that you say? Tnuva was boycotted for price fixing? And the boycott didn’t make them raise their prices rather lower them? So too music producers have always been overcharging, way before the first mp3 player made it big, and people “stealing” music is the equivalent of a boycott.
The producers have been stealing from Jewish victims for so long, who have had no other choice but to buy a highly overpriced package that usually includes only one decent song, as this is one of the only viable forms of Jewish entertainment or relaxation. The original victim in this battle is US, not the music producers, as they are only victims of our tendency of relying on kulos, which were naturally formed after being bullied for so long.
Therefore I proclaim YAY to the producers who stoke the flames even more by charging an even more ridiculous price, and YAY for still not offering digital downloads. With a strategy like that, there would be more success by shooting yourselves in the foot. And one last YAY for the new generation of producers that will have to be different, hopefully sometime in the near future.
May 14, 2012 9:40 pm at 9:40 pm in reply to: Major Jewish Music Labels Delaying mp3 Releases #873919uneeqParticipantYW Moderator-42: Wrong. It has been determined and proven time and again, that the foremost reason that people pirate music is CONVENIENCE. Either they can get it from their friends iPod when comes over. Or you can shlep to the music store to hear a copy of the new CD, buy a copy and bring it home, try converting into their iTunes so they can get it on their iPod, and then that fails because of skipping in the cd and quality issues. Then the CD cracks unfortunately and you have to shlep to buy the cd again or just suffer it out and wait until the friend with the loaded iPod returns.
Or you can offer the consumer an easy, not-as-pricy but much cheaper to distribute digital song, with no expensive physical goods to produce. The user goes online and within minutes has it on their iTunes and iPod.
Should make you think twice before blaming people for being so ruthless when its really just human nature to end up doing the laziest process possible when it hasn’t been 100% accepted amongst the poskim as assur.
uneeqParticipantHello99: I agree to your premise based on many poskim that there is “ownership” of ideas. But I do not accept that you understand logically WHY you would be oiver on gezel. Just because you have ownership over something, doesn’t make anything in this case “stolen”. There was nothing taken, nothing to return, no loss applied to the victim. By the same logic that you still haven’t explained, it would be assur to listen to music being played on someone else’s speaker, because at the end of the day, you don’t own the music, Shwekey or MBD does.
Also, you assume that over here there would an Issur gezel because even something worth less than a pruta you would be oiver on. I disagree, because the pruta is only an amount to be chayav ben adam lechavero, and anything less is not. But that doesn’t mean that something less than a pruta has no value at all, rather anything less than a pruta has value and is thereby considered gezel and you are thereby oiver on gezel, but the punishment for it is unenforceable. By music, you did not steal anything of value, not even less than a pruta, as anyways you would have never purchased it, hence you weren’t oiver on gezel. According to your logic, if someone was able to patent oxygen for breathing, we would all have to suffocate ourselves if stealing was a hereg ve’al ya’avor.
uneeqParticipantYserbius123: A) No one is arguing whether incest or homosexuality should be legal or not (in fact incest is illegal for some reason), rather whether if it should be considered a legal marriage or not. Define “marriage” before arguing whether it be legal or not for certain relationships. Define “marriage” etymologically, historically, biblically or any way that pleases you, but at least present an argument.
B) Sodomy was one of the traits of the gentiles from Sedom, and the whole country was destroyed even though they were gentiles. Fact: This bad act affects the world whether religious, Jewish or not. It may not bother you, but it bothers most people that the current trend of homosexuality is surely either causing many bad things or causing the withholding of good things from happening to us and our country. I’m sure there are many Jewish sources for this besides for what I have presented.
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