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  • in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2211815
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    Avram, there’s a NY Times story from 1984, available on their site, reporting on the acquittal of all charges of the Satmar guy who was charged.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2211611
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    qwerty, I’ve found Menachem’s explanation about the Israelis quite clear. I don’t see anything else he could add to what he already explained.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2210978
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    Avira, the other Chasidish groups also marry much younger. They also stress, continually educate and remind about tznius. And if issues in this area come up, they make statements about it.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2210752
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    Menachem Shmei: Do you agree with Neville CB’s response to my question to you about tznius?

    in reply to: questions about the yeshivish world #2210673
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    Didn’t the Chofetz Chaim pasken you can’t shave your beard off?

    in reply to: Chris Christie – why can’t Jews rally around him? #2210591
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    Christie is a social liberal.

    Christie was first against Trump, then he was for Trump and now he’s against Trump. He can’t seem to make to his mind.

    He’s good for a liberal state but not for the nation.

    in reply to: Tort Reform #2210355
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    HaLeiVi: In your estimation or view, how could the system or law best be changed to fix the problem you described?

    in reply to: Tort Reform #2210315
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    Baltimore: Class action suits where the lawyers walk away with $30 million while each of the people in the class who were harmed get $30 each? That $30 doesn’t correct their harm; it just lines the lawyers wallets — and raises prices for American consumers, who are later paying for the grossly disproportionate rewards every time they purchase a product or service.

    And that’s even assuming there was some actual harm, rather than the company settling simply to avoid the costs and risks of litigation, where some otherwise uneducated or vagrant mathematically-challenged jurors trying to wrap up early to get home add some zeros to the end of the dollar figure of the award.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2210249
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    Menachem Shmei, another issue I was wondering what insight you might share is regarding the state of tznius in Crown Heights. I’ve heard numerous folks comment, both Lubavitchers from the neighborhood as well as outsiders, that the general state leaves a lot to be desired as there is problem in this area, regarding how too many women dress in public, to a notably greater extent than you’d find in other Chareidi communities. In fact, Itzhak Schier z”l, a Lubavitcher who used to be a very frequent and active poster here in this Coffee Room, was one of those that acknowledged this problem. I’m wondering what you might attribute to why this is a greater issue in Lubavitch than in other Chasidic (where typically they have stricter standards) communities or even other non-Chasidic frum neighborhoods.

    in reply to: Tort Reform #2209978
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    CTL: I don’t necessarily disagree with your realpolitik analysis. But, certainly, the reforms I describe are morally needed and the best and proper way for the law to prescribe. And one can certainly hope the political environment will change in the future to permit implementation of these tort reforms.

    in reply to: Catskill busses #2209973
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    huju knocks someone or another over the use of “busses” about every two or three years. But, in fact, the dictionary specifies that both buses and busses are acceptable and correct spellings of the same word. And, although, currently buses is by far the more common spelling, previously busses was more common as well as having been the preferred spelling of the word in Merriam-Webster’s dictionary until 1961.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2209645
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    Yseribus: What leads you to believe HaRav Shach zt’l wasn’t offering his own opinion rather than acting as spokesman for others?

    in reply to: Outrageous auto insurance premiums #2209579
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    Ironically, auto insurance rates in Manhattan are half the cost of in Brooklyn. Brooklyn suffers from a lot of fraud. Like the Russians who stage an “accident” to collect medical.

    in reply to: Outrageous auto insurance premiums #2209519
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    Shimon: You can easily find insurance for less than $300/month without TLC.

    in reply to: Outrageous auto insurance premiums #2209464
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    The Frumguy: Check Costco’s auto insurance. It is through CONNECT, a division of American Family Insurance.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2209405
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    Yseribus: Who took the poll or survey that leads you to think that it is the “opinion of most of the Gedolim in Klal Yisroel”?

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room in 50 Years: A Trip up Memory Lane #2209269
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    Dr. Pepper: Did you visit the old age home or did his aide bring him to you?

    in reply to: Forgotten Halachah MB 167 #2209267
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    You should also be saying Berishus Avi Mori if bentching with your father.

    in reply to: Outrageous auto insurance premiums #2209268
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    Switch insurance companies.

    in reply to: Forgotten Halachah MB 167 #2209265
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    I hear Berishus Kohanim all the time before bentching.

    You must be in the wrong circles.

    in reply to: Maharal’s Golem #2209069
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    Is there any reason to doubt that some of our Gedolim today are capable of creating a Golem, if he deems it necessary?

    in reply to: gedolim pictures #2209009
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    Bump

    in reply to: Maharal’s Golem #2209005
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    smerel: Your comment to me is well said and entirely correct. But I don’t understand why you think the answer isn’t very Chasidish. You didn’t even address that point.

    in reply to: Maharal’s Golem #2208953
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    Yserbius: That’s a very Chasidish answer.

    in reply to: gedolim pictures #2208826
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    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room in 50 Years: A Trip up Memory Lane #2208790
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    A+

    in reply to: Maharal’s Golem #2208720
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    smerel: Either way, any way you explain it, the Rebbe and/or the Riyatz seems to be saying that the story of the Golem is true.

    in reply to: Maharal’s Golem #2208633
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    Ely: Your are saying that is the Riyatz’s interpretation of the Rebbe?

    in reply to: Camp deal #2208628
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    Baltimore: Why was your sheva brochos there?

    in reply to: gedolim pictures #2208555
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    Menachem Shmei: I’m following up here, since you linked to this thread for what I inquired.

    Firstly, I believe “Gedolim pictures” more or less became a thing outside of the Chasidish velt first. The Chasidish Rebbes were mostly originally opposed to being photographed. And the Yeshivish velt started getting into it much earlier. As you mentioned, even the Lubavitcher Rebbe was initially not in favor of it. Although, the opposition was much stronger by others such as Satmar, etc.

    If the argument in favor is that “thinking of a tzaddik’s image as an important method to yiras shamayim”, then that should support, as well, erecting life-like sizes statues of Tzadikim, using their real-like image. Imaging walking to Shul, and right outside in the Shul yard is a life sized statue in the image of the local Tzadik.

    In any event, I’m not so much questioning having pictures of Tzadikim. Today that is found across all sectors, Chasidish, Yeshivish and Sefardish. What I am trying to understand, and you seem knowledgeable, is why in Lubavitch (almost exclusively) we find these huge life sized images of the Rebbe at every general venue, like wedding halls, on cars and trucks, and on many other facilities, buildings and structures. The size, places, frequencies and ubiquitousness seems rather unique.

    Also, it’s only the last Rebbe. Why not any of the previous Lubavitcher Rebbes and/or other Tzadikim? In other Yiddish places with pictures you’ll generally find those of multiple Tzadikim.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208325
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    Menachem Shmei: I posted a comment to your attention above.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208317
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    “Sorry for all the typos in my last comment.”

    CTL: I was just about to suggest you give some more training and instructions to your paralegal. I was sure they were her typos, as your personally drafted legal documents are always a pleasure to read. But since you owned up to your errors, may I suggest that you perhaps need more rest and should delegate your CR comments be proof-read by your legal assistant prior to submission?

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208319
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    Avram: The terms Misnaged and Yekkes are widely used outside of Chabad. Generally in non-derogatory context in contemporary contexts but sometimes (regarding Misnagid) critically when relating historical information. But both Misnagid and Yekke are used both as a self-identification, obviously non self-critically, as well as by others applying it to those who identify as it.

    But self-identifying as a Misnagid is mostly in a historical context. Until the resolution of the Misnagid-Chasidic conflict (which was essentially resolved almost two centuries ago, with the two sides mutually respecting each other ever since), it was common for the Misnagdim to identify with that self-chosen term. Since the resolution it is only very few “Misnagdim” that still identify themselves with that description.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208105
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    Menachem: Respectfully, I don’t understand why a picture of the Rebbe is a thing. I’m referring to in general, like in weddings halls and other general events, where it is very common to find this huge picture of the Rebbe. I know some Rebbes (i.e. Satmar, etc.) were completely opposed to anyone taking their picture, let alone hanging their picture up. But I’m not talking about that. I know many frum people keep pictures of Rabbonim in their homes. But it is rather unusual anywhere outside of Lubavitch to hang a picture in all general facilities, events and areas. Let alone such a huge photograph.

    Pictures didn’t much exist for the thousands of years before George Eastman started Kodak. Since when did it become a mitzvah or even a thing that seemingly is carried out with such religious fervor?

    in reply to: have you ever been to tosh? #2208027
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    CS: Brooklyn is in NYC.

    in reply to: Ads in Jewish Publications II #2207636
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    Shopping613: What were the recent horrible ads?

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207633
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    Which Rav Yitzchok? Rav Amnon?

    in reply to: fatigue or laziness? #2207630
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    Does laziness already have a DSM diagnosis?

    If not, give the APA some more time.

    in reply to: Sinas chinam #2207269
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    sechel,; It’s a mitzvah to hate and mock an apikorus. We certainly can identify who is an apikorus. In fact, we are obligated to do so.

    in reply to: RCA Statement Regarding Chabad Messianism #2207118
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    In general, I wouldn’t give too much credence to any RCA statement.

    in reply to: Ads in Jewish Publications II #2207116
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    Yseribus: Welcome to the club. Add Mishpacha and the FJJ to the list.

    in reply to: Mattos – 12 to 12 1/2 #2207115
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    Why does this bother you? Is there a reason it should spend less time on it?

    in reply to: Ads in Jewish Publications II #2206891
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    The so-called frum publications (as you correctly put it) do a lot worse than just place advertisements that will obviously be ready on Shabbos.

    in reply to: Sinas chinam #2206627
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    Sinas Chinam isn’t the only reason. The Gemorah in Shabbos 62b says that a reason for the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash was women used excessive cosmetics, and that a women should only care about her appearance for the purposes of not being repulsive to her husband.

    in reply to: Bridging the Gap Between The Torah World and MO #2206490
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    N0m: R. Gordimer does not speak for the RCA any more than OO/YCT “rabbi” Nathaniel Helfgot, who is also an RCA member, speaks for the RCA.

    in reply to: Being a Jewish democrat #2205652
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    The same way a Jew can be a Reform or a Conservative Jew.

    In fact, proportionally a Democrat Jew is more likely to be Reform/Conservative, whereas a Republican Jew is proportionally more likely to be Orthodox.

    in reply to: Sinas chinam #2205138
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    Is hating Reform and Conservative “Judaism” sinas chinam?

    in reply to: Problem with Melech HaMashiach from the Dead #2205072
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    Avira, in regards to your comment about intermarriage, is there a difference between intermarriage (which in reality is invalid as there’s no recognition of a so-called “marriage” of a Yid to a goy) versus someone who stam is mezana with a shiksa?

    in reply to: Crowns. #2203287
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    Hi Wolf, How are you doing? Besoros Tovos.

    in reply to: Any pet owners here? #2203038
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    2 mice, 3 cockroachs and 1 bat.

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