tzirelf

+BH I have made more than 20 shidduchim. (It is not my “profession”). I wanted to share a story with all of you.

I once thought of a shidduch in which I remembered that the girl was on the tall side and the boy was on the short side. In my mind I figured they were the same height. Both sides agreed (not asking lots of petty questions about looks etc, but trusting me that I felt they would hit it off and enjoy each other’s company. They went out and BH got engaged. That’s when out of curiosity I checked my records for their heights. She was 3 inches taller than him. (BH for hats) They never noticed or cared. And trust me they are both normal grounded kids. They are happily married!! Focus on the iker, midos tovos!!! and Yiras shamayim are everything when it comes to happiness. Of course there must also be chemistry, meshichas halev, which means one is drawn to the other person, not fireworks. mazal and bracha and clarity!!