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  • in reply to: what is the impact of where you went to seminary on shidduchim? #902036
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    Big. I went to the most convenient seminary for me, and had a job that enabled me to get to a better paid position later on. But guys look at my resume and think I am representative of that place. For me, not going to seminary would have made sense. I was scared to risk appearing so out of the box. 🙂

    in reply to: Zone A occupants #902307
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    I remember all the warnings with Irene, which turned out to be nothing. I remember when an unpredicted storm caused tremendous damage to my block.

    I don’t blame them. It’s really hard to pack up and move with kids, if you’re not feeling well, or for the elderly, to spend time in a shelter with strangers and leaving your home unoccupied. This time, they were wrong to stay.

    in reply to: Living in Israel – where would you live? #1038312
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    Twisted – that’s very sweet of you.

    But I have internet and am scared of the responsibility.

    in reply to: Does Wealth Equate With Happiness? #1157403
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    Yes. Usually.

    in reply to: Living in Israel – where would you live? #1038309
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    And Why? Nvm – as a Litvish Kiryas Yoelite, I guess that would be the place for you.

    in reply to: Coincidence or Not? #902072
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    Hashem could have struck the lawmakers with lightning, but He didn’t. So let’s not try to figure out schar v’onesh.

    in reply to: Power outages #901493
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    Our lights are flickering.

    in reply to: How Many Read the Coffee Room, But Do Not Post? #920497
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    HaLeivi – It’s cute sometimes, and sometimes boring.

    in reply to: Would you marry…? #940979
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    It would depend on the person.

    in reply to: right – left ?? Do I have a mental problem? #901736
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    It should be fine as long as you don’t drive.

    in reply to: How Many Read the Coffee Room, But Do Not Post? #920493
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    HaLeivi – that was predictable. Doesn’t mean I predicted it personally.

    in reply to: Frequent Posters and Personality #925355
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    Thank you Zeeskite. I think that was more about anonymity and its effect on posting than how posting reflects true personality. I do not consider myself anonymous on this website – the mods know my email, and all it takes is a simple google search to find my name.

    in reply to: Wherein Popa makes fun of girls #900999
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    I have determined that it would cost me less money to take car services wherever I go, than to learn to drive and buy or lease a car.

    /the joys of living in NY during a hurricane.

    in reply to: Ask the opposite gender #989519
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    In the spirit of PBA:

    Maybe some of you (boys) can explain what type of girl you are looking for, so that we can start working on ourselves a few years before getting “on the market”.

    I’m looking for a girl who comes from a rich family, but is willing to be mistapek b’muat.

    One who cares about her family and being a wife and mother more than she cares about making money, but is making money.

    One who always looks beautiful, but never makes me wait for her to be ready to go to a social even.

    One who likes to have fun, but in a tzanua fashion.

    One who is worldly, but not more worldly than I am, and deeply respects my opinions on all political and religious issues, and never disagrees on anything.

    One who has gone to college and is educated, but never talked to boys.

    One whose parents will support us so that I don’t need to ever work, but will never make demands on me at home.

    One who is beautiful outside, and also has a lovely personality and is not too vain and full of herself.

    One who cooks well and is always thin.

    Can anyone help me find this girl?

    OK, mine wasn’t quite on the level. But you get the idea.

    in reply to: Cousins Marrying #930410
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    I wouldn’t, but I understand why people would. I have only male cousins in my age range, several of which are in marriageable range. I would probably be interested if they weren’t my cousins. I’d be scared of certain family quirks, which are normal in us as individuals, being intensified in our kids.

    in reply to: Frequent Posters and Personality #925341
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    Zeeskite – sorry, I didn’t see this before. Could you link it? The first discussion is usually the best.

    As for myself, well, I have no idea.

    in reply to: How hard is Machon Raya? #901291
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    Almost as hard as shidduchim!

    in reply to: Ask the opposite gender #989518
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    I never wear heels. I’d wear heels only if my husband liked it, and not when he wasn’t around. Who wants everyone evaluating how attractive they are? Plus, if I save the heels for when they’re really needed, my feet will be better able to handle them. / end monologue

    Now, for insecure questions of the opposite gender: Am I too tzanua, sincere, pretty, happy, healthy, confident, educated, articulate, creative to get married?

    Just kidding!!!

    in reply to: Gift for Jewish, intermarried, but interested preceptor #901256
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    Mezuzahs, so they can keep an easy mitzva.

    in reply to: Is long distance a death sentence? #901231
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    Yes, if your head is far away from your neck.

    in reply to: New York City Hurricane Emergency Instructions, IN YIDDISH! #900959
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    But I can’t understand it in Yiddish! Why can’t it be in English so normal people can read it?!

    All you need is a summary, provided by yours truly: Darf nisht gein tzu de grocery biz de vint iz kalt un vasser is kimmen arup shnell!

    in reply to: Why are shidduchim so difficult/tiring?! #901723
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    Why not?

    Anyway, it’s not our job – remember, Hashem split the Yam Suf. That would have been very difficult and draining!

    in reply to: How Many Read the Coffee Room, But Do Not Post? #920488
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    I only post when procrastinating. Otherwise I only read the interesting titles.

    Most topics and posters here are very predictable.

    in reply to: Makubal #899538
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    Mommamia – I think we have a different sense of humor. Is it really not clear from my posts that I do not take this seriously?

    May you and your family and posters on this website who are looking find their zivugim bkarov and build batim neemanim bYisrael. And everyone else who may read this.

    in reply to: Perfect mate #899827
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    Syag Lchochma – He can join YWN, then you can ask the mods to email me his screenname, if I like his posts the mods can tell you my email. Sounds good?

    Nope. We probably won’t be able to fill that request. They should both join a dating site.

    in reply to: Makubal #899535
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    WIY I think the mekubal tells you what you want to hear. Apparently I didn’t pay enough to get more than one compliment. But you seem like a really nice person and that was a nice thing to say.

    in reply to: Perfect mate #899822
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    WIY Thanks for asking. I love telling people what I’m looking for – it is fun to compare their idea of each adjective with my idea of it.

    I’m looking for someone healthy, slim, good middos, highly intelligent. Yiras Shamayim and has a Rav. Organized and relaxed. Not scared of insects. Not in this particular order.

    That pretty much describes me too.

    in reply to: Streimel color #899356
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    Thanks innocent, that was interesting. And to whoever said it lightens.

    in reply to: Makubal #899531
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    No one mourns the wicked – Well, I was satisfied with the experience.

    Another mekubal I went to told me to work on Kibud Av Va’Eim as a zechus for shidduchim. He told my sister the same thing. I think it’s the one thing parents won’t call him complaining about.

    in reply to: Streimel color #899352
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    Thanks Avhaben.

    in reply to: Makubal #899527
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    I went to a Mekubal. He said I have Yiras Shamayim and shouldn’t worry about shidduchim.

    in reply to: Perfect mate #899820
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    Seahorse – Really, I was just kidding. I’m 22 and don’t believe that boys should feel they can ask for everything and girls are so self-conscious and guilty for wanting anything at all. What I said was intended to sound ridiculous.

    In terms of what I’m looking for – anything self-contradictory is not important to me, except the second sentence where the first part is and the second less so.

    in reply to: Difficult questions about grandparents #899650
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    They should be asking why doesn’t grandpa go to shul and totty does?

    in reply to: Perfect mate #899818
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    Mammele – I was joking. Not scared of insects and willing to be my knight in shining armor in regard to creeping creatures is kinda important to me though.

    in reply to: Romney VS Obama poll #900067
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    I’m writing myself in, since I would make a great President.

    in reply to: Rosh Chodesh, men vs women observance #899337
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    Huh? I never said anything about partying on R”Ch.

    Women didn’t participate anyway, so we get a zechus. I never heard that men have a zechus. And if R”Ch is nothing special and a sad day as your saying, why would we say Hallel?

    in reply to: Rosh Chodesh, men vs women observance #899335
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    Sefer Hatoda’ah, are you better educated than Rav Eliyahu Kitov?

    in reply to: Perfect mate #899816
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    I’m looking for someone handsome, brilliant, successful, and charming. Yiras Shamayim and sincere in his learning but sophisticated. Intellectual and muscular. Organized and relaxed. Not scared of insects. Good family. Generous, respected in the community but enjoys being at home

    in reply to: Streimel color #899350
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    This was actually a semi-serious question. So my conclusion is that streimels are picked to be brown, but you can pick whichever color you like, and it doesn’t really matter so long as it’s black or brown.

    in reply to: early elections in Israel #899251
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    i’m glad about it.

    in reply to: That Four-letter Word.. #899182
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    This is a four letter word.

    (get it? this)

    in reply to: Rosh Chodesh, men vs women observance #899332
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    Al she’mi’atti es hayareiach! Plus the Egel.

    We say Hallel and don’t do laundry – that’s not a regular day!

    I read about it in the Book of Our Heritage which made me think about it. In my elementary school we were supposed to wear white shirts on R”Ch. So I wondered what others do.

    in reply to: Beha"b #899087
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    Sam2 – sorry, just saying that a lot of people seem to fast it. And I know it’s not right away, just figured I’d post this before I forget or the next crazy idea pops in my head.

    in reply to: Streimel color #899345
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    I’m a litvish girl and wanted to know what the color means. Matching it to hair seemed most logical but clearly isn’t true. So what do the colors mean?

    in reply to: Dating on Succos #898916
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    Assur, if you are dating archaeological fragments for your job.

    in reply to: Facebook question #900167
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    Sorry, we don’t know anything about facebook.

    in reply to: Shiduchim, what else? #947460
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    Daven, then relax – it only takes one! And make sure you network.

    in reply to: Book about Ashmedai and Shlomo Hamelech #897898
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    Sam2 – the Rambam didn’t think so. And I just want to interpret it, not explain it away.

    Anyone know of the book?

    in reply to: Voting in New York #900745
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    Of course I plan to vote. I guess there is a point of voting. But if I know Obama’s going to win, shouldn’t I vote for Obama so he’ll like the frum community more?

    in reply to: Yonah in Navi #898153
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    You can tell I thought up this question while fasting!

    Thanks for the quick responses.

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