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April 12, 2013 12:50 am at 12:50 am in reply to: How to tell the Shadchan that the girl's too heavy #946224Torah613TorahParticipant
Just say, she’s too fat. Then she’ll be motivated to lose weight and she’ll go on a diet and become skinny and marry someone else. Have a nice day and please stop posting boring threads about all the fat girls that get suggested to you.
Torah613TorahParticipantThere. Sem, weight, and shidduchim. I guess math jokes are just something I cannot do.
LOL. I know better now. I learn from my mistakes.
Torah613TorahParticipantYou know, the contrapositive is equivalent logically. So would you date someone who didn’t really want to go to seminary but went anyway as well?
Torah613TorahParticipantiluv: You should tell your principal that you really want to go to Israel. Lots of girls get accepted later and during the summer, but you need to speak up and tell the people around you that you really want to go so that they can help you get it.
That’s the spirit!
Torah613TorahParticipantI suffer from music starvation during sefirah. Musiclike music helps.
Torah613TorahParticipantYou’re a concatenation of atoms.
Torah613TorahParticipant1. <slinks past lugging enormous lumpy bag>
2. backwards
3. torah_griffin_first_tau_draft_evening_march_3_2013
4. <tumble>
Torah613TorahParticipantPretend you’re another person and post from that perspective in a way that will provoke as many people as possible to respond. (i.e. trolling)
Torah613TorahParticipantYou mean not accepted to any Israeli seminary? Yavneh in Cleveland has been advertising intensely.
Also, if you can pay full tuition, it’s easy to get in anywhere. Do you get how the system works? You should ask the most well-connected person you know to pull a few strings.
And if all else fails, you can date Popa!
Torah613TorahParticipantOh Shreck – there’s a book by that title: Middos, the Measure of Man.
Talmud: And maybe you’re a speck on the back of a giant turtle. I think there’s a book like that. (shoutout to OOM 🙂 )
More seriously, your brain adjusts to process information relative to other information. So if everything was bigger, your brain would eventually learn to make it smaller, and you wouldn’t see it as bigger any more.
April 10, 2013 11:30 am at 11:30 am in reply to: Survey, How do you bring Joy of Torah and Mitzvos #951077Torah613TorahParticipantsm29: If you really enjoy doing mitzvos, your kids will too. They learn by example.
Torah613TorahParticipantVogue, for your convenience, and our edification, I paste below a list of skills spies use (lightly edited for YWN):
Spies, like in any profession tend to develop specialities, but a well rounded spy will develop varying levels of expertise in the following areas;
– Languages – This is an important area. They need to be proficient in multiple languages (both written and verbal), preferably in the languages of their identified enemies of the time. They must also have an ear for languages. They need to know what language is being spoken (even if they don’t speak it) and the various accents that identify which specific region of a country the person speaking comes from, based on the nuances of their accent. They must also be able to work these nuances into their own language skills when appropriate.
– Weapons – They must have the ability to expertly handle a broad base of weapons with ease. This can range from small arms hand guns to weaponized aircraft, watercraft and ground units. They must also know how to assemble and disassemble and/or disarm the weapons as well (including all manner of explosives and stealth weapons (poisons)). They must also be able to improvise or devise a weapon out of anything that is handy.
– Hand to Hand Combat – When weapons are not readily available or cannot be taken from the enemy by force and used against them, the spy must be an expert in hand to hand combat. They must be an expert in multiple forms of martial arts and must be able to adapt to different situations immediately. This goes beyond adapting to multiple opponents or close-quarter combat techniques. If they are an American operating under cover as a Russian, they must fight using the techniques they would have been taught in the Russian military. If they use American fighting techniques they will give themselves away.
– Mind-Body Control – A good spy will have an expert level of control over their mind, their emotions and their body. They need to be able to effectively compartmentalize their thinking. This heightens their effectiveness and level of focus and detail they bring to each action. For example, if they are breaking into a safe, they cannot be thinking about their escape in that moment. If they are under cover as a foreign operative, they cannot be thinking like they are on domestic soil. Body language comprises the largest portion of our communication and what goes on in the head comes out in our body language. You need to take character acting to a new level when their life depends on it.”
A good spy will be exposed to a wide variety of terrains and circumstances so they must be able to control their body temperature to adapt to various climates as required. They also must be able to operate with a clear mind while under extreme duress or sometimes while in extreme pain, so they need to be able to block out certain elements while heightening their focus on other areas. The body has natural reactions to being under threat (adrenaline rushes, emotional responses (fear, anger, fight or flight, post traumatic stress etc). The spy is often faced with situations, events or circumstances that will shock their senses. The spy needs to be able to learn how to operate under multiple forms of duress while maintaining the integrity of and focus on the mission at hand. There is a beginning, a middle and a wrap up to most missions and they must be able to sustain their focus through to completion. They also must be able to endure hours and sometimes days of mind numbing boredom while staying in a state of mental readiness. Real spying involves a lot of surveillance and hurry up and wait. It takes great mental and physical discipline to jump to a state of alertness after an extended period with no consequential activity.
Equipment Handling – A spy should know how to operate and perform basic forms of maintenance on many forms of equipment with dexterity and often under stressful circumstances. This includes, but is not limited to; all types of automobiles, motorcycles, snowmobiles, heavy equipment, watercraft (from speedboats to small ships as well as underwater craft), helicopter or other forms of rotor craft, all forms of aircraft from small aircraft to jets, to full airliners, trains or other forms of transportation. They also need to be proficient in technology and be able to deal with issues related to the operation and disarming of computers, telephone equipment, alarm systems, heating and air conditioning units, electrical systems and so forth. They now must also be prepared to deal with robotics both in utilizing them and disarming them as robots are playing an ever-increasing role in warfare.
Thinking – Spies are taught to think using a variety of thinking techniques. This includes; creative thinking, critical thinking, methodical thinking, strategic thinking, abstract thinking, divergent thinking etc.. They key is to be able to engage and change your thinking instantaneously as needed. To do this effectively you need to be highly proficient in situational awareness (being able to assess your surroundings and circumstances immediately) and formulate alternative plans to meet their objectives. For example, spy agencies do not just accept a single source of intelligence and act on it unless there is absolutely no alternative. They gather intelligence from multiple sources and then they have to formulate an opinion and a plan from what is often conflicting data. The spy must be able to filter through what they are seeing, hearing and sensing and often make a decision on the spot. Common sense plays a big role here and is especially important when a single wrong move can cost your life or the lives of many others.
Spies are also taught to develop eidetic memory skills, which is as close as you can get to a true photographic memory. This includes photo reading skills so they can absorb a huge amount of information quickly and recall it with ease. They also train the body to accept new forms of muscle memory quickly and effortlessly. This is much harder than it sounds, but people with natural athletic ability that don’t focus on developing a single athletic skill too long can adapt to this quite effectively.
Medical Training – An excellent spy must know the physiology of the human body intimately. This may be used to effectively injure, disarm or dispatch an opponent or to deliver medical assistance to themselves or others in the field. They should know everything from basic care and maintenance of their bodies to being able to perform minor surgery as the need requires. It also helps them to know the outer limits of their bodies tolerances and to estimate the limits of others.
Strong Interpersonal Skills – One of the best weapons of a spy is the ability to properly manipulate others to do their bidding. Sometimes this involves eliciting information from an unwilling party. Most people immediately think of interrogation in this case, but in truth, interrogation is not particularly effective or reliable. Every person has different forms of motivation. The most skilled spies will learn the targets motivations and how to elicit information from someone without them realizing they are giving up information or that the person talking to them is actually a spy extracting information. They will also use the same techniques to turn enemies on each other and on themselves. This can involve neuro linguistic programming, or more aggressive techniques as required. This requires an intimate knowledge of psychology and the social sciences and the ability to use this knowledge against their enemies. The best spies on the planet are ones you will never know or hear about, but who have effected great change with nothing more than a well placed word or phrase.
Strong Intrapersonal Skills – This involves knowing yourself extremely well. An excellent spy is constantly seeking out and eliminating their own weaknesses. They want to develop a persona that, as closely as possible, cannot be pierced by their enemy. This starts with the obvious. A person who has a penchant for high living or addictions can be easily compromised, but it obviously goes much deeper than that. Things like family members or negative experiences in their childhood can be manipulated by skilled opponents, which is why the life of a spy is largely lived in obscurity or at least under false pretenses for the bulk of the time. In order to assess these potential weaknesses, the great spies must be prepared to objectively and ruthlessly analyze themselves, not only as they see themselves, but as others see them too. We are often blind to our greatest weaknesses so this takes great humility, something we don’t often equate to the stereotypical spy. It is this ability and willingness that makes them such a lethal force.
Survival Skills – Great spies, above all must be able to survive for the next mission. This includes learning survival techniques in all sorts of environments including;
– Jungle survival techniques
– Dessert survival techniques
– Arctic survival techniques
– Forest/mountain survival techniques
– Urban survival techniques
Escape and Evade Techniques – This includes everything from just running away from a situation, to evasive driving skills, to losing a tail, to breaking out of a prison, to crossing a border without detection and more. Sometimes this is overt – they are just making a run for it and sometimes it is covert – they are hiding or blending in with their environment. This involves another spy skill which is the successful development and use of disguises. There are many techniques to disguise your appearance that range from the modest (glasses, mustache and hat) to the elaborate. Some spies who have been “discovered” have had to commit to extreme forms of disguise including plastic surgery and a complete change of their cover, location and mandate if they want to remain in the field. As with all the other skills listed here, their training, of course, also includes the ability to counter anyone attempting to use these techniques against them. In this case it would include tracking and capturing someone trying to escape or evade them.
Developing their Sixth Sense – This may be a controversial topic to some, but a lot of emphasis is put on developing a spy’s natural intuition. Contrary to what we are taught in school our body has hundreds of sensors to gather data with rather than just our five senses. These sensors can be activated and developed to enhance our ability to “perceive” our surroundings in much greater depth than most people consciously realize. Spies can be trained to “lead” with their intuition once they have developed this function fully. Then, just like all other forms of intelligence gathering, they are encouraged, when possible, to gather additional sources of data to validate their intuitive instincts before taking action. Some have developed this ability to an amazing, almost mystical level to capture and avoid being captured.
Social Skills – A great spy is in the game of manipulation and their playing field is often a social scene of one form or another. They must be able to blend into multiple environments as the need demands. This can mean knowing all the social niceties that comes with attending a diplomatic function to knowing the language and rules of a street gang, a business enterprise or an organized crime culture. They will sometimes be required to become experts in music, dance, the arts, wines, cigars, horses and other things considered important to the well-monied set. In another situation, they will need to know how to climb the social hierarchy within a drug cartel to get close to the primary players. In most (all) instances they have to do this in groups who are highly suspicious of strangers and are on a constant look out for infiltrators and “spies”. In any case, they have to adopt the cadence, language and attitude associated with their surroundings instantly and effectively or risk being discovered.
High Detail Orientation – It is often the little things that count in the spy world. A misused phrase or a limp that changes sides for a couple of steps can set off alarm bells to the spy. The shift in body language or “tells” another person unconsciously exposes when they are lying are all data the spy uses in evaluating the truth in a world filled with professional and skilled liars. The ability to recall these details sometimes a decade or two after the incident can save their lives so having a high level of detail orientation is an indispensable tool in the spy’s personality make-up.
Well Read – As you might guess, great spies must be extremely well read in a wide variety of fields and cultures. Their ability to absorb “and” understand information in a broad range of disciplines quickly is often crucial to them getting up to speed quickly on a mission. It is one of their greatest gifts.
Leadership – Spies have to assume many roles and most of them tend to be wall flower type roles, but from time to time they will be called upon to take a leadership role in an enemies organization. This means they have to turn on the ability to gain others trust and confidence to follow their direction, even on a large scale. It goes beyond having nerves of steel. You must totally believe you are the person you are purporting to be to pull this off. Heady stuff!
Excellent Communicators – There is no benefit to a spy gathering information if they cannot communicate that knowledge effectively to other members of their team. This communication must clearly identify, a threat, for example. The level of threat perceived, by who, in what form, when must all be communicated clearly and objectively. They must also be master communicators in knowing the effects their communication has on others and to use channels of communication, like the media, effectively to their collective benefit. This includes using all modalities at their disposal for capturing and communicating information (photography, videography, audio, other) as this communication of will often be required to bring the offenders to justice or be used to further their case or justify the use of their agency resources. With some notable exceptions, someone has to pay for the resources needed for the spy to operate and they want to see some verification of a return on their investment.
I have run out of time to respond to this question and am sure I have missed other skills critical to being a spy but here is quick summary of some stragglers;
– Ability to sky dive,
– Ability to cliff dive
– Ability to play most sports proficiently
– Deep sea dive
– Scuba dive
– Swim long distances and hold their breath under water for extended periods of time (often in sub zero temperatures)
– Run long distances without tiring
– Maneuvering through, over, under or around buildings quickly without being detected
– Operate in the dark confidently
– Operate in confined spaces, sometimes for extended periods of time
– Moral flexibility (you have to do distasteful things and/or develop relationships with people who carry contrary beliefs and moral ethics to you)
– Basically extreme bravery to do all the above with a straight face or under the threat of imminent death on a pretty regular basis
– Many, many more
An excellent spy is indeed a sort of super human as evidenced above. In addition to the above skills they must have the aptitude to do all the above without public recognition of their efforts or victories. In fact, the only time we usually hear about them, is if they make a misstep and then they are vilified by those who have captured them (and often by their own people, those who don’t know the sacrifices they have made to keep their fellow citizens out of harms way). This ability to put others before themselves and the ability to know all their work will go largely unnoticed, save by a small collection of insiders, is a key requisite for becoming a successful spy.
Before you go thinking it is impossible for such a bountiful set of skills to exist, it is not. About 10% of the population has the requisite skills and propensity for becoming a super spy. There is a base personality type (ISTP on the Keirsey profile test is one) that is specifically well suited to being “developed into” this role. They are born with a core set of skills which accounts for about 20% of the needed profile. The environment they are raised in accounts for another nominal percentage and then years of honing and training these skills does the rest. The core physical skills and the ability to learn extremely fast and to adapt immediately and appropriately to changing circumstances is the key. After that its just like any other field of expertise, years of arduous practice and experience. The only difference between this occupation and most others is that in most occupations mistakes help you get experience, whereas mistakes as a spy can get you and many others dead.
Needless to say, they practice a lot!
Hope this was an appropriate and insightful answer to your question!
Torah613TorahParticipantThanks Safta. She’s a great speaker.
April 10, 2013 1:18 am at 1:18 am in reply to: How would you respond to Savage on Metzitzah #1027945Torah613TorahParticipantIgnore him.
Torah613TorahParticipantThat is really impressive popa (the parking with one inch on either side.)
Torah613TorahParticipantNo, plus you would run into tons of LH and moser issues. And these jobs don’t allow people to have a normal life. Go to Touro, become a teacher.
Torah613TorahParticipantI can explain. If I were parking a fancy car, I would be so scared of bumping anyone, it would take me two spots to park.
What bothers me is when people edge up around me. I don’t need that space for my health – I need it so I’ll be able to get out without bumping you, at least until I get better at parallel parking.
Torah613TorahParticipantbenign: Maybe in part.
Torah613TorahParticipantOf course not. Holocaust survivors, for example.
Torah613TorahParticipantSiper: That, I disagree with. Higher intelligence is correlated with higher achievement. Just not with which college you go to, beyond a certain baseline.
Torah613TorahParticipantBTW you can get put into jail for ignoring to jury duty. It almost happened to a friend of mine.
Aren’t we supposed to uphold justice in the country we live in, isn’t that the cause of dina d’malchusa dina?
Torah613TorahParticipantLOL, MDG. Maybe next Sunday I’ll bake brown bean pellet cookies and see how my family likes it. 🙂
Torah613TorahParticipantVeltz: I could never respect a person who judged others based on what college they attended.
I don’t know what totem pole you’re looking at, but in my opinion she’s the most powerful Jewish woman today.
Torah613TorahParticipantSaysMe: Never describe Popa with an adjective. They have a way of making it into his subtitle.
Interesting idea, popa. Food for conversation.
Torah613TorahParticipantGG: Today is Chabad day apparently. Chumash Tehillim Tanya with a Siddur at the end. The sefer you’d want on a desert island.
Torah613TorahParticipantPBA: Did he think that would ever happen when he started?
Veltz: That’s what she’s called. There is no doubt that she values her Rebbetzin status way more than her doctorate.
DaMoshe: You left out the Lubavitcher Rebbe.
Yserbius: I find what you said to be more offensive than much of the anti-Semitism that I’ve read online. That’s not to say I’m offended. I’m not. I just find it offensive that people are so ignorant that they automatically classify college grads (like myself) as less frum.
I’m a college graduate, too. Sorry if you find it offensive. I didn’t say we’re less frum, but that we’re less frum than when we began. I would say the same about people working outside the Jewish community. Would that make you feel less offended?
Torah613TorahParticipantVogue, that’s not brainwashing, that’s bribery.
Torah613TorahParticipantHealth, I happen to agree with you in this thread, although sharp also has a good point.
A personal note to Health:
I hope you won’t get too upset at me for saying this, but you are smart enough and insightful enough that I hope you can just take it as my personal opinion and not a criticism. Sometimes it seems to me that you like to have the last word in an argument. Most people will post agreement comments half the time, and disagreement comments the other half, but I sometimes feel like all of your posts are disagreement comments. In addition, I sometimes feel that your arguments would be stronger if you allowed them to speak for themselves, rather than re-arguing every single little point that you disagree with until the other person is tired out.
You are obviously very smart and intelligent, and accustomed to being right most of the time in real life. I don’t know if you’re aware that online this comes across in a way that is unpleasant for others to read.
Again, I hope you don’t mind my saying this. I think you are very well-educated and have a lot to share with us, and I am sure that many people agree, even those who disagree with you. I don’t want to discourage you from posting your arguments. I just think that you may not be aware of the above, and I hope you will forgive me for pointing it out publicly if you are.
All the best,
T613T
Torah613TorahParticipantWouldn’t it be better to just write it less offensively? Self-editing works wonders.
April 8, 2013 9:40 pm at 9:40 pm in reply to: Macrobiotic Seminaries In Israel – is there one? #943211Torah613TorahParticipantDY: 14 years old is good for shidduchim how exactly?
Not nice, Brony
Torah613TorahParticipantMDG: What are parve brown bean pellets? That sounds like something you feed a rabbit.
Torah613TorahParticipantRebdoniel: Great question. I don’t know how potato starch would affect it. This banana cake is more like a brownie cake in that it’s hard to ruin the texture. But it’s a good idea for next year.
Tzaddiq: The original recipe did call for .25 cup chopped nuts, I personally don’t like them much (and neither does anyone else in my family) and usually leave them out.
Chocolate chips is an interesting idea. It would make the cake sweeter.
MDG: Do they taste the same as when they’re fresh? Many fruits and vegetables lose some flavor when frozen and thawed.
Thanks Oomis. Imaofthree sorry. It was more fun to write it like that, but more complicated for others. 🙂
Torah613TorahParticipantYitay: LOL. If you can figure out where it is, there’s about 1/3 of the cake left as of 6:00 Monday morning.
Saysme: It’s certainly possible.
OOM: Great idea! Thanks.
Torah613TorahParticipantCharliehall: I didn’t mean modern as in recent, but rather, are generally not followed by the more yeshivish/chassidish crowd. Certainly Rabbi Soloveitchik would qualify being MO.
VM: She is the best example. But Rebbetzin David went in her 20’s and is definitely a unique case. I know of no one like her.
Torah613TorahParticipantI asked my pet Golem and he shook his head no.
Torah613TorahParticipantEqual in terms of the limit definition. (look up the phrase “limit in calculus”)
Not equal, in terms of there will always be a small difference between 1 and 0.9999…
Torah613TorahParticipantDY: I hear.
Torah613TorahParticipantThe Bracha is Mezonos.
DY: Most definitely not. 🙂 I usually use at least part whole wheat flour, but we didn’t have any in the house.
Also, those with a sweet tooth might like to use the full 2 cups of sugar in the original recipe, which is way too sweet in my opinion. 1.5 cups still tastes sweet, but 1.3 cups is borderline. Next time b”n I will keep it to 1.5 cups.
Torah613TorahParticipantTap Tap Trio
Torah613TorahParticipantDY: We don’t know if it was necessary. Maybe it was the last zechus necessary to allow the good thing to happen. ?????? ?????? ?????? ?? ???
Torah613TorahParticipantI would like to take back my earlier comment. It was thoughtless and I should not have written it.
Torah613TorahParticipantCharliehall: They are all “modern” Gedolim. Poor choice of words, but you know what I mean.
As for your second point, that’s exactly what I’m trying to say. In an empirical, provable field, it’s much easier to have a religious perspective.
Torah613TorahParticipantBrony, I was wondering the same thing.
Torah613TorahParticipantCollege graduates get a special student rate.
Torah613TorahParticipantVogue: Did your mother have Professor Gilderoy Lockhart?
Torah613TorahParticipantWhy does it bother you?
Torah613TorahParticipantDivorced women are generally excellent employees who can spend more time with students then others.
Single men are not hired in girl’s schools in general, for obvious reasons.
Torah613TorahParticipantDY: Because the Torah’s Author is Omnipotent, Omnipresent and Omniscient.
Exactly, I like the way you put it and agree.
Torah613TorahParticipantI hear.
Suppose all the abortions were to save the mother’s life.
It’s easy. Whatever gender you claim to be, or is used in your examples, I just go with the opposite for that thread. Being an anonymous person online and all, it really doesn’t matter what gender you choose to be.
DY: Feel free. 🙂
Torah613TorahParticipant?????? ?????? ??’ ????? ???? ?? ???? ?????
I think you’re a troll.
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