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January 29, 2018 4:32 pm at 4:32 pm in reply to: Chabad Shlichus – Risk of Sacrificing Own Family’s Ruchniyos? #1459017ToiParticipant
Chabadshlucha- Why all the present tense about the Rebbe? Can you be mikushar to someone who has passed on?
ToiParticipantGadolhadorah- You’re not supposed to understand chumash at your age the way you understood it at three. A primitive understanding of the avos should not serve as your yardstick for life.
I think there are two factors to consider here. The chovos halevavos writes that there is no such thing as a rishus- everything is either a mitzvah or aveirah, depending on intent and whether it’s the yetzer harah trying to pull down the long road to actually doing overt issurim. That said, everyone’s personal avodah depends on their level of bechira and their madreiga in closeness to Hashem. If R’ Chaim Kanievsky started experimenting with briskets, we’d all understand he had gone senile. Where he’s holding, being a foodie cannot be considered erlich. It suggests and indulgence of the senses, purely for pleasure, unbecoming of the Gadol Hador. For someone who regularly engages in issurim chamurim, diverting their taivos to food could be considered a mitzvah, taming more serious activities and perhaps weaning off them. At their level, being a foodie could be wonderful.
Most of us are somewhere in the middle. (Wolf will undoubtedly chime in here that farbeit for him to be anywhere else than the bottom of the barrel, if I haven’t forgotten the CR entirely). Being in the middle means each of us needs to assess, honestly, whether we’re indulging purely for the sake of pleasure, or actually trying to appreciate Hashem’s creations. I personally have a very difficult time believing that a man who does things for the sake of Heaven would be caught dead ‘horeving’ over a slab of meat; maybe by a woman it’s different. If someone is genuinely trying to get closer to Hashem, being a foodie (focusing a great deal of energy and time on preparing and eating the most delicious food you can find) doesn not seem like a productive lifestyle, from a spiritual perspective, and probably can’t be considered erlich.
ToiParticipantIt sounds like you really need to open up to someone in real life. Internet relationships/friendships cannot fill an emotional void. You should speak to a therapist- they can work wonders for you; help clear up your pain, and help you connect with the important people in your life. Best of luck.
ToiParticipantWhy not?
ToiParticipantAs long as it’s not ‘manshvigger’, it’s cool by me.
ToiParticipantHi Syag. Sis is married and living in lakewood. For almost a year. Time flies.
ToiParticipantWhen they blow the dumb air-raid siren in EY, you can’t even hear it, the kol torah in beis medrash drowns out the tzionim.
I have no idea if this is even relevant, didn’t read the thread, just getting back into gear.
ToiParticipantHey DY, I’m pretty sure you count. Nice to see you PBA. Can someone give me a heads up who plays left wing these days so I know who to look out for?
ToiParticipantI think it depends on whether they are actually offensive, like blackface, or dumb things that fairy snowflakes think are offensive.
ToiParticipantNot sure why I came back, not sure how long I’ll stay , but for the time being, it’s nice to see some familiar names. Anyone from the old guard still post (Sam2, GAW, PBA, etc.)?
January 21, 2018 6:17 pm at 6:17 pm in reply to: Could we have dinosaurs if we wanted them? #1454065ToiParticipantThe egg came first anyway. It’s a Maharil Diskin in Parshas Bereishis. Pff.
January 21, 2018 6:17 pm at 6:17 pm in reply to: How to deal with Disrespectful sons-in-law – “Bnei Torah” #1454064ToiParticipantMore money is always the answer. Dish out more. Alternatively, knock your eidim silly with a rolling pin- it’ll put him in his place.
ToiParticipantR Sholom Schechters yeshiva is nearby in Givat Shaul. Perhaps get the office number and ask them?
ToiParticipantObama
January 8, 2018 8:16 am at 8:16 am in reply to: Saying L’shana Haba’ah B’Yerushalayim in Eretz Yisroel #1444439ToiParticipantpretty sure today’s Yerushalayim is not what the Yidden are waiting for. If you don’t say it, you’re missing the boat.
June 25, 2017 7:34 am at 7:34 am in reply to: Book Review – One Above and Seven Below: A Consumer's Guide to Orthodox Judaism #1303336ToiParticipantThis happened to have caught my eye. I stopped posting but feel compelled to add my two cents. I read a large portion of the book, and feel the base message is misleading and silly. He basically argues that the label we use as chareidi is a misnomer (could be), and that we’re all chareidi (could be). Who cares? What the larger frum world means when they say chareidi is religious zealots from MS who throw things at cops and yell nazis. The literal translation of the word is irrelevant. Call them what you like, it doesn’t change the greater public’s distaste for those people.
February 1, 2017 6:12 pm at 6:12 pm in reply to: Who do you find more funny: popa_bar_abba or ZeesKite? #1213993ToiParticipantme
ToiParticipantHa! I just saw my own posts above and busted a gut laughing. Don’t remember being so funny.
For really funny-named foods, you gotta come to Israel- seriously. Shugi pitzee anyone?
ToiParticipanti know. where’s the sense of humor this site used to have
buy a blacker shpitzel.
ToiParticipantbuy a blacker hat. duh.
ToiParticipantIt’s funny (like this milk smells funny funny) to come back see Sam2 using hashtags. Eich noflu hagiborim…
(agav, nice to see you)
ToiParticipantTask manager.
ToiParticipantI just checked K9- 27000 writes, 8000 reads. Thats too much.
I don’t wan to lose the particularly-fast-keit to any filters.
gofish- have you looked up the actual tech specs, whether it uses RAM, CPU, etc.? Thanks
Thanks all- I’ll look into venishmartem and Webchaver
ToiParticipantGTBH,J
ToiParticipantHoly Shnitzel. hashgacha P. I never even check the CR anymore- haven’t posted in forever, but happened to look and found this at the top of the list. K’orned beef!! gadlus.
ToiParticipantIf i remember correctly its a machlokes lihalachah the rosh and another rishon if you have to listen to your neder.
ToiParticipantha! i figured out the yeshiva in about….a second
ToiParticipantcheck out the maharal on the sugyos in pesachim in perek mi shehaya. he is very sharf when dicussing ‘those’ (meaning us) who think chazal were cavemen. he explains the whole gemara of the size of the world kidarko, whats davka and whats not.
May 20, 2015 8:20 pm at 8:20 pm in reply to: 'Halachic Dinner" – What do you think about it? #1083223ToiParticipantminuval birishus hatorah
ToiParticipant“2. What about the damage to their ruchniyot by not serving.”
honestly, i dont post much anymore, but that statement is utterly ridiculous.
ToiParticipantcome on people, somethimes you havta chap you are just out of your league.
ToiParticipantmimah nifshach- either it should be emeenah and bituchin or emunah and bitachon
ToiParticipanti was there yesterday they def have at least a mummy and shrunken head. more then that i dont remember.
ToiParticipantits a machlokes rishonim as to whether al hakos is dioraysah or not.
ToiParticipantyou dont need a hechsher for cigs. they tobacco itself is nifsal me’achilas kelev by the time you put it in your body and theres no achshiveih because its not achila. so sadi my rov, a prominent yerushalmi posek in yerushalyim who incidentally holds it assur to smoke.
ToiParticipantI didnt. i just broke my no posting shitta for bein hazmanim.
ToiParticipantwhat if youre on the moon and visibility is zero, fog etc., so you cant see it?
ToiParticipantI think the chazon ish has a teshuva about what to do in space. i think twelve hours exactly always.
ToiParticipanti have a hard time believing he threw it up. R moshe himself writes in a teshuva that whiskey blenders could be problematic so he refrains from drinking whiskey with a blender inside when not in public. cholov stam is lichoirah less problematic.
ToiParticipantcheck out the maharil diskin on bereishis. rashi three times comments on the words in the passuk- nefesh chaya- and he learns that the egg came first.
ToiParticipantyekke2- whether we exist or not is a machlokes between the telzer rav and the Leshem.
ToiParticipantive had 8 cts for 4 years, most of them look like they just came out of the box. the 2 pfs i had both ripped at the cuff. ct’s customer service is great, pf’s acted snidely from the time i asked for shipping to lakewood.
ToiParticipantdef. CT. unbeatable quality and style.
ToiParticipantha i crack myself up.
ToiParticipanthonestly, my first post in ages and you could think no one appreciates some good humor.geez.
ToiParticipantwatch out for the pincers. blasted things.
ToiParticipantgood question
January 29, 2015 10:45 pm at 10:45 pm in reply to: Are Borsalino hats more stylish than other fedoras? #1056900ToiParticipantany real ben torah can tell an off brand a mile away.
ToiParticipantthe presence of trumpets
ToiParticipantwhy doesnt someone take him out of the stupid pit?
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