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  • in reply to: Shadchanus #1508867
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    @Me- It’s mifurash in SH”A, don’t remember where. There are limudim from pesukim in Navi regarding how it gets divided up among the different parties involved.

    in reply to: Yeshiva Ohr Reuven #1507918
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    Nope.

    in reply to: Getting a ride with someone from the opposite gender #1507917
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    Just tie her to the roof, problem solved.

    in reply to: Yeshivas in Israel #1506394
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    Perhaps providing the background of the boy looking for a yeshiva, where he is on the ‘yeshivish’ spectrum, and what he’s looking for in a Yeshiva will help us help you.

    in reply to: Capitalone 360 ATM dollar withdrawals in Jerusalem? #1506356
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    I think in kikar tziyon, also known as crack square. Don’t know times, etc.

    in reply to: Wife Driving or Husband Driving? #1506235
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    I mean, does legally designating yourself as a woman give you the same right as a biological woman to enter the leagues, should you prove talented enough.

    in reply to: Gog umagog #1506234
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    Do you guys use snorkels and scuba gear to search the soup? Did someone drown? Is it chicken, mushroom, barley, or vegetable. Is it pureed? These are very important questions, cuz visibility will be highly affected depending on the soup your searching.

    in reply to: Yerushalmi Briskers pronunciation of Hebrew. #1506233
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    If your posts is written in regular dumb person english youll have a better time getting answers just though youd like to know

    in reply to: Wife Driving or Husband Driving? #1505917
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    Or allow them to play in a women’s basketball league?

    in reply to: Banning All Missionary Activity Inside Israel #1505916
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    zdad- Those Jews left practicing Judaism due to financial pressures, or a desire to join American/European culture, not an institutionalized antipathy for God and his Torah.

    in reply to: Banning All Missionary Activity Inside Israel #1505518
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    That’s an extremely complicated issue, with ramifications you probably didn’t fully think through.

    in reply to: Gog umagog #1505517
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    Interestingly enough, the OP’s op crystallizes the difference in ideology between them and everyone else. Because typical Judaism understands and accepts that Moshiach’s coming won’t be all champagne and roses (yom hadin hagadol, etc.) we know that when we daven for Moshiach we aren’t/shouldn’t be davening with selfish motives, because all we want is giluy kavod Shamayim in this world, so who really cares if that means we’ll suffer on a personal level- we want it because it’s ratzon Hashem and ritzoneinu la’asos Ritzoncha. To come to this madreiga is obviously difficult, but that’s our avodah- to want it because it’s Hashem’s will, regardless of how we will personally benefit or the opposite, not to try and find chiddushim/pshatim or pretend/gloss over what’s coming. All your doing is admitting your motives are selfish, because now you can get the goodies and not be worried about the hard parts. But that’s all you wanted in the first place, isn’t it.

    in reply to: Gog umagog #1505348
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    This thread is loony. Chabadskies are the bomb.

    in reply to: Wife Driving or Husband Driving? #1504979
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    New is a relative term. You’re pretty new, too.

    My remarks were both sexist and accurate.

    This place is not so so fun anymore….

    in reply to: Wife Driving or Husband Driving? #1504902
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    @Teal and @CTLAWYER- I get it, you guys are new here.

    You don’t know me or my style. That’s okay. Just chill and understand I’m usually or at least always posting tongue in cheek.

    Actually, on second thought, I am a sexist troll. Stinks for you snowflakes, I guess.

    And honestly, there’s nothing sexist about saying women can’t drive as well as men. Just like it’s not racist to say that young black males commit a disproportionate amount of crimes. It’s just life.

    in reply to: Wife Driving or Husband Driving? #1504750
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    I think you’re trying to make regular machoness into hashkafa. Most men will want to drive because they feel all the wonderful male feelings associated with being in charge. Also, women in general stink at driving, so most men will probably want to put themselves in the best position to get home alive, ie., they drive.

    You’re trying to avoid taking out the garbage, that’s all.

    in reply to: chazaka meiikara #1504363
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    ubiquitin- I was really just ridiculing the tzu shtell. Cuz it’s really dumb.

    in reply to: chazaka meiikara #1504096
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    lol,wut

    in reply to: Chabad Minhag #1503153
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    Oh boy, here we go again… Isn’t it because the Rebbe walks down the middle?

    in reply to: Am I allowed to eat plain flour? #1503152
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    Like Ahavas chinam pointed out, today’s flour is generally washed as wheat, and could be osur midi’oraisah. Before I found this out, I actually asked a posek about selling it for Pesach (I don’t sell chametz gamur), and he mamash looked at me like I fell off the moon

    in reply to: Chol HaMoed Coffee Room Reunion #1502777
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    Meh, I left for a while and decided to post a bit recently- people are flippant-ya never know.

    in reply to: Yiddeshe March Madness… #1500237
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    Ya see, this is where eating all that tofu will get you.

    I find it pitiful you don’t have a clue how hashkafically off this is.

    in reply to: Space-Ocean #1497306
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    Aha.

    in reply to: Moshiach Here #1496271
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    LC- I’m not sure who gave you the right to ‘expect’ anything. It’s not my ‘approach’ as if I made this one up and am trying to see if it’s viable- it’s our tafkid, tachlis, and avodah.

    CS- I decided after the last thread not to answer any of your posts that pertain to Judaism ( though we can discuss potato kugel), seeing as you’ve been pre-programmed and brainwashed to a frightening extent. Just thought I should at least let you know why I’m not replying.

    Laskern- Never did I imply that it’s unimportant to want to give nachas ruach to Hashem. My post was a simple rebuttal to the notion that it’s our job to sit and deliberate how to bring Moshiach. It’s not. We want him to come, we yearn for him to come, and we understand that doing what Hashem wants from us the best way make that happen, but in no way does that become our avodah. Spend time horeving on a R’ Akiva Eiger, not mulling ways to bring Moshiach. I once heard a mashal, I believe bisheim R’ Elya Svei, though it may have been someone else. Spoiler alert: it’s a mashal to describe the way traditional judaism feels about chabad, but I’m not bringing it here for that, but to make my point. A king once notified a simple village person that he intended to visit his home on a certain day and stay for a short while. Obviously, the average hovel was in no condition to receive the king, so the derfel yid (why not make him a jew) and his wife began preparing their humble home to receive his majesty. As they worked, it became evident they would not finish in time. For every repair they made, the kids, or chickens, or goats, or village drunk, managed to break something else, sending them into a never ending spiral of break-and-repair. When the day arrived, there was still much to be done, and no time to finish. While the children rushed outside to receive the king, the wife asked her husband, who had remained indoors, frantically trying to accomplish what he could, why he, too, didn’t go greet the monarch. The husband replied,” It’s for children to go singing and dancing in front of the king when he comes- I have to make sure His home ican be considered a dwelling place of the king.”

    That’s what we’re doing- not figuring out eitzos to bring Moshiach, but readying this world to receive him.

    in reply to: Moshiach Here #1496022
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    Umm, isn’t it a bit thick to assume you can be privy at all to Hashem’s cheshbonos? We know that Hashem does everything for our good, and we want Moshiach to come in order to be migaleh kovod shomayim in the briyah, so sit tight and wait. People being murdered en masse doesn’t somehow ‘force’ Hashem’s hand c”v, and He’ll bring the geulah when the time is right. Your part is to do mitzvos, learn Troah, do massim tovim, and have emunah and bitachon. Ad kan.

    in reply to: Challenge: Help Me Find an Intriguing Hagaddah #1495767
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    Davka in english?

    in reply to: Is there any food better than an excellent potato kugel? #1495768
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    My brother will openly say in front of his wife that my wife’s kugel is the best he’s ever had. It is so super scrumptious, I put down full pans at a time. And she agrees with him, so she doesn’t even get insulted. Trust me, potatoes and onion dream of the day they get their tikkun by being in my wife’s kugel.

    in reply to: Yodeling #1495769
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    It’s friggin annoying, so no.

    in reply to: Minhagim After The Original Reason Is Gone #1495558
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    “…maybe even moist…”
    HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

    Avi- there are rishonim on the sugya that those who have a minhag not to do mayim achronim are somech on. The rest of y’all better do it.

    in reply to: Is there any food better than an excellent potato kugel? #1495555
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    @mentsch1- You’re hilarious. I was trying to find a way to communicate that exact thought.

    in reply to: Whistling #1495527
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    Holy epic thread bump, batman!

    I believe R Akiva Eiger has a tshuva somewhere where he says that although the minhag in earlier times was to pray with hands folded/interlocked, we stopped doing it when the christians started doing it too. Much like bringing trees in to shuk on Shavuos.

    in reply to: What’s your wallet? #1494816
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    I jus have ma packebook.

    in reply to: Wife older than husband: How is it working out? #1493751
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    This thread has turned mighty weird…

    in reply to: Who should lightthe Diaspora torch on Yom HaAtzmaut #1493666
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    @DY- Thanks, that’s a much more concise way of putting it. 😛

    in reply to: Who should lightthe Diaspora torch on Yom HaAtzmaut #1493618
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    @ziongate- Your post is totally and utterly paradoxical. The zionists are bad. They founded a movement against God. They do not like Him, did not like Him, and, institutionally, will never like Him. I love EY. I live here, in the face of very difficult circumstances. I’m not going to go into specifics, but suffice it to say that in this instance, you’re preaching to the choir. How in the blazes did you transition from what gedolim said about EY, the land God gave us, to supporting zionism?! How in the blazes does hashgacha pratis on an unparalleled scale lead to “If you love the land, you observe Yom Haatzmaut…. AND Yom Yerushalayim…. Because that’s what Hashem orchestrated..” Why in the blazes to you insist on subscribing to a movement that hates God simply because you love EY?! Where is the connection?!!! There is zero logic in your statement. You agree that love of EY does not dictate that you are an institutional zionist, yet somehow it means you must celebrate the founding of a state? What in the blazes? Did you throw your brain into the ocean on the way over here? Argh. Just Argh. (This is without going into the present reality that there is very little old religious zionism left, let’s leave that out. First, let’s have you make some sense.)

    in reply to: Wife older than husband: How is it working out? #1493620
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    My wife’s taller. It works. I make her get all the stuff from high up. And when there’s stuff lower down, I make her get that too. Cuz she’s the wife.

    in reply to: So many feelings toys r us is going out of business!!!!😢 #1493574
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    Blowing a lot of my bar mitzvah money there, oh yeah…

    in reply to: How Careful Must We Be When Eating Out With A Hechsher #1493573
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    It’s well-known that the OU is the gold standard in physical hashgacha, but not in the level of chumra they’re makpid. That’s why, as someone above pointed out, lots of people don’t eat plain OU meat, not because they don’t trust the OU tod do what it says it will, but because the level they stick to is less than what yeshivaleit are comfortable with. Examples are cases where they paskin leniently about bishul akum, etc., meaning the hashgacha is great, but the psak, not so much. Now, before I get flack for this, I KNOW the psakim are from R Belsky, you just need to understand he was paskening for a national hechsher, not yeshivaleit. I once heard someone explain that as the reason for maintaining an OU and a chaissidish hechsher: one to know the food is kosher, and the other for the chumros.

    in reply to: Who should lightthe Diaspora torch on Yom HaAtzmaut #1493485
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    Avi K- The land of Israel and state of israel are about as synonymous as black and white. Why would you insist on supporting a movement (largely dead) that was founded on principle of and continues to operate a systematic divestment of religion. Can one not claim to love the land Hashem gave to the Jews and still call out the zionists for what they truly are? Is your love so great for EY that you’d subscribe to evangelical christianity when they too espouse an idea of jews living in israel? Why is that the deciding factor in following the movement? Do you not see how much they despise Hashem and His Torah? You are mamash out to lunch. Enjoy your hummus…

    in reply to: Who should lightthe Diaspora torch on Yom HaAtzmaut #1492095
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    Nope, just not celebrating.

    in reply to: Minhag Overrides General Halacha #1491719
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    whadhapenamypost??

    i don’t see one missing

    in reply to: Who should lightthe Diaspora torch on Yom HaAtzmaut #1491137
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    Can I be nominated to put it out?

    in reply to: Eating Gebroks on Pesach #1486585
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    @Joseph- isn’t that due to a famous maaseh where he said that for some reason and didn’t want any chashash of sheker, so didn’t eat it in the future? I assume his real minhag was to eat.

    in reply to: Putting on Tefilin on Chal Hamoed #1486584
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    I like cookies on Chol hamoed. Macaroons if it’s pesach. Its my minhag.

    in reply to: Leben’s – With A Spoon Or A Straw? #1486425
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    And never with an apostrophe.

    in reply to: Leben’s – With A Spoon Or A Straw? #1486424
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    Spork. You need the pointy parts for when it congeals a bit.

    in reply to: Consulting the Igros #1485791
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    Haleivi- I don’t think the differences in Kabbalah caused the split, I think each difference was seen as another way the chassidim were tearing down traditional litvishe yiddishkeit. Its well known that this particular difference caused the Gaon a lot of anguish. R Dessler’s attempt at reconciling the two shittos was, I think, no more than that, becuase a, it’s a shtikkel insufficient, b, doesn’t really shtim so well with either side.

    in reply to: He’s Hot, She’s Cold; Windows Open or Closed? #1484502
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    Let her put on a sweater and go bake me cookies in a matza oven. She’ll be warm, and I’ll have my cookies.

    in reply to: Badatz Beit Yosef�Israel #1483237
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    Most american, frum people in Yerushalayim won’t eat BBY.

    The way someone once explained it to me is that R’ Ovadia created a hechsher for sephardim with the same idea in mind as the rabbanut. Ashkenazim have psakim that sephardim won’t rely on lihalach (ie. hashlachas kisem) and wanted an alternative. He knew everyone would listen to him, and made a hechsher that relies on lots of kulas so all the sephardim would at least eat that and not treif/plain rabbanut (which uses kulas that are totally unacceptable lihalacha for sphardim, as opposed to extremely bidi’eved for ashkenazim.) The bare standard for their chickens is actually very good, so it’s a shtikl funny: you end up with a hechsher that was created as a bidi’eved with very good chickens, and people think that reflects on the general hechsher, which it absolutely does not.

    in reply to: Badatz Beit Yosef�Israel #1482118
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    When it comes to shechita of chickens, any on the ball, nonpolitical Rav will tell you they’re top notch. It’s everything besides chickens. I’ll explain later.

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