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March 31, 2012 12:10 am at 12:10 am in reply to: Are these young women nuts, selfish, out of it or something else? #865124ToiParticipant
here’s one for the books. My wife and i were outside on the sidewalk talking. a lady comes running down the sidewalk (downhill and clearly in a rush), but my wife and i had no time to get out of the way. she rams full speed into my wife, who apologizes, and the lady answers “Well! If you wouldnt be standing in middle of the road…” and carries on. if i wouldnt have been so speechless i would have kicked her. hard. in fact, i probably will if i see her again.
ToiParticipantI asked one of the head nanachs and he told me that the point of all there shtusim is to attach oneself to r nachman and by doing so, you save yourslef from eternal damnation. ring any bells?
March 31, 2012 12:01 am at 12:01 am in reply to: Separate Times For Bochurim & Sem Girls In Gateshead #1029676ToiParticipantall the boys are quite awareof the reasons for these takanos. and that should be enough of a reason for the girls to go along with them.
ToiParticipanthe he. scrutinize.
ToiParticipant147- Who, taught you how, to use, commas.
zdad- Things worse then facebook dont make it good. what problem do you have with a school trying to do what it can for its girls?
ToiParticipantGoyim think that freedom means marrying who they want; I know this isnt what you wanted to hear, but theres no point.
ToiParticipantYes, schools should ban facebook.
ToiParticipantI think we can welcome our newest troll.
ToiParticipantyungerman- its a sugya in tomid nishchat. and other places.
oomis- 18 minutes is a massive chumra (ehich we all follow- i’m not debating it), and in reality, it takes alot longer.
ToiParticipantobviously it depends. use you brains.
ToiParticipantHalevi- I bavorned the rishonim before- if the gemara shtels tzu kriya to toch kiday dibbur it would be muchach that its not a daasdik’ din.
ToiParticipantspeaking of nedarim- can anyone satisfactorally explain the gemara on pay zatin amud aleph in nedarim which touches on the subject of toch kidday dibbur. the gemara is muchach its not a chazaradike’ din, and the pashtus would be that in some form, the maaseh hasnt yet finished, but kiddushin etc. are different because its a chalois, not stam a maaseh. any thoughts?
ToiParticipantrabbiofberlin-hoyil dchozi- your guests may eat gebrokts.
ToiParticipantAny baal habbus who is actively participating in his communities seed program is a self-proclaimed am ha’aretz.
March 27, 2012 11:26 am at 11:26 am in reply to: Why Are Divorces Usually Initiated by the Wife? #870657ToiParticipantIts probably some fault of all the yeshivish kollel people.
ToiParticipantCuz its a possuk in the torah.
ToiParticipantThe early bird gets the worm. The early worm gets eaten.
ToiParticipantDont make fun of minhagim. You can make them b4.
ToiParticipantwhoops
ToiParticipanteven if ya chometz isnt botel bishishim.
ToiParticipantThats exactly what my kavanah was. This is a halachic issue, and can be discussed while keeping kids in the dark. One posters request to clse a thread doesnt mean im doing something wrong.
ToiParticipantYT-But scotch doesnt need to be and existed far earlier than bourbon. It also doesnt taste like someone is punching you in the stomach. yuch, i hate bourbon.
ToiParticipantno pray tell!! and just for the record, holding hands is nehlal, and if you had a good shmooze youd know.
ToiParticipantScotch is by far the yummiest.
ToiParticipantYou have a chiyuv ksubah to your wife. Whatever is nechlal in that is a mitzva, a chiyuv, and makes Hashem happy. Anything over that which one does for himself is indulgence. I asked my chosson teacher how to avoid it and he said “daven”. If you think youre being a tzaddik by following these rules, youre wrong; it’s chav li’acheirim. More then that, youre copping out on a chiyuv di’oraysoh and a very special thing. And youre destroying your wife.
ToiParticipantyid.period- R Schwab disagrees vehemently with your statement above, no matter how you view TIDE.
ToiParticipantJoke.
March 18, 2012 12:16 pm at 12:16 pm in reply to: Strategies for When Getting Pulled Over by a Cop #861092ToiParticipantsay “hey! Look over there.” and drive away.
March 18, 2012 12:06 pm at 12:06 pm in reply to: For Sam2, yitayningwut, Jothar, and the other Yoreh Deah people #861732ToiParticipantSam4- How abot not eating, lets say, beets. Cuz in europe they came to the store covered in flour and therefore people were machmir not to use them. Nowadays, thats not true, so theyd be fine. If coke didnt make kosher l’pesach one year, that wouldnt become a minhag right? this too. Sorry im ranting but this drives me nuts.
ToiParticipantI’ve never changed my sn.
ToiParticipantGreat, so your maskim.
March 17, 2012 6:16 pm at 6:16 pm in reply to: For Sam2, yitayningwut, Jothar, and the other Yoreh Deah people #861729ToiParticipantPoint 1. How the heck would you eat horseradish. I hate romain lettuce.
Point 2. Even if this is only a chumra, its certainly more understandable than several minhagim that came from Europe that bi’shaytum were nogei’ah and now have no pracrical application and are still practiced out of ignorance. They are minhagei shtus. This chumra is a psak from a big rav.
ToiParticipantIf i remember correctly the mishna brura discusses women making brochos in front of other women while they are unclothed. I think he comes out that one woman seeing another unclothed wouldnt be a problem as long as shes sitting. not sure if this’ll get through.
ToiParticipantuneeq- Torah lishma is the greatest darga. to decide otherwise based on some logical explanation is downright wrong. what your emotions tell you in regard to learning torah lishma is also wrong. Torah is meant to be learnt lishma, fartig. knowing halocho isnt called not learning lishma.
ToiParticipantif youre not convinced about the chumra of a dirabanan, see R’ Yonahs shaar tshuva, shaar gimmel.
ToiParticipantim not sure why you thought my posts were serious. my second post was meant to illustrate the ridiculousness of my first. seriously, come on.
ToiParticipantEven if he wasnt as bad as others in his time, it doesnt make him a tzaddik; there are bigger and smaller anti-semites. im not saying he was one at all, im just arguing the point. for the record, i really enjoy reading shakespeare.
ToiParticipantif done correctly, the daf is wonderful. ive been in several shuls learning while the daf was going on and ruba diruba of the men are dozing or checking their email on their bbs. thats not called correctly. and men in koillel learn 10-12 hours a day and learning that much is tough, even if you have a geshmak. i bet you all my money in the world that if those baalibatim you know would learn ten hours a day for five months theyd also need a break. its not that they bi’etzem have more geshmak, its that an hour a day is a tease and only a morsel. its like finishing the meal after the first course; they want more. theyd be stuffed after the second, whereas a yungerman, a good one, isnt stuffed until hes had two portions of dessert. gedolim also took breaks. im gonna stop typing this cuz its getting me mad.
ToiParticipantIf you want a normal family life, if you want your kids to feel loved, if you want to speak to people you care about instead of texting them four words a month, dont get a toy. get a phone.
ToiParticipantwolf- purple people are bad.
ToiParticipantA computer doesnt become the gadol hador just because ou downloaded shas. The keyli is the deciding factor as to whether the torah therein should be honored. A person who lives not in line with torah hashkafa and principle is not to be honored. I’m not talking about anyone specifically, even if itch decides i am, i’m simply disagreeing with the argument made above.
ToiParticipanti think gerrer marriages are the happiest.
ToiParticipantare you implying that we, the regulars here, do not have a life outside of the CR?
ToiParticipantStop prying. stalker.
ToiParticipantthe difference is their understanding of what is nechlal in the chiyuv onah. according to the standard interpretation, they arent even yotzeh it.
ToiParticipantK, you can all yell at me, but i’m pointing out that its kind of ironic that mr. more went back to revive a three month old thread by…..mr. corey.
That being said, I think its immature to daven for things that arent really importnant. and if they are that important to you and youre an adult, they shouldnt be. Of course you can, and of course Hashem wil hear it, but is that what you want to show to the Melech Malchei Hamlachim? That youre davening for a team and not for the varios things going on in klal yisroal that really matter?
ToiParticipantI chapped that you were bringing down a rashi in megilla, just didnt chap the oisfeer.
ToiParticipantdo it now. its really not fun to wait a week and pay more between date three and four.
ToiParticipantWhat he means is that the daf has become what has become of chukk yisrael. people daven it up and gain nothing, and if that could be fixed, it should.
ToiParticipantThere sooo arent.
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