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I love to cook but I’m not in the closet although I am in the dog house. My wife basically doesn’t like it when I cook, although I always clean up after myself. I like to make up recipes in my head that mostly I never end up cooking. I can taste flavors in my mind so I can easily make up any recipe for anything you want.
theprof1ParticipantDefinitely the amount of water. Your recipe is ok but for one point. Gefilta fish just isn’t the same without real fish cooking in the same pot.
theprof1ParticipantMod, no question that Hitler was amalek of the 1st degree. And if you read Daniel Goldhagen’s book, Hitler’s Willing Executioners, you’ll see that the German nation knew exactly what was happening. But the Swiss knew too and they are more amalek than anybody, although “humanely” so. At least half of Europe under the Nazis were willing collobarators and executioners too. And the fact is that halocho b’yedua she’eisov soneh es yakov, all goyim hate us. I definitely understand anyone with your policy but you can’t mandate that on the rest of us.
theprof1ParticipantThe only product I won’t buy is Bayer aspirin, Bayer made the gas. At this point I see no reason not to buy German products. It’s been OK to take German reparations money all these past 50 years, in the untold billions? The Germans can never ever make any type of atonement for the terrible horrors inflicted on our nation. No amount of reparations can pay us for what they did. But if we can take their money, we can buy their products. Do you buy Swiss watches? The Swiss are much more anti-semitic than Germans. The Swiss were smart enough to stay out of it.
theprof1ParticipantIt is a well known halachic rule – we at this point do NOT paskin a halacho straight out of the gemorah. We have rishonim and achronim and a quite decent book called Shulchan Orech that we follow. We do not celebrate the Tu B’Av simcha any more at all, no where in klal yisroel.
November 12, 2010 3:52 pm at 3:52 pm in reply to: Do You Put Out A Flag On American Holidays? #1023066theprof1ParticipantYes we are certainly allowed to have sholom with neighbors and we should have hakoras hatov to our medina shel chesed.
theprof1ParticipantRetzicha is not just “any” aveirah. You can’t just read a sefer and say ok i’m doing teshuvah. I suggest to go to not just a local orthodox rabbi but rather to an accepted godol such as a rosh yeshiva, mashgiach, chasidish rebbe. and go to the top in each category. Like Rav Moshe Wolfson or Rav Matisyahu Solomon. However if you’re just interested as an intellectual exercise, then you can see what various seforim say about it.
November 12, 2010 2:52 pm at 2:52 pm in reply to: prepaid restaurant arrangements for Shabbos in Miami #708491theprof1ParticipantMoq its not a problem at all. You are pre-paying for your meals. Its really as if you bought your food on Friday and eat at home except you’re not eating at home, you’re eating in the restaurant. Im not addressing anything done in the restaurant on shabbos. There should be a mashgiach. But again, they can do anything you would do at home, if you hired help for shabbos. Or if you were making shabbos sheva brochos in a hall with a caterer and waiters.
theprof1ParticipantWhile many yeshivish circles paskin like the aruch hashulchan, who often is at odds with the mishene brura, most american yeshiva grads and rabbonim paskin almost straight mishne brura. I have yet to see a “black hat” shul or chasidish shul without a mishne brura. Every kolel which learns halocho has MB as the secondary resource, after Tur, as the source for the mechaber. Rav Moshe Feinstein generally went with aruch hashulchan because he said that the author was a rov and has special seyato dishmayo that rabbonim have not to make mistakes while, although the chofetz chaim was a great gaon, he was considered by litvakin as just a talmid chochom baal habos. I heard this from Rav Yakov Kaminetsky. I can’t believe that anyone can argue that the MB in our generation, is the prime resource for a baal habos to look up a quick fix halocho answer. Across all communities and heritages.
November 12, 2010 1:48 pm at 1:48 pm in reply to: prepaid restaurant arrangements for Shabbos in Miami #708489theprof1ParticipantLook in the Jewish Press. They have all the listings. I’ve gone many times to the restaurant in the days Inn on collins and 40th St. Very good.
November 11, 2010 10:36 pm at 10:36 pm in reply to: Falling Down and Getting Right Back up Again #709616theprof1ParticipantCommenting on the Post name. The Kotzker Rebbe said, if you fall into the mud, what do you do? Wallow in it and cry oy i’m dirty? No, you get up, wash yourself up and put on new clothes and go on with life. You also don’t look back at that. But what you will do is possibly institute a control so that it doesn’t happen again. The same is with aveiros. You sinned, get up, wash yourself off, put on new clothes and go on with avodas Hashem.
theprof1ParticipantMy daughters daven shachris, mincha, and maariv. Not kidding. BP guy there’s something wrong with that?
November 11, 2010 10:28 pm at 10:28 pm in reply to: Fathers and brothers dancing with the Kallah #709228theprof1ParticipantOh well, I posted the siman in Kitzur earlier but i guess nobody looked at it. After all, if you really do feel taht looking at women is OK, then I guess the Kitzur is irrelevant. And Mod, Tu B’av is not done anymore and you know that. Whatever the reason was back then it was. It isn’t anymore. I’ll be hit on the head for this but who cares. We have a pejorative term when someone gets engaged NOT through a shadchan. Who was the shadchan? Choshku (general translation means desire). Basically it means they met somehow and decided this is it. Of course many will say hey so whats wrong with that? nothing.
theprof1ParticipantHow come nobody mentioned Shicawgoh?
theprof1ParticipantThe Scot’s accent actually is a British accent affected by drinking single malt scotch all the time. The Irish accent comes from drinking too much Irish coffee. The South African accent is a blend of British and Boer.
November 11, 2010 2:20 pm at 2:20 pm in reply to: Fathers and brothers dancing with the Kallah #709166theprof1ParticipantA23, Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 152-13. A father is allowed to dance with his daughter, brothers are not allowed to dance with their sister. Even so the dancing should not be in a mixed atmosphere. The mitzva tantz is made with women at one side and men at the other. The brothers, uncles et al, dance with the kallah with a gartel, never hand in hand. The yshivish weddings generally have the kallah coming into the men’s section and sitting next to the choson and the men and boys dancing in front.
theprof1ParticipantThere’s an edition of the Mishna Brura with a commentary by Rabbi Avrohom Noach Klein that notes every halachic difference between the psak din of the Chabad Shulchan Aruch and the Mishna Brura. Before the M’B was published, Polish chasidim used Shulchan Aruch Harav as their primary source of psak halocho. Thoday almost everybody but Chabad uses the Mishna Brura. Many of the differences are purely chasidic in nature. Basically the Baal HaTanya wanted to make a chasidic kitzur.
theprof1ParticipantLe’maaseh the south african is the best sounding. But its the British accent that impresses people. The Brits are cultured, just like yogurt.
theprof1ParticipantHerring has omega-3 acid and is actually quite healthy for the heart. Its the rest of the diet on shabbos that does the job.
theprof1ParticipantSo nobody even mentions sitting in? I have 5 married children who sat in. That means the dining room or kitchen of the girl’s house. And my 6th, a girl, thinks that going out on a date is disgusting. So did we do a good job brainwashing them? You betcha. I’m proud of my nice chasidishe children.
theprof1ParticipantRabbi about more money, you’re right. Most of the single malt 12s are really good. The 18s are better true but you don’t really have to spend more. I’ve had many very expensive single malts and they are better but as long as I can only afford the 12s and 15s, thats what I drink. Since my wife also likes herring and galler I don’t have a problem.
theprof1ParticipantTorah Times magazine has a very good list of shiurim in every neighborhood.
theprof1ParticipantOMG you guys have no idea of what food goes with which drink. Bourbon after herring? Vodka after herring? Bourbon is good after dinner. Vodka from the freezer goes with caviar. Single malt scotch, being G-d’s gift to humanity, goes anytime anyplace. I had a vodka from rye, wow was that good, can’t recall the name. Had a sweet and yet spicy taste. Too bad I didn’t have any caviar. But I did drink that after egg and onion on shabbos and after galler.
theprof1ParticipantTry matjas from Deli Plus on 18th ave and 57th st. He was the original matjas seller. Best shtiglitz is Schwartz. Of course you can try to make it yourself. Buy whole matjas filets. Lay them straight in a glass long bowl, sprinkle pepper and cover with sliced onions and olive oil. Wait 2 days. Cut up and eat with sliced eggs and tomatoes on crackers. Wash mouth with listerine and hands with deodorant soap.
Another. Buy a schmaltz herring filet (not the same as matjas, beware). Also a little pepper and onions and olive oil. Wait 2 days. Take the filet and cut into tiny pieces. Chop a tomato, onion, add herring pieces, add olive oil. Eat with fresh pumpernickle bread and butter. Wash mouth with listerine and hands with deodorant soap. But stay out of the world anyway.
Best single malt scotch after herring, any herring, is a good smoky one like Laphroaig or Lagavulin. Then eat chulent kishka kugel with smoked deli meats. Drink a good beer like Guinness stout or Zywiec porter or Doppel Spaten Optimator. Go to sleep for 2 hours. Wake up and be a maamin in Hashem and tchiyas hameisim. Never tell a goy to do this. You’ll kill the poor guy.
theprof1ParticipantBP I also find it interesting that grandkids can’t do it. But since all my big grandsons learn in yeshiva from 7:00 AM to 9:00 PM, I really can’t blame them for not coming to shovel my sidewalk. So I gladly pay anybody who comes to my door after a snow the $20 they ask and my grandsons can go on learning.
theprof1ParticipantAccounting is a great profession for a Jewish woman because there are often many per diem jobs around and that’s good if you only want to work 2-3 days a week. Special education is also a very good and rewarding career, helping young children grow. Architect is also a great position and career with per diem work available.
theprof1ParticipantUse a mixed salad, like iceberg romaine arugula. Take Low fat Italian dressing, add a tsp of techina to a cup of dressing and mix. Pour over the salad and toss. I happen to like it a little marinated in the dressing and therefore somewhat wilted and soft.
theprof1ParticipantThis issue is quite rampant in all circles, yeshivish, chasidish, modern ortho. Really good kids who somehow hang around with not so good kids are quite bad influences. I have been approached for a shidduch for my daughter by several people, same boy. Good boy, I know him since he was born. Learns nicely. But after learning he hangs around with boys who are so far from learning and yiddishkeit. And it’s hurting his shidduch chances. I’m not the only one saying no. Everybody who hears his name says no. And everybody says, yes he learns well, yes he’s in yeshiva all day. But….
theprof1ParticipantWolf is exactly correct. If you can’t talk to your boss personally, at least try to call. Only an e-mail is extremely rude. Basically you do what they would do to you. Talk to you in person and rarely give any reason besides we decided to reorg and you were caught on the outside. Wolf’s reason is best.
theprof1ParticipantYou mean people actually go to a wedding at Marina Del Ray for something other than the food? I understand Viznitz, nobody goes there for the food. Nots ure why anybody goes there at all. I guess maybe to meet friends. Oh, choson kallah and families? Yeah I guess so, that too.
theprof1ParticipantWolf, I’m not sure that you really read this post correctly. At any rate, your answer makes no sense. I guess maybe you never made a wedding. The caterer isn’t cheating anybody. You know what you’re ordering. However the caterer will suggest sides that are easiest or cheapest for him to prepare. And the baal simcha will often just take the caterers suggestions. The Beer Mayim soda isn’t usually a baal simcha’s choice. It’s governed by the rules of the caterers or halls rav hamachsir. The chasidishe rabbonim generally won’t allow anything but pure Jewish sodas. If you decide to make a simcha in Viznitz, all you’ll get is Jewish soda, no Coke. At Ateres Chaya and Ateres Chynka you can make a choice.
theprof1ParticipantI would like to give everyone a very meaningful concept. Well known is the story about R’ Akiva and his wife. R’ Akiva came back after 12 years learning and heard her say, I’d gladly allow him to learn another 12 years. So he turned around and went back without saying hello thank you. The question of course is, why didn’t he say thank you. Rav Chaim Smulevitz ztzl answers simply. Because one single instance of 24 years solid learning isn’t the same as two times 12 years learning. Rav Dovid Olewski Shlita, Rosh Yeshiva of the Brooklyn Gerrer Yeshiva said at an Agudah conference, we can take a daily mussar haskel from this vort. Stop in the middle of the day and learn something for a few minutes. Because two times 4 hours with a learning break isn’t the same as one long stretch of 8 hours without learning. I told this to someone once. He told me a few months later that he retold it to his brother, a salesman. His brother told him lately that he decided to do that. Each day, no matter where he was on the road, he would stop his car and learn a mishne. And he said that over the few months his sales literally doubled.
theprof1ParticipantAbe’s place has a great smorg but nothing compares to Marina. Avrohoms has great food though and beautifully presented. I’m on a first name basis with any good food place.
theprof1ParticipantLOl you’re right about beer mayim sodas. Some caterers have been given “permission” to supply Coke in bottles or at least Coke from a machine, if requested.
What’s wrong with soup? Agreed that sometimes the soup isn’t good but most people do want soup at night.
To me a wedding meal is really just my supper so of course the main deal is the entree main dish. If it tastes good who cares what it is. My fave is a good duck. 2nd would be good steak but that’s rare (pun intended). Most places have good chicken. Most of the time the side dishes are terrible, even in the good caterers places. No idea why. Best smorg, Marina Del Ray. Dessert tables depends on what you order. Anybody can order good desserts, no caterer actually makes them.
theprof1Participantmusic (maybe i’m really a novi, they were inspired by music), family get-togethers, shabbos, making a chidush on Torah – anything, delicious food, any good accomplishment, chocolate, chocolate, chocolate.
November 9, 2010 3:49 pm at 3:49 pm in reply to: Whats your typical menu Shabbos night and day? #933581theprof1ParticipantLately my wife buys the gefilta fish rolls from Freunds Fish, their “simcha” rolls. But making gefilta fish from scratch is somewhat of a patchke but I can’t imagine it not being good, unless the maker chaets on ingredients or is just a plain lousy cook altogether. Truth is that there are many commercial frozen logs that are really good. Just try them until you find one you like. Also when the frozen logs are cooked, they taste best if cooked with whole white fish too. And they should only be cooked the same way. If you just take the frozen log and cook it in water, it’ll taste lousy whatever. Like I said, ya gotta know how to cook.
November 5, 2010 4:32 pm at 4:32 pm in reply to: Shidduchim, What do boys look for in a girl? #712710theprof1ParticipantOK so I’m an old man. When I met my wife in August 1967 (told you i’m old) my criteria was exactly what the Bobover Rebbe ztzl said, middos. But along with that I had must have brains. So I married her with her fantastic middos and brilliance and what do I have 43 years later? 6 brilliant kids with middos tovos. With bunches of grandkids the same. Thank you so much Hashem for giving me what I was looking for.
November 5, 2010 4:27 pm at 4:27 pm in reply to: What's your favorite food at each restaurant? #707405theprof1Participantoh my too many restaurants but ok. shnitzi – italian, carlos and gabby – texas burger, venezia – mozzarrella basket, subsational – bbq steak with honey bbq, unflower – triple cheese baguette with guacamole, cafe k – fettuccini with seafood and tomato sauce, prime grill – park ave steak, abigaels – argentina angus beef steak, glat ala carte – chicken marsala, mendelsohns – pasta with eggplant, ok nuff said
theprof1ParticipantLOL WIY and Mod said this so well that I have nothing to add, quite unusual for me.
theprof1ParticipantGuys you can all argue about satmar all day. fact is that malchus yisroel was not only sanctioned by Hashem but told Yerovom specifically by a navi that he would be the new king. why don’t you all just open a tanach. In Malochim Alef perek yud alef posuk yud Hashem tells Shlomo that he’s tearing away malchus yisroel from him and leaving only 1 shevet, yehuda. And in posuk lamed alef the novi achya tears yerovoms cloak into 12 pieces and gives him 10 pieces and says,Hashem Elokiei Yisroel is tearing the kingdom from shlomo and giving it to you. I think that the tanach is quite clear about this and that’s exactly what i said. Malchus Bais Yisroel was made by Hashem. Yerovom corrupted it after that.
To those who argue that the satmar rebbe was holy. he was a lot holier than all of you think he was. he was a malach hashem mamish. but still he wasn’t any holier than doeg ho’adomi who was av beis din of sanhedrin for Shaul Ha melech and yet cursed Dovid and Dovid said on him in tehilim b’dor acher yimach shemom. When he put his nose into politics and called it religion it wasn’t good. The Satmar Rebbe ztzl had an issue with medinas yisroel and being brilliant was able to write very well about it. The gedolim who didn’t agree with him didn’t refute it because they weren’t interested in an argument.
theprof1ParticipantSushi is clumpy cold white rice with raw fish and wrapped in the green stuff that grows on the side of someone’s swimming pool.
theprof1ParticipantMalchus Yisroel actually was divinely given to Yerovom. Hashem came to him and told him that Hashem would split the nation in 2 with Malchus Bais Dovid keeping Yehuda and Binyomin and Yerovom receiving the other 10. Yerovom at that point was a tzadik. In fact there’s a medrash that says that Hashem said to Yerovom, let’s go for a walk, you, me and ben yishai, meaning Dovid. Yerovom asked who’s walking up front and Hashem answered, Dovid and Yerovom said no I am not interested. He felt greater than Dovid which wasn’t true and led to his downfall. When Yerovom was successfull in becoming the new king of Malchus Yisroel, he realized that all of his kingdom would be going to the Bais Hamikdosh which was in Yehuda-Binyomin. And since the halocho is that ein yeshiva babayis chutz mi’malchei yehuda, that the kings of yehuda could sit but that he couldn’t sit, he was afraid that his people would return to Malchus Bais Dovid. So he then made his own religion, obviously against Hashem and thus became a rosho.
theprof1ParticipantPopa that’s OK, stand exactly to what you said because basically what you wrote just proves with citations what I had said earlier. Again thanks. I really do know halocho and I know it quite clearly. Yes I’m bragging.
theprof1ParticipantPopa did you even read my post? I don’t think so. For one thing thank you for citing halochos that agree with what I said. Pizza is not pashtida at all, nothing even close. Your 2nd paragraph is an exact definition of pizza, thank you so much. You should also really read what you write after you write it. You do a nice job of contradiction. Pashtida that the mechber talks about is analagous to what we call Chicago pizza, that is its covered top and bottom. Since the main idea of this dish is to become full, it has meat or fish or cheese which also fill, automatically it isn’t a snack but rather kevuas seudah. Whereas 1 slice of plain pizza is quite often eaten as a snack and is therefore mezonos.
November 4, 2010 8:17 pm at 8:17 pm in reply to: Whats your typical menu Shabbos night and day? #933556theprof1ParticipantHomemade challah. Bunch of dips: tomato dip, babaganoush, hummus with something in it like garlic or pine nuts, techina, chrein triple strength, olive dip or dill dip. Usually cooked white fish and gefilta fish, sometimes sesame teriyaki broiled salmon, baked white fish in tomato sauce with veggies. Chicken soup with noodles, kneidels, lima beans. Main dish may be chicken from the chulent, roast chicken, flanken. Side sometimes potato kugel and lokshen kugel. Sometimes a baked 24 potato casserole called yaptzik, it has flanken meat in it. dessert can be compote with sorbet, or just sorbet and parave ice cream.
theprof1ParticipantMy posts weren’t halocho? Oh my, and here i thought i was throwing out all my accumulated great talmudic and halachic knowlefge. Oh well, such is life. Yitay, start with not just an open end but specific halachos or drashos and we can take it from there.
theprof1ParticipantGenerally the concept of “shelo le’vayish” is said when one is “ein lo”, we don’t want to shame someone who doesn’t have this. Since here we have both we wouldn’t say that. However putting both applesaucea nd sour cream on a donut might make you be oiver “ve’nishmartem es nafshoseichem” since the caloric value would be astronomical. This would be especially true for bakery donuts which start off with 3000 calories anyway.
You don’t have to wash even though the donut batter has somewhat of a “losh” concept but since its much softer than “issah” dough, there is no motzi but rather a mezonos like any other batter cake. However the bakery type which has a firmer dough and is baked might be an issue if you eat 3 or 4 ( boy are you ever a glutton ). At any rate the brocho would be mezonos, but you would have to bentch. However, since often donuts, especially the smaller jelly donuts, are clearly eaten as a snack, even eating a large amount of the smaller jelly donuts ( my record is 10, ok so I’m a glutton ), would still not put you into the category of washing and bentching. Le’maase, most people do eat the donuts as a snack. And if you’ve eaten them as part of breakfast, you may have washed anyway.
Sacrilege, you seem to be bound by your name as I’ve seen that you are clearly oiver many very important minhagim of klal yisroel. Such as in this case not eating donuts, you’ve indicated you don’t eat chulent. I have a sneaky feeling that you’ve never eaten matzo with chicken schmaltz and gribines on Pesach (the idea horrifies me). I suggest you re-examine your teshuva of Rosh Hashono and Yom Kippur.
theprof1ParticipantLomed I have no idea where you’re getting your ideas. Your logic also makes no sense. Says who is right saying that you can’t bring proof from the Torah either way. As he asks, how many names did Yisro have, and the Torah mentions them. According to the Medrash, Moshe too had several names. 2 names are 2 names unless as I said earlier they are actually connected as one.
theprof1ParticipantI forgot to discuss the issue of donuts. In general there are several donut types made commercially which are the ones most people eat and each has a different shiur. The large jelly donuts made by bakeries are generally heavier and take much longer to finish. There may be an issue here with a specific food item which can’t be completely eaten in one shiur timespan. This in itself presents a problem. The question now is, what is the concept of shiur le’gabi a donut. There is no question that one latke alone is a shiur, no matter the size or covering. The reason is that one latke alone can cause enough heartburn. However the shiur concept of a donut is not based on a heartburn factor but rather a satisfaction factor. Therefore the idea of shiur for donuts varies, as stated earlier. At the very least the shiur would be one whole donut. This might present a problem when eating the big heavy bakery donuts. The 2nd category of donuts are the smaller fried commercial type that retail for 2 for a dollar or 3 for a dollar. The shiur for these is definitely the same, 1 donut. Since eating one of these donuts can be accomplished with ease within the shiur of achilas prass, it would be best in order to be yotzei achilas donuts in Chanuka to eat 1 small donut first, thereby being yotzei the mitzva of achilas donuts and then after that you can eat the bigger ones in whatever timespan since you already were yotzei the mitzva. The samew ould be for the homemade donuts which also are easiy to eat just 1 in the correct timespan.
theprof1ParticipantSac, there are several Yiddish names that actually have different meaning when spelled with a heh or an alef at the end. The name Faige or Faiga is spelled with a heh or alef or ayin at the end. When spelled with an alef or ayin the name Faige means Fig. When spelled with a heh at the end it means Bird. The name Faigl can mean either.
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