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may this year be the BEST year ever for everyone
Among other trite and ignorant statements like: Oh well, takes two to tango yknow…plus there are three sides to every story…blah blah blah.
Remembering does NOT mean not moving on in life. When.people say that to someone who has moved on.in every way possible except memory and CURRENT obstacles they sound ignorant.
abba, stop.thanks.
I followed my own little advice, and hope Hashem heard my heart:) but a lot of nice ideas on this thread!
lilmod, re: your last point, you are right. The abusive person may remarry someone tougher and/or who has the status they crave, and BEHAVE. The second wife is not being mistreated, and if she was, the guy would be thrown out, so the guy figures out what he has to do to stay, and acts human.
Abba, with all due respect, you are missing a lot of details, so I dont blame you for not understanding, but many of us would love to forget. No more nightmares! Read The High Road Is Dangerous thread, and you will get a glimpse of why it’s a challenge to forget.
lilmod, ty but I am not upset:) I just like to set the record straight.
lilmod, thanks:) I wish you the same
ty , it kept showing up.as yellow so.didnt know if it posted
because otherwise that added note is not needed
did my.first post about the Living Emunah books go thru
Joseph, I didnt mean any disrespect,sorry
I’m not sure an apology is necessary here
authOr. and excuse all those extra dots
A fantastic and not at all.boring book you would appreciate is Living Emunah and Livimg Emunah 2. Down.to.earth and real.life examples. authour is Rabbi Dovid Ashear. and you can contact. me privately if the mods know how that can be done. Main thing : Youcan actually ask.Gd in.plain English.to help you believe in Him more, nothing is beyond Gd. All.prayers are respected.
Joseph, use your cyber brain.please, if only.one person desperately wants out, I think.you can.guess what the dynamics are. No abusive spouse ever said, would you like a get, sweetheart? so.this unilateral thing, sorry.
say Im humbled by your compliment
men, if its over, deal with it like men.
The five yes five years I was trapped because my ex would not move out or give me a get (and I had literally nowhere to go away to) were the most difficult years of all.our lives. Everyone who supported my ex in ignoring my repeated requests will have to give din vcheshbon one day.
good point!
reuventree555:that is very well put
when one person.goes to secular court the other is forced to follow. that will age you and take you away from.your kids even.when.yoi are home! Many rabbonim.do not know how to help women in.tricky situations, but all.you need is ONE to vouch for you, and never drag anyone to court unless you have a really really good reason. and I dont know too many good reasons!
Whilst feeling a bit emotional when watching the dancing in a “sincere people shul”,daven in your heart to be zoche to a true ben Torah , by true I mean he loves the Torah for real (not just status) and he knows about how a true ben Torah treats a wife. Daven.in your heart to be zoche to children who will always stay on the Torah path. The simcha of watching lively singing and dancing combined with a heartfelt plea to Hashem TO BE PART of the simcha by way of Torah children/spouse is sure to be accepted by Hashem.
Lilmod ulilamaid BAS cheder kafay, for sure! May Hashem answer all your tefilos in.the very best way possible very soon!
Oy! I guess I will ask a rav
And thank.you to whichever.mod gave me that kind bi line
Abba maybe that’s why my life has been.one parsha after the other, ha ha:) anyway thank you so much. Re my age, as I mentioned in.my free advice thread I am between binah and e I t z a h ( a word my auto correct insists on changing)
Amein, thank you! You made my day!!
They are both equally horrible in different ways, I am just not voting, so whatever happens I didn’t choose it!
Oops, joke
I like your last line!
lilmod, that is a true sign that Hashem loves you and understands every individual persons needs !!! Wow!!!!!
ty
ksamaychacha …ytzeercha…bgan eden mikedem..One Odom, One Chava
it sounds like a New Yorker saying, what, New York is out of town? 🙂