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the plumberMember
Finley
Meaning are your parents paying or you?
And come on, sometimes you know beforehand
the plumberMemberGo where every singer started out… In the halls of his yeshiva
February 22, 2015 3:39 pm at 3:39 pm in reply to: Posting Simchos while it is still UNOFFICIAL #1060545the plumberMemberMazel tov, i guess
the plumberMemberIt depends on a couple of things.
1) are you serious about this shudduch?
2) whos paying?
the plumberMemberKb613
Now that its been 3 years when you got your answer, youre 24 already and are defjnately fit for marriage.
Start dating!
the plumberMemberIts a matter of getting a new hobby. When you start gradually moving away from them as previous posters said, dont sit around and do nothing. Find something else
February 4, 2015 4:48 am at 4:48 am in reply to: How to Deal with a Request for a Shidduch Picture #1136493the plumberMemberLior
Maybe if her great grandfather is lying its mevarer that it might not be lifnei iver…
the plumberMemberYybc
The mussar seforim talk about the pitfalls of jealousy.
They both have downsides.
(For the record i give shalach manos on purim)
February 4, 2015 2:28 am at 2:28 am in reply to: How to Deal with a Request for a Shidduch Picture #1136483the plumberMemberMidvar sheker tirchak
February 3, 2015 11:10 pm at 11:10 pm in reply to: mishloach manos on purim, teaching kids? #1057264the plumberMemberRema
Low and behold, that SAME oral law tells us to get blind drunk on purim.
This thread is copy and pasted from a post anti-drinking on purim.
For some reason people seem to agree with that poster but disagree with me…
the plumberMemberYybc
What outlets do your teenage boys have?
Do they read kosher novels all day?
Do they play sports? (Which is just throwing a ball around according to rema)
Do they play in the sandbox?
What are they supposed to do all day?
the plumberMemberMy friends husband gave her the best gift of all, a divorce.
She was VERY appreciative.
the plumberMemberThe point im actually trying to bring out is that everyone hocks about drinking on purim. There are similarly big issues with other mitzvos on purim and keeping up with the jones’s (not katz’s or cohen’s).
Everyone has to remember that theyre mitzvos you just do them.
the plumberMemberRent a gym and bike track
the plumberMemberRew
There are a couple billion people in the world. Even if this guy is fake it probably happened.
Its like the yaateds shidduch forum and chinuch roundtable, none of those questions are “real”, but they all probably happened
the plumberMemberRema
Thats insulting.
Am i a lakewood guy? My yeshiva doesnt have this freezer garbage
the plumberMemberGilda
I agree.
Its irrelevant if people end up coming to lakewood to date.
It can be a yeshiva by day, dating service by night.
We should replace the rebbeim with shaddchanim
the plumberMemberRema
Obviously aside from brooklyn ihr hakodesh
We have some yeshivos (as opposed to mekomei torah)
the plumberMemberSidi
Were talking women over here.
You buy her a book, its saying shes not educated.
You buy a cd, she thinks you dont want to hear her.
You buy her jewelry/ makeup, she thinks she looks bad.
You buy her clothing, she thinks you hate her taste.
And so on
Safest bet- flowers
the plumberMemberRema
Being into sports is a much better outlet than alot of other outlets in the world. There is no need to go listing them.
Just because YOU dont see the fun in following sports doesnt mean you should bash others for doing so.
I hope, for your sake(and that of your kids), that they follow sports
the plumberMemberYybc
Are you watching the superbowl?
If yes, that is definately more darkei emori than eating food while you do it.
At least you can say “i wanted an excuse to fress”
the plumberMemberYybc
Does that not fall under maturity?
the plumberMemberCrazybrit
Youre right. They need 6 mos to work on the act
the plumberMemberDo you have to daven to be part of a minuan?
Are you asking if uts lifnei iver? They hold its fine!
the plumberMemberPba
Im not actually offended. Just messing around and getting rid of plungers one at a time!
the plumberMemberPba
Ill try not to take offense to that
the plumberMemberMik5
Youre right. But there are much easier mitzvos to do…
As in make a mezonos or something
the plumberMemberThat would do it. If there are lady plumbrrs, tgats the end of the good old days when men did the dirty work
the plumberMemberRy23
Were not disagreeing. If theyre accurate…
the plumberMemberSam2
Thats healthy. Just sum up a hock among gedolim/rebbeim in a sentence.
You wanna also sum up the worlds minhagim on chalav yisrael and derech halimud too?
Im sure everyone on the cr would greatly appreciate that
January 26, 2015 4:23 am at 4:23 am in reply to: Men.. How Do Make Your Entrance Into Shabbos? #1055026the plumberMemberMik5
Dont worry. In my shul we take care of toaefes shabbos by waiting 51 minutes for maariv
the plumberMemberThere are girl plumbers!?
the plumberMemberShabbesonian
Again with your “recomended” and “not recomended”.
Stick with “kosher” and “not kosher”
When they say recomended they mean kosher and not recomended means not kosher
As far as ive seen, in a kiosk spme are kosher
In a store, theyre not. The syrups and cofees can all be fine but if you were to watch what they are doing behind the counter, there are NO plasticware, and they only use metal which is mixing/making hot drinks all day and getting washed with non kosher keilim.
If you want to live with kulos than go for it. Just dont tell others its a davar pashut that its fine, because many disagree with you
the plumberMemberA jew who cares
Maybe if you played a little basketball as a bochur, you wouldnt be burned out and might be Able to still be in yeshiva.
And goq
Ive seen it. Its hysterical and terrifying at the same time. Hysterical that its actual out there. And terrifying that its necesary in certain places in the world
the plumberMemberNotice that i wasnt asking if its ok to go to a basketball game. I dont really care about your opinion lior.
And they arent making fun. Theyre 70 yr olds.
And a lot of yeshivah guys nowadaya are embarassed
the plumberMemberHamotzi is whats necessary. Not nevesarily challah. But its def a minhag and better.
One is not mechuyav to be moser nefesh or put ones aelf in extreme pain for it
the plumberMemberThats a real question?
January 25, 2015 12:22 am at 12:22 am in reply to: Is it ok to publicly bash President Obama? #1055649the plumberMemberThere is a huge diff bet respectably and a suit
January 23, 2015 9:18 pm at 9:18 pm in reply to: Is it ok to publicly bash President Obama? #1055644the plumberMemberTo all those except letakeingirl
Question: if/when you go visit the president, would you go in a suit?
If your answer is no, i dont believe you
If your answer is yes, why?
Is it not because of kavod l’malchus
Obviously he is not a “king” but he has the “final” say in our country
Its definately not a good thing that its known that the jews dont support him
the plumberMemberHashtagposter
1) not really. They just put the good reerences on the resume (dis u ever put a boss who fired tou on your bus resume. They dont lie, just beat around the bush
2) dont date
3) date like a goy (meaning dont necesarily go in asking abt marriage, just get comfortable with the person)
No need to get “married” after the first date, you have plenty of time to ask those questions later
January 23, 2015 4:21 am at 4:21 am in reply to: what are the job options for a bais yaakov type girl? #1055326the plumberMemberShoemaker. A european classic
the plumberMemberCofee addict
They compare belicheat to nixon. Both are succesful but dont know were the line is.
the plumberMemberShebbosonim
On the crc website they say there are issues with ALL starbucks drinks because of keilim washing with treif keilim (obv the drinks that are not kosher are not kosher). This applies to all starbucks stores but does mot apply to kiosks (aka at airport…)
Besides for that ive spoken to star k that assurs everything completely
There you have it. Feel free to check it out
the plumberMemberOyoyoyoy
I was in no way saying it was ok. Both will ruin your neshama. Just saying the less of two evils. Thanks for the clarification
the plumberMemberFrumrav
Some or all?
the plumberMemberMy thoughts: classic bill belicheat (as steve sommers would say)
the plumberMemberIm just saying one line:
The chevra here are hocking about mixed gyms.
Do all of you have your internet blocked?
If not then going to a mixed gym is probably better for your neshama than staying at home
January 22, 2015 9:02 pm at 9:02 pm in reply to: Men.. How Do Make Your Entrance Into Shabbos? #1055024the plumberMemberNa. Were not slackers. We daven, we just do it quickly and not on time. As long as we make zemanim why would anyone care when we start?
the plumberMemberWorse case scenario you can always just check the shidduch sites
the plumberMemberIm just pointing out that the chashuve news website, yeshiva world news, has an ad for “Zivug zone” that has a picture of a lady (chas veshalom) on it
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