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August 26, 2015 12:10 pm at 12:10 pm in reply to: Asking to taste the girl's cooking before agreeing to a shidduch #1098222The ParisianParticipant
What i love about “dating in US” is that people are always looking for new ideas, and im never desappointed 🙂
The ParisianParticipantAbsolutely hilarious.
The ParisianParticipantPeople, i think there is a confusion here: Coming to the girl in a car has two aspects.
-“Dating”, i.e conversing in the car, on the way to and from the city.
– Going to a dating place (in the city) by car.
As far as the first aspect is concerned i agree that cars cant be replaced by MTA. BUT the date does not have to start under the girl’s porch! They can decide to meet straight in a resto in the city. And separate there. But here also can be a jappy problem, if the girl doesnt want to dirty her stiletto heels on the train floor, but again they could dress less formal…..
The ParisianParticipantI dont get so much your point Nisht, if we resettle the date to be just in the city (bars, retsos, caffes,…) its possible to shmuz the same amount of time, increasing the number of dates if necessary.
The only advantage of the car is that its possible to converse on the way, which is harder by MTA (i agree its not so geshmack to exchange views on the life at 34th street Herald Square with “stand clear of the closing doors please”). Its a very thin plus for a big headache.
The ParisianParticipantI totally agree with you, personally i have no licence.
I think that as far as dates are concerned, Americans are worse than Israelis (which is something), the formalization is just craaaaaaaaaaaaazy.
The ParisianParticipantlesschumras, the concept of the car was probably induced by society conventions, to look better or whatever it is.
It would be much easier to meet in the city, everyone going by his own means (im talking from experience). Just now if someone wants to go that way, he would never get married.
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