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  • in reply to: They're Starting Sukkah Today!! #1002172
    HaLeiVi
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    A tall Succah is no doubt a different type of room, one which will necessarilly be built strong. The fact that walls are strong is not a defining character of the room.

    Rashi is addressing your question. He explains that since strong includes weak, the Torah is not excluding a strong Succah. Rather, it is a Siman for the Shiur of the Succah.

    in reply to: They're Starting Sukkah Today!! #1002169
    HaLeiVi
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    He did? So what were we doing until now!?

    147, starting on a number higher than 1 is not unique to the Shas. Many books count the title page as the first. If you didn’t know what I meant, what did you think I was referring to?

    in reply to: Why is Torah Biased Against Males #1001764
    HaLeiVi
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    If you are following the Gemara’s standard then she actually has no access no the bank accounts. In fact, even when she makes money she is supposed to hand it over to him. This is because the financial responsibility is his. He is Mechuyav to give her money for all her needs.

    This is a partnership and she has a right to say that she’ll rather take care of her own expenses, in which case she keeps her wages and he doesn’t have to give her money for her needs.

    Most families these days treat it like equal partners while one is more in charge of the checkbook.

    Someone who doesn’t expend much effort on making the money can’t grasp the issue with spending what you have. On the other hand, it is easy to dismiss someone else’s needs or strong desires as extra and unnecessary. When both of you are more aware of the other’s inner feelings you will be able to make more informed decisions.

    in reply to: Torahs with different texts #1001725
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    …or a few other such examples cited by Ibn Ezra and a few other classic commentators

    As the Avi Ezer writes, ????? ?? ??? ????.

    in reply to: For Young Couples #1056806
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Daas, thanks. I completely missed that message.

    in reply to: Why Do Bad Things Happen to Bad People #1004110
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Oh, Ok.

    in reply to: They're Starting Sukkah Today!! #1002166
    HaLeiVi
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    If you read Rashi carefully, you will notice that the issue is that people don’t erect this type of structure for the purpose of shade. We learn from the pasuk to build a shade structure booth as a Succah, but this shape is not that.

    in reply to: Why Do Bad Things Happen to Bad People #1004108
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    It’s the same reason Beis Din punishes, for the sake of the rest of us. To show that Yesh Din Veyesh Dayan. It is hard to grasp why some get something here and some don’t, but it is all about establishing the Malchus of HKBH on this world.

    Titus got something, a token of recognition that Hashem is here and is aware and is able to punish. It was not his punishment for his crimes. Carpet-chewer got away with it, although his country did suffer. Obviously, that was deemed sufficient to show how ultimately light will prevail over darkness.

    in reply to: They're Starting Sukkah Today!! #1002156
    HaLeiVi
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    Alef of any Masechta is pretty much the same. I’m taking the day off.

    in reply to: Little Froggie #1001710
    HaLeiVi
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    Anyone with an ant problem?

    in reply to: Where are the darn snow plows?! #1054999
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Indeed. Cars are slipping and sliding. It’s very dangerous out there.

    in reply to: The last thing I would think of is Mayim Acharonim #1001750
    HaLeiVi
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    Why do you assume that upon hearing this story, this was the main impression? The main lesson of this story is that it is all in the name. That’s why the story is mentioned in the first place. However, when discussing washing the hands, it was said that Mayim Rishonim fed non-Kosher meat and Mayim Achronim killed a person.

    in reply to: The last thing I would think of is Mayim Acharonim #1001740
    HaLeiVi
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    Actually, what the gemara says is that lack of Mayim Rishonim fed someone Tarfus and mayim Achronim caused death. It was said as an observation of these two things rather than a summary of the story.

    in reply to: The last thing I would think of is Mayim Acharonim #1001739
    HaLeiVi
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    And also, that a Rasha will come from the other world to help his son do another Aveira.

    in reply to: Question About Punishment After Death #1001453
    HaLeiVi
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    PM, would you apply tat same logic to give enjoyment to your stomach while having your head whacked?

    in reply to: I wish I were a kohen #1001161
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Did you see the Medrash Popa referred to?

    in reply to: Fast daf yomi shiur #1001137
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    What about LiveDaf?

    in reply to: coming to me #1002495
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    You really think you deserve an answer?

    in reply to: Chabura Ideas #1000869
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Hilchos Tefisa (grabbing, not jail).

    in reply to: I wish I were a kohen #1001152
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Popa, The New York Times is not part of my Daf Yomi. Mah Ksiv Bah?

    in reply to: Forced to kill by a Grama #1001569
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    But on the other hand, without any Issur at all it would be Me’abed Atzmo. However, Grama is definitely Assur and is Chayav Bidei Shamayim.

    in reply to: ???? ???? ???? #1219918
    HaLeiVi
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    Now we are supposed to drink Yayin Rishon. Next month we drink Yayin Sheni.

    in reply to: Forced to kill by a Grama #1001567
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Interesting. The Svara of Mai Chazis still applies but there is no Chiyuv Misa.

    in reply to: Monopolists #1000880
    HaLeiVi
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    At first I wondered why there is no other possibility between Rebbi Yochanan and a Rasha. But after seeing what his Rishus was I realized that he was not Ivan the Terrible.

    in reply to: if you found out youre a goy… #1010389
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    I’d make a private Geirus and keep the affair quiet, to avoid it dragging on.

    in reply to: …do I also need to… #1082342
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Popa, if you are truly an original Moony, would I have to tell you THIS?

    in reply to: …do I also need to… #1082341
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Popa, since when is a Moony angry at the Chasidim?

    in reply to: Anyone know of any baalei tzedaka in the Brooklyn area? #1000767
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Are you in the NY area?

    in reply to: year of birth #1000928
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    They are hit.

    in reply to: Romantic songs #1003567
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Does he use a different screen name for each wife?

    in reply to: Does your wife read YWN? (and a confession) #1197991
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    I can’t imagine what else is “the real stuff.” Are you really Charlie Hall?

    in reply to: for those going crazy… #1006384
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Along the lines of Fkelly, I also had periods of losing friends and the like. As an introvert you learn to choose your friends carefully and you land up with lasting friendships with stronger bonds than shouting and running together.

    in reply to: What to do #1000892
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Write a diary. But be careful: someone will read it, either against your will or when they read your will.

    in reply to: for those going crazy… #1006382
    HaLeiVi
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    Is that selective reading? I wrote how to deal with her. Then I wrote to understand that this is not a tragedy, and it should be understood in the right context. The issue seems to be imagined, since a large part of the sob is about the natural situation, and looking at everybody else as having fun-filled, busy lives while she is left out of it all. Thinking this way probably made her view friendships the same way, and it sounds thrown in as well.

    So yes, she is going through something so be nice and be a real friend. But don’t eat yourself up over it. It is something that will pass. Just like you grew past thinking you’re ugly you’ll grow past these feelings.

    in reply to: Why did kimchis have seven sons who were kohen gadol #1001695
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    That’s from the Baal Hatanya, IIRC.

    in reply to: Why did kimchis have seven sons who were kohen gadol #1001691
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Daas, that reminds me of my Cheshbon during a lazy stint: You can’t learn Gemara without Rashi, so if I understood the Gemara I must have been Mechaven to Rashi.

    in reply to: for those going crazy… #1006379
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    To tell you the truth, the whole problem sounds like teenage temporary attitude stuff. People compare their life with others and are suddenly overwhelmed with self-pity.

    in reply to: this is DEATHLY important!! #1084816
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Health, is nice to hear that you are out. How are you?

    in reply to: Jewish Press Riddle #1000781
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    The cork costs nothing. The bottle without a cork would cost $4. When they add the cork they charge you another 10¢ for the bottle.

    in reply to: Zeeskite #999955
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    OK. So then your regular self.

    in reply to: Corn flakes #1000712
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    You had to have been aware of the difference between corn meal and corn flour. There is supposed to be a difference in Brachos based on that.

    in reply to: for those going crazy… #1006377
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Telling her to come to you is nice but it doesn’t address the part of her feeling like a tag-along. But you can make a friendship. Don’t (just) invite her into a larger affair. To things with her alone. Visit her on Shabbos. But still, don’t dedicate your life to this cause and don’t drop your friends.

    Something very important for this and for many situations, kindness is more than your outward expression. When you smile to someone, don’t think to yourself that you have to smile to this ‘Nebech.’ Although you are aware that the initial cause of you friendship with her began for her benefit, there is no reason to relate this to yourself, to actively entertain this idea, ever again.

    in reply to: this is DEATHLY important!! #1084814
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Sam, I was surprised to see your conversational comment labeled as sharp. Perhaps the ellipsis sounded sarcastic.

    The OP described putting the patient into a state where they won’t ask for food or drink. This is not any less than Bidka Demaya, where he ties a person and places him in the path of water that will eventually drown him. This has nothing to do with allowing a person to die naturally. I don’t think you understood the OP the same way I did, because I can’t imagine that you disagree with this.

    in reply to: Does your wife read YWN? (and a confession) #1197982
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Ah. It’s hard to believe that you’ve been posting with two usernames throughout the McCarthy period.

    in reply to: Why did kimchis have seven sons who were kohen gadol #1001682
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Popa, the Yad Moshe has a blog (that I don’t read).

    A Bochur once came to Reb Avraham Tropp (son of the Granatt) to be interviewed to join his Yeshiva. After saying a piece in the Gemara, Rav Tropp told the Bochur to say Rashi. The Bochur replied that he doesn’t do Rashi. In response, Rav Avraham chased him out of the Beis Medrash.

    in reply to: Questions on stuff I really should know… #1034235
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    1 – “Good Erev Shabbos.”

    2 – “You’re welcome.”

    in reply to: is it fair? #999851
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    We need another layer, the pre-mods. They will choose what to allow a moderator to read. And now, I’ll leave the looping and leaping for The Frog.

    in reply to: this is DEATHLY important!! #1084795
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Even if you won’t get Missa in Beis Din, since it is like Bidka Demaya, there is still Misa Biyedei Shamayim.

    in reply to: Why did kimchis have seven sons who were kohen gadol #1001671
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Do you have another Seder when you learn for real?

    in reply to: Why did kimchis have seven sons who were kohen gadol #1001668
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    What are you going to do when we get up to Rosh Hashana, you’ll Chazzer it with Tosafos and Rishonim?

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