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Random, but cool. i like it! thanks mods:))))
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MODS, may i please have a subtitle? maybe sumfin like…. i dunno, the wise old owl?
actually, forget it. i am not old, nor wise enough to be called that. so…. ok, im blank.
bookworm-
+100000000
outsider-
you sound like you were very hurt by that episode at the kosel. im sorry that happened to you. had i been at the kosel then, i wouldnt act that way.
mods- could you please erase my post on this thread? id really appreciate that. thanks for everything you do!
mdd-
Thank you for that reality check- i appreciate the well deserved mussar. you are totally right. i was in a bad mood and immaturely was kinda mad at the world which is why i said that. please dont think im like that, i love Hashem and of course im going to cover my hair when im married.
Welcome to the cr!
I wonder if kabbalah says anything on this matter…
eclipse, I’m sorry that happened to you.
mdd-
Wrong in what aspect? I am merely stating that Hashem is the only being in existance that can properly judge a person. I’m sorry you dont feel that way.
bump!
WIY-
From my experience, nearly every teen out there needs Rabbi Wallerstein.
I agree with From Long Island- Hashem is the only being that has a right to judge people. We don’t know what Assaf has been through in life…
Kapusta-
oh my, you sound like such a nice person! thanks for the encouragement. i am planning on getting my degree in social working someday…. i feel like Hashem put me through everything so i could help people and I’m not going to disappoint him! Sorry i didn’t respond earlier, i was away for a few weeks.
Nechama Cohen released a new video- you can find it on youtube. Something about a question and answer thingy.
wow, youre really doing it! im impressed…
Oomis- i am so sorry that happened to you.
Being pregidous to people that learn in yeshivos in israel. Satmar. I know this is true because i have two satmar cousins and they are both not being redt any shiduchim cuz they learnt in israwel. Generally, i dont judge people but in this case i cant help it. My cousins are amazing people and israel isnt that bad! Where do they come up with these ideas?!
This is an amazing thread! I am planning on reading the idiots guide to grammar.
i heard the women of the wall had a major event this morning, maybe this is to counteract them?
“LOL” is the signular form, and “LOLZ” is simply the plural.
Meaning “lol’s” or more than one “lol”
i agree with sanity. humans are created with a need for relationships. something major must have happened to this girl. if shopping is too hurt to call her, then shoppings friend should. please do this, your friend must be in so much pain! please call her, or just show up at her doorstep if you think she wont answer the phone. my friend did this to me when i was in pain and i am so grateful to her. i wouldnt be surprised if you found this girl cutting. please believe me, this girl has gone through something painful in her life. so, when you meet this person, be open with her. tell her you care, you feel her pain, you want to help her. tell her she is in your thoughts and prayers. if she opens up to you, just listen to her. let her cry on your shoulder and just be supportive. i know this sounds extreme, but i am 99% sure this girl is being abused. she needs help and Hashem wants you to be the shaliach to help her. i want to say more, but i gtg. good luck!
wow, ive had those playing in my head too! you just left one out:
and life goes on when you dont think it can and when you fall, youll learn how to stand!
eclipse- what mattered to me was that someone cared. someone knew what i was going through and didnt hate me for it. and, knowing that someone out there didnt think i was insane just because i went otd. and that if i was ever in extreme pain( which was almost always) i had someone to talk to, to cry to, someone that didnt judge me. at that point i was in too much emotional pain to realize that i could get all that from Hashem… i dont know the specifics of the person you are dealing with, i can only tell you that in my case, knowing someone was always available to talk to me is what kept me from committing suicide. just listen. say you feel the persons pain. the place where the healing happens is in the persons heart and it can happen anywhere.
lolz!
the first option. but keep in mind that every situation is different.
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i hope this helps!
shopping- it sounds like your friend is going through a very hard time. try not to be insulted. people dont just wake up one morning and say they dont need friends unless some major trauma happened. i know this from personal experience. please, let her know youre there for her. if you have texting capabilities it would be a great idea to text her something like,”i hope everything is ok, im here if you need to talk.” but you should only do that if you want your relationship to continue.
if you are ready to give up your relationship with her, then just forget about her.
its alright:)
do i sound that mature?
If you want to have a relationship with this person, then although it is hard id recommend communicating openly with her. Say something about how you were hurt. Use i messages for example instead of saying,”you really hurt me” say something like,” i was hurt when you did this and that” good luck!
Eclipse- im not sure what point you are trying to make so im choosing to ignore that question.
eclipse- youre russian? cool!
i dont know much about seminaries, but i do know quite a bit about interviews, i recently had many. Remember to always look cheerful. seminaries dont want depressed girls.
1. Dress according to, but slightly nicer than, the school’s dress code. For girls, a nice skirt and blouse combo always works.
2. Brush your hair. If you have bangs, you may want to pin them to the side so the interviewer can see your face clearly. If you tend to play with your hair when you’re nervous, tie it up. Apply minimal makeup to reduce the appearance of sweat (if any), and don’t slouch.
3.Be prepared for the interview to begin with a broad question, such as “So, tell me about yourself…”. This is your cue to introduce yourself and a few strong points. Begin with your name, school, grade, and segue into your interests. If you’re flustered, it’s okay to say, “Well, that’s kind of a broad question. I’m not sure where to start. Do you think you could ask me something a bit more specific?”.
4.Be original in your answers. Work in the occasional quote. Always remember to appear cheerful. Don’t mumble or look bored. Keep eye contact.
5. Sit with your legs together, not spread apart. Girls may also cross their legs at the ankles (think princess diaries)
6.If your parents are in the interview with you (a relatively common practice), keep calm, look at them when they talk, and don’t look annoyed at them. It makes a very bad impression if you don’t seem to get along with your parents. This one is extremely important.
WARNING:DO NOT, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, DO ANY OF THE FOLLOWING THINGS: Pick your nose, clean your nails, slouch, wave to people you know in classes, refer to your interviewer by a name other than the one they’ve used to introduce him/herself, stare off into space during your interview, interrupt, or, most importantly, fall asleep.
Good luck!
im totally clueless… cant think of anything right now.
wiy- i disagree with that. true forgiveness may be understanding that the person that hurt you has a mental disorder and although it is not her fault she hurt you, she didnt know what she was doing, that doesnt mean you need to be friends with her. its different in every case. also, its true that you are not obligated to forgive anyone, but i once heard an amazing thought on this. basically, if you are mad at someone then some space in your soul is taken up by the anger. that space would be filled with bracha if you clear it out and forgive the person. also, when you are mad at someone, life isnt too much fun. you are constantly focused on badmouthing the person, or avoiding her, or whatever it may be.
shopping- reconilation is the restoration of friendly relations.
lol!torah613, youre so creative! i used to be obsessed with harry potter… i kinda miss those days:(
i agree with live right.
i havent done any because i dont work. but i am planning on doing some of these once i start…
its so fluffy im gonna die!
FISH ARE FRIENDS, NOT FOOD.
lolz!
wow, this is freaking me out.
ways to annoy people at the office:
Attach a sign that says “FAX” to the paper shredder. Sit and watch to see how many people fall for it.
Compose all your e-mail in rhyming couplets.
Find out where your boss shops and buy exactly the same outfits. Always wear them one day after your boss does. (This is especially effective if your boss is a different gender than you are.)
Page your co-workers to call their extensions so they call themselves.
Page yourself over the intercom. (Don’t disguise your voice.)
Send email to the rest of the company telling them what you’re doing. For example “If anyone needs me, I’ll be in the bathroom.”
i dare all working people in the cr to do one of these!
Reform people are not retarded. And even if someone is “retarded”, the politically correct term is mentally deficiant.
popa- LOLZ!!
hmmm…. i see a great lawsuit coming up! legally, he isnt allowed to do that! ooooohhh. actually im thinking of the law that teachers cant touch their students… oh well.
well then here is my revised answer-
it is a sign of poor social skills to touch someone like that. the proper thing to do is verbally tell the person.
k, how about me? in honor of my being accepted to a school:p
yay, cant believe im actually going to school!!!!!!!
i am so sorry this is happening to you. just remember that life has its ups and downs, and since it seems you just went through( or are going through)a big downturn, your life is going to be really great when it goes up again. i got this concept from rabbi wallerstein and its helped me get through some really challenging things over the years.i hope this helps you!
That is up to you. the answer differs with each situation. ask a rav or mentor.
i find the contrast between my and popas posts very amusing.
poking fun of serious issues such as drug misuse is VERY wrong, and is a sign of immaturity.
im finding this thread highly disturbing.
did you create your user just to ask this question?
coz im such a complicated person. im like art;) really cuz my teacher said i should publish a book called The Art Of ( my name).
i like that teacher:)