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  • in reply to: Poppy seeds, YUM! Okay maybe it’s just my yatzar hara but #1462764
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    Mun is my favorite filling. I love poppy-seeds all year round.

    in reply to: Late Weddings: why do they get so late? #1461623
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    We had a list of pre-chuppa pictures, as did the other side. We simply ran down the list, as did they, and it went very quickly. Also, each side had a prepared photo list for after the chupa, and again, things went very quickly. Outdoor pictures of the chatan and kalla (separately) were done before we were scheduled to be at the hall. All in all, the photo shoots went quickly.

    CTL, we hired the wedding planner for many other reasons, not just for the day of the wedding. She (and her husband, they work as a team) did an amazing job, both before and during the affair.

    in reply to: Late Weddings: why do they get so late? #1461288
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    For my daughter’s wedding, we hired a wedding planner. She had a schedule, down to the minute, and went over it with everyone – the families, mesader kiddushin, caterer, hall, photographer, and band. Everything ran like clockwork and went off without a hitch B”H. If people left early, it wasn’t because we ran behind.

    in reply to: Wait time in Dr.’s office #1461049
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    In America, I walked out of the office after waiting an hour. I spoke to the practice manager and told her why I was leaving. She threatened to send me a bill for the missed appointment. I told her I would send her a bill for my missed work time. I never heard from her, and switched doctors shortly afterwards.

    in reply to: Meeting the girl your son is dating #1460965
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    We met our now son-in-law about 2 months after he began dating our daughter. We met them at a restaurant. He was in the IDF at the time, so he showed up with his rifle and his pistol. I’ve joked with him since then that it was backwards, the girl’s father is supposed to show up with the gun. (He also found a “permission to date my daughter” form online, which he printed out and filled in humorously. We still have it.)

    in reply to: Spicy Schoog #1452283
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    First of all, you don’t need to say “spicy schoog.” Schug is spicy by definition. There’s no such thing as “un-spicy schoog.”

    Most of my kids like spicy stuff, as do I. We mix schoog into our chumus on Shabbat. When ordering shwarma, I stopped asking for a little schoog, and just take the regular Israeli size portion.

    Your answer, of course, is to make aliyah. You will never run out of schug here in E”Y.

    in reply to: Emergency Notifications in EY #1452286
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    “This is a test of the Emergency Broadcast System. This station, in voluntary cooperation with the FCC and other authorities, have developed this system to keep you informed in case of emergency. In the event this was an actual emergency, you would have been informed where to tune in for official news and information. This was only a test.”

    Memorized during my childhood; not bad, considering I have not heard such a test in many, many, many, years.

    in reply to: Praying For The Marines #1447119
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    Marines are not soldiers, and soldiers are not Marines.

    The fastest way to make a Marine angry would be to call him/her a soldier.

    in reply to: Where is Tevel? #1446850
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    Joseph, thank you, I really appreciate your good wishes! IY”H one day soon we should be able to join and celebrate all our smachot together with all of klal Yisrael!

    in reply to: Where is Tevel? #1446414
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    Tevel is a small caterer that works out of the Bait Hachayal across the street from us. They sell a huge selection of Shabbat take-out foods, which are actually pretty good. Tevel also operates the hall attached to the Bait Hachayal, which can be rented out for bar/bat mitzvah celebrations, sheva brachot, etc.

    in reply to: What makes a good father-in-law? #1443447
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    Mazal tov and may the chuppa take place b’shah tovah u’mitzlachas and all your other children be zocheh to find their zivugim in the proper time.

    Amen! Thank you!

    in reply to: What makes a good father-in-law? #1442998
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    I have one married sister. I think her husband and my Dad got along ok. The BIL can be argumentative at times, refusing to acknowledge any viewpoints other than his own (especially about halacha). I think my Dad usually changed the topic of conversation when this happened.

    Both of my in-laws have been wonderful to me through all my years of marriage to their daughter. People make in-law jokes all the time, but I love my in-laws to pieces. They really stepped up for me when my parents both died fairly close together. They’re flying in for the wedding and are staying with us for four weeks.

    in reply to: What makes a good father-in-law? #1442858
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    Let them spend Shabbos and YomTov wherever they wish, whether at the other sides home or at their own home.

    Ha, they won’t be going to the other side’s home very often – they live 6 thousand miles away.

    in reply to: What makes a good father-in-law? #1442810
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    ” A father-in-law should keep his mouth shut, and his wallet open.”
    Presumably, that goes as well for mother-in-law.

    Nice, but no. We’re already had a frank chat with them about finances. My daughter and future SIL both know that we are not in a position to pay their bills. We’re not paying their rent, or their car insurance, or even cell phones. We told them we will help out where and when we can, but they should not rely on us for monthly stipends.

    in reply to: Family life without owning a car #1430189
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    We lived on a yishuv with a frum community, and we managed without a car. We walked to local places, took buses to the cities when we traveled, and occasionally borrowed or rented a car when we needed one for a longer time period.

    We now live in Be’er Sheva, and there is also a frum community here. We still manage without a car; we are within walking distance to malls, shopping centers, and the train and bus stations. The bus system is excellent here. If we need to get out of town, for a wedding or to run errands, we rent a car.

    in reply to: New Uncle Moishy??? #1428736
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    When Uncle Moishy first became popular, there were two – one did the recordings, the other did the live gigs.

    in reply to: Who Are The Most Liberal Posters in the Coffee room? #1428307
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    Actually, joseph, I’m only “left” because you’re so far to the right. I’m actually pretty center. (And I say that by comparing my religious practices to those I know to the right and to the left.)

    in reply to: Cancelled Yeshiva Chanukah Mesibos #1428277
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    There are apparently places in Meah Shearim that are having their mesibos on time, including music. They were so full of joy they even danced in the street on the night of the levaya.

    takahmamash
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    This question (if I understand it correctly) is something you most definitely ask your Rav, not anonymous posters on the internet.

    in reply to: Askanim alert! #1426944
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    Since when are HUD and food stamps considered a perk? They are government handouts. More of an embarrassment to be on these programs than a perk.

    in reply to: Taxi or bus in Israel??? #1426805
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    Why not walk and get the exercise?

    in reply to: Is it acceptable to go for a walk on the 1st date? #1424864
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    I believe that for the first date I had with the young lady whom eventually became my wife, we went out to dinner and then sat outdoors – for several hours – at South Street Seaport. I see nothing wrong with going for a walk on the first date.

    in reply to: Moon Landing? #1420783
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    troll

    in reply to: Door to Door Tzedakah #1419195
    takahmamash
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    When we lived in Baltimore we used tzedakah scrip from the Agudah. That ensured that there would be no fraud.

    in reply to: Where do you place your hat during Shachris? #1418726
    takahmamash
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    Depends – if I’m wearing a ball type hat, I might just leave it on the seat next to me or in front of me. If it’s a winter knit hat, I’ll stuff it in my jacket pocket.

    takahmamash
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    I read it years ago, and I still have it. In fact, Chaim Shapiro z”l was chazan at out shule for a few years, and he lived not far away from us.

    in reply to: Where can Israeli Jews escape to in case of emergency? #1417287
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    I am an Israeli Jew. I have no plans to “escape” if there’s an emergency.

    Apparently, according the the thread on Religious Zionism, I’m going to hell anyway. What difference does it make if I’m in E”Y or somewhere else?

    in reply to: Who has Kadima at the Amud? #1416950
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    I believe (although I don’t have sources in front of me) that a person on the last day of his 11 months of Kaddish has a place on the chiyuv list as well. I know when I got to the last Arvit for my parents, another member of the minyan with a yahrzeit very graciously allowed me to daven for the amud. That was a kindness I will never forget.

    in reply to: Chicken pox #1406048
    takahmamash
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    I had chicken pox, way back in the mid 1970s.
    My kids were immunized, and never contracted chicken pox.

    in reply to: Seeking advice of tooth removal #1406049
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    It all depends if the wisdom tooth (or teeth) are impacted.

    If it (or they) are not impacted, the procedure should go relatively quickly with a local anesthetic. My daughter had all 4 wisdom teeth extracted (at an office in Yerushalayim) in less than 10 minutes. Other than a bit of discomfort and pain when the anesthetic wore off, she was fine.

    If it (or they) are impacted, they extraction takes longer, and may involve being put to sleep by the dentist. I had this done for the two wisdom teeth I had removed back when I was a teenager.

    You really need to consult a dentist/oral surgeon, and not depend on the answers of anonymous posters.

    in reply to: Are e-cigarettes dangerous #1406050
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    Google “health risks e cigarettes” and draw your own conclusions.

    in reply to: How to get along with workmates. #1404398
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    If you take the time to give the person honest, heart to heart responses you can save a person who never thought there was hope of getting their private personal questions and concerns answered.

    I don’t know which is worse – that fact that people would put private personal questions on the internet, or that they would trust anonymous people (who could be anyone) on the internet to give them correct and proper answers.

    in reply to: Sneaking meat into desserts #1401285
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    Did anyone here know that you can make mousse and meringue out of aquafaba?

    in reply to: The Next Lakewood #1398885
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    You do realize, of course, that the sketchiest part of Tel Aviv has more kedusha in a fingernail size piece of dirt than all these other places mentioned here?

    You do realize, of course, that when Mashiach comes soon, with Hashem’s help, that all the places here will be ghost towns?

    in reply to: Dating a girl in the pizza shop #1395583
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    What’s wrong with going to a milchig restaurant?

    While my wife and I were dating (and after we were engaged) , we went to a place called Weiss’ in Flatbush, a place that was a nice as any meat restaurant. (I don’t suppose it’s still there? I’m talking 27 years ago.)

    in reply to: Coin Collecting – Numismatics #1390438
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    I collected coins as a kid into my early 20s. My dad z”l also collected coins, and some of my most cherished memories are of the two of us attending coin shows together. Our collection was modest, but the time we spent together was wonderful.

    in reply to: Are all these protests in Jerusalem really a kiddush hashem? #1385063
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    Sorry, joseph, there is no “right” to civil disobedience. These people are committing a crime by blocking streets and endangering lives.

    in reply to: Apple Throwing Tisch……………………I don’t get it #1381708
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    joseph, apple throwing is not a minhag Yisrael – it is the minhag of a few sects of Chasidim. The vast majority of frum Jews do not throw apples, or food in general.

    in reply to: Pushing and Hoshanos #1380601
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    ubiquitin:

    “or at an earlier minyan”
    This was the earlier minyan, Im not sure why you thought that would be better.

    I find that, generally, the earlier the minyan, the less people will be there. Therefore, there will be less (or even no) shoving.

    joseph:

    Because it is a bigger inyan to daven in a larger minyan.

    That’s nice, you made a little poem there. I still pick more comfort and less people. In addition, I get home earlier, which means I’m around to help the wife more, which increases shalom bayit.

    in reply to: Pushing and Hoshanos #1380377
    takahmamash
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    Why don’t you just daven at a shule with less people, or at an earlier minyan?

    in reply to: Should I go back to IKEA? #1380376
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    They have kosher Swedish Meatballs at Ikea? If yes which ones?

    Netanya and Rishon L’Tziyon.

    And we’re scheduled to get an IKEA in Be’er Sheva in the next year or two.

    in reply to: Should I go back to IKEA? #1380165
    takahmamash
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    1. Gratis means free – not sure where you are, but there are no IKEAs that give away free meatballs.

    2. From what I’ve read, seen, and heard, the words “good chassidese hashgacha” are a misnomer. According to a few friends who are mashgichim for various agencies in the U.S. and E”Y, the Badatz hashgachot are no better or worse than any other hashgacha.

    We went to IKEA in Rishon last week, and bought some living room cabinets. We had no problems. We didn’t have the meatballs, but we did have falafel. It wasn’t bad.

    in reply to: Buffalo #1380159
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    Yes, stop for gas and go to Niagara Falls.

    NIAGARA FALLS!

    Slowly I turned
    and step by step
    inch by inch
    I walked up to him . . .

    in reply to: Where can an Israeli working boy in Brooklyn find chizuk? #1378838
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    Why isn’t the “Israeli bachur (whose parents made alliyah from the US) in his twenties” looking to find work/training in Israel?

    in reply to: Changing Shuls — justification needed? #1370389
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    Nor is Brooklyn “Ir HaKodesh.”

    in reply to: Are out of town communities less judgemental or is that just a mindset #1366044
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    Anyplace outside of E”Y is OOT.

    in reply to: Makom Kavua – Being Kicked out of your Seat #1365157
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    IIRC, there’s a shule in my old American city that had a rule that seats remained reserved until Yishtabach, and after that seats were available to anyone who wanted to sit there.

    in reply to: Mazal Tov to Takahmamash! #1349999
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    Thank you, Lightbrite, that’s very sweet! I will show this to my daughter later, when she returns from work. (And I don’t think we’ll be having Old Bay at the wedding!)

    in reply to: Be honest; do you (and/or does your spouse) iron clothes? #1350000
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    I used to have to wear button down shirts every day, so I ironed a few times a week – and I found it relaxing. Now I can wear whatever I want (I work from home), so I have no real need to iron. The FSIL (future son-in-law) will occasionally iron his Shabbat shirt before Shabbat, if it’s wrinkled. MY mother-in-law irons everything, including sheets and pillow cases and even jeans.

    in reply to: Mazal Tov to Takahmamash! #1349942
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    Thank you! I’m also curious – do you know me?

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