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takahmamashParticipant
Joseph had a multiple personality disorder.
takahmamashParticipantIf you’re already moving you should move to Israel.
takahmamashParticipantGreat so your children had positive experiences. Why are you assuming everyone else is wrong because of that?
oyyoyyoy, I’m not assuming anything. I just think that “armchair quarterbacks” who have no idea about life in the IDF should not be rendering their opinions about something they know nothing about. Experiences in the IDF can be positive or negative, just like anything else in life. It is what you make of it.
October 26, 2014 10:05 pm at 10:05 pm in reply to: So who here has actually been in the IDF? #1040477takahmamashParticipantIvory:
My oldest daughter who finished found it to be a very positive experience. She was assigned to a base near the Syrian border in a non-combat but important job. She was in a group that included both dati and non-dati girls. She came home every other Shabbat, and alternated being off for chagim. She made Shabbat into the best experience she could when she was on base – lighting candles (which she didn’t normally do at home), singing, making kiddish when she wasn’t on shift. She said the other girls respected her for what she did, and the non-dati girls made sure that the rooms and common areas were “Shabbat friendly.” They wouldn’t play music or the radio in the rooms on Shabbat, and they would make phone calls in other areas.
My youngest daughter has the same job as her sister, but she’s in Beersheva. We tease her that she’s in “IDF summer camp” because she lives in a beit ha’chayal, not on the base, so she has air conditioning and access to a swimming pool. There’s a shule on base that she attends on Shabbat (when she’s off shift), and she’s home every other Shabbat. Her group is all girls, and again some are dati, some are not. She’s busy all the time and loves it.
I should add that we insisted that each of them attend a midrasha for one year between high school and joining the army. They each learned in a place that had a specific learning program for dati girls going into the army, including learning halachot of what they can and can’t do on Shabbat as far as their jobs, kashrut in the army, and how to properly ask a Rav a shaila if one should pop up suddenly.
All in all, I’d say the oldest had a positive experience, and the youngest is currently having a positive experience.
(I’ll add, for full disclosure, that our middle daughter did two years of sheerut leiumi; one at the Israel Museum, and one at Leket Israel.)
takahmamashParticipantLG:
Could we have your son’s name for Tehillim? The one that is currently serving, that is.
Why would you assume we have a son in the army, and not a daughter?
Ivory:
So what’s your personal experience takahmamesh
Unfortunately, I was beyond IDF age restrictions when we made aliyah.
takahmamashParticipantAs I explain there, the gemara in kiddushin 81 says that rabi akiva used to make fun of ovrei aveirah, so I am just following along with that.
You are not on the madreiga of Rabi Akiva to make fun of anything.
takahmamashParticipantsdd, why don’t you open your own shule and you can set the rules however you want? I think if a gabbai came up to me and started giving me a long list of rules, and “do this, don’t do that,” I’d tell him to forget it – do it yourself.
October 23, 2014 7:02 am at 7:02 am in reply to: Haredim refusing to sit mixed on airplanes #1036989takahmamashParticipantThese reports are always hyped and greatly exaggerated by reporters who have a chip on their shoulder with their disdain for “Hareidim”.
How is this exaggerated? Are you denying that the flight was delayed 45 minutes? Did the Chareidim exit the flight?
charliehall gave the correct answer.
takahmamashParticipantWe already have a two state solution – Israel and Jordan.
October 14, 2014 7:47 am at 7:47 am in reply to: What will be the first song you listen to? #1074373takahmamashParticipantThank you, LF.
October 13, 2014 7:33 pm at 7:33 pm in reply to: What will be the first song you listen to? #1074371takahmamashParticipantAfter 665 consecutive days of aveilut, I can finally answer this one! My first song was “Mairzy Doats,” in memory of my Mom. She learned this as a kid, and sang this to me when I was a kid. The second song was “Oh, What a Beautiful Mornin'” from the soundtrack of Oaklahoma!, in memory of my Dad. He had a beautiful voice, and I loved listening to him sing, both around the house and in shule. He sang this around the house quite frequently.
takahmamashParticipantWhat does the oilam think about someone asking a halachic question to anonymous posters rather than asking his own Rav?
September 29, 2014 9:02 pm at 9:02 pm in reply to: who knows what "HIPPA" stands for ? (no googling it before) #1033442takahmamashParticipantI knew – I used to work in a hospital.
takahmamashParticipantI think that every fast day that falls out on Shabbat should be skipped that year. Who invented this nidcheh thing anyway?
takahmamashParticipantA 5 hour service is hardly that long. Many shuls are notably longer. We’re you expecting to be in and out in three hours??
It’s not a race, but we finish in about 4 hours – 0700 to about 1100. And yes, 5 hours can be long if the davening is shlepped out for no reason – long mi shebeirachs, chazanut that goes on and on without end, a rav that falls in love with the sound of his own voice and drehs on for 45 minutes or an hour . . . I’ve been there and done that. I feel your pain, Yussel.
takahmamashParticipantAs someone in shule said to me, “I don’t have a problem remembering to make an eiruv tavshilin. I have a problem remembering to eat the eiruv tavshilin!”
takahmamashParticipantI was a juror twice.
The first time I was an alternate on a murder trial. Two guys got into an argument over $20, and one pulled out a gun and shot the other in the eye and killed him. The judge actually had to have a “translator” in court because several of the witnesses spoke in Ebonics, and not everyone on the jury could understand what they were saying.
The second time I was picked first for the jury, so I was foreman. It was a civil trial concerning one of those dubious mortgage companies. The judge in this case had retired, but was brought back in to help clear the docket of cases. Because he was retired, he had an active social calendar, so we had anywhere from 2 to 3 hours a day for lunch.
takahmamashParticipantTAKAMAMASH- i just wanna publicly say i’m sorry for attacking you about sheirut leumi without first knowing the facts- that the mitzius is different today.
I’m honestly not sure what you’re apologizing for, unless something you wrote went whoosh right over my head, but it’s fine.
takahmamashParticipantAlso, if there are any male babysitters. I don’t personally know [of] any.
There are teenage boys on our yishuv email list that advertise as babysitters. Back in my teen years, I also used to babysit (as well as cut lawns and shovel snow). In fact, I had families that used me as their first line, regular babysitter. The going rate back then was $1 an hour.
takahmamashParticipantTakahmamash, if a girl joins sheirut leumi, can she leave when she wants?
I don’t really know. My daughter did it for two years and didn’t leave early. As far as I know none of her friends did either.
takahmamashParticipantDY:
I was under the impression that sherut leumi was assur because it’s compelled.
Sherut leumi is not compelled. A girl that does not go into the army does not have to do sherut leumi. Some girls get married straight out of high school, some go straight into college.
takahmamashParticipantWhile not feeding the meter might arguably be called “theft” . . .
It certainly is theft. By not feeding the meter one is using a public space which one is not entitled to use without payment. Those funds belong to the city. That’s theft.
takahmamashParticipantOff the top of my head, that would be a violation of two issurim – one against theft, one about dina d’malchuta dina. There may be others. Why not ask your LOR and see what he says?
September 7, 2014 8:06 am at 8:06 am in reply to: Can Moderators, please monitor what threads are being posted?? #1031623takahmamashParticipantIf they reference an earlier thread we have people grumbling that the poster is answering to people who aren’t even around anymore.
If that was addressed to me, I’m sorry if it sounded like I was grumbling. But please note that I bumped that thread and then noticed people responding to old posters and nicely pointed it out.
No, I think it was in reference to me. Someone answered some people in a thread that I think was five years old, and I asked why – since the original posters were long gone.
September 4, 2014 8:39 am at 8:39 am in reply to: An Israeli want to live in North America / UK #1031448takahmamashParticipantTM, we get it, you feel you dont need to care about anything else since you live in israel, the biggest mitzvah
That’s 100% untrue. Parnassah, shidduchim, chinuch, health – I care about all of them. (Well, maybe not chinuch anymore, because my youngest is finished school and in the army.) Because I do care about these things I’m willing to work hard at all of them to make sure my family has what it needs. And no, we’re not rich materialists – our lives have been simplified tremendously since we made aliyah.
It just pains me that Israelis, especially when they’re frum, think the grass is greener in the U.S. It’s not.
September 3, 2014 5:10 pm at 5:10 pm in reply to: An Israeli want to live in North America / UK #1031444takahmamashParticipantDaasYochid:
Parnassah, shidduchim, chinuch, health
All of which can be found in E”Y.
BarryLS1
Baltimore has 2 shuls that are Yekkish. Glen Avenue and Agudah.
Agudah is yeshivish/litvish; it certainly is not Yekkish, nor does it follow any Yekkish minhagim. Glen Avenue has many Yekkish members, but it has not been an “official” Yekkie shule for many years, ever since Rav Hopfer became the rav of the shule.
September 3, 2014 1:03 pm at 1:03 pm in reply to: An Israeli want to live in North America / UK #1031441takahmamashParticipantWhy would a frum person want to leave E”Y?
takahmamashParticipant??? ???, oomis, to you and your family.
takahmamashParticipantI once was a lamdan, a masmid, and a talmud chacham.
Then I woke up.
August 23, 2014 7:35 pm at 7:35 pm in reply to: What's your favorite restaurant in the NYC/Brooklyn area and why? #1029467takahmamashParticipantMr. Broadway
takahmamashParticipantOh its a race? the pressure is mounting you’d better rush more.
The Goq gets off a good one – thanks for today’s smile!
takahmamashParticipantI know this post looks like a bunch of random unconnected thoughts, but I read a lot of this thread and am trying to reply to a bunch of different people/thought processes.
You’re replying to people in a thread that’s five years old? Most of them don’t even post here anymore.
takahmamashParticipantI think we should refrain from speculating about the cause of death until it’s officially released by the IDF.
takahmamashParticipantthey even have (gasp!) CY ice cream!
Having previously eaten C”Y ice cream, I would not say that’s a reason to brag about NY.
August 18, 2014 7:35 am at 7:35 am in reply to: What is your favorite out of town community #1028881takahmamashParticipanttakahmamash, that means u too.
Malbim, you obviously have no idea where I live.
takahmamashParticipanttakahmamash, cause it has a great frum community.
So? There’s no mitzvah to live there, so it doesn’t really matter how frum the community is.
takahmamashParticipanttakahmamash,zahavasdad,yehudayona,To be or not to be,The FrumGuy, don’t judge Austin,Tx just check it out.
The mountain borders dividing the portions of Ephraim and Manashe are practically in my back yard. Tell me why I need to check out Austin.
August 17, 2014 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm in reply to: What is your favorite out of town community #1028876takahmamashParticipantEverything outside of Israel is OOT.
takahmamashParticipantTo be or not to be, yes he does also he is jewish he assists the jewish community a lot like giving them millions a pond millions of dollars among other stuff, that’s why you should live in Austin,Tx.
Austin is not mentioned in the Torah. That’s why you should live in Israel.
takahmamashParticipantI actually prefer humus over cream cheese and/or butter.
August 14, 2014 2:39 pm at 2:39 pm in reply to: Forgetting to close the fridge light before Shabbos #1039224takahmamashParticipantWhy NOT keep it off the whole week? Do you really find you need a light in the fridge?
takahmamashParticipantTo golfer
🙂
takahmamashParticipantgolfer:
Only daughters!
I happen to have only daughters, so I find your remark unfunny and insulting. Is there a problem with having only daughters?
takahmamashParticipantThe first time Tevye met his wife was on their wedding day.
August 11, 2014 2:31 pm at 2:31 pm in reply to: when do we start saying vsan tal umatar this year #1196784takahmamashParticipant147, did you ask a shaila about that? When I was in America during aveilut and davened, I was told to daven as the Americans do – hence I had to stick with v’tain bracha, even though I had already switched in Israel before I left.
takahmamashParticipantA hat and jacket do not make a person frum. Worry about what you have on the inside, and the outside will take care of itself.
takahmamashParticipantIt’s only July. Can’t this wait until at least September?
takahmamashParticipantEspecially the no-name airlines like aeroflot or turkish air.
These are major international airlines. I’m not sure why you’d consider them “no-name airlines.”
takahmamashParticipantoomis, have you tried contacting them?
takahmamashParticipantszb1 you must hang out in sketchy places – I’ve not seen many mohawks and/or dreadlocks at all.
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