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  • in reply to: tznius #1205689
    takahmamash
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    Why ask here? Why not ask a rebetzin or teacher that you know, instead of depending on anonymous posters who may or may not know what they’re talking about?

    in reply to: Shabbos tissues #1196872
    takahmamash
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    I can see this burning question of the day (cut TP or tissues?) added to questions for families investigating shidduchim, right after “which brand of paper towels do they use – Bounty or Brawny?” and “do they stack plates at the table?”

    in reply to: Sufganiyot #2 #1195826
    takahmamash
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    Donuts in NY are not sufganiyot in the Holy Land. Don’t even try to compare them.

    in reply to: Shabbos issues #1196024
    takahmamash
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    zahavasdad, why would there be a problem in Alaska and Hawaii? They’re not over the date line.

    in reply to: Fires in Israel #1195948
    takahmamash
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    I hate to inform you, but most of Israel is Not Frum!

    Frumkeit in E”Y is not a black and white thing. It’s not our job to label people.

    And can you please stop ending every sentence with an exclamation point!

    in reply to: The Death of the "Normal" Minyan #1196461
    takahmamash
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    I daven at at minyan that takes ~33 minutes on non-laining days (starting at Rabi Yishmael). If it took longer, people would find a different minyan. Mincha is 15 minutes, arvit is 10 minutes. Shabbat morning at my minyan is 90 minutes and no drasha. The main minyan is 2 hours and 15 minutes, including ~8 minutes of announcements/drasha.

    I visit the states on occasion, and it drives me up the wall to sit through a 2.5 – 3 hour Shabbat morning davening.

    in reply to: Photoshopping tznius #1194897
    takahmamash
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    The photos should not be touched up. Period. Touching up the photos is lying.

    in reply to: Photoshopping tznius #1194871
    takahmamash
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    I suspect that there are Chareidim who read Bamidbar and see black hats on the heads of the Jews under the cloud of Hashem.

    I’ve mentioned in the CW before that a friend of mine has close family living in Kiryat Sefer. My friend’s nephews (from Kiryat Sefer) once brought home coloring pictures of the Maccabi’im fighting the Greeks. The Maccabi’im were shown wearing suits and black hats.

    in reply to: Takahmamash, I like your comment #1193583
    takahmamash
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    Thank you! 🙂

    in reply to: I'm going to Ma'ariv now #1193114
    takahmamash
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    I forgot to say that I finished the yahrzeit of my mom z”l today; I was shaliach tzibur last night for arvit, and today for shacharit and mincha. I’m home now if anyone needs me.

    in reply to: Children on leashes #1195898
    takahmamash
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    I somewhat agree with that, but IMHO letting them loose with no or little supervision is much worse!

    Why would a parent let a kid or kids that young “loose with no or little supervision?” This is a parent problem, not a kid problem.

    in reply to: How to unwind after a long day? #1198610
    takahmamash
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    Can you get a sitter for one night a week, or once every two weeks? that certainly would make things easier. I actually find it fun and relaxing to go food shopping with my wife, and I think she feels the same way (for the most part). We go to a few stores, walk up and down the aisles, and shmooze and shop at the same time. There’s always a Cofix or Aroma nearby so we can get a snack, and then we go home.

    in reply to: Children on leashes #1195880
    takahmamash
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    A harness is for animals, and is demeaning to a human being, no matter what age.

    in reply to: Dryer lint #1192533
    takahmamash
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    It’s safer to have clothes hang out to dry in the sun, versus leave the dryer on chas veshalom.

    May your dryer exhaust hose always be clear and may your home always be safe.

    Now that we made aliyah, we barely use the dryer. Why waste the electricity when I can hang the stuff out and it dries within a few hours?

    in reply to: "Aliyah day" is a Zionist scam #1192301
    takahmamash
    Participant

    Luna Lovegood +1

    in reply to: Dryer lint #1192531
    takahmamash
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    As a teenager, we had a fire in our basement due to accumulated lint in the dryer exhaust hose. Not so fun.

    in reply to: Seminary Help: BY/MO, out-of-town, maybe Zionistic #1192393
    takahmamash
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    Instead of looking for a Zionist seminary,I strongly reccomend finding one that teaches the Jewish religion.

    Yet another answer that proves the point that one should not seek answers from anonymous posters on the internet.

    in reply to: Heartbroken over Hillary? #1193270
    takahmamash
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    I have a coworker who was particularly distraught over the election results and when another coworker asked me how i felt about it in front of her even though i voted for Trump i said lets not talk about this right now knowing she was so upset.

    One thing I have learned over the years is never, never, never, talk about politics or religion at work. Never.

    in reply to: They should sell just the cookie part of the ice cream sandwich #1217681
    takahmamash
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    What kind of chocolate chip cookies?

    Homemade!

    in reply to: They should sell just the cookie part of the ice cream sandwich #1217679
    takahmamash
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    We make our own ice cream sandwiches using my wife’s chocolate chip cookies and Ben & Jerry’s ice cream. Better than any ice cream sandwich you can find in any store.

    in reply to: Being asked if you're dressed up for Halloween #1189081
    takahmamash
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    I live in EY. No one has heard of halloween. Maybe you should move here.

    I don’t know where you live, but your statement is incorrect. There are plenty of people here that have heard of Halloween. There are several bars in Tel Aviv that have Halloween parties.

    in reply to: Apple Throwing Tish #1188876
    takahmamash
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    you misnagdim will never understand this.

    Maybe they just understand halacha better than you chasidim.

    in reply to: Late for davening and Davening late #1187838
    takahmamash
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    How about those that pack out of shul early before davening is over, aleinu and kaddish complete? What are their excuses?

    How about those that come to minyan late and then leave early? I guess they can pack all their davening into 15 minutes.

    in reply to: balabatish shoes #1189255
    takahmamash
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    A shoe store? Is this a trick question?

    in reply to: Going to the Kotel later! #1187345
    takahmamash
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    l”u, you’re welcome. One of my kids went back to Yerushalayim right after the first day chag – she told us the usual 1.5 hour bus ride took over 2 hours, mostly due to traffic in the city.

    ??? ???? ??????? ?????

    in reply to: Going to the Kotel later! #1187343
    takahmamash
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    l”u, have a great time! Daven for all of us!

    We generally avoid going during tourist seasons.

    takahmamash
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    anyhow, it’s assur to go shopping on Chol Hamoed.

    It’s assur to make general, blanket, statements that may or may not apply to people reading the CR.

    Two of my daughters work in retail in Yerushalayim, and I guarantee you, they have plenty of business from all sorts of customers over chol hamoed, including chareidim. If shopping is assur, perhaps someone forgot to tell them.

    in reply to: chol hamoade #1186903
    takahmamash
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    Isn’t there work around the house to be done? Windows need washing? Carpets need to be vacuumed? Dishes washed, dried, and put away? Beds made? Furniture dusted? Is all the food prepared yet for Shabbat and chag? Potatoes and carrots peeled? Cabbage stuffed? Onions chopped?

    Don’t let your kids think that life is a free ride – put them to work.

    in reply to: How much do you spend on your lulav and esrog? #1187649
    takahmamash
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    I paid ?100 for a mehadrin etrog and lulav. Extra aravot are ?5 a set. This was on our yishuv. (At least one of our shules here offer free aravot during chol hamoed for those who need.)

    ?? ??? ?????

    in reply to: Going to the Kotel later! #1187333
    takahmamash
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    . . . especially if Takamamash is from the same city as Gofish.

    I live on a yishuv, not a city. There are 2 other posters here that I’m aware of.

    in reply to: Build Your Sukkah Motzei Yom Kippur #1186025
    takahmamash
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    I put up our sukkah walls before Y”K. The schach goes up on Friday, when I have time.

    Sorry.

    in reply to: Going to the Kotel later! #1187326
    takahmamash
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    I want to go to the kotel 🙁 Mashiach, if you’re on the CR reading this right now, please come today.

    After we made aliyah, I remember telling my kids what a huge advantage they now had over their friends in the states. “You can go to Yerushalayim and the Kotel whenever you want. Your friends have to get to New York, then take a 10 hour flight, then drive an hour to get there. Meanwhile, you can take a bus and be in Yerushalayim in 90 minutes. Always be grateful for that.”

    in reply to: Going to the Kotel later! #1187320
    takahmamash
    Participant

    Today there were many more non-chareidim there than chareidim. I got there around 11:30, and there were still many bar-mitavah shacharit minyanim going on.

    L”UL I did actually add in a tfilla that all my friends and acquaintances in the CR be zoche to a ??? ????? ???.

    I also went to visit my old yeshiva while in town, and a visit to Galpaz and Manny’s, visited my daughter while she was working, and a trip to the shuk.

    in reply to: the rav #1185855
    takahmamash
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    i love my rabbi:) his such an amazing person:)

    That’s nice, but what does it have to do with the topic?

    in reply to: Anual kapporos argument #1185704
    takahmamash
    Participant

    Why do it at all? Kapparot is not halacha.

    in reply to: Speed Davening #1186127
    takahmamash
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    frum regular davening takes 45 minutes

    If you are talking about weekday shacharit, then it obviously depends on the shule and minyan, and if the minyan starts with brachot or at Rabi Yishmael, etc. The minyan I normally attend during the week takes about 32 or 33 minutes on non-laining days, and about 40 minutes on laining days. (nusach Sfard, starting at Rabi Yishmael)

    in reply to: How was the Mikva today? #1185427
    takahmamash
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    probably the only ones who really ready themselves for the yom hadin and do teshuva, are the ones who have never sinned at all during the year.

    Which is exactly no human being on this earth.

    And not everyone has a cheilik in Olam Haba. There is a whole list of things that can cause someone to lose his cheilik.

    But it’s not up to us to judge, nor do we know the true workings of HKB”H.

    in reply to: Should I follow him #1185746
    takahmamash
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    Why don’t you both compromise and live in the middle, somewhere like Yerushalayim?

    in reply to: I'm going to Ma'ariv now #1193112
    takahmamash
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    Off to selichot in a few minutes.

    in reply to: Why do we let go of the Tzitzis at ?????????? ???????????? ?????? #1185625
    takahmamash
    Participant

    Because it would be to hard to hold them through the entire Amidah.

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184216
    takahmamash
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    They’re not putting anyone in danger. They are causing a possible delay in the response to a potential danger which is extremely infrequent.

    I’ll bet that the people that are chas v’shalom trapped in that dangerous situation, no matter how infrequent, would not want any delay in the response. I know I wouldn’t.

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184211
    takahmamash
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    takah, can’t you wait to check the score after you left shul? 😉

    Believe it or not, I don’t follow any teams so closely that I need to know scores.

    I find it terribly sad that people can’t control themselves for 45 minutes or so without looking at their phones. I see people all the time checking their phones during chazaras hashatz, as if they might lose their job or the world might end if the emails aren’t read immediately.

    I find it sad that shules would put people in danger by jamming cell phone signals.

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184206
    takahmamash
    Participant

    They’re legal and used in shuls in Eretz Yisroel.

    Sadly.

    in reply to: rabbi shafier and other amazing rabbanim #1184015
    takahmamash
    Participant

    What about Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky? Perhaps you would love listening to him as well.

    in reply to: Taking off for yomtov as Public School employee #1184037
    takahmamash
    Participant

    I wonder why the OP didn’t clarify this before accepting the position. I would never accept a job if I didn’t know how I would be able to arrange my days off for the chagim.

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184189
    takahmamash
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    Why do you need a siddur app on the phone when you have printed siddurim in the shul?

    Because sometimes there are inconsiderate people that daven directly in front of the bookshelf where the siddurim are located.

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184162
    takahmamash
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    its rude to use cell phones at shul.

    Your opinion may or may not be true, but either way, it’s still illegal to use a jammer to block the signal.

    in reply to: people going places sick #1183955
    takahmamash
    Participant

    TLC = Tender Loving Care

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184153
    takahmamash
    Participant

    Now what happens, say, if someone misses an emergency phone call because the frequency was jammed? Is the shule then liable for damages?

    And then there’s this, that I picked up off a website dedicated to electronic communications:

    in reply to: Tell us about your first date with your spouse #1183899
    takahmamash
    Participant

    First date boardwalk on Coney island

    I believe we did that on our third date. We took a picnic lunch and sat on a bench on the boardwalk. It was on the this date that I realized that she could very well be the person I would marry, and I did. First date late August, engaged on Thanksgiving, married the following June.

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