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OhTeeDeeParticipant
As someone who has gone OTD and stayed, i will tell you that religion just isnt for everyone.Having been an otd myself, what is that supposed to mean?? Religion is for EVERYONE and anyone.
Unconditional love and space is the best.
To be honest I do not get your gist as I have no idea where your holding now or where you were holding b4. in my opinion deffinetly not. your future husband will not have answers to all hashkofa ?s. Seems like you also need to find ppl that can guide you in the future, can take time finding the right 1 for you and easier while your single. And when ur ready I’m sure you will be on a higher level then you are now. P.s if you currently have a bf (not that u do) he will only hold u back achieving your most.
Hatzlacha with any decisions you make and finding clarity in your life.Really sorry to brake the bad news to you, most ppl would advice you to 4get marriage for now. For now concentrate on you and you only, you won’t have much time for that later on in life. With time bezrat Hashem those answers will fall in to place.
Wow sorry to here. it is extremely difficult and hard period going back, especially after going back from an intense growth filled year. Do you have a summer job? Having a daily schedule plan is essential. Having no plan and loads of down time can be a killer. Keep in touch with friends teachers madricha for moral support.
In my opinion, Marriage should not be your focus getting back in to a healthy life style and figuring out what works for you should be your goal.
Going back for Shana beis is NOT synonymous with not getting married. Girls get engaged in sem.