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February 17, 2023 10:41 am at 10:41 am in reply to: An End to Shidduch Résumés by Rabbi Chananya Weissman #2166821SQUARE_ROOTParticipant
Chananya Weissman organized more than 100 events for Orthodox Jewish singles, before he made aliyah.
His articles have been published many times by:
Arutz Sheva, Horizons, Five Towns Jewish Times, The Jerusalem Herald, The Jerusalem Post, The Jerusalem Star, The Jewish Press, The Jewish Star, The Jewish Week, New York [City] Blueprint [no longer published], The Times of Israel, and The Yeshiva World.Rabbi Chananya Weissman wrote seven [7] books, including: “Go Up Like a Wall” and “How to Not Get Married: Break these rules and you have a chance”.
He is also the director and producer of a documentary about the shidduch world:
Single Jewish Male, and The Shidduch Chronicles, available on YouTube.Chananya Weissman is also the creator of three Jewish web sites:
EndTheMadness (dot) org
HotKiddush (dot) com
ChananyaWeissman (dot) comWhat has UJM ever done, other than use the internet to make anonymous attacks against people who have already accomplished much more than he ever will?
If UJM thinks that Chananya Weissman is wrong, then he should PROVE IT, with accurate facts and correct logic —- not snide remarks that prove nothing.
February 17, 2023 9:58 am at 9:58 am in reply to: An End to Shidduch Résumés by Rabbi Chananya Weissman #2166822SQUARE_ROOTParticipantChananya Weissman organized more than 100 events for Orthodox Jewish singles, before he made aliyah.
His articles have been published many times by:
Arutz Sheva, Horizons, Five Towns Jewish Times, The Jerusalem Herald, The Jerusalem Post, The Jerusalem Star, The Jewish Press, The Jewish Star, The Jewish Week, New York [City] Blueprint [no longer published], The Times of Israel, and The Yeshiva World.Rabbi Chananya Weissman wrote seven [7] books, including: “Go Up Like a Wall” and “How to Not Get Married: Break these rules and you have a chance”.
He is also the director and producer of a documentary about the shidduch world:
Single Jewish Male, and The Shidduch Chronicles, available on YouTube.Chananya Weissman is also the creator of three Jewish web sites:
EndTheMadness (dot) org
HotKiddush (dot) com
ChananyaWeissman (dot) comWhat has UJM ever done, other than use the internet to make anonymous attacks against people who have already accomplished much more than he ever will?
If UJM thinks that Chananya Weissman is wrong, then he should PROVE IT, with accurate facts and correct logic — not snide remarks that prove nothing.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantMenachem Shmei:
You took my words out-of-context, COMPLETELY out-of-context; so much so that you completely reversed the meaning of what I intended to say. PLEASE STOP! Thank you.
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coffee addict:The true mashiach will be a King of Israel, like David and Shlomoh.
That is why he is called the Melech HaMashiach
The Melech HaMashiach must be a direct descendant of both David and Shlomoh.Rambam [shown above] teaches that the Melech HaMashiach will have a son who will be King of Israel, and the son of the Melech HaMashiach will also have a son who will also be King of Israel [who will be the grandson of the Melech HaMashiach].
Therefore, no childless man can be the Melech HaMashiach.
Rambam [shown above] teaches that the Melech HaMashiach will have descendants who inherit land from him. Therefore, no childless man can be the Melech HaMashiach.
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Additionally, if we open our Tanach to Yechezkel, chapter 46, verse 16, we see a prince who has sons who inherit from him.The Metsudath David commentary on Yechezkel, chapter 44, verse 3 and chapter 45, verse 7 identifies the prince as the Melech HaMashiach.
Since the Metsudath David interprets these verses as referring to a Melech HaMashiach who has sons who inherit from him, no childless man can be the Melech HaMashiach.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipant1A2B3C SAID:
<< Presumably the followers would claim that their Moshiach will father children afterwards >>
MY RESPONSE:
What do you mean by “afterwards”?
If you mean “after death”, then any Jew can claim to be the Melech HaMashiach, and when people ask why he has not fulfilled the requirements to be the Melech HaMashiach, he can just claim that he will fulfill the requirements after he returns from death.
Additionally, the concept of the Melech HaMashiach coming from the dead is NEVER mentioned by Rambam (or any other Rishon).
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1A2B3C SAID:<< perhaps that the talmidim can be called children >>
MY RESPONSE:
Torah law requires that the Melech HaMashiach be a direct descendant of David HaMelech AND Shlomoh HaMelech. This eliminates 99.99% of randomly-selected talmidim.
Also, if Rambam would have meant talmidim, then he would have written talmidim.
February 7, 2023 7:42 pm at 7:42 pm in reply to: Quick Quote about Older Singles from Rabbi Zelig Pliskin #2163563SQUARE_ROOTParticipantNobody should tell single Jews:
“You should not be so picky!” unless they would give the same advice to their own children.If a Jew tells singles not to be picky when he [or she] insists on ONLY THE BEST marriage-partners for his [or her] own children, then that is hypocrisy — and G*D does not approve of hypocrisy.
And giving bad advice is a SIN [aveirah].CONCLUSION:
Do not give any advice to Jewish singles that you would not give to your own children.February 6, 2023 1:35 am at 1:35 am in reply to: Shame on EVERY Democrat – re Islamist-bigot Ilhan Omar #2162737SQUARE_ROOTParticipantDemocrats have made all these stupid wicked choices:
(1) Israel’s enemies over Israel
(2) Muslims over Americans
(3) socialism over democracy
(4) criminals over police
(5) illegal aliens over citizens
(6) atheism over All-Mighty G*D.============================
Caroline Glick said:“Over the past several years, Congress made several attempts to amend Title VI to include anti-Jewish discrimination. These efforts enjoyed broad bipartisan support.
But they were all blocked by members of the progressive camp inside the Democratic congressional caucus. Like the anti-Semitic boycott activists ostracizing Jews on campuses, the progressive lawmakers claimed that expansion of the protections of Title VI to include anti-Jewish discrimination would undermine the free speech rights of anti-Israel activists on campuses. That is, they said the rights of anti-Semites to preach anti-Semitism superseded the rights of Jewish students not to be harassed.”
SOURCE: Why American Jews slander President Trump
by Caroline Glick 2019/12/15 www (dot) JNS (dot) org============================
Ammiel Hirsch said:“The Democratic Party is increasingly tolerant of voices that are opposed to Israel’s existence…”
SOURCE: Prominent US Reform Rabbi Warns of Growing Anti-Israel Sentiments in Democratic Party
by the Algemeiner Staff, 2019/10/30============================
from Mosaic Magazine (2019/10/30):…the extreme progressive Democrats and their allies who try to delegitimize and demonize Israel have managed [to make commonplace] a set of mantras…
about the Israel-Palestinian conflict without questioning their veracity.For instance:
“Israel is or is bound to become an apartheid state or lose its Jewish identity”;
“Israel is a colonialist and racist state that illegally occupies Palestinian territory and builds illegal settlements”;
“Israel occupies Gaza”; [and other] nonsensical claims.
SOURCE: When It Comes to Israel, Moderate Democrats Are Now Under the Sway of Progressives
February 5, 2023 10:33 am at 10:33 am in reply to: Shame on EVERY Democrat – re Islamist-bigot Ilhan Omar #2162579SQUARE_ROOTParticipantJeremy Rosen [an Orthodox Rabbi] said:
“We were fooling ourselves if we thought that anti-Semitism had disappeared.
And if the left wing of the Democratic Party achieves dominance, you can be sure it will increase.”SOURCE: The One Easy Answer: Blame the Jews by Jeremy Rosen, 2018/11/27, The Algemeiner
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“Writer David Steinberg identified 105 news stories written in the immediate aftermath of [Ilhan] Omar’s victory [as one of the first two Muslim women elected to Congress], and not a single one mentioned that she believed Jewry possessed mind-control abilities or that Israel was evil.
No one called on the Democratic Party to distance itself from this rhetoric.”SOURCE: Here’s the anti-Semitism the Media Doesn’t Want to Mention by David Harsanyi, 2018/11/11, www dot NYPost dot com
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Jonathan S. Tobin [editor in chief of JNS] said:“If even a popular, pro-Israel Jewish Democrat like Adler was afraid to stand up to Ilhan Omar in his own city, then it’s not clear under what circumstance any member of that party would think they could afford to do so.
That means that the battle to quarantine an anti-Semite like Omar to the margins of American politics has been lost. Not only are she and Tlaib among the young rock stars of their party, they have far greater influence than anyone would have thought only a few months ago.”
SOURCE: Is it Ilhan Omar’s Democratic Party now? By Jonathan S. Tobin, 2019 May 22, www (dot) JNS (dot) org
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Daniel Greenfield said:“The Democrats have made it clear that if they win the presidential election, they
will restore the flow of cash to the terrorists.”SOURCE: Loyal and Disloyal Jews by Daniel Greenfield, 2019 September 1, from SultanKnish on blogspot com
NOTE: The Democrats did win the election, and they gave around $950 million dollars to the so-called “Palestinians”, with another $50 million dollars soon.
February 4, 2023 7:43 pm at 7:43 pm in reply to: Shame on EVERY Democrat – re Islamist-bigot Ilhan Omar #2162432SQUARE_ROOTParticipant“In January, Pew reported that liberal Democrats side with the Palestinians over Israel by a margin of nearly two to one. Conservative Republicans support Israel over the Palestinians by a margin of more than 16 to 1.”
FROM: Heeding Dem Warnings by Caroline B. Glick, 2018 May 25
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Keith Ellison, an anti-Israel Muslim, became Deputy Chair of the Democratic National Committee (DNC) by a UNANIMOUS VOICE VOTE of DNC members, according to Wikipedia.==================================
“…leading members of the Democratic Party like Keith Ellison and luminaries like Linda Sarsour openly espouse anti-Jewish sentiments and propagate anti-Semitic conspiracy theories, Democrats ignore, whitewash, deny and minimize the significance of the swelling chorus of anti-Semitism within their ranks.”FROM: The peril of Politicized Anti-Semitism by Caroline B. Glick 2018 June 22
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“Rising stars in the Democratic Party, including Rep. Ellison and Women’s March leaders Tamika Mallory and Linda Sarsour along with the Congressional Black Caucus embrace Louis Farrakhan, and defend his notorious, virulent hatred of Jews. They demonize Israel and its Jewish supporters.”FROM: The peril of Politicized Anti-Semitism by Caroline B. Glick, 2018 June 22
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Mark Steyn said:“It is embarrassing that this nut [Nation of Islam leader Louis Farrakhan] is a power-broker in the Democrat Party, and the media won’t cover it.”
FROM: Why don’t the media care about Democrats’ ties to Farrakhan?
a youtube video by Fox News, 2018 March 8,==================================
Shmuley Boteach said:“Even the American Jewish community is feeling more and more isolated as anti-Semites now openly walk the halls of Congress and parties that have previously been stalwart foes of anti-Semitism, like the Democrats, cannot muster the moral courage to condemn Jew-hatred specifically and unequivocally.”
FROM: Trump’s Love Affair with Israel and the Jewish People
by Shmuley Boteach, 2019 April 8, The AlgemeinerSQUARE_ROOTParticipantRabbi Shimon Schwab taught:
“He who cheats in business or on his tax returns cannot be considered a religious Jew.”
Seen in: Daily Halacha by Rabbi Eli Mansour
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantKitzur Shulchan Aruch, chapter 183, paragraph 3:
“Similarly with all other taxes, it is forbidden to attempt to influence a government official to excuse him, because through this, the burden is increased for other [people].
And whoever does this is called a betrayer [mosair].”January 19, 2023 12:23 am at 12:23 am in reply to: The Bringing of Meshiach through Sheliach Hakein #2157697SQUARE_ROOTParticipantNo offense intended, sir, but Shiluach HaKan cannot and will not bring the Melech HaMashiach.
Chazal clearly teach that the destruction of the Temple and the exile were both caused by our failure with mitzvot-ben-Adam-LeChavero. Therefore, the Melech HaMashiach can only be brought through mitzvot-ben-Adam-LeChavero. Sorry about that!
If you doubt that what I said is true, then please read the two Torah quotes shown below:
Jerusalem Talmud, tractate Yoma, chapter 1, law 1, page 4B:
Rabbi Yochanan ben Tortota taught:
“…During the era of the Second Temple, the Jews labored to study Torah, and they were careful with [all] mitzvot and tithes, and every kind of good deed was found in them.
However, [the Second Temple was destroyed] because they loved money and hated each other.”Babylonian Talmud, tractate Yoma, page 9B:
“In the time of the Second Temple, they [Israel] occupied themselves with Torah [study],
obeying the commandments [mitzvot] and performing acts of kindness (chesed).So why was the [Second] Temple destroyed?
Because of causeless hatred (sinat chinam) that was there…”
January 19, 2023 12:22 am at 12:22 am in reply to: We must stop the hostile takeover of YWNCR #2157695SQUARE_ROOTParticipantYou attacked me five times (completely unprovoked, I might add).
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantMr. FrumWhere, Mr. Common Saychel is not trying to mock Kli Yakar; he is mocking me.
I never harmed Mr. Common Saychel in any way, yet he mocks me at every possible opportunity (which violates Torah Law), and the moderators don’t care.
If I would type the web address (URL) of my Torah web site in the Coffee Room, the moderators would delete it immediately, even though it is a mitzvah. But when “Common Saychel” mocks me, the moderators never delete his comments, even though they are a violation of Torah Law.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantOnce again, Mr. Common Saychel has posted a message to the YWN Coffee Room for the specific purpose of mocking me and my messages.
Maybe he believes that by mocking me and my messages at every possible opportunity — and then pretending to be innocent — he can persuade me to quit the Coffee Room, and get away with it too.
He is wrong; I will NEVER quit the Coffee Room (IYH & BSD).
His messages should be deleted, and he should be banned from the Coffee Room.Mockery [laitzanus] is a violation of Torah Law, but surprisingly, the Coffee Room moderators permit it. Since I trace my ancestry as a Kohain all the way back to Tanach times, mocking me is a double violation of Torah Law.
(Not that I think anyone cares; on the contrary, my decades of experience with “Frum” people have repeatedly taught me that nobody cares.)
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Babylonian Talmud, tractate Megillah, page 25B:Rabbi Nachman taught: All mockery is forbidden, except mocking idol worship, which is permitted.
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Babylonian Talmud, tractate Avodah Zarah, page 18B:Rabbi Elazar taught: Whoever mocks, sufferings come upon him…
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Babylonian Talmud, tractate Avodah Zarah, page 18B:Rabbi Shimon ben Lakish taught: Whoever mocks, will fall into Gehinom.
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Babylonian Talmud, tractate Avodah Zarah, page 18B:Rabbi Ketina taught: Whoever mocks, his wealth [literally, food] is decreased…
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Rabbeinu Yonah commentary on tractate Avot, chapter 3, paragraph 2:Those who mock others, the Holy One Blessed Be He will mock them, and they will lose more than the people they mocked. And the humble persons who remain silent and tolerate them and they do not answer back, the Holy One Blessed Be He will give them grace [chein].
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Rabbi Yehuda Cahn said:“…one who mocks others has a mean and defective character…”
SOURCE: Torah From Jerusalem Volume 2 (page 335), by Rabbi Yehuda Cahn, year 2002 CE, Baltimore, Maryland.
Rabbi Yehuda Cahn is a graduate of Ner Israel Rabbinical College in Baltimore.
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“Gemora lauds a Rav who did not differentiate between rich and poor kids”Can anyone please give us the exact mesechta & page that says this?
If this is a Midrash, then please give us the exact place in the Midrash?SQUARE_ROOTParticipantAround 3,000 years ago, Shlomoh Melech Yisrael taught:
Mishlei, chapter 14, verse 20:
“THE POOR MAN IS HATED EVEN BY HIS FRIENDS,
BUT THOSE WHO LOVE THE RICH ARE MANY.”SQUARE_ROOTParticipantI recently read a book about Jews [adults, not teenagers] who were born into Chassidic homes, but went off-the-Derech, and no longer practice mitzvot, unfortunately.
This book mentions several reasons why Jews go off-the-Derech.
Reason Number One was the lack of business ethics [or monetary ethics] in the world of Orthodox Judaism.Simcha613: Orthodox Judaism already has ethics!
Ethics from the 613 mitzvot, ethics from all of Tanach, ethics from Mishnah, ethics from Talmud, ethics from Midrash, ethics from Halachah books, and ethics from Mussar books.
The problem is not that Orthodox Judaism lacks ethics;
the problem is that people who claim to believe in Orthodox Judaism forget the ethical teachings of Orthodox Judaism.SQUARE_ROOTParticipantMaybe the very-warm-winter is G*D’s way of helping Ukraine to defeat evil Russia, because a cold winter would help evil Russia to blackmail entire nations by reducing the amount of oil they supply?
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantYou should be able to find the answer to that question by searching the internet (with google dot com or duck dot com); or go to the 7-11 web site, then contact their corporate headquarters.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantThe Democratic Party of 2023 is not the same party as the Democratic Party of 1963.
The Democratic Party of 1963 was real Democrats.
The Democratic Party of 2023 is Socialists and Radical-Leftist Progressives and Muslims.
The Democratic Party of 1963 was pro-Israel.
The Democratic Party of 2023 is hostile to the Jewish State, and hostile to Traditional Judaism, and hostile to Traditional Jews, and hostile to American Jews.
The Democratic Party of 1963 was pro-American and loyal to America.
The Democratic Party of 2023 is anti-American and hates America, and wants to destroy all of Western Civilization, especially America and its allies, and White People [which includes Jews].
January 13, 2023 1:28 pm at 1:28 pm in reply to: THIS IS IT! Solving the Shidduch Crisis EASILY! #2156212SQUARE_ROOTParticipantNo discussion of the Shidduch Crisis is complete without mentioning Rabbi Chananya Weissman, who has written books and many articles about the Shidduch Crisis.
Just search the internet for “Chananya Weissman”, and read his free articles about the Shidduch Crisis.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantRambam, Hilchot Nizikei Mamon, chapter 5, paragraph 9:
The Sages [chachamim] prohibited the raising of pigs,
in every place, and also dogs,
unless it is restrained with a chain…
and the Sages said:
A curse on those who raise dogs or pigs,
because they often cause damage.SQUARE_ROOTParticipantOne of the most learned and G*D-fearing Jews I ever knew in my entire life refused to send his daughters to seminary, which he believed to be a waste of time and money.
Instead, they got married, and gave him numerous grandchildren.
They seem to have not suffered from not attending seminary.SQUARE_ROOTParticipantGet rid of your dog. Give it away or sell it.
In his Sefer HaMidot, chapter Achilah, chelek sheni, paragraph 9,
Rabbi Nachman of Breslov wrote:“He who is bit by a dog, it is known that the mercies of
[G*D Who dwells in] Heaven have departed from him,
and it is also known that he has stumbled with forbidden foods.”SQUARE_ROOTParticipantBabylonian Talmud, tractate Megillah, page 25B:
Rabbi Nachman taught: All mockery is forbidden, except mocking idol worship, which is permitted.
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Babylonian Talmud, tractate Avodah Zarah, page 18B:
Rabbi Elazar taught: Whoever mocks, sufferings come upon him…
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Babylonian Talmud, tractate Avodah Zarah, page 18B:
Rabbi Shimon ben Lakish taught: Whoever mocks, will fall into Gehinom.
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Babylonian Talmud, tractate Avodah Zarah, page 18B:
Rabbi Ketina taught: Whoever mocks, his wealth [literally, food] is decreased…
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Rabbeinu Yonah commentary on tractate Avot, chapter 3, paragraph 2:
Those who mock others, the Holy One Blessed Be He will mock them, and they will lose more than the people they mocked. And the humble persons who remain silent and tolerate them and they do not answer back, the Holy One Blessed Be He will give them grace [chein].SQUARE_ROOTParticipantIf you must “vent” — if you must say something negative about somebody – then say your message to a Rabbi, because presumably a Rabbi will not repeat Lashon HaRa to anyone.
But be sure than no additional people are listening, and do not say your message to a Rabbi who knows the person you want to talk about.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipant“People tend to forget that the doctrine of territories for peace was used by [Adolph] Hitler in [year] 1939, when he declared that he would leave Europe in peace if territories in Poland that Germany lost in World War I were ceded to Germany.”
SOURCE: Moshe Arens, former Member of Knesset and Israeli Minister of Defense, HaAretz, 2004/1/22
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Retired Lt General Tom Kelly
(Chief of Operations of the 1991 Gulf War) said:“I cannot defend this land [Israel] without that terrain [the West Bank]…
Without the West Bank, Israel is only 8 miles wide at its narrowest point. That makes it indefensible.”
SOURCE: The Jewish Connection Magazine, 2012 January 6 edition, page 14, article titled: The 2012 Arab Street Driven Security Requirements written by retired Ambassador Yoram Ettinger
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“J-Street and Peace Now and practically the entire Democratic Party and all of Western Europe take it as axiomatic that a new State of Palestine would bring peace.Voices who point out that Israeli concessions in the past to Palestinians has brought less, not more, peace have been drowned out.”
SOURCE: Large majority of Palestinians say the conflict should continue even AFTER they get a state
elderofziyon on blogspot dot com 2019/09===================================
Abdul Hameed al Ghabin [Saudi writer and political analyst] said:“How can we achieve peace if the Palestinian people remain without a place to call home?
The answer is simple:Jordan is already 78% of historical Palestine. Jordanians of Palestinian origin constitute more than 80% of the population according to U.S. intelligence cables leaked in 2010. Jordan is essentially already the Palestinian Arab state.
The only problem is, the King of Jordan refuses to acknowledge this.”
SOURCE: A new Saudi perspective for peace by Abdul Hameed al Ghabin, 2019/8/21
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Jonathan S. Tobin said:“As our Evelyn Gordon wrote in a prescient COMMENTARY [magazine] article published in January 2010, by signaling its willingness to withdraw from some territory, the Israelis did not convince anyone of their good intentions.
To the contrary, such concessions reinforced the conviction that Israel was a thief in possession of stolen property.
The reaction from the Palestinians and hostile Europeans was not gratitude for the generosity of the Israelis in giving up land to which they too had a claim, but a demand that it be forced to give up even more.
Land-for-peace schemes and a belief in two states on the part of Israelis has always led most Palestinians to believe that their goal of forcing the Jews out of the entire country was more realistic, not less so.”
SOURCE: article titled: Israeli Peace Gestures Not Only Don’t Work. They Make Things Worse by Jonathan S. Tobin, 2015 March 31, Commentary Magazine
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Sarah N. Stern said:“Like many Jewish organizations, J Street is seduced by lofty slogans like ‘pro-Israel/pro-peace’. These words are intended to give the impression that all that Israel has to do is immediately withdraw from the territories, and then peace would ultimately break out.
This ignores the empirical evidence of what happened after the withdrawal from southern Lebanon in May of 2000, giving Hezbollah and their 150,000 missiles easy striking distance to Israel.
It also ignores the internally gut-wrenching Gaza withdrawal of 2005, where the land has been used to launch thousands of rockets [more than 10,000 rockets] and incendiary devices launched from kites and balloons, making life for those on Gaza’s neighboring communities a living hell and destroying thousands of acres of Israel’s agricultural land.”
SOURCE: Notes on the J Street conference by Sarah N. Stern (President of the Endowment for Middle East Truth), 2019/10/31, from JNS dot org
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantI might be wrong about this, but trolling MIGHT mean saying things to intentionally anger other people who posted messages.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantThe Chareidi Olam intentionally makes it impossible for men and women to meet each other, even when there is no halachic obligation to do so.
Then, when there is a Shidduch Crisis, they cannot understand why.EXAMPLE 1: There is no halachic requirement to make it impossible for men and women to meet each other in kosher pizza stores, yet the Chareidi Olam has done exactly that, by decreeing that women cannot sit down to eat there, they can only take out food.
EXAMPLE 2: There is no halachic requirement to make it impossible for men and women to meet each other after shul, yet the Chareidi Olam has done exactly that, by decreeing that women leave shul 30 minutes early, so there is no chance of them speaking to men after shul.
EXAMPLE 3: There is no halachic requirement to make it impossible for men and women to meet each other in Touro College, yet the Chareidi Olam has done exactly that, by decreeing that women and men cannot sit in the same classrooms together, nor even attend on the same days. Touro College has male-only days and female-only days, to guarantee that they cannot meet each other. Touro College has also decreed that males cannot teach female classes.
None of these things are required by halachah, yet they are enforced by the the Chareidi Olam with great stringency, and anyone who dares to violate these decrees would become a ridiculed outcast.
Yet, I believe in Hashgocha Protis, but we cannot do things that intentionally make it impossible for men and women to meet each other, and then expect Hashgocha Protis to always overcome all obstacles.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantIn year 2005 CE, an Orthodox Rabbi in Florida held a wedding with mixed seating.
The results of this wedding: 3 Orthodox Jewish men met 3 Orthodox Jewish women, and they married them, and had children from them, and sent their children to yeshivahs.
If that wedding did not have mixed seating, then the 3 Orthodox Jewish men would not have met the 3 Orthodox Jewish women, who became their wives.
What I just described used to be the standard practice of most Orthodox Jews, including prominent Rabbis. Then weddings with mixed seating became unpopular, and nobody can understand how this contributes to the problems of Orthodox Jewish singles.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantYud Tes Kislev is NEVER mentioned in: Tanach, Mishnah, Jerusalem Talmud, Babylonian Talmud, Rashi, Tosafos, Gaonim, Rishonim, Shulchan Aruch, or the commentaries written on pages of the Shulchan Aruch.
Yud Tes Kislev is NOT a real Jewish holiday, and should NOT be celebrated by Jews.
Don’t Jews already have enough holidays, even without Yud Tes Kislev?
Last-but-not-least, if you make new Jewish holidays, Ain LeDavar Sof — there is no end to it!
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantThe J Street organization and the Biden Administration (of which Anthony Blinken is a member) are both 500% committed to the so-called “Two State Solution”, even if the “Two State Solution” is rejected by most Jews and most who live in Israel.
The J Street organization and the Biden Administration (including Anthony Blinken) are hell-bent on forcing the so-called “Two State Solution” down the throats of Jews and Arabs, because J Street organization and the Biden Administration both believe that they know better than Jews and Arabs who live in Israel.
Last-but-not-least, the so-called “Two State Solution” is clever way for the Democratic Party and Far-Leftists and Socialists to cause the complete destruction of Israel, while falsely pretending to be “pro-Israel and pro-peace”.
The so-called “Two State Solution” is designed to inflict indefensible borders on Israel, followed by the complete and permanent destruction of the only Jewish State.
This may seem crazy, until you understand that the Far-Leftists and Socialists and the Europeans ALWAYS HATE ISRAEL, and will do ANYTHING to appease-and-pacify Muslims, even if it means inflicting another HOLOCAUST on Jews.
So far as the Europeans are concerned, inflicting another HOLOCAUST on Jews is a small price to pay for appeasing-and-pacifying Muslims, which is always one of their highest priorities.
CONCLUSION: The “Two State Solution” is the “Final Solution” in disguise.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantIf you want to change the shidduch system,
or just understand why it fails so many people,
then I suggest that you visit the web site of
Chananya Weissman, then click on [ARTICLES],
then scroll down to “The Shidduch World”.I sincerely hope that this helps Jewish singles.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantIn the 1970s, 1980s, and 1990s, the red states voted for the Democratic Party and the blue states voted for the Republican Party.
Then the news media, which supported the Democratic Party, decided that Democrats were somehow losing votes, because they were said to be red.
So the colors were changed, to what they now.Red is a more accurate symbol for the Democratic Party, because their beliefs resemble the former Soviet Union (which had a red flag) and Communist China (which still has a red flag).
Therefore, the original colors were more honest.SQUARE_ROOTParticipantThe Yahoo Poll is NOT reliable, because the Yahoo Corporation is dominated by far-leftist Democrats, as are other high-tech corporations, like: Google, YouTube, FaceBook, Instagram, Reddit (and Twitter before Mr. Elon Musk bought it).
For example, when Donald Trump was running for re-election, Yahoo News published FIVE [5] ARTICLES EVERY DAY that attacked Donald Trump, while publishing ZERO [0] articles that attacked the Democratic candidate – Joe Biden.
Additionally, the results of the Yahoo Poll can be explained by the fanatical-hatred that members of the Democratic Party have for Donald Trump.
Additionally, Democratic National Committee chairman Tom Perez described [Alexandria] Ocasio-Cortes, [Ilhan] Omar, [Rashida] Tlaib, and others comparing Israel to Nazi Germany as: the “future of the Democratic Party”.
SOURCE: A blow to BDS in the House by Jonathan S. Tobin, 2019/7/24
link removedSQUARE_ROOTParticipantAnother reason why this question is difficult-to-answer:
Words like “tzadik” and “mekubal” and “Ruach HaKodesh” do not have definitions that are precise or universally-accepted.
If I really wanted to, I could probably find five definitions for the word “tzadik”, and five definitions for the word “mekubal”, and five definitions for “Ruach HaKodesh”.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantWe might be able to answer the question better,
if we knew WHY you want a tzadik with Ruach HaKodesh.Are you looking for a miracle cure for a terminal illness?
Are you looking for someone who knows the future?
Are you trying to decide who to marry?SQUARE_ROOTParticipantIf anyone wants to help combat anti-Semitism,
then I humbly suggest that you go to:
www (dot) HonestReporting (dot) com.So far as I can tell, they seem to be doing
very good work with correcting anti-Jewish
falsehoods in the News Media.Our great Rabbis taught us that falsely slandering
or falsely accusing an innocent person
is one of the worst sins possible.From this, we may deduce that saving Jews from
being falsely slandered or falsely accused
is one of the greatest merits possible.And that is what HonestReporting (dot) com appears to be doing.
And that is one way we can combat anti-Semitism [IYH & BSD].
To receive quick Torah quotes every month, go to:
https:// groups. io/g/DerechEmet/Thanks for catching on
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantIn year 2009, Kanye West made himself into a fool before the entire world, when he jumped onto the stage [without permission] and rudely interrupted Miss Taylor Swift’s acceptance speech at the VMA [MTV Video Music Awards] ceremony.
That incident alone is enough to expose Kanye West as a shameless lunatic.
This distasteful incident is still recorded in many places on the internet.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantPlease read “An End to Shidduch Resumes” by Rabbi Chananya Weissman:
www. chananyaweissman. com/article.php?id=89SQUARE_ROOTParticipantMy four decades of experience with secular Jews taught me this lesson:
Nothing is more futile than attempting to influence secular Jews in the direction of mitzvah observance. It is a total waste of time, 99.95% of the time.
Charedim refusing to serve in the Israeli Army has made the Charedim the most hated people in Israel – even more hated than the Arabs!
Add to that the many scandals involving Charedim, that make Charedim even more hated.
Add to that the high percentage of Charedim in Israel who do not pay taxes because they do not work, this makes Charedim even more hated.
Charedim cannot influence secular Jews to mitzvah observance, because Charedim are the most hated people in Israel.
Instead of trying to improve secular Jews, Charedim should try to improve themselves.
SQUARE_ROOTParticipantIn the average Ashkenazic synagogue,
the % of kohanim is around 1% to 3%.In the average Syrian synagogue,
the % of Kohanim is around 30% to 35%.Since the Torah prohibits Kohanim from marrying
converts [gerim], is it wise to permit converts in
a community where 30% of the men are Kohanim?Additionally, some poskim [whose names I unfortunately
cannot remember] have written that Kohanim who are
Syrian and/or Sephardic have a greater [or better]
mesorah of kehunah than Ashkenazic Kohanim,
which makes the prohibition against Kohanim
marrying converts even greater for Kohanim
who are Syrian and/or Sephardic.For example: When a Syrian Kohen performs a
Pidyon HaBen, he NEVER gives the money back,
because the Syrian Rabbis hold that there is
no doubt [safek] on the identity of their Kohanim.Compare this to Ashkenazic Kohanim, who return
the Pidyon HaBen money, because they fear
a doubt [safek] on their identity of their Kohanim.Is it wise to permit converts in a community
where 30% of men are Kohanim, who have
no safek on their yichus as Kohanim?To receive quick Torah quotes every month,
please go to:
https:// groups.io /g/DerechEmet/SQUARE_ROOTParticipant[1] In Tanach, Nehemiah (chapter 13, verses 23 to 24)
bemoaned the fact that after 70 years of exile,
many Jews of his generation had forgotten
how to speak Hebrew:[2] Tosefta, tractate Chagigah, chapter 1, paragraph 3:
…[A Jewish child who is old enough] to know
how to speak, his father [must] teach him:
Shema, and Torah, and the Hebrew language
[Lashon HaKodesh].
And if he does not, [then] it would be better
if he never would have been born.[3] Sifri, Parshat HaAzinu, near end of Piska 28:
Rabbi Meir taught: Whoever lives in the Land of Israel
and recites Shema morning and night and speaks Hebrew
[Lashon HaKodesh] he is worthy of Olam HaBa.For more quick Torah quotes like these, go to:
https:// groups. io/g/DerechEmet/SQUARE_ROOTParticipantThe most logical articles about the Shidduch Crisis
are those written by Rabbi Chananya Weissman.I suggest this article:
How to create a Shidduch Crisis in 15 easy steps:
http://www. chananyaweissman. com/article.php?id=219SQUARE_ROOTParticipantThose who have money and yichus are treated with respect.
But what about: Baalei Teshuvah, gairim,
Sephardim, Russian Jews, and the poor?What about those Jews who observe mitzvot,
but do not wear The Uniform (white shirt &
black hat & all other clothes black)?One older bachur I know lives in an apartment building in one of NYC’s most Orthodox neighborhoods.
None of the Orthodox Jews who live in his apartment building are interested in learning Torah with him, nor are they interested in inviting him for Shabbat, nor are they interested in befriending him or even talking with him for more than a few minutes. Not even those who live on the same floor as him; not even those who live next-door to him; not even those who go to the same shul as him.
It is “every man for himself” – there is zero friendship and zero unity among Jewish neighbors, even though they have been living in the same apartment building for more than 25 years.
Is that normal? Is that what G_D wants from His people?SQUARE_ROOTParticipantALL people who hate Jews are dangerous, and it is difficult to know with certainty who is the most dangerous, because nobody knows the future with certainty.
However, the political Far Left [also known as the Radical Left or The Woke or The Socialists] are especially dangerous to Jews, because they dominate numerous powerful institutions, for example:
almost the entire news media, almost the entire Hollywood entertainment industry, almost all High-Tech & Social Media companies [except for Twitter, recently bought by Elon Musk], almost the entire educational system [especially colleges and universities], almost the entire Democratic Party, and many non-Orthodox synagogues and large churches and big non-profit organizations (including Amnesty International, the Rockefeller Brothers Fund, the Ford Foundation, and the New Israel Fund, Human Rights Watch, Oxfam, NGO Monitor), and many more.
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