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abba-s – many mo people might go because they want to be part of something that is part of their religion.
brisker26 – good point which is the reason why i dont learn and just go to shiurim.
because they need to cover their hair so they want to do it in a way that they can look nice at the same time.
Joseph – please stop being anti feminism in a not kosher way.
daas yochid – nothing wrong with sending your children off to college. from what ive seen at least where i live and the college that the frum people go to the people who stayed frum are the ones who went to college the others all went off the derech the reasoning could be because they were too busy studying and didnt have time for the wrong stuff. just tell your friend that you dont think its a good idea.
skald89 – yes i think so. i try too.
skald89 – its called anti feminism.
popa bar abba – whats the difference? im never around children.
writer soul – exactly. back when i was yeshivish i wanted a kollel guy now i need a learner worker. that girl should be open to date people who are her type. why date someone who doesnt go to the movies or listen to not jewish music if you do? (if you go from yeshivish not doing that stuff to mo where you do that stuff.)
health – the way you stated it was like you didnt have a good relationship with your wife.
sam2 – she had to talk to you to get into the car.
Also some people just wont be happy no matter what. but the shadchanim are horrible. it doesnt make sense that i have to step up for myself and find myself my own shidduch thats why its totally okay for me to talk to guys at least this way i can find someone if not then maybe ill be waiting till im like 30 chasvichallila? (and my rabbi suports my idea and he actually makes events where i can go and meet guys myself.)
Trump is EXCELLENT for the Jews. his daughter is jewish. he works with jews. we need him. we should just vote for someone whod be good for the jews. imagine if he was president during the holocaust so many jews could have been saved.
dovrosenbaum – are you sure? i thought they did know hebrew?
law school is so boring med school is so much more exciting.
iacisrmma – follow the discussion.
gavra at work – or if your me you go to wear all the college guys go and go find someone there. (as a college girl)
writersoul – but you were correct in saying that not all mo people find their own guy some are set up by shidduchim and believe it or not even goyim lahavdil they have dating sites.
popa bar abba – most of the guys i hang out with are 3 – 5 years older than me. are you gping to say that will help cause a shidduch crisis when i h’h marry one of them?
jewish feminist – yes and thats what kiruvs about but saying that their better than frum jews thats taking it to the next level being like i wont judge and i dont agree with them is another thing. you shouldnt tell someone whos reform that their better than frum jews chasvichallila.
sam2 – its true what daas yachid is saying you shouldnt give rides to girls and girls should be able to drive themselves. its much different than saving a life.
writer soul – not at all surprising. i know many people who met their spouses through shadchanim that are mo. thats also because they didnt like their male friends enough to want to marry them.
gavra at work – doctors make plenty of money. also when a girl goes off to med school she usually wants a guy the same type as her not someone learning full time whether shes mo or yeshivish.
health – i have lots of life experience. also maybe thats why you got divorced like how you said when i was married because you didnt have a good enough close relationship with your wife. you cant just be a good father you need to be a good husband as well.
Joseph – and meet a guy on the public transportation? i dont think so.
health – thats surprising you would think the opposite. that is true it is an opinion site but dont try changing other peoples opinions.
zahavas dad – people going off the derech is sad not a success story the opposite of a success story.
jewish femnist – because the way you responded did not make you seem like your anti the reform movement and most frum people are anti it.
Girls should get married after theyve had at least one year of a college education so that way they can see what they want from their lives and stable down from the seminary so that way they marry someone their type. Also how do these girls plan on supporting their husbands? Like me since im mo i know guys who i want and i choose based off the guys i know and know mine and their type and make my own shidduch. but of course not all girls know guys but still their mothers or fathers can decide for them.
Joseph – so its better to get a ride by a guy and talk to him instead? I dot think so. So its 100% okay for women to drive.
It is 100% okay for girls to drive. Why its better to get a ride by a guy and talk to him instead?
Any success OTD stories where the person became frum?
popa – bar abba – are you religious?
daas yachid – their are plenty of religious people who only want 2 kids but the majority want a lot. so i dont think popa bar abba is joking. why should people give up on finding a shidduch at 25? theres a G-d and he determines when someone gets married.
akuperma – i agree with you especially since the mo people think i wanna get married at like 30 and have like only 2 kids and think im crazy that i want to get married younger than that because you know everyone must become a doctor and than get married and only have 2 kids so that way you focus on being a doctor.
gavra at work – the single girls (including myself) are VERY busy maybe even more so you didnt know med school was intense and full time and hard? id much rather have kids to be busy with than med school. Also you need to pay your shadchanim.
mammele – you sure? i thought there was more girls than boys?
syag lachochma – that sounds like my idea. no more judging how the guys look if his a good frum boy marry him! were jewish and need to marry another jewish person dont look at the persons looks only if his a good boy and you see potential for a good marriage.
yeshivesh macher – we just need someone good for the jews and trump is good for the jews. would you rather have someone lahavdil like hitler who claims to make america great while destroying jews chasvichallila or someone who will help the jews? the answer is help the jews so trump it should be.
health – so no evidence no truth just opinion. you stated it like a fact and thats why you were arguing above with people about your opinion. if its just an opinion than dont argue it because others have their own opinion as well and will argue right back.
I think everyone should just drive and than no one will have that issue. when everyone is 16 they should get their license issue resolved and if someone needs a ride ask their gender.
jewish feminist – are you a religious person?
Joseph – no matter how much i agree with you i cant treat them like that. i can only try bringing the jewish reform rabbis back to yidishkeit.
A reform person has said to me that she had a lady rabbi and she said that i should become one because i like learning ( i had to explain to her that as a religious jew we dont allow for lady rabbis)!!! So i guess they do whatever our rabbis do just everything wrong.
Health – and how do you know this? wheres the statistic?
reb yidd – then yes you should.