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Right time to get married is now:)

iacisrmma – do you smoke? in the last post you made yourself sound like you smoke!

WolfishMusings – sometimes stuff are big and all capital letters just to make sure you know whats important not trying to shout.

lilmod ulelamaid – b’h on yeshiva world unlike yahoo answers (which is like the coffee room just mostly goyim) there are moderators to watch what you say and delete stuff they feel like can give away who you are, are inappropriate, etc… keeping away all that shtus from us unlike on yahoo answers. They consider our yeshivish people “modern” and me not frum lol.

lilmod ulelamaid – conservative and reform (the ones i know) dont keep shabbos and kosher but they do stuff for yom tov and go to their reform or conservative syangogue. have bar and bas mitzvahs. bas mitzvah are usually done at the wrong age. so on.

syag lchochma – not at all. i truly believe that people should NOT smoke and that its pickuach nefesh. i believe that its worse to smoke than watch TV, listen to not jewish music and go out to movies.

daas yochid – i dont know about that.

i have taken MANY biology classes and learnt about how bad smoking is for a person. i truly do believe that people can die from it. in fact i believe my own grandfather died from cancer because of smoking. i also believe in second hand smoke which means if someone smokes and you smell it its VERY bad. i do not want second hand smoke its NOT good for me. its pikuach nefesh for me and for my children.

Neville ChaimBerlin – that is SOOO different. so now you want to tell me that your definition of modern is someone who watches TV and listens to not jewish music and goes to movies? Thats considered regular like me NOT mo like the only people who dont are the rabbis kids. i happen to have a mo rabbi as well but i dont consider going to movies, listening to not jewish music, watching TV mo its NOT going against the Torah. Breaking shomer, wearing pants, etc.. are going against the Torah.

shopping 613- and you only lived in israel for how long and you already insist that you know everything about there? the guy i know i think its much better for him to go onto the internet and watch TV than smoke (which he does watch TV and go onto the internet and does not smoke). smoking is pikuach nefesh. i dont blame the frum girls from america not marrying the israeli boys from there they sound like the shidduch for me would be a disaster. btw the boy grew up and lived his majority of his life in israel and is obviously the way you make it sound MUCH better than other israeli boys his age from there. watching TV and going on the internet is NOT pikuach nefesh.

lilmod ulelamaid – the reason why i keep talking specifically about the isreali boy is because his VERY much my type and shopping 613 keeps on saying how much i hate israeli boys (at least thats the way she makes it sound) and im probably going to marry an israeli boy so i dont like her saying stuff like that (that boy in specific.)

mashiach agent – that was a typo and i wasnt able to fix it.

joseph – most of the boys i know dont smoke because its bad for their health and b’h they go to yeshiva with all different types of boys. so if i were to date someone they would let me know if they smoked or not and tell me not to date them. i dont think a girl should be forced to have to marry a smoker. this is bad for her health and her kids health.