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popa_bar_abba – why should they have too just because of theirs not tznius girls? the girls should start being tnius.
SparklyMemberjhonny appleseed – first step is not talking to her so that way she doesnt talk to boys. ncsy? how do you know shes going otd? the reason why i recommend ncsy since i know people who went completely otd never thought theyd come back on went to ncsy and are now frum again! this is so sad that she doesnt talk to her parents:( i really feel bad when otd people dont talk to their parents. i get happy when they still have a good relationship with their parents but most unfortunately dont.
lilmod ulelamaid – if you gave someone a therapist to talk to theyd be mad with you.
SparklyMemberlilmod ulelamaid – no its not for recreation.
August 10, 2016 9:35 pm at 9:35 pm in reply to: Why people become OTD (with the focus on the "why") #1164907SparklyMemberzahavasdad – which is why they get stranded at walmart and have either me or some other nice frum girl come get them. they better get themselves a license and car.
SparklyMemberSparklyMemberMeno – and there are many tv watchers who are more religious than people who smoke. The mods make the subtitiles.
SparklyMemberShopping613 – amen to the right guy:) i dont know if ill be on here when i get married because ill have a husband, kids and pharmacy to take care of h’h.
meno – we dont earn anything out of it. besides for knowing about random stuff. im not learning science or math or Torah from being on here.
SparklyMemberlilmod ulelamaid – depends on the person for me i consider it fun for many others they may consider it boring, and not want to go.
SparklyMemberlilmod ulelamaid – are you married?
SparklyMemberMeno – they had 4.0 gpa and are in harvard?
SparklyMemberComlink-X – opposite.
iacisrmma – maybe im exaggerating a bit. but i still do believe that people who smoke are not THAT religious.
August 10, 2016 1:22 pm at 1:22 pm in reply to: Why people become OTD (with the focus on the "why") #1164903SparklyMemberzahavasdad – their are yeshivish people who drive. you dont have to be mo to drive. and mo is nothing like reform.
August 10, 2016 1:19 pm at 1:19 pm in reply to: Why people become OTD (with the focus on the "why") #1164902SparklyMemberlilmod ulelamaid – if you knew what i go thru and i still am frum and what i went thru and still am frum than you wouldnt say well they have issues and so on believe me i know MANY girls who went otd who had much better lives than me. the ONLY and literally ONLY reason why im still frum is because i believe in Hashem so much so that i do EVERYTHING for Him. if not for Him why should i be frum?
SparklyMembercoffee addict – i know someone well enough thats friends with some people in my family who is transgender so i know a lot about transgender. i highly disagree with their view point. i see nothing different about being a male or female or why someone would insist on being a male or female. there the same thing. not literally the same thing but they all get the same stuff, all treated the same way, etc… at lest they should be. i feel like the person is “making fun of girls” by becoming a girl. i want to tell him off for it but wont since many of them end up committing suicide so i will just ignore him for now and allow him to “live live like a girl” whatever that means. i see no difference. but moral is treat everyone with love even if you dont respect them because you dont want them committing suicide because of you. and unfortunately many people dont treat people they disagree with with enough respect making them go and do dumb stuff like commit suicide. “vahavta leraicha kamocha”. no matter if you agree with the persons opinion or not.
August 10, 2016 4:14 am at 4:14 am in reply to: Why people become OTD (with the focus on the "why") #1164898SparklyMemberzahavasdad – but dont quote off a badly done survey.
SparklyMemberIM shluffin – why eating deli sandwhiches? dont get it?
SparklyMemberAbba_S – i dont want to smoke i dont want to commit suicide its the same thing. speeding is VERY different than smoking i speed all the time but would NEVER smoke. it was scientifically proven that people die earlier if they smoke. they compared MANY people.
SparklyMemberyw moderator – yes.
SparklyMemberHealth – that is a HUGE problem.
iacisrmma – its not the same thing but some of those stuff i would agree on being called otd but not everything.
SparklyMemberptcha – or do these stuff the sunday after that.
SparklyMemberabsan – no ive gotten many complaints about these kinds of girls.
SparklyMemberAbba_S – saying that my guy wont smoke h’h if that sounds better as in he WONT SMOKE. i wont allow him too. im not dumb. i can smell if someone smokes or not.
SparklyMemberthechoiceismine – i already stopped. i have no time.
SparklyMemberSyag Lchochma – this was all stated in other posts. dont only come to this post and expect to know everything.
SparklyMemberyeshivishyenta101 – then dont go.
August 10, 2016 1:35 am at 1:35 am in reply to: Should religious girls learn halachot and mussar on a frequent basis? #1164488SparklyMemberkapusta – very nice.
SparklyMemberSyag Lchochma – their are MANY mo communities not in new york that i can live in any one of those.
August 10, 2016 1:22 am at 1:22 am in reply to: Should religious girls learn halachot and mussar on a frequent basis? #1164486SparklyMembersyag lchochma – that is true. he cant be for real.
dovrosenbaum – and have lives which means going to work, getting an education, doing stuff for themselves like working out at the gym (taking classes at the gym if your referring to my gym), etc…..
SparklyMemberSparklyMembercan you see it? i think i didnt make it general enough the answer is yes you can see it.
SparklyMembersyag lchochma – yes.
SparklyMembersyag lchochma – i already said im not from new york and where is bronx? its in new york so no.
SparklyMemberSoftwords – amen. my guy will probably not smoke. the issue is that most girls are either totally against it or totally fine with it. where i live most of the people who smoke are otd.
thechoiceismine – i will not since i have no psak that its not okay to watch movies. in fact i heard that theirs nothing wrong with it. if someone would like to state a pasik on here that its not okay to listen to not jewish music, watch tv, watch movies etc… please do.
SparklyMemberjewish feminist – i want smart children.
abba – some start college right away so theyll be doctors by 26.
SparklyMember1. Is it alive? no
2. can you see it? it depends. i guess you can.
SparklyMemberHealth – ascuse me? krumkeit? what kind of language is that?
August 10, 2016 12:50 am at 12:50 am in reply to: Why people become OTD (with the focus on the "why") #1164895SparklyMemberlilmod ulelamaid – what kinds of issues can they have that took them away from yidishkeit? i mean ive gone thru lots of hard times with schools, lots of other hard stuff in life. the only reason why im still frum is for G-d. thats why its hard for me to understand why someone would go otd for so called “issues”.
August 10, 2016 12:46 am at 12:46 am in reply to: Should religious girls learn halachot and mussar on a frequent basis? #1164483SparklyMemberdovrosenbaum – so they should not do anything with their lives?
Avi K – there are married men as well. who do you think girls are married to? so that doesnt prove that shes a lady just because shes married.
SparklyMemberso first question is can you see it? yes
SparklyMemberjewishfeminist02 – they shouldnt make up stuff for the torah. that does make someone an apikorses.
SparklyMemberYW Moderator-29 – lets start another game ask a question.
August 9, 2016 9:47 pm at 9:47 pm in reply to: Why people become OTD (with the focus on the "why") #1164892SparklyMemberlilmod ulelamaid – thats the reason why i cant seem to understand why they dont stop keeping their obviously false religion. i really want to ask one of them but i know if i do thered be an argument so i wont.
SparklyMembernow its my turn to choose something. lets start anyone want to choose a question?
SparklyMemberbk613 – why doesnt it make sense?
Syag Lchochma – why are you asking if im from bronx?
dovrosenbaum – not for the money. real estate and business can make much more money than doctors. its because the doctors are smart. i love science and math and want someone smart who also loves science and math. i want a guy thats smarter than me. im becoming a pharmacist and feel like doctors are smarter than pharmacist even tho pharmacist are also very smart but doctors are even smarter. i want a guy who gets straight a in sceince and math and knows everything about science and math.
SparklyMemberapushatayid – so you hang out with the other gender? its not a psak to not hang out with the other gender most rabbis unless their mo say its not okay to hang out with the other gender. she might be embarrassed to ask her mother for advice.
lilmod ulelamaid – they can also be embarrassed to ask. it wasnt easy for me to find my rav since at first i thought he was too mo for me but then i decided to go to his speech and thats how he became my rav.
Health – i found my rav since his my parents rav and then i started going to his speeches.
Syag Lchochma – you are right! this world is scary:(
SparklyMemberApparently according to the rabbis its okay for me to start smoking (being sarcastic since people on here are insisting that its okay). so ill go get out my first cigarette.
SparklyMemberlilmod ulelamaid – say the answer.
August 9, 2016 8:56 pm at 8:56 pm in reply to: Why people become OTD (with the focus on the "why") #1164890SparklyMemberzahavasdad – unfortunately their are jews that are athiest meaning they dont believe in Hashem like all the OTD people.
SparklyMembermentsch1 – smoking is bad for the neshama also. The people that i know that smoke are not the kinds of people you want to be around. with that said, obviously i rather do something with nice frum jews like go out to the movies than go smoke with some otd girl or guy. that is very unfortunate to hear that guys at mir smoke. that is very sad. my rabbi says its better to watch tv than smoke and its NOT against the Torah. Funny part i dont have time to sit around watching TV all day when im out at college and studying all day.
August 9, 2016 1:07 pm at 1:07 pm in reply to: Why people become OTD (with the focus on the "why") #1164880SparklyMemberzahavasdad – that is not true. athiest arent against religions. definition of athiest according to wiki “a person who disbelieves or lacks belief in the existence of God or gods”.
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