Sparkly

hiram king of tyre – im sorry if you feel that way. but others disagree. im assuming your a guy getting offended because thats what we were referring to? maybe you want to tell us why we shouldnt consider “frum” boys who smoke not otd?

lightbrite – i agree. yoga is wonderful especially right before shabbos.

absan – i actually do have other “healthy” friends i just feel like i must be friends with everyone. i didnt mean i literally dont have other friends i meant that i dont have soo many other friends. i would be left with only like 5 other “healthy” friends plus im friendly and always do stuff with other people i meet so i guess you can even consider some of those people friends. it just upsets me that i did soooo much for her and then she stabs me in the back. everyone says that she didnt deserve me as a friend. but i did so much for her so it hurts.

yitayningwut – i guess its like nail polish? as long as its newly done? but its harder for LONG hair past the waist that was dyed because then you need to grow your hair out because then youll have to cut everything off and most people with long hair dont want to go short otherwise you need to keep dying your hair.

gofish – ill be honest i REALLY NEVER liked any of the boys in my college classes and i realized that even if i werent jewish i like jewish guys better so jewish guys that should be a compliment and know that you make a huge kiddush Hashem by being who you are. the reason why im saying this is because all the guys ive ever liked including not frum ones, otd ones, all the guys ive ever liked in my college classes were jewish. so jewish boys are MUCH better than non jewish boys. so you should be proud of yourselves i go to shiurim and so i think thats enough for me and i have a rabbi who i go to that shiur of that i share any problem that i have with yidishkeit with him even if his an mo rabbi.

lilmod ulelamaid – theres no stumbling block for liking not jewish boys theres only stumbling blocks when they like you.

lilmod ulelamaid – no one would talk about me. everyone else wants me to dye my hair because of so many whites for a young girl in her young 20. they would love my hair.

Mashiach Agent – i did. but for whatever the reason it just doesnt work…

Sadgirlygirl – i totally understand you. something like that happened to me. they claimed that i was spreading rumors about other girls being otd….

absan and Joseph- i cant because i wanted to stop being friends with her and block her on my phone but people convinced me not too. now im onto my grudge. and she just keeps on going as if nothing happened and texting me like nothing happened. she abused me and i cant let it go. she did TOO much to me. she made sooooo many nasty comments. i consider her a rasha. and she does have problems shes anorexic and her brother stopped being religious and she even made up a comment saying that shes jealous that i have a religious brother and she doesnt.

Sadgirlygirl – no. i was asking if someone wants to go blonde and their hair is gray.

Abba_S – i didnt know i was interviewing to work at your pharmacy or your the interviewer at the pharmacy school….

gofish – yes but theres stumbling blocks.

lilmod ulelamaid – is she allowed to go blonde if shes brunette?