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lammed hey – there is a HUGE difference between spehardi familys and Jews for J and arabs!!!!!!!
I 100% agree
I am sephardi and don’t wear s sheital at all… I have come home crying many times from the taunts I get from other ladies. I even had to quit a job over it! (at a bais yaakov school when the woman constantly told me I would be pretty “if only would wear a sheital”)
I think its sickening but it happens a lot. ladies are obsessed with looks more than tznius now days.
smartgal don’t joke…I actually had a date take me out and say “separate checks please”. I had to tell him I had no money (which i didn’t ) he then told me 9ok I will spot you now and you can pay me back when i drop you off…..
I guess I broke a rule here myself when i said ‘why don’t you just drop me off now.”
from then on I ALWAYS learned to have money, a credit card and a cell phone on me.
that brings up another topic… i don’t understand why cleaning help seems like a mandatory necessity for some? My MIL worked full time with a family of 7 and her house was STILL clean and she STILL had time for her kids.
I get upset when I see people with full time live in help… a gardener… and a few other people “helping” on the lists at schools for tuition assistance!
than again instead of saying “this is better than is was deal with it” maybe you shouls acknowledge that there is always room to grow?
People tend to think because you are saying something online and no one knows who you are you can say whatever you feel.. Its not true… people are still hurt and feelings do matter… are we dumb enough to believe that ONLY frum jews are reading these forums? what a Chillul Hashem some of these postings have been.
So yes It have been worse… but YES it can get better
I Agree… I have worked at 3 different schools and I shiver to think my kids will have to attend one of these schools.
This past year I worked at a school I had a medical condition that had me bedbound for a few weeks. When I was ready to return to work I was told I could not return until 3 weeks later (after pesach vacation) They told another employee that they did not want me coming back before pesach because they did not want to have to pay me for pesach vacation (this was a salaried position and I was taking off without pay.
This job also paid off the books ( fact I did not know until after I took it) so I was unable to receive any disability pay for my time bed bound.
I called a Din Torah and was told I was in the right but it was not worth taking to court for such a “small” sum.
I did not come back after pesach.