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Story of my life!
and while getting married wont solve any real issues someone have, it does help with the whole society thing. Im very young but now alot of my friends got my married and suddenly they dont have to make themselves crazy and doubt every decision they make three times.
It is hard to make sure ur in the right place-im frum but not fafrumt but get a lot of bad feedback because i went to a top seminary-so deemed too serious for a regular guy but im not looking for a crazy flipout just reg frum guy its so frustrating.
But yeah Ive learnt that I have to actually look into guys regardless of where they are, cuz if my brother was in ur situation id want him to go get a degree in a way that worked for him and not be judged for that
I feel very strongly about this lol
not purple pear!! rlly rlly not the type(its like the hack of town, usually bustling with ppl) wok and grill more the type.
i think its probably smarter to stick with one of the hotel lobbies-google it beforehand- but if u want to go out to eat ur probably better off in teaneck (mocha bleu is the dating hotspot of monsey, private, quiet, good light food or just drinks and nice dessert…HIGHLY RECCOMNDED) or the monsey sushi metzuyan.
alos if the weather is nice and u dont mind the drive-i know someone who went to woodbury commmons just to walk around or the shorthills mall…
less reliable source:
all fresh and new store in pathmark aka yesh will be patners
more reliable source:
the store on 306 and 59 will focus alot on takeout which will be competition mainly for rockland kosher’s deli (think along the lines of a pomegrante…)
yeshivaguy1
i have a gut feeling that ur concept of yeshivva bochur and shtark may be different than the way other ppl use the terms, just saying
also, a girl/guy should be easy on the eye aka nothing about her looks really bothers you and her overall look appeals to you- u dont need to check someone out to see that and alot of the time u cannot see it in a picture. once you meet someone in person and you are not turned off by their looks, you can usually assume they qualify as not unatrractive to you.
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sis of yeshivish brothers and non yeshivish brother.
WIY
right. so who’s paying for the maid? if the girl gets married young chances are (unless the boys job or supporting parents are bringig in alot) a young couple will not have cleaning help…
ummm. if your kid is a generally responsible kid and u practice driving with her then probably as soon as he legally can, still remind them that just because they have they license it doesnt mean they can go wherever they want and the same rules as before apply in regargds to say not going to the mall alone… where i live it’s (legaly)done in a way that first u can get permit then liecense but cant drive after nine till ur 17/18 i think thats very smart, gives kids some time to adjust to the independence and responsibility without total hefkerus….
yeshivaguy1 you spend your spare time in EY online while im assuming the point was to grow in a purer enviorment, and ur criticizing those who yes, are probably taking advantage of the trend, using it for a honeymoon,but arent u doing the same thing? was this passtime your parents’ intention when they sent you to EY?? or what people think when they hear that a boy went off to EY to learn?? it seeems to me you are doing the same thing as some couples are. and then there are the yeshiva boys and the couples that are there for the right reasons and usually people can figure out from hearing them talk about their days or from meeting/talikng to their friends what their EY is all about. so i assume if a parent is paying for a couple to live there they are aware of their kid’s motive-it will become clear if u spend some time on the phone with them…yes there are those who’ll be able to hide it but most will not, and then its up to the parent if he wants to pay for it becase its a norm or because he can afford to happily do it, or if theey don’t want to do it.
but yes it is annoying to see some couples living like royalty in EY, but i dont think its diff than the couples in NY doing the same. theyre spoiled in the same way just asked for diff things.