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  • in reply to: The Four Shadchanim #931404

    NO! It isn’t pesach yet!!!!

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936267

    bomb shelter. Israeli law reqires, and rightfully so, all buildings to have bomb shelters.

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936265

    thx!

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936263

    I’ve done this before, sometimes that happens, other times, it doesn’t happen to me, its a calculated risk.

    in reply to: Mishloach Manos #931368

    I feel that the whole thing is over the top. Yesterday, I was buying mishoach manos for someone else in my program, i was REQUIRED to spend 20 shkalim, they wouldn’t let me get away with less. Halachically, one is required to give two items that are two different brachas. So, I got a mini bag of chips that was five shkalim, and i got 4 shkalim worth of dried fruit because this girl likes dried fruit, and i knew i would have to buy a nice bag, which ended up being four shkalim (if someone were giving me something, i don’t mind it being in a grocery store bag, just as long as it meets the halachic requirements), and my madricha told me i needed to spend another ten shek. i ended up getting her a gift card to an ice cream store, but still, I thought it was ridiculous. Now, I can’t give any to my other friends. That one cost me 25 shkalim.

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936261

    the miklat in my seminary is the computer room.

    in reply to: Turning 13, 20, 30, 40, etc.�Shas Ratzon? #961031

    lol

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936259

    It is impossible to take naps in my program, they are constantly calling me when i would theoretically take a nap (during lunch break) and girls will just randomely come in and turn the lights on. My roommate is going home for pesach and isn’t coming back, so that should hopefully bring me partial relief (that will make me feel comfortable locking the door at night…).

    in reply to: Lying to prevent bankruptcy #931718

    I just have this weird feeling that she might not actually be a doctor… I mean, i can’t recall her displaying her license in her office, and she didn’t have an office phone, I literally had to make cold calls from my cell phone, and i had to pay for the gas to drive around to do the door to door soliciting…

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936257

    Yeah, its three am and i am still awake. I actually decided to try daniellas suggestion, and combine it with my own twist and bought a can of coca cola from the vending machine to help me stay up so that i can run on adrenaline today (my cousins from NY are coming in and I am probably just hyped up about that).

    Once i get more money, i am planning on resuming relaxation therapy.

    Also, the issue is that like in this instance, i went to my room at 12 am and then just stayed in bed for three hours and i still couldn’t fall asleep- not even close. My room mate was completely asleep when I entered. Yes, i am very stressed, there is a possibility that none of my plans for next year will work out, and I might find out that the sherut leumi thing wont work out on thursday because i am not close to fluent in Hebrew (although my mom was kind enough to hire me an ulpan tutor because i negotiated a $20 an hour rate with my former Hebrew teacher from public school)

    Yesterday, i slept for five hours and i felt very awake after that, but that means i actually need to fall asleep by 2 am every night, but i spent an extra hour laying in bed to make sure i wouldn’t fall back asleep (I woke up to find the cleaning lady vaccuming the floor in my room… that was awkward).

    Growing up, i needed like 7-8 hours, but the thing is that my sleep issue got especially bad my senior year when i switched into the bais yaakov because i was stressed about not understanding anything that went on in class, and the school day was so long and the driving in rush hour traffic was so intense, and then I wanted to hang out with my friends on school nights, so i spent half the year sleeping on my best friends couch so that i could go to chagigas and stuff and then even though she was only 15 minutes away from the school, her mother would literally call me out of davening every time i stayed there because i was never awake enough to drive the car until later in the day… the list goes on and on.

    Don’t get me wrong, I loved many aspects of being in that bais yaakov, but a lot of it was difficult because i wanted to dress like everyone else, but there were so many expensive things to get at once that clothes were just not the priority any more.

    in reply to: Chedvas #1142081

    Thanks a ton!

    in reply to: Costume for teacher? #931153

    I don’t think that is approprate for an adult…

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936253

    I tried them, but there was a big language barrier, so they referred me to a doctor in Tel Aviv, which i had no problem with (at this point, my stomach isn’t so much of an issue- most of the time), and I left a voice message on the doctor in Tel Aviv’s voicemail, but i never got a call back, and I tried contacting that guy for two hours.

    As much financial resources that my family lacks, that is mostly because my mother insists on taking us to the best doctors in town and pays a fortune on medical care for the three of us, and part of being mentally healthy is living a fulfilling life where we get oppotunities to do things like travel (like go on road trips and then spend the night sleeping in the car at a rest stop because hotels are not affordable all the time), go to museums, hang out with friends, get out hair cut once a year (my brother once every 8-10 weeks) and stuff like that. I trust my doctors. i am still getting the hang of the Israeli medical care system.

    in reply to: Costume for teacher? #931151

    wear all neon colors, then call yourself “retro girl”

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936250

    Except for the fact that I spend half my summers doing all sorts of house work, like mowing lawns (I live on a half acre of land), and mopping floors (at home in the states, I do any chore you can think of- including cleaning the bathrooms- even the toilet…) i only have one younger brother, and i live with him and my mom, and for some weird reason the house we are stuck in (we wish we could move to a smaller place without living in a ghetto area… its complicated) has enough rooms for each of us to have our own bedroom and office. Also, I like doing long distance walking, so i could easily walk 5- 10 miles a day for exersise.

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936247

    health- I take lower doses when i wake up later, like half my dose. I am very tricky to medicate.

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936246

    I didn’t think it did either. Health: I see doctors at least once a month. Sometimes more often.

    Also, most people, including myself, don’t stay on the same meds in the same combination for an entire decade. Most people, unfortunately have incidents where they have to take antibiotics at one point- or something like that.

    in reply to: Costume for teacher? #931148

    Dress up like a hippie.

    in reply to: Seminary in Ofakim and FAFSA/College Credits #930960

    oh, now i get it.

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936244

    I hate to admit this, but i have had to many experiences actually getting up, talking, going to the bathroom, drinking water, and doing anything else i should not be doing after saying Hamapil, that I just stopped saying it, occasionally, i try again, but the same pattern of just acting as if i never said it starts up again, and then i stop.

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936239

    In terms of white noise, the refrigerator inmy suite is very noisy, that is why my roommate can fall asleep. I, on the other hand, cannot deal with white noise, because it does not work. the only reason I would get an electic waterfall would be if someone else paid for it. Actually, now that i think about it, i have a fondue machine that I got as a giveaway from a really Jappy Girl’s bat mitzvah I went to many years ago- when i go back to the states, i could pull that thing out and put it to use.

    in reply to: Possible Sleeping Disorder? #936238

    The issue is that I a too tired to even get up.

    I need to start eating more red meat because my school never serves that. I eat tons of cheese though (if I am not eating red meat, I love eating milchigs- I hate chicken).

    Also, since I am in Israel, I walk outdoors long distances all the time to catch busses and stuff, and I drink milk. So I know I am geting enough Vitamin D.

    in reply to: The Bais Yaakov System #932303

    if i was not dealing with a scandal at the moment revolving around money, i would probably think that was funny. Story of my life.

    in reply to: Seminary in Ofakim and FAFSA/College Credits #930958

    That makes sense.

    in reply to: The Bais Yaakov System #932301

    DaasYochid: I meant hashkafic differences.

    in reply to: Medical Billing/Coding #931352

    Alfred State looks like it has an amazing program, the problem is that I live in the midwest, so I won’t be able to pay the tuition (I don’t have a cosigner, so I can’t take out loans). I looked up a program through my local community college (I am also interested in medical transcription), but they are not accepting any more new people into their medical transcription program.

    At the same time, I feel like I should try to do a program where I can get some credits towards a B.A. just in case I decide to switch to a different career that requires a B.A. in order to get a job. At the end of this year, I expect to have seven credits towards a B.A. and if I take night classes at a different seminary next year, I am hoping to get another three credits.

    in reply to: Medical Billing/Coding #931350

    bump

    in reply to: The Bais Yaakov System #932285

    I agree with SaysMe, if you take a look at seminaries, which are mostly catered to American girls, there is a BIG difference between, lets say, Pninim, and Ateres, and even a big difference between Ateres, and Hadar.

    in reply to: Seminary in Ofakim and FAFSA/College Credits #930955

    In order to get a B.A. you also have to take secular studies- if you didn’t, I highly doubt that masters program would accept your B.A. there.

    Since it is in Israel, you need to do an Israel- Experience program through the states to get fafsa/ credit if you go back to the states.

    in reply to: Medical Billing/Coding #931349

    Also fmrbklyner: Are you able to support a family with the income that you earn as a medical biller. I am also looking at medical transcription, the biggest concern I have is that I have a lot of medical issues, which are expensive to maintain, but I also need the flexible hours, and I want to be able to support a husband who is learning in Kollel (in E”Y) and my mother would never support me after I get married, that means paying the rent and food and stuff like that. Thank G-d for socialized medicine in E”Y, or I would not be able to make that type of dream somewhat realistic…

    in reply to: Visiting EY with allergies #930711

    Allergy season in Israel is any time it isn’t raining, so be sure to bring allegra if you feel you need it. My allergies are Baruch Hashem, very mild, all I get is a runny nose, so if I don’t take my allergy meds, its not such a big deal. Make sure that before making aliyah, that you know if your medication is or isn’t available in E”Y. After making aliyah G-d willing later this year, I will need to switch one of my medications, but it is good to find out in advance, so that you can stock up if possible (the one I may switch to won’t work as well based on previous experience, but that is how badly I want to make aliyah…).

    in reply to: Medical Billing/Coding #931348

    I need something that I can work in that allows me to speak english… I am having trouble finding a sherut leumi placement for next year because I can barely speak Hebrew… although, I did hire a private weekly ulpan tutor (I haven’t made aliyah yet, but it is best to work on hebrew skills when you are younger!)

    in reply to: Medical Billing/Coding #931346

    I am not from lakewood, so I would not know. But that sounds like a great company to look into in the future.

    in reply to: Best Purim Costume #930465

    Get your little children to wear snoods and carry doll babies.

    in reply to: Medical Billing/Coding #931344

    Bump

    in reply to: Horsemeat Scandal In Europe #930283

    haha

    in reply to: Most view China as an economic threat to the U.S #930267

    these statistics are outdated… they are from 2007

    in reply to: Horsemeat Scandal In Europe #930281

    It is an assumption that it could happen. I never meant to say that it actually happened. There is always a possibility.

    in reply to: Studying for a Really Hard Course #933367

    At least when I was in public school, I was the chiller- type of girl, I would panic about how I did in school because I have some anxiety issues, but that did not really come into play until my junior year when I was determined to get amazing grades in order to be accepted into a bais yaakov the next year. Over all, I was an A, B, occasional student (except for junior year/ grade 11, I didn’t get any C’s…) but since some of my courses were not exactly college preperatory (they were all mainstream classes but in my district, there was so much funding available that they had so many levels, so I was in a level with kids who never really tried because math is harder for me than other subjects, same with science), I would get A’s and B’s in them, but I still did somewhat poorly on my ACT tests (my highest score was a 21, and I got extended time…).

    I would say that you do need to work very hard in your classes, but try not to get so stressed out, most people in real life don’t go to Harvard, even if they are straight A students. The things that stick out on applications to post high school programs are standardized tests, overall gpa, the fact that Jewish schools have a dual curriculum stands out because that looks challenging (and it is!), your extra curriculars (were you on mishmeres, G.O, what did you do in your production, what chessed did you do, did you do more than the required chessed hours?) and the way you act during an interview (if applicable) along with admissions essays stand out as well.

    I am not from New York, so I don’t know what it is like to have to take regents, but the reality is that most people in middle school don’t take high school math (my brother was taking a high school level math course in seventh grade because he is gifted, but he had to drop out of it because it was to difficult, and then he ended up taking honors geometry his freshman year of high school). The people who do and end up passing the courses at that age are typically in MENSA (society for people with extremely high IQ’s like 150 points at their age – you have to take an IQ test and get that score to join and you have to pay membership fees…).

    The point is that it is good to care about your grades- but to a point. Sometimes, people are getting all the help that they can possibly get, but that particular course just is not so easy for them no matter how much help they are getting, I took algebra one four times, passed it the first three and audited it the fourth time because I was only taking it because my geometry teacher wanted a nice student in her summer school class. When I got to advanced algebra, I went to my teacher two- three times a week outside of class for help, and that is how I got an A that year in that level, but that is because I was finally ready to take algebra (brain wise), the first three times I took algebra one, I was in seventh, eighth, and ninth grade, and it was really hard because I was just being diagnosed with a learning difference, but at the end of the day, when I was told that I was going to geometry in tenth grade, I was jumping for joy and my mom took me out for ice cream, because all that mattered was that I was going to the next level, not the grade in the current level.

    My bracha to you Torah613Torah, is that you should be able to relax, and that you should be able to do well in your math course, and in all of your classes without having to worry about what the future wil bring as a result of any mistakes you feel you have made.

    in reply to: Ateres vs Seminar ;) #932947

    Mazal tov!

    in reply to: Medical Billing/Coding #931343

    got it! What training programs do you recommend for billing that are online?

    If I go back to the states at the end of next year, I most likely won’t have access to a car, and I live in a suburb with practically no public transportation (unless I pay a fortune for cabs), and in Israel, I would like an english speaking American program, and then I would work in the mean time while living in E”Y in order to make ends meet (I would prefer to live in israel during that time period).

    in reply to: Horsemeat Scandal In Europe #930279

    Also, people probably got sick and some may have chas veshalom, already died from eating the horse meat.

    in reply to: Meteorite injures 1000 People in Siberia #930160

    I love outer space!!! Can someone bring me a piece of that meteor? I wanna see! Please, pretty please! Pretty please with a cupcake with a cherry on top! I’ll put sprinkles on it and if you want, I can pay your bus fare one way in Jerusalem to the Kosel!

    in reply to: How Popular Is Cyprus? #929935

    Ok, but that is one of the factors that in general is dividing Klal Yisrael apart, that is why we have a modern orthodox rabbi running for chief rabbi because people apparently do not view MO people as being such bad people compared to chareidim?

    in reply to: Birthright #930012

    I have a friend who was a madricha for birthright (I am pretty sure she was a madricha for OU Free Spirit), she had an amazing time. I would say that even though I never went on birthright, always assume that any trip that you take to Israel involves going to the Kosel.

    in reply to: If You Were a Sandwich… #930024

    Grilled Cheese

    in reply to: Attempted Child Abductions In Borough Park #929834

    it was shabbos, cell phones are muktsa

    in reply to: Chedvas #1142079

    could you please answer the following questions?

    1. What is the hashkafa? I know it is bais yaakov, but I have heard that it is a bit different than pninim. Do they require you to get a Kosher Phone? I use a laptop for assistive technology, I am willing to get a filter on it, would that be ok?

    2. What is the uniform like?

    3. Do they offer scholarships?

    4. What are the girls like? Are they New- Yorky?

    5. What is the tuition?

    6. Do they cater to people with a weaker background in Limudei Kodesh (I went to a bais yaakov school last year, but since I only went for one year, my skills are significantly weaker)?

    7. Are they able to cater to people with minor learning differences (I need extended time, preferential seating is a MUST because I have a very short attention span and it gets even shorter if I am not in front- row- center- center, and I will need to be able to get copies of other girls notes because I have weaker note taking abilities)?

    in reply to: Chedvas #1142077

    a bat sherut is someone who is doing national service – sherut leumi.

    A sherut can also mean- Taxi service…

    in reply to: "A Jewish Star"�Not Very Jewish #957776

    I am not sure.

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