ofcourse, i agree with you. i think i know one. not more…

its a combination of factors that of course and az have mentioned plus others, like there aren’t many places for singles to meet on their own these days. 30 years ago it wasn’t like this.

but i dont want to digress from the topic.

please post any other numbers or contact info !

thanks hocker

too many to count,az. single (girls) get lost in the numbers… unless someone knows them personally.

for some reason, this seems to be a sensitive topic with you, az, im not sure why. are you by any chance a shadchan and feel that you’re not being compensated properly? or is it something else? all i asked was numbers or professional shadchanim, because other things don’t seem to work…

when conventional ways fail, it’s good to try something new.

of course reminding shadchanim is necessary, but it’s not always enough… though, that pay per date seems like an interesting idea…

i just regoogled binyan adei ad–is it a lubavitch matchmaking service? do they deal with all types or just lubavitch?

anyone else with ideas and numbers, please feel free to post!

Az, of course you appreciate the work shadchanim do–but let’s be practical. People are more willing to work on a single’s behalf if there’s an incentive. Unfortunately, while regular shadchanim do put in time and effort–it’s not enough. they’re often busy, have other jobs, involved with a lot of things, and have tons of girls. but, if someone is a professional, charges, he/she has a vested interest in putting in a lot of effort and time to set people up.

thanks for the contact info smart cookie, and aishes!

any others?

Yossi, I’m not referring to the typical regular shadchanim, I’m asking about professionals who charge money to do this and devote more time and effort for you because they’re being paid- and not just when they make a shidduch.

fabie, in ny, but really anywhere.

aishes chayil, do you have oshri’s number? Have you or someone you know tried him? What does he charge?

thanks!