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Rezdy- you’re just an employee who hates her job 🙂
Which meat would you like to make?
Shticky- your farewell was well said
Eclipse kept the CR well fed
Well be missing you a lot
But a real life is what you got
My eyes are all teary and red.
Bina- as the saying goes: marriage is NOT a hospital. (And having a baby together is not a medication for emotional problems.)
Some people think marriage and having a child will solve everything.
I like this thread!
yup, Eclipse, I noticed! But I figured it’s part of your farewell!
Rezdy- why are you doing me a favor? I hired you and we’re even. I’m paying you and if you don’t want to take the job, I’ll hire someone else without a problem.
You can set up a lemonade stand 😉
I’d say good shabbos to either gender, if they’re CR members.
Therefore, I say GS to all BP Tottys 😉
I gave a leather and silver Shabbos Zmiros when I ran out of the typical ideas!
You can also give a nice key holder.
BPT- there’s a Minhag to give the Chosson a gold watch as a reminder that “time is Gold!”
Hunter mountain. Absolutely magnificent!
I always use Cholov Yisroel, it osnt even an issue for me.
Never found it hard. I guess cuz I’m used to it.
Funny how so many of you agree on the Golden Flow. I didn’t think it was so obvious.
Wolf- 3rd thread on this topic. =0
Eclipse, please check back every once in a while (seriously)!
We’d like to hear from you!
I only use Golden flow. Stays fresh longest!
Howbout a new threaad:
Tips to enhance our Shalom Bayis? 🙂
Eclipse, I’m still hoping you’re not serious. You add a lot of spice around here.
I would vote you most popular poster.
We really will miss you!!
Observe- I don’t get the point of your question.
I know of many such cases. Such people are not fit to be a Rabbi. I don’t care who calls them Rav.
If it would happen to my Rav(never would!), then I would lose my whole respect for him.
Observe- I wouldn’t call that man a Rav. Every second person is a Rav these days.
Observe- whaaaat???
I WISH you were right. It’s heartbreaking.
I’m Chassidish, and I cannot count how many such stories there are in our community.
Very unfortunate, but perhaps you don’t know everything that’s going on around you. Better this way.
Rezdy- I pay you to babysit, not to eat.
(I always prepare something, but if a babysitter would order her food/drinks like that, I wouldn’t take her in again.)
Anyway, you should start polishing your grammar/english skills while you babysit.
and no, i’m not blaming women for the way they dress
To really smile: And why not?
I don’t see anything inappropriate in this thread, nor do I see a reason to close it.
Once in a while, we’re finally allowed to have a serious conversation here!
Sjs- don’t act so ignorant. No one here is talking about uncovered elbows. There’s a waaaaay bigger transgression of tznius out there. Not elbows, not knees.
It’s terrible.
Just as a btw, I was by a frum dr. in the morning and was horrified at the lady working there. Many frum men aattend that office, and to see this lady there is BAD. And, no, I will not explain how she looked.
Guard- LOL! So that’s why you feel bad making 88 get you a name…
Mine was $225 for a 2 bedroom apartment in 1975.
And I’m paying well over a thousand for a small ONE bedroom hole. I’m ready to cry. :_(
Always here- that happens to me too because some threads shift comletely off topic.
88- you make it sound like your name giving is this major sellout business! 😉
Or for a bubby to pretend to be a bochur?
You mean, for a Bachur to make believe he’s a Bubby. Chayav’s a very young Bochur alright. He’s got a lot to learn in life until he becomes a Bubby.
I am not advocating anything, nor making any judgments. I am simply adding up the sum of the previous posts.
Sorry pops, you don’t know your addition.
Poppa- that’s why we have a Torah which tells us that a WOMAN may not dress inappropriately in any circumstance.
Come on- don’t act dumb. Inappropriate doesn’t mean wearing huge rags, and smelly ones at that. Everything has its limit.
Poppa- why will a marriage suffer if the woman is dressed appropriately? (It’s possible to dress beautifully AND appropo)
Aries you just proved my point. You say the problem is that some men lack commitment. But think- what does that come from? From the women who want to be seen…they are USUALLY the cause to why the men lose commitment and cant control their minds to do what’s right.
Aries- nobody’s denying that men are out for Shiktzas too. But when they see our Heimishe, Frum woman looking a certain way, they think it’s ok to look like that.
(When with a shiktzah, they know it’s wrong and don’t expect their own wives to look/act that way.)
Please don’t deny this problem. Obviously, the ultimate fault is the man’s fault. But it’s the WOMAN’S Tznius that brings problems upon the men. They bring the Yetzer Hora and make it very difficult for men to keep their eyes to themselves.
Maybe you just don’t look out enough. Wait until the winter jackets come off and then tell me if it’s a normal situation out there.
Always- we should make a seperate CR for adults and kids!!
Aries- goy’tes aren’t half aas bad. When a man sees a untznius goy’ta, he knows it’s totally not in his reality.
When he sees a frun woman looking very attractive, he may think “why doesn’t my wife look like her too?”
This isn’t a major divorce reason. But it definitely creates A LOT of problems in our community.
Falling into bed at 3am
Candy- that’s not balbatish, that’s naarish!
Ofcourse- it’s not the problem of men’s eyes “roaming”.
It’s a major problem of woman dressing like models. They are screaming to everyone out there- look at me.
Even I, as a woman, sometimes stare at people and can’t believe how they’re dressed.
Eclipse- we need more women with common sense.
Rules don’t work. People just have to do what they feel is right and stop fooling themselves. (This tshirt is SO NOT tight….uhu….)
And many woman convince themselves that it’s Lshem Shomayim- they dress very
for their hubbies. But they’re forgetting that on the street they are in public.(And hubby is usually at work then anyway!)I think I’ll end up as the only poster with the subtitle “member”! And I like it!
Of course- the Torah doesn’t tell us to wear Burkahs. The torah tells us certain guidelines which we must follow. But I don’t always see that happening either.
I think the women today are too outgoing. They stroll the streets being dressed to the T. The Tznius today is BAD and the street is always full of woman.
Sadly, the men see all these dressed up ladies, MANY of them walking in a flirting way, and it doesn’t do good to his own marriage….
I think this ruins many marriages, and I personally know of a few such tragic marriages. Correct me if I’m wrong please.
Chyav- start reading simple English books. A lot of them.
That should improve your English significantly.
Observ said it well.
Balabatish means well off (and not linving stingy). Balabuste is just a woman who cooks bakes and cleans well (like myself!!)
Please, your turning this CR into a kindergarden :_(
Wolf, you made me laugh 😀