I personally think it’s not a good idea for girls to wear tefillin. yes maybe some righteous women in the past were able to do it, like Rashi’s daughters, but this generation is not on their level of kedusha.

Some girls feel that it enhances their prayers. While that may be, you need to weight the pro and con. There are a lot of conditions that need to be met. If we can do it perfectly, that’s good. But if we mess up, then it becomes an aveira instead of a mitzvah. Why, because it’s Not our obligation to do it. Men are obligated to do it, and so if they mess up, it’s still a mitzvah because they were told to do it.

What people need to understand is that Hashem knows what people need. And so if men are told to wear tefillin and women are not, then it’s because we don’t spiritually need it. We should focus on the mitzvos that Hashem wants us to do. 🙂

I think maybe find someone that can help you. When something is very difficult it helps to have guidance. Also pray for strength and clarity . Remember, we don’know the future. What happened before might or might not happen again.

I think the idea is since it’s a job that’s given to kids, we don’t want to do what is like their job, even though it’s very important. It’s like when I was in high school(went to a small school near an elementary school) and the teacher suggested joining the younger students for an activity that i felt was too young, like making our own shofar. I refused because it was their project.

I think it’s sad though that Gelila is viewed negatively, when it’s an important job. I understand though about not wanting to viewed as a kid

my bro and i wanted to call the operator and order a peanut butter and jelly sandwhich.

I saw a video of a social experiment where someone was standing backwards in an elevator. At first, people didn’t know what he was doing. Then one by one, other people started doing it. That’s how trends start

the one about the father scares me, but on a positive note, Baruch Hashem i have gathered zechusim by helping people

Great poem 🙂

It’s hard, but every effort counts. We don’t need to be perfect, just keep moving forward.

Actually, CBT can actually fit very well with emunah involved therapy. For example, helping someone to think more productively and also working on positive thinking and faith ect

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The reason it’s sometimes difficult to accomplish something is because we put too much on our self. From what I learned from diff shiurim, we should just pick one thing to work on. Mr. Charley Harary mentioned that changing one small habit can help you achieve your goal. And he gave an example of a person that decided to go bike riding once a week, which inspired the person to eat healthier, which helped him lose weight. One small thing leads to another.

Whether it’s saying Good Shabbos, or concentrating on a bracha, or remembering to not talk in shul, everything counts

I saw a really funny one where this guy was going to just pour a bucket on his head. Then his kids take a hose and squirt him all over. lol

Sameach by Shalsheles among their other songs

Naya Nigun Ari Goldwag

Chai the Chevra among others

There are some acapella that is very solemn, like Kol Barama acapella version by Maccabeats. Ana Bechiya by Goldwag. Im eshchachiech. Shomer Yisrael by Lev Tahor and other songs

For the Coffee Room, funny and sweet when you want to be

Thanks for sharing, and baruch Hashem for his return to Torah so his neshema can be nourished again.

We need to remember that even though we want so much to help them, what they need from us is love, understanding, and patience

I think he meant that we should think of how to help, but as i mention above, we do have a thread about it

i mean he does techno

I looked up 8 bit music. It’s synthesized or electronic. I like that.

I heard some from DJ Raidz.

That’s what I pray for. Not just quiet, but an stop to terrorism all together.

It’s frustrating to keep going in circles. I was wondering how long we have to wait for Geula. Then I prayed, please help us to do what we need to do so the Geula can come already

A good thing about a petition is that it shows the solidarity and support of the Jewish people. It doesn’t do much physically however, being that the president doesn’t care. We basically stand alone.

But we have each other and Hashem and that’s what counts. Lets continue to do what we can to help our brothers and sisters – We can bring redemption, may it come soon

Rabbi Landau in Los Angeles does it

kumzitz 🙂

may their souls have an aliya, and may Moshiach come very soon

sadly, the US doesn’t care about our plight. Which is why we need to stick together