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1.First date my friend was on,he hit his side mirrior off his car and kept his cool. It was the other person fault but he knew it wasnt that big of damage so he drove away. The girl on the date tells him dont worry it happens to me all the time my daddy just buys me a new car. 2. Here is a funny one a girl from flatbush was on a second date with a friend of mine and says youre the most perfect guy in the world you have no fauls. He smiled at her and said wow you must be a pcychic how did you know I was a saint.3. Another friend of mine told me he got into a car incident his first date he knnocked down the girl mailbox. the father of the girl says I hope he aint driving you around.
postsemgirl: Bravo true words each circumstance is diffrent I agree with you one hundreded percent. YOU asked if I have had personal experience and the answer is no, but I have had many friends who had broken engagementS. The reasons I gave are ligatement reasons why people break immaturiy, money, and not giving it enoug time. Look oviosly you can never pinpoint exatcly what happened when you dont know the people. I mentioned before it happened to freinds these are the messages there relaying. In additon to elderley people with lots of life experience who shed there light on this matter . When I said its quite simple I did not intend for it to mean this happens to evryone.
The reason why there are hundreds if not thousands of broken engagements is quite simple. Before i start lecturing for those who had one it no big deal its not a divorce!(its much better earlier than later and i know that sounded cliche). Among the hundred of reason here are the most essential reasons in my eyes why the shidduchim system is a bit ironic . First young adults from the ages of 18 to 22 feel like they must get married peer pressure. Its what there mother and father want sometimes or its the girl watching all her friends getting engaged and just feels like jumping into it her self. Second Most guys and girls this generation are not getting profession how do you expect to pay bills people(not my problem) but for this reasons people back out of relashionships MONSEY$$$$$. How can people commit withought having a financial plan and im not talking about relying on the rich controlling father-in law. Third people rush into relashioships withought getting to know the other person emotionally. Many relashionships are superficial out there exspecially with high maintence girls (they always want to be center of attention japs they think there hollywood actress stay far away from such girls there trouble you will be divorced in time in most cases unless you spoil them to death of course). Forth you cant blame shatchanim eventhough majority of times its all bout the cash. When a stranger sets you up on a date, you have to date for a really long time you cant know someone in a few days even months. I hope my infomation was informitive eventhough its ovious!
The reason why there are hundreds if not thousands of broken engagements is quite simple. Before i start lecturing for those who had one it no big deal its not a divorce!(its much better earlier than later and i know that sounded cliche). Among the hundred of reason here are the most essential reasons in my eyes why the shidduchim system is a bit ironic . First young adults from the ages of 18 to 22 feel like they must get married peer pressure. Its what there mother and father want sometimes or its the girl watching all her friends getting engaged and just feels like jumping into it her self. Second Most guys and girls this generation are not getting profession how do you expect to pay bills people(not my problem) but for this reasons people back out of relashionships MONSEY$$$$$. How can people commit withought having a financial plan and im not talking about relying on the rich controlling father-in law. Third people rush into relashioships withought getting to know the other person emotionally. Many relashionships are superficial out there exspecially with high maintence girls (they always want to be center of attention japs they think there hollywood actress stay far away from such girls there trouble you will be divorced in time in most cases unless you spoil them to death of course). Forth you cant blame shatchanim eventhough majority of times its all bout the cash. When a stranger sets you up on a date, you have to date for a really long time you cant know someone in a few days even months. I hope my infomation was infomitive eventohough its ovious!