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If anything i would say can you prove the arabs and muslims are wrong because they are much more of a threat than the christians.
And yes, i think i could prove it, but its always hard explaining things you feel, especially if half of it IS only feeling!(which i guess is what emuna is!)Thats why there are trained kiruv people, to explain things that are hard to explain, but i know they definitly can be explained, and if so many parents have done it till now, i suppose it is possible to give it over to our children.
skiaddictMemberOk vayeitzei- there is a huge difference between someone who is mechalel shabbos befarhesya and people tell him 3 times that its an issur and he carries on doing it anyway- that is a rebellion against Hashem, and he shows that he doesnt care about going against Hashem, and its a mitzva to speak against him.
But when a girl is dressed basically ok, but not totally, and yes soliek, i did know that this way of dress was slightly out of line, but no, i did not expect to be getting looks, because i live in a very open and varied community, that is generally accepting of everyone, to say anything about that to somone else is TOTALLY lh!
SaysMe – youre right on target!
skiaddictMemberI know, my mum hates sundays because the kids are home with nothing to do and make a huge mess, and the house is totally flying, but for me, i love it cos its my day off from work!
skiaddictMemberMy father told me it says in gemoro that white wine is healthy for pregnant women.
skiaddictMemberVayeitzei- so you agree with those that throw rocks at cars on shabbos, because its tochacha.
skiaddictMemberMight be a siren in your ears
skiaddictMemberGosh if i would eat when im bored i would be so fat by now! Its crazy how bored and understimulated so many of us are these days i dunno why cos theres always something to do, but boring.
skiaddictMember“and by then, you’ll be a mile a way so he won’t know about it!” Never heard that one! Wish ppl would follow it!
skiaddictMember“I’ve heard it is totally muttar, but unwise since nobody will marry you.” – ha ha popa thats exactly right!!
Everyone i just want to say, ive just now come back to the thread, and the reactions are basically what i expected, some people think its my own fault for dressing like that, which is obviously true BUT! its NOT my fault that this happens to be the area i am struggling the most on, wheras other people in that crowd last night didnt have such a hard struggle in this area, but in more unnoticeable ways eg middos, and yes shmiras haloshon.
The fact is that when i am with another crowd who are not that careful with tznius, but things like peoples bad middos and shmiras haloshon gets them upset, so i conclude that people just feel comfortable with themselves and judge others on what is easy for them – someone who has really struggled with an issue, will NOT judge someone else on it, because they know how hard it is. So if you dont know about it then DONT give your opinion!
And all of you who are not women, tznius is VERY VERY hard, some harder than others depending on your tafkid, in another thread, i said its just as hard as for men to be learning all their spare time.
Thanks so much everyone who sympathized, you really made me feel better, thanx!!
And btw, my friend did not tell me which woman said it, (so i have a pick of a few in my mind), and she herself was shocked that somone could be like that, but she wanted me to realize what kind of crowd i was dealing with, and besides for that, she was feeling very self concsious for a totally unrelated reason, and we had been talking about people who check you out and yach about you, so it came in. Maybe not totally right, but im happy she did.
mdd- mind your own business is TOTALLY a jewish thing! Mah tovu?! We dont look into each others business, we let everyone live their own way. If we think its wrong, we can rebuke them in a PROPER way, like Sam4321 said.
I already said, i am totally for tochacha and protesting things that are against halacha, but in the correct way. ny100k – actually if she would have told me to my face it wouldnt have hurt half as much! Because then i could have explained myself, and made her understand me, AND it would have sunk in much more, i would have felt like, she really feels pained that i did that thing, and rebuke from the heart is very powerful. The fact that she did it behind my back, IS WHAT HURT. That shows that she was just after trying to put me down and didnt care about me at all.
Thanx aries i knew you would have something caring to say, and thanx everyone else! I really really appreciate it!
skiaddictMemberI love mamma mia dunno if thats called a classic
December 6, 2011 11:24 pm at 11:24 pm in reply to: Separate Times For Bochurim & Sem Girls In Gateshead #1029625skiaddictMemberObelix!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE ASTERIX AND OBELIX!!!!!!I LOVE YOUR NAME!!!AND UR SUBTITLE!!!!
skiaddictMemberWoaw i was about to get jealous!haha
December 6, 2011 11:13 pm at 11:13 pm in reply to: Lights on Shabbos and Thanking Someone for Doing an Aveirah on Your Behalf #840939skiaddictMemberRight…. now were gonna find out who the loobies are..
skiaddictMemberStand outside that music shop with that whole crowd of ppl who watch the movie they put on
skiaddictMemberJust want to say, kkbmp, that dont get your hopes up so high of getting accepted, because they turn down a lot of girls, even British girls, because of lack of space. But if you do get in, its amazing and youll love it!
skiaddictMemberI dont get it. When i look at people who are not ‘frum wearing black and white’ i see basically the same amount of individuality in dress as the frum community. Everyone is either wearing casual jeans and top, or whatevers hot in style, so there is just as much individuality there. So why you saying there is no individuality? We are all humans and there are basic clothes that everyone has to wear its tough!
skiaddictMemberHow on earth do you know that “if it did occur to him, he had been taught that it was an evil thought that must be purged” youre making that up!!! Dont just say things that are prob not true!
skiaddictMemberYeah, same about smoking, but WHY??????
skiaddictMemberOMG i cant believe it, i never heard of this tape till one of my roommates started to put it on all day and i LOVED it its a hilarious tape, every purim i think of it its just HYSTERICAL!!!
skiaddictMemberSo maybe thats why moshiach isnt coming- because there are not enough noshim tzidkonios…
November 29, 2011 11:11 pm at 11:11 pm in reply to: A Jew should lose profit to stop a Non-Jew from sinning. #831117skiaddictMemberWhy not? If anything people have become even more sick than ever before..
skiaddictMemberRabbi Rubenstein is absolutely AMAZING!! Worth to go just for him!
skiaddictMemberRSRH- Its not like he made it up you know. He gets it from gemoro or somewhere- like i said, i would go through it again to see where its brought down if you really want just it would take me forever to check the whole sefer.
skiaddictMemberI remember learning in Rabbi Falks sefer that immodesty is the cause of tragedy in the world(if someone wants i can try go through the whole sefer again to find where he quotes it)
skiaddictMemberThey only gave permission because they were bullied into it! Etzel/haganna they terrorised the British into it! And what about the land that they conquered-‘occupied territory’ NO ONE ever legalised that!
skiaddictMemberUh excuse me how can you write such a thing??? HAPPY birthday!!! Do you know how many jewish lives were lost, how many precious yiden have been killed because of that disgraceful disgusting shameful state! HALEL OMG!!! On yom hatzmaut i, and many members of my family fast! Just recently a close relative of mine, Rabbi Dan Mertzbach was killed because of the Israely state. It is a disgusting abomination that needs to come to an end, not be celebrated h”y!
skiaddictMemberIs ohr Naava where Rabbi Rubenstein is?
skiaddictMemberWIY- your right. We need reminders all the time. Thanx for that.
skiaddictMemberZumba is fun and no one should dare take that away from us under tznius pretenses! I think people have problems with the type of moves is not refined but whateva..
skiaddictMemberSuch rubbish that frum women are less educated about childbirth than non jewish ones.
They go to the same doctors, get the same support- any woman that is pregnant jolly well educates herself on her pregnancy and childbirth, if she wasnt educated before. I dont know how you can say that!
skiaddictMemberGood list!!! Yeah, we English speak it properly..
skiaddictMemberThey probably feel they have a right to do what they want because they are so poor and feel they should have leeway to do whats convenient and people should first be in their position before yelling at them. Im not saying its a good excuse but cmon, was there never times when you did something not right, and thought-its too bad what people think, if they would only know my circumstances they would understand, or, right now i couldnt care less what they think, or whats right. Dunno if i make sense, but these people are not living normal lives.
skiaddictMemberAlso dont forget that even if someone is born with a predisposition to greatness, a lot, lot more is expected from them, and they have to work just as hard as anyone else to get to where they are meant to.
skiaddictMemberBurberry body is yum! A really good cheap one is David Beckham Intimately yours. If you want sweet smells, try 212 or SJP are really nice.
skiaddictMemberK k! Fine with me i just thought my computer had a problem.(Shticky-i post from the ski slopes!)
skiaddictMemberHi bros!So proud to be British we ROCK!!!!!
skiaddictMemberYeah thanx!
skiaddictMemberI never even knew what anglophile meant-thanx for adding to my vocab! Yup im proud of my English accent cinderella!(i was recently in NY and people thought the accent was cool!) So who else is English??
November 25, 2011 6:32 am at 6:32 am in reply to: Give Thanks To The YWN Staff, Editors And Moderators Today #1034437skiaddictMemberThanx for starting the thread shticky, and thanx YWN staff and mods and whoever started this place its AMAZING thanx a mill!
skiaddictMemberkingdavid – and anyone else who puts hebrew on – please could you translate! Not everyone can translate…!
skiaddictMemberyeah…
skiaddictMemberUh actually the world has changed quite a bit since your bobbes times… What worked for them does not work for us anymore. You do know about Sara Shneirer and the revolution that was necessary in girls education, dont you?
skiaddictMemberWhat makes you laugh? What makes you sad? if you could go back and relive any moment of your life what would it be?
skiaddictMemberHappiest- I know that a rov in my town told one of my mums friends to try get out of it, and the defendant was not jewish as far as i know. I think the reasoning is that if the defendant is found guilty, we all know how the goyim quickly accuse jews and the family will hate jews because one of the jury who convicted their son/friend is jewish and they will blame it on them, which makes a lot of sense- after all, why give goyim more opportunity if you can avoid it?
skiaddictMemberBH- HILARIOUS about the feminists!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-):-)
skiaddictMemberAll of you are frauds… and goq is a SPY!
skiaddictMemberCmon there’s nothing wrong with the thread! I think women can be on Hatzola but only called in if they are needed, for example there has been lots of cases of hatzola having to deliver babies, and having an experienced midwife or even labour supporter on the team, would be very beneficial!
skiaddictMemberNechomah – i totally agree with you, in fact it IS a mitzva for women to learn things like halochos that apply to them, and learning it inside is much much better.
skiaddictMemberI think in any case rabonim say that jews should stay away from doing jury, so maybe they will let you off if you say its got to do with religious, and your rabbi doesnt want you to or something..
skiaddictMemberPlus sewing is boring and takes ages and there are much more exciting and interesting things to do with ones life.
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