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  • in reply to: 'Halachic Dinner" – What do you think about it? #1083306
    simcha613
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    mentsch- so then this exoctic halachic dinner was absolutely appropriate as many of these foods are probably a one time thing.

    in reply to: 'Halachic Dinner" – What do you think about it? #1083292
    simcha613
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    DY- You could look at it in two ways: Glorifying pleasure and pretending it’s a Torah value, or taking a pleasure that one already has and enjoying it in the framework of Talmud Torah. I don’t know why you and newbee assume the worst.

    in reply to: 'Halachic Dinner" – What do you think about it? #1083288
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    Daas Yochid- that’s exactly Newbee’s objections. And since these people are (and I quote) “very wealthy MO BTs who love expensive food and Rov Joseph Ber Soloveitchik (in that order)- “, pashtus is that dan lechaf zechus doesn’t apply, they’re obviously reshaim and avaryanim who are using the Torah to rationalize their bottomless stomachs, and we must assume that they are the lowest common denominator. Not only that, but the mitzvah of hocheiach tochiach es amisecha requires us to criticize them anonymously in a public forum that they probably don’t read because obviously loshon hara and possibly motzi sheim ra doesn’t apply to these beheimos.

    in reply to: 'Halachic Dinner" – What do you think about it? #1083273
    simcha613
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    newbee- Exactly. The next night some of them will probably just go to a fancy restaurant. They don’t need a rationalization to eat expensive and exotic food. They do it anyways! So now, maybe only this one time, they are doing it in a Talmud Torah context. Baruch Hashem! Kein yirbu!

    in reply to: 'Halachic Dinner" – What do you think about it? #1083270
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    Newbee- Let me be clear. I understand your point. You’re criticizing that they’re trying to pretend that their ta’avah is a mitzvah. I think that’s a very cynical and unnecessarily judgmental way of looking at it because you could just as easily argue that they are trying to turn their ta’avah into a mitzvah.

    in reply to: 'Halachic Dinner" – What do you think about it? #1083266
    simcha613
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    newbee- So they have taavos for good food just like you. But instead of just eating good and exotic food, they tried to mix it with Talmud Torah… and you’re criticizing them for it.

    in reply to: 'Halachic Dinner" – What do you think about it? #1083263
    simcha613
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    Newbee- so you’ve never eaten at a nice restaurant? you’ve never eaten anything other than bread and water outside the context of a seudas mitzvah? Maybe you’re just as bad as them!

    That is chapter 15 in Mesilas Yesharim, most people have to work on zehirus and zerizus before you make them feel guilty over the higher levels. Not everyone is as holy as you are, and shouldn’t jump stages in the Mesilas Yesharim so that they meet your standards of tzidkus.

    in reply to: 'Halachic Dinner" – What do you think about it? #1083258
    simcha613
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    newbee- I think you’re trying too hard to criticize.

    in reply to: 'Halachic Dinner" – What do you think about it? #1083250
    simcha613
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    I wonder if peacock is kosher. I know there’s no Mesorah for it, but mistama it’s still kosher. We know the Biblical word for peacock because the Queen of Sheba gave peacocks to Shlomo Hamelech as a gift, and it is not one of the non-kosher birds listed in Yayikra.

    in reply to: exams bittul toyroh #1085670
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    Wolf-

    Laining in a vacuum may be considered bittul Torah compared to what you could be learning… but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be doing it ever. Someone needs to lain in shul, and the pashtus is tzorchei tzibbur is docheh Talmud Torah if you are needed. Also, if you are laining to enable you to memorize pesukim to aid in your learning down the road, than that probably wouldn’t be considered bittul Torah.

    in reply to: Zionism, Why the Big Debate? #1102014
    simcha613
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    Jewish Thinker- and there are many good arguments how they are no longer binding or how they were never binding. That’s why it’s a machlokes and that’s exactly my point. It’s a machlokes about an obscure Gemara that’s not even brought down lehalachah by the Rosh, Rambam, Rif, or Shulchan Aruch. There are many machlokes in halachah and hashkafah and yet none seem to be as polarizing as this. It’s ironic that the focal point of Zionism usually happens on Yom HaAtzmaus, where we remember how the students of R’ Akiva were punished for not treating each other respectfully. Calling a person who doesn’t say Hallel on Yom HaAtzmaus a heartless sonei Yisroel, or calling someone who does say Hallel on Yom HaAtzmaus a kofer or an apikores (I know I’m speaking in extremes here) seems to be completely the opposite the nature of sefirah. We are disrespecting two legitimate streams of halachic Judaism. Can’t we recognize that this is but a small detail in our Avodas Hashem and admit that there is halachic basis to each side? Can’t we discuss halachah without the poisonous rhetoric?

    in reply to: Zionism, Why the Big Debate? #1102003
    simcha613
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    I still don’t get all the commotion. Religious Zionism is simply the belief that the Jewish people belong in EY… not because of any nationalistic reasons, but because Hashem gave us EY as seen in the Torah. At worst, it’s a violation of the 3 shevuos which is not one of the 613 Mitzvos, it’s not one of the 13 ikkarim of the Rambam, and it’s not even brought down lehalacha by most poskim. The machlokes between Religious Zionists and Religious Anti-Zionists is simply how to understand that Gemara, which like I said, isn’t brought down lehalachah by the poskim. It’s such a small betail within the world of halachah and hashkafah. Why does this tiny disagreement cause such a huge machlokes among Klal Yisroel? It doesn’t make sense!

    simcha613
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    Joseph-

    I guess I shouldn’t have used that terminology. I don’t disagree with the Tiferes Shlomo. I am clarifying what I think he meant. To argue the other side meant to be an argument on those who understand it differently.

    His one example is that Klal Yisroel followed Moshe Rabeinu’s “absurd” military advice. I don’t know if Moshe Rabeinu was a military expert (I wouldn’t be surprised if he was), and he was using his Da’as Torah plus his military expertise to make a decision, but even if he wasn’t a military expert, if anyone can extract military expertise from their pure unadulterated Torah knowledge, it would be Moshe Rabeinu. I don’t know if that can be extended to any talmid chacham.

    I wouldn’t be surprised if the Tiferes Shlomo would agree that one is not lacking emunas chachamim if he doesn’t listen to the business advice of a talmid chacham who has no business experience.

    What would be the category of the gedolim of our generation like R’ Kanievsky or R’ Shteinman? I have no idea. I have no idea if their Torah knowledge is great enough to be able to extract information that they have absolutely no expertise in like medicine. But I doubt that anyone other than the upper echelon of Talmidei Chachamim nowadays has the capacity to give advice in an area that they know nothing about, regardless of how much Torah they know.

    simcha613
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    To argue the other side, and I don’t mean to discount emunas chachamim in non-halachic/reshus situations, but I think it needs to be combined with an expertise in that area of “non-halacha/reshus.” A talmid chacham should not be dispensing medical advice if he’s a non expert.

    Everything is in Torah, but only the greatest of the great are actually able to understand everything from the Torah. 99.999999% of Klal Yisroel, including the great talmidei chachamim, will not do well on calculus exam simply by knowing Shas, Poskim, Tanach, and Kabbalah.

    A talmid chacham may be a talmid chacham, but if he is not an expert in medicine, business, politics, or even psychology, than his advice in those areas may not be the best advice… and not listening to them wouldn’t necessarily be a lack of emunas chachamim.

    in reply to: Is seeing a doctor dangerous #1074454
    simcha613
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    Isn’t there a Mishnah in Berachos that lists examples of tefilos shav? If I’m not mistaken, one of the examples is davening for a specific gender of a child when a woman is pregnant. The implication is, is that once a woman is pregnant, even though no one knows the gender of the baby, it’s still a tefilos shav to daven for a gender that has already been determined, and it would be a neis to change it. By extension, I would say that seeing a doctor does not change the teva. If a physical reality exists, it exists, whether you know about it or not, and it would be a neis to change it, whether it is recognized or not.

    in reply to: Some zionist thoughts for yom haatzmaut #1074222
    simcha613
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    Hakatan-

    I also find it insulting how you say “your faith” with regard to Zionism. The differences between a religious Zionist and a Chareidi are so small. They disagree on how to view the state. That’s it. It’s not one of the 13 ikkarim of the Rambam. Honestly, the haskafaic differences between religious Zionist and Chareidi are far smaller than the differences between a misnaged and a chosid. Are they two different religions too?

    Stop calling a machlokes in hashkafah a different religion. The inability to recognize legitimate machlokes is disturbing and a source for unnecessary sinas chinam.

    in reply to: Some zionist thoughts for yom haatzmaut #1074221
    simcha613
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    Hakantan- “But since you mention it, and with all due respect, since your faith claims that the Zionist enterprise is “aschalta diGeulah” the RZ, liChaOrah, aren’t praying for the true geulah, but rather that it should be “completed” after its decades-long “start”. “

    It seems that two signs of the geulah are the return of the Jewish People to the Land of Israel (kibbutz galuyos) and the physical restoration of the Land. Unless you think that all of the Jews in Israel will have to leave, and that Israel will have to become desolate again before Mashiach comes, it’s hard to argue that the geulah has not started.

    in reply to: Some zionist thoughts for yom haatzmaut #1074122
    simcha613
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    Joseph-

    The Rambam is clear that sheivet Leivi is exempt from the army and that anyone who wants to “join” sheivet leivi can by learning full time. But, the Rambam is also clear that no one is allowed to take money for learning. So if we’re going to use the Rambam as the basis that anyone learning in kollel is exempt from military service, than we should also discontinue the kollel stipend as per the shitah of the Rambam.

    in reply to: Some zionist thoughts for yom haatzmaut #1074111
    simcha613
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    Little Froggie- you misinterpret lesschumras. He wasn’t saying scholars don’t cause benefit. And he wasn’t ridiculing them either. He was pointing out that there is no source that says Torah provides ABSOLUTE protection, and clearly, historically, it has not provided absolute protection… and he was explaining that to those who claim otherwise.

    in reply to: Some zionist thoughts for yom haatzmaut #1074103
    simcha613
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    I don’t know if there is any religious significance to the State of Israel. I don’t even know if it’s really a “Jewish state” (I mean, an organization has to be halachic to be Jewish… I wouldn’t consider a reform temple a Jewish institution simply because they call themselves Jewish, are by Jews, and claim to represent Jews).

    I celebrate Yom Haatzmaut and say Hallel beleiv malei, not because of the State, but because the government of the Land of Israel (in this case it happens to be the State of Israel) has allowed us to return to our land en masse… and through this government there is more Torah in Eretz Yisroel since the fall of Beitar.

    Hodu LaShem ki tov. Me’eis HaShem hayso zos, hi niflas be’eineinu.

    in reply to: Practicality on the Palestinians #1094199
    simcha613
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    Israel cannot keep the Palestinians as permanent second class citizens. They really only have two choices, make them citizens of Israel or give them a Palestinian state. No one wants them to be citizens so there should be a Palestinian state.

    However, Israel is under no obligation to give them the entire West Bank. Palestine has no historical borders so there is no land to “return” to them. What should be done, and I think what sort of has been done in the past, is Israel needs to offer them a state which comprises say about half of the West Bank carved out in such a way that most if not all of the Jewish communities remain part of Israel. Any Palestinians “stuck” in Israel would become full citizens of Israel and any Jews “stuck” in the new Palestinian state would become full equal citizens in the new state. And if the new Palestinian state would commit act of terrorism against Israel, that would be an act of war by a sovereign nation and Israel should blow them out of the water.

    As long as the Palestinian leadership won’t take anything less than the entire West Bank, then the Palestinians won’t get a state, and the only ones to blame are their own leadership.

    in reply to: New Indiana Law #1070201
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    Divri- I don’t think we paskin halachah from Midrash. The fact is, two women “marrying” each other is only an issur d’rabanan (I’m pretty sure that’s how the Rambam paskins- I have to look it up), which would certainly not apply to goyim.

    in reply to: New Indiana Law #1070184
    simcha613
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    zdad- I agree with you. If there is “religiously mandated discrimination”, then I can understand the need for a law to protect the rights of the religious to discriminate as their religion demands (though, it still may be considered unconstitutional).

    However, in our case, the law shouldn’t even get off the ground (at least from a halachic perspective- I don’t know what the Christian laws are on this topic). There shouldn’t be a law to allow you to discriminate against people that make you feel uncomfortable. That is certainly unconstitutional.

    in reply to: New Indiana Law #1070179
    simcha613
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    zdad- so in that case, there may be what to talk about. But I don’t think halacha forbids one from doing business with someone who is gay. If the only issue is that they make you uncomfortable, why should you be allowed to deny them business on those grounds?

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    It wasnt too long ago that there were sign No Dogs or jews Allowed “

    But I don’t think that’s allowed anymore. I don’t think a store can say “no Jews allowed.” So why should a store be allowed to say no gays allowed?

    in reply to: New Indiana Law #1070174
    simcha613
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    Zahavasdad- there might be a difference between a religious requirement and not. I don’t think halacha allows for a Jewish person to have avodah zara on his property. And if it did allow it, then maybe a store owner shouldn’t have the right to kick him out just because it makes him uncomfortable.

    Would it be ok if Jews weren’t allowed in certain stores? Again, where do you draw the line?

    in reply to: New Indiana Law #1070173
    simcha613
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    Torah and nolonger- I understand that those are quite awkward and uncomfortable. It would freak me out as well. But if there is no religious prohibition, if there’s no conflict between religious law and American law, how could you support that constitutionally? What if black people annoyed me? Can I deny them business? Where do you draw the line?

    in reply to: OU = MO? #1070715
    simcha613
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    simcha613- not to mention that what Sam says is correct. There isn’t that much of a difference between the frum Modern Orthodox and the Yeshivish.

    in reply to: OU = MO? #1070714
    simcha613
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    Joseph- no one is denying that there are Gedolim who were/are opposed to YU. But that’s not a reason to write off the whole Modern Orthodox movement. There were many Gedolim who were against the Chassidus movement and we haven’t written them off.

    And many gedolim also said better to die in Europe than go to America and face that spiritual danger. I’m not here to debate whether they were right or wrong, but it’s clear that we don’t paskin like that.

    in reply to: OU = MO? #1070701
    simcha613
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    EretzHaK- You answered your own question. They protested it because it dealt with it publicly. BUT, it was not trying to legitimize homosexuality as a way of life. They were trying to legitimize homosexuals as people and make people understand the struggles they go through.

    in reply to: OU = MO? #1070696
    simcha613
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    DY- I think the reason why Sam makes that assumption is because most of the YU Yeshiva learn the Torah and the hashkafah of the yeshivish velt, something that isn’t true the other way around. It is more likely that a YU Rosh Yeshiva knows about both worlds, because they respect and learn from both worlds… something that can’t necessarily be said about the roshei yeshiva and the rabbonim in the yeshiva world.

    in reply to: OU = MO? #1070669
    simcha613
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    Didn’t R’ Shach oppose Chabad very strongly? Didn’t the Gra oppose Chassiudus? When do we write off entire sects of Judaism because some Gedolim oppose them?

    in reply to: OU = MO? #1070668
    simcha613
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    Hakatan- mixed events at yu with marrigable agreed singles is not the same situation of pritzus that you describe

    in reply to: OU = MO? #1070647
    simcha613
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    HaKatan- I am no expert in R’ Lamm’s writings, but if he did indicate that, it was not meant halachah lema’aseh. He did not make birchas haTorah upon enetering a science lab. If he indicated that, he meant as a hyperbole to demonstrate how valuable science is, but it is not equitable. Even according to R’ Lamm.

    in reply to: OU = MO? #1070643
    simcha613
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    Even R’ Lamm would not equate Torah with secular studies. He wouldn’t make Birchos HaTorah on Aristotle.

    in reply to: My issue with the Israeli Chareidi parties #1066395
    simcha613
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    mw13- Is that true that they simply represent the religious needs of the nation as a whole? I heard rumors (and I hope they aren’t true) that when they are in charge of funding for yeshivos, it is disproportionately in favor of the Chareidi yeshivos as opposed to the Religious Zionist yeshivos?

    Not to mention, that they are also involved in dealing with the poverty in Charedi communities (other than career services), but it doesn’t seem like they are involved in dealing with poverty as a whole.

    Maybe I’m wrong, but that is the impression that I get.

    in reply to: My issue with the Israeli Chareidi parties #1066389
    simcha613
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    Akuperma- I’m not sure who you are referring to when you say Zionists want to give all sorts of benefits to the Palestians. My understanding is that most Israelis either want them to leave the West Bank, stay where they are as second class citizens, or have their own state. Very few, if any, want them to be full citizens and have full benefits.

    And even if those people do exists, there is a difference between Palestinians and Chareidim in the eyes of the Israeli. Chareidim are Jews and Palestinians are not. Your average Israeli has higher standards for Jews, even Chareidim. I might be willing to give money to both a stranger and a relative or a friend, but I have higher expectations for the relative or the friend to reciprocate. I will be more insulted if a friend or relative takes without giving then if a stranger does it. And I would be more likely to give money to a stranger who doesn’t reciprocate than a friend or relative who doesn’t reciprocate.

    It’s not bigotry. Your average Israeli is not offended by the intense religious nature of the Charedi. They’re insulted by the fact that the Charedim want nothing to do with them when in their eyes we’re all Jews and we all have a responsibility to the Jewish People as a whole. The average Israeli has higher standards for the Chareidi than for the Palestinian, is more insulted when the Chareidi shuns them and treats them like strangers.

    in reply to: Prime Minister-elect Isaac Herzog #1065291
    simcha613
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    Here’s how it will play out- Bayit Yehudi, Yisraal Beiteinu, and Yachad will sit with Likud. The Arab parties, and Meretz will sit with Labor. UTJ/Shas, Yeish Atid, and Kulanu will be up in the air. Whoever gets 2 of those 3 will get the coalition. Since UTJ/Shas will not sit with Yeish Atid, whoever gets Kulanu will win.

    in reply to: hamodia anti-yishai? #1065658
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    147- I think it’s a bit extreme to say Bennett is against religious observance, especially considering that he is religious himself. It’s just that his shitah is, as well as the shitah of many Religious Zionist gedolim, that the Israeli army is a religious requirement as defending Eretz Yisroel and Klal Yisroel from our enemies would qualify as a milchemes mitzvah. I don’t mean to start a debate on whether they’re right or wrong, whether talmud toah should be a valid ptur or not, those arguments have been rehashed many times here… my point is, Bennett is not against religious observance just because he doesn’t have the exact same hashkafah as you.

    in reply to: Satmar Rebbe #1060858
    simcha613
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    KJ Chusid- Both bad and good can be attributed to medinah, but that doesn’t mean we can ignore being makir tov for the good. You listed some of the bad things, but you cannot deny the main good that medinah has brought: there are more Jews and more Torah in Eretz Yisreol than since probably the fall of Beitar. I think that is something priceless and we owe the medinah a tremendous amount of hakaras hatov for that fact alone.

    in reply to: Is cloning allowed #1058631
    simcha613
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    Cloning is simply an extension of genetic profiling which in some cases is mutar. It’s like genetic profiling on steroids. And since steroids are probably assur, cloning is probably assur as well.

    in reply to: Superbowl Parties #1136343
    simcha613
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    yybc- “And no one said going to the Yankee game is muttar. ” Who said it was assur?

    in reply to: Superbowl Parties #1136329
    simcha613
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    Is a Super Bowl party really any more Darchei Emori than going to Yankee Stadium to watch a ball game?

    in reply to: Teaching kid shomer negiah? #1049959
    simcha613
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    Speaking of shomer negiah, I was under the impression that it is an issur d’orays (lo sikrevu legalos ervah). If so, how come Yaakov Avinu kissed Rochel Imeinu before they married? It is clearly derech chibah. I know that they didn’t necessarily keep the Torah outside of EY, but usually there was a reason.

    in reply to: Can women talk about Gemara? #1077377
    simcha613
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    Trust- Even our greatest gedolim had rebbeim. Is it possible for a woman to learn without a teacher? Of course. But it’s also more likely that they will misunderstand many things without a teacher. Same thing with boys. If you want to learn anything properly, you need a teacher.

    Lior- like I said before, S”A also says that they receive reward for learning it. So you have to reconcile the two. Saying she is allowed to learn but no one is allowed to teach her is illogical and certainly not what the S”A meant.

    And if I understand PAA correctly, he is saying that Chazal knew that in their time that it was bad, but since they understood that the reality can change, they refrained from making a formal prohibition. Hence, the S”A never says it is assur for them to learn or it is assur for anyone to teach them.

    in reply to: Can women talk about Gemara? #1077373
    simcha613
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    DY- Saying that a woman is allowed to learn but a woman is not allowed to be taught is essentially saying she’s not allowed to learn. You can’t learn anything, especially Gemara, without a teacher. If she is allowed to learn when she wants to learn, then obviously she is allowed to be taught. Saying otherwise is illogical

    in reply to: Can women talk about Gemara? #1077367
    simcha613
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    Dy- but the sh”a is not saying what you were saying. .. that it is assur for any man to teach Gemara to any woman

    in reply to: Can women talk about Gemara? #1077362
    simcha613
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    DY- I’m not sure if I understand. Why is it only assur for men to teach women certain subjects? If there’s a problem with men teaching women, it should be a problem in all subjects. If there’s a problem with the subject matter, than it should be assur whoever teaches it. I don’t get the logic that it’s assur for men to teach women only certain subjects.

    in reply to: Can women talk about Gemara? #1077360
    simcha613
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    Dy- so it’s like a tzniyus issue? Men can’t teach women but women can? That doesn’t seem to be what the sa seems to say.

    in reply to: Can women talk about Gemara? #1077357
    simcha613
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    DY- I apologize for making that assumption, but then what is the “classical” way of understanding that S”A?

    in reply to: Can women talk about Gemara? #1077352
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    DY- if the S”A truly meant that it is assur for girls to learn, why would the S”A say they get reward for doing it?

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