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Ner Isreal is a great place to consider. Also YU may be suitable, however it may be a shtikle too modern for your bro.. It all depands.
MODS LISTEN UP!!!!; I have a great idea. all singles should have a singles coffee room, just for the singles they can all chat exactly like this, and if a guy or girl is interested in dating one another they should then contact you by emailing you thier resumes, then you can set them up.
and YOU’LL get the shadchonus GELT!
In skver they have to give a square ring. not sure when it’s given though either in the yichud shtieb/ during engagement/ prehaps as the kedushin ring although I think that has to be sth that is completely round…
I have a friend that uses strawberries for Karpas!!!
Has anyone heard of the segula/minhag for putting havdala wine in your pockets for a segula for parnassa?!!
theres also a chassidishe “minhag” that I heard of that there is to be no shtick in the first dance at a wedding!! Cause it’s suposed to be “family dancing time”. this first dance also has to be a slow emotional one with rebbish music!!! How obserd is that??!!
Aonther one..;-some chassidishe blokes don’t cut thier peyos they either burn them/ tie them up!when it gets “a little” long..
to eat cholent on motzie shabbos!!! fech!!!
some have a minhag to put salt in a babies bath!! not so bad as the previous one, but I just wonder where and how these extra halachos came about..
saying shema by a mezuza..
everyone contributing to a 3 year old boys hair cut..
That’s a really good question. Although your on here yourself, So why should it concern you if your spouse was on here too?
So you say your going for a second Date, then keep us posted. We’re all waiting to hear from you!! Hope you make a wise decision in this. Don’t be foolish!! She might just be your bashert that you are pushing away over a lousey pair of shoes!!!
WIY; mazeh shechonu alov??
Are you looking to marry a pair of heels or are you looking for an Eishes chayil? dresscode can always be changed, but the person is what really counts. If she is definitely not your type and totally not compatible, fine so be it, but over a pair of shoes!!!!! come on get real!!! It takes moments to change a pair of shoes and a lifetime to change a person. I’m not saying that looks don’t count, If her physical appearance is terribly below your tastesbuds, leave at that, ’cause you can’t change that.
If you are comfortable enough you may even wish to discuss clothes with her… Every girl loves to talk about that. Ask her if she ever likes to wear heals… broach the subject of course in a gentle refined manner, and it will allow both of you to be closer, if you so wish to invest in the relationship..
Life is a multiple choice test, make the right decision. For it’s long term and there’s no turning back!
You are what you eat!! I’m NOT judging you and I’m not saying that you are going against halacha, however whatever goes into your system effects the way you behave. If you are careful with this, then it will be much easier to be careful with bigger (more important) things..
there was a 16 year old kid driving in front of me the other day. he kept on jerking, swerving etc.. no confidence in the slightest. I had to keep my distance from him to avoid an accident, until I was able to overtake. popa bar abba, your generalisation is pretty true but unfortunately not every single guy has pure confidence behind the wheel. One of the reasons why majority guys are better at manuvering vehicles is because they have a much higher muscle stregth than women.
said some tehilim and I hope they have a Refah shelaima bekorov! Amen.
Boruch Hashem. That’s great to hear!! thanks for updating us all.
Avraham Fried,-Album: Bein Kach. Released 2006. Song:”Father don’t cry”.
that’s a real chassid at heart. you may find the chassidishe nugunim far better than nusach ashkenas. chassidim serve hashem with singing and dancing!! I’m not mekaraving you at all, just thought I’d state that..
I said some tehilim for her. I really hope she has a refuah sheleima!!
I think alot of kids from bt parents go off mainly ’cause they don’t feel welcome in the frum society. They don’t feel that they belong.. they think that if they go off the derech they will be more accepted in society. But they are wrong. Kids that go off don’t belong there and they certainly take one big step away from becoming accepted into the frum society. In every circle, even the nonjewish circles, social habbits are naturally the same. If you cant win here you certainly won’t win there. so you might as well follow the torah and love hashem. they say but really truely loving hashem and serving him with your full heart and soal, everything will go right for you. Hashem put you into this world and if you internalise the fact that noone can help or harm you other than hashem then you will fall away from the resentment of other people once you do that you will start actuall seeing the good in others, and you will start to like them once you truly love them they will love you back and you won’t feel the need to want to escape your familiar society that you grew up in…
personally I can tell when people go off the derech , or if they were just simply raised that way, just like you can tell who the Bt’s are… if you know what i’m saying. Tell this to him and have him watch the shiur and he will definitely change for the good. kids that are burnt don’t see past thier noses, so you have to tell him whats beyond the nose!!!
Good luck and I really hope he changes is ways!!! It will be better for him in the long run, and he will live a much happier life. He may think that the grass is greener over there however in actual fact it most definitely is not.
correction:- toranytime.com is the website that has his shiurim
or you can just type Rabbi wallerstien in google and you will be right by his shiurim then just scroll down to the topic of shomer negia. Download it and have him listen to it. It will definitely be a life changing expirience for him.
I really hope and pray that all these lost soals will find their place… It’s really sad, they say that there are more kids going off the derech these days, more than any other time in history, its due to the technology. as the tech goes higher yiddishe neshomos stoop lower and lower!!!
Maybe you should learn a little more and you will stop having chalomos and hashem will reward you with reality!
also its a known thing that when people have a dream about someone dying it means that that person is going to live a long life. No need to worry.Just serve hashem a little better to make that dream a reality!! maybe your true wealth is smething that you see as being dirt and hashem is trying to tell you that it’s worth more than you think, just look a little deeper. You aint perfect. And you should know that!