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My friend says she has….and she’s thankful for all the help!

She is not cutting or talking about it.

“When other girls found out none were surprised she would do it….we all know that is the way she ussually talks” – i meant that about cutting off ties, she ussually talks blunt and no one was surprised that she’d be like “I dont want to habe any contact with you, I dont need relashenships, I was put here to serve Hashem not to spend my time being with friends” and then hang up.

A mutual friend told me last week that she says she is sorry but since she does not want to continue our relashenship she will not speak to me even to let me tell her i forgive her……..

Can there be a favorie song on that album??!?!?!

I’m telling you, one day that’s gonna be me….(not singing..) the concepts were very nice, but it wasnt surprising that I had already written most of the conceps in my own songs (which aren’t as good probobly..) She gave me alot of ideas though……

In case anyone is wondering, songwriters and singers love answering questions, and most reply back to e-mails, Ive e-mailed at least 15-20 jewish songwriters with questions and samples of what I write asking if it is good. So far every one of them has replied! Nechama particaliry is very open about her songs, plus she is still a young adult herself…..

Im shopping613’s friend, she is letting me answer the questions myself 🙂

Actually, my friend whom decided has no need for friends is very clear that she has never needed friends. It has always been like this. She is normal very stiff and mature with girls our age, and dosen’t show any feelings for anything or anyone, she also does not bring girls home (They say cuz she’s Chabad and is embarresed about how different she is and their minhagim in front of “friends”) I’ve been her good friend for a few months than we stopped (cuz of me…don’t ask, it was something stupid to be angry at) than we started being friends again (once I realized how much she meant to me and it was a stupid reason to drop her)

Than, I moved about a year ago to another city, only recently she has decided to lose our relashenship (DO NOT SAY IT IS CUZ WE DON’T GO TO THE SAME SCHOOL! She lives in a city without anyone else from school anyway) because she says it is a waste of time to talk and have friends and she has only been my friend since we were in the same math class and she often needed help, she is “nobody’s” friend. Aplarently friends are overated….

I know she was a good friend since she often when we were alone, stopped being so stiff and laughed once in a while instead of ignoring everyone and reading and eating during recess in a corner alone. When Id come and sit down she’d be much more pleasant to be around. Also when she was upset I’d help her……I do know how it must feel to be her….

maybe she has a mental issue or something????? Im not sure…..

Shopping sends regrads, and that she is still waiting for the phone call…(plus a teacher told her to call first but she is too stuborn to listen, and now she is going to chamge her password since I don’t think she wanted you to know that amd will probobly be mad at me for writing that 🙂 I look forward to reading your answers! A week till Rosh Hashana, we both need solutions and quick!)

Thats sort how she hurt me, stopping the relashenship,……

Even if I would call (which Im not) would they answer??!??

Im angry that someone hurt me and dosent have the decency to at least call and ask for forgiveness a week before Rosh Hashanah (I only got over what happened this past week, so she shouldnt know that im over it)…..I refuse to call her, I didnt do anything to her! She needs to call me!!!! I asked a friend to speak to her (that accidentally found out about what happened) and she still hasnt called….

what can I do???

Ya…but what if the offensive thing was cutting off ties???????? In a very mean way. And not even asking for forgiveness…..(Posting for a friend who would like to know.)

Anyone else have any answers?

Shrek, this was NOT a rant! And most of the questions have nothing to do with me, only one or two, tecnically they all could but I was thinking about in general……not for me. I was just giving examples cuz I was wondering if what everyone considers forgiving. B”H wtvr happened to me caused me little pain. But I am still angry and not comfortable to be in the presense of hear of _____ after she did what she did.

Im just wondering if that is forgiving? What do you consider forgiving???? I understand why __ did ____ even though it is not something…well…a normal person would do…..

Sorry if you thought i was having an emotional rant, but thank you for the inspiration spee lch that I didnt need at the moment but was very good all the same, Im sure it helped someone else in the CR reading this. B”H Im fine, what happened, happened and Im going to tell her I forgive her…the question is, is that considered forgiving????

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