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  • in reply to: Yibum & Chalitza Today #776337
    shlishi
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    So a cheresh *must* do yibum today (since he cannot do chalitza)?

    What if the cheresh is married (and Ashkenaz thus under Cherem D’Rabbeinu Gershom)?

    In Ashkenazic communities, the brother (if he is not a cheresh) cannot under any circumstance do yibum today? Why not?

    In Sefardic communities can the brother do yibum today?

    in reply to: Airline Secrets? #775950
    shlishi
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    Also, can you get a low fare if you must fly within a couple of weeks (i.e. last minute)?

    in reply to: honesty in shidduchim #775784
    shlishi
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    No, I think it is very important to cover up, and even lie if necessary, to wash away unsavory or inconvenient facts.

    in reply to: Would You Date a Guy Who Drives a Mustang? #776818
    shlishi
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    zsdad: I’d have the same issue with someone who fancies the *externals/outside* of his home.

    in reply to: Would You Date a Guy Who Drives a Mustang? #776807
    shlishi
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    I would never want to be caught in those look-at-me cars.

    in reply to: Tznius Crisis in Cars #777405
    shlishi
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    Only a blind person won’t see in cars when crossing the street or walking. Cars are driving in public not in a garage.

    in reply to: Tznius Crisis in Cars #777403
    shlishi
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    pumper:

    As you said yourself that it will always happen with straight skirts but not flairy skirts; the solution is to wear flairy skirts and to not wear straight skirts, as the problem will occur with straight skirts.

    in reply to: Dating in lakewood… #775940
    shlishi
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    minyan: Sure. Why not?

    in reply to: Shidduch #775829
    shlishi
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    “Asking her out” for a date is most certainly and very much not tznius.

    in reply to: Banning Bris Milah in the United States! #1032364
    shlishi
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    The known medical benefits of circumcision, reducing STD, cleanliness, and others, far outweigh the speculation of whatever perceived risk there is.

    in reply to: Banning Bris Milah in the United States! #1032359
    shlishi
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    SJS: No, medical statistics should not be based upon conjecture, as what you’ve posted acknowledges it does. The number I posted from the American Academy of Family Physicians, showing two deaths per year — and that mostly from the anesthesia not the circumcision — is based on actual medical statistics. And even though it’s from 1982, the numbers will not have gotten worse in the subsequent 25 years. Medical technology improves with time.

    in reply to: Cheesecake for Lactose Intolerant People #775221
    shlishi
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    Why cheese cake anymore than kokosh cake, if neither is dairy?

    in reply to: Thread for southerners(Southerners only) #775970
    shlishi
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    in reply to: Cheesecake for Lactose Intolerant People #775219
    shlishi
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    What’s the point of pareve cheese cake for Shavuos?

    in reply to: It's My Birthday! #778208
    shlishi
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    Happy Birthday to you!

    Happy Birthday to you!

    Happy Birthday Dear Popa!

    Happy Birthday to you!

    How old are you now?

    How old are you now?

    How old are you now?

    How old are you now?

    Stand up and show us your face!

    Stand up and show us your face!

    Stand up and show us your face!

    in reply to: Older Picky Girls #813917
    shlishi
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    What was her stated reason for the rejection?

    in reply to: Inappropriate "Jewish" Periodical #793169
    shlishi
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    hanab: What did the publication do? Publish something against Talmidei Chachomim? Publish an inappropriate photograph?

    in reply to: Jerusalem is not for Sale! #775016
    shlishi
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    Oh please, Charlie. Rabbi Soloveitchik wasn’t an Agudist, even if he was at one time in his life he long left it.

    BTW, do you have any authoritative citation that you can show us that he was ever an Agudist?

    in reply to: Jerusalem is not for Sale! #775007
    shlishi
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    As mentioned, the same people that “got it back” are the ones that caused its loss in the first place.

    in reply to: Jerusalem is not for Sale! #775005
    shlishi
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    All of them opposed its creation beforehand and all (those that were alive) opposed it afterwards. That doesn’t mean they opposed living there; but they opposed Zionism and the State.

    in reply to: Jerusalem is not for Sale! #775001
    shlishi
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    Dovid – If you use the logic that since the State was created Hashem “supported” its creation, the same line of reasoning requires you maintain that Hashem “supported” the holocaust.

    in reply to: Jerusalem is not for Sale! #774997
    shlishi
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    Dovid – Partial list of gedolim against:

    R. Yoel Teitelbaum, R. Yosef Tzvi Dushinsky, R. Yitzchok Zev Soloveitchek, R. Avraham Yeshayahu Karelitz, R. Yitzchok Dov Koppleman, R. Michoel Dov Weissmandl, R. Ahron Kotler, R. Mordechai Gifter, R. Elya Svei, R. Baruch Kaplan, R. Amram Blau, R. Avigdor Miller, R. Yitzchok Hutner, R. Dovid Friedman (Karlin), R. Meir Smika (Dvinsk), R. Yosef Roizen, R. Dovid Freund, R. Chaim Soloveitchek (Brisk), The Chofetz Chaim, R. Shaul Broch, R. Yissoschor Dov (Belze Rebbe), R. Chaim Ozer Grozinski, R. Chaim Elozar Shapiro.

    in reply to: Banning Bris Milah in the United States! #1032349
    shlishi
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    And about 4 million babies are born in the U.S. a year. 2 million are boys. 50% (1 million) are circumcised. So that equates to TWO deaths in the U.S. per year. (And the deaths are generally from the ANESTHESIA not the circumcision.)

    in reply to: Pouring Wine/Grape Juice Back Into The Container #860468
    shlishi
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    Derech Hamelech (with DY’s haskama): I got that you’re being sarcastic, but (like last time) am not sure what your point is. Are you indicating that the association beween beards and havdalla wine are fairy tales?

    shmoolik: Are you indicating the reason we pour a drop of water into the wine bottle before filling the becher is altz ah remez fun der alta tzaiten when wine was too strong to drink undiluted?

    in reply to: Banning Bris Milah in the United States! #1032348
    shlishi
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    SJS:

    The American Academy of Family Physicians states that death is rare, and cites an estimated death rate of 1 infant in 500,000 from circumcision:

    http://www.aafp.org/online/en/home/clinical/clinicalrecs/guidelines/Circumcison.html

    in reply to: How much davening do you say from the siddur, how much by heart? #774947
    shlishi
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    mamash: Why?

    in reply to: Pouring Wine/Grape Juice Back Into The Container #860463
    shlishi
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    Does drinking the havdalla kos cause one to grow a beard? Does it do this to women too?

    in reply to: Punishment for Attack #775524
    shlishi
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    The Torah’s penalties are far more just than any passed by a legislature.

    in reply to: Banning Bris Milah in the United States! #1032337
    shlishi
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    MBP has been safely practiced for four thousand years.

    in reply to: Banning Bris Milah in the United States! #1032336
    shlishi
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    Charlie: What gives any credence to that number or author?

    in reply to: How much davening do you say from the siddur, how much by heart? #774942
    shlishi
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    It is always far better to daven in a siddur, even if you know it by heart.

    in reply to: Bentchers – Bal Tashchis #775097
    shlishi
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    mamash: How do you “get rid of one”? (That is the problem the OP is discussing.)

    in reply to: Banning Bris Milah in the United States! #1032332
    shlishi
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    SJS: Who produced that number? What statistical basis was it produced with? I find it completely capricious.

    in reply to: Are you in Israel? #776563
    shlishi
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    You guys really know how to count, don’t you? LOL.

    in reply to: Young Readers & Posters in the YWN Coffee Room #774745
    shlishi
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    gefen – I’d say you’re in the low 40’s.

    in reply to: Pouring Wine/Grape Juice Back Into The Container #860461
    shlishi
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    And where does the minhug of first pouring a drop of water from the becher into the wine/grape juice bottle before then pouring the wine/grape juice into the becher, come from?

    in reply to: Banning Bris Milah in the United States! #1032328
    shlishi
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    Second, there are a few hundred babies who die each year due to complications with circumcisions. You think that’s minor?

    That is certifiably false.

    And charlie, metzitzah b’peh is 100% safe and has been practiced for 4,000 years. (Aside from the fact that these rabid anti-semites want to ban Bris Milah completely, even without MBP).

    in reply to: Black Hat Advice #775616
    shlishi
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    That said, I think that the father should say “yes”. Plenty of modern orthodox RABBIS wear black hats on Shabat.

    Who cares about that? That is irrelevant.

    in reply to: Black Hat Advice #775615
    shlishi
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    I just wonder if you ‘Kibud Av’ guys would say the same if he wanted to wear a red tie. There’s something about ‘Frum’ that agitates people.

    Well said. Many in yelling kibud av here (where it doesn’t apply) would be saying let the kid be himself in the tie case.

    in reply to: Punishment for Attack #775523
    shlishi
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    HaLeiVi: A moredes can demand a get at will, even with no valid reason (i.e. she wakes up on the wrong side of the bed that morning) even if he doesn’t wish to provide it and beis din will force him?

    Daas Yochid (in his clarifying comment) seems to indicate otherwise.

    in reply to: Tznius issue – what would you do? #774674
    shlishi
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    always here, why would you be more surprised it is done by women in their 40’s than those in their 20’s and 30’s? I never knew pritzus to be an age based issue.

    in reply to: Banning Bris Milah in the United States! #1032320
    shlishi
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    There are zero health benefits to not circumcising. There are several health benefits (in addition to STD issues) to circumcising. Any claim to any purported “health concerns” caused by circumcision is an obvious lie. The anti-semitic undertones are more than obvious.

    in reply to: Jerusalem is not for Sale! #774975
    shlishi
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    Dovid: If the zionists hadn’t instigated for the UN resolution to declare a State, the 6 Arab armies would not have gone to war. and the vast vast majority of gedolim were very much against the zionists.

    in reply to: Banning Bris Milah in the United States! #1032318
    shlishi
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    The proposed ban has nothing to do with health concerns. A majority of boys in America are circumcised before they leave the hospital and a full 80% of American males are circumcised. Why are the vast majority of American males circumcised? For its health benefits. Yet, despite their denials, these “advocates” want to ban it for anti-semitic purposes, and the above mentioned cartoon is proof of that — considering Jews are a very small portion of circumcisions performed in the U.S., yet the extreme focus on the “Monster Mohel”.

    in reply to: Jerusalem is not for Sale! #774968
    shlishi
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    Suppose that the Arabs had won the 1948 war, that the Medinah had not survived. Do you really think we’d be able to daven at the Kotel?

    Suppose the ’48 war was not instigated by the maneuvering of the Zionists, then the pre-48 conditions would remain.

    in reply to: Punishment for Attack #775517
    shlishi
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    The difference between being able to demand a get is whether or not he pays the kesubah.

    She can demand a get at will at any time, assuming she is willing to forgo her kesubah?

    in reply to: Punishment for Attack #775514
    shlishi
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    I think it is worthwhile mentioning that the case presented here is where she is unmarried. If he did it to a married woman c”v, the penalty would be misa.

    Also, even if she is unmarried she would presumably be tameh (nida), and he would incur the penalties resulting from that fact.

    in reply to: Punishment for Attack #775513
    shlishi
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    I guess the women’s libbers weren’t around in time to influence the Gemorah.

    in reply to: Punishment for Attack #775509
    shlishi
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    so let her scorch the dinner…surely that’s worse

    ayc: She still couldn’t demand a get. Scorching the dinner only gives him the right to give one, not for her to demand one.

    in reply to: Punishment for Attack #775504
    shlishi
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    ayc: It is brought that often (like with Chana from the Chanuka story) that a husband would “accuse” his wife (with her cooperation) of being a sotah, in order that they should receive the blessing of having children, if they had trouble having children till then.

    Also, she can’t demand a get for being (falsely) accused of being a sotah, as it isn’t one of the valid halachic reasons that would entitle her to demand one.

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