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  • in reply to: Israel!!! #627011
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    I lived in Israel for four years. I have been back to visit three times. I am looking forward to going again.

    in reply to: Anyone With a Deliciously Chewy Blonde Brownie Recipe? #624200
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    Yes, you can make it without nuts.

    in reply to: Anyone With a Deliciously Chewy Blonde Brownie Recipe? #624195
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    INGREDIENTS

    1 cup sifted all-purpose flour

    1/2 teaspoon baking powder

    1/8 teaspoon baking soda

    1/2 teaspoon salt

    1/2 cup chopped walnuts

    1/3 cup butter or margarine

    1 cup packed brown sugar

    1 egg

    1 tablespoon vanilla extract

    2/3 cup semisweet chocolate chips

    DIRECTIONS

    Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (180 degrees C).

    Measure 1 cup sifted flour. Add baking powder, baking soda, and salt. Sift again. Add 1/2 cup chopped nuts. Mix well and set aside.

    Melt 1/3 cup butter. Add 1 cup firmly packed brown sugar and mix well. If shortening is used, add 1 tablespoon hot water. Cool slightly.

    Add egg (beaten) and vanilla. Blend well. Add flour mixture, a little at a time, mixing well.

    Spread in 9 x 9 x 2 inch pan. Sprinkle 1/2 to 1 cup chocolate chips on top. Bake for 20 to 25 minutes.

    in reply to: What to Bake For Vort? #626141
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    eyes open…can your recipe be made in advance and frozen?

    in reply to: Starbucks Story #672340
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    I disagree with will hill, and I totally agree with SJSinNYC.

    in reply to: Starbucks Story #672339
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    I disagree, please post your source.

    in reply to: Starbucks Story #672336
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    Will Hill- I respectfully disagree with giving tochacha about tznius to these women. Devorah K. writes “Their clothing is designed to make an impression and they sit in the most provocative of ways. Their conversations range from the mundane to the profane.” We don’t know that their clothing is not tznius, just that it’s out to make an impression. I do agree that they can be told in a nice way that the food isn’t kosher, like “excuse me, but is the food here kosher? I don’t see any certicate, I was told it wasn’t, etc.”

    Only a close friend can tell you about tznius things, not a total stranger. For example, I used to wear slits in my skirts, below the knee, until a very close friend of mine taught me that it is very attention grabbing (peek a boo effect) to wear them. my friend even bought me a sefer about tznius (an expensive one at that). That was the only way I could accept this mussar, when it was given from a friend and with total love and caring.

    as I posted above, I think that these ladies don’t know that it is not kosher. Why would they go there and not the many other restaurants all over Rockland that are kosher?

    in reply to: Starbucks Story #672334
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    I mentioned this story to my family and my daughter said that there are starbucks in brooklyn that are kosher (can even get CY milk upon request), I don’t know this for a fact but perhaps these women think the starbucks here is kosher as well. Then it would be a mitzvah to tell these ladies that the Starbucks has no hechsher (of course in a nice way)and if they continue eating you have done your job.

    Just to add on, if you are at the mall and want to get Haagen Daas icecream from the vendors, or any other snack, it is important to look at their certificate of kashrus to see what exactly is kosher and what is not.

    in reply to: Shidduchim & Weight #625386
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    There was a very interesting article in the Bina Magazine this week, about this girl who wasn’t thin and she wasn’t getting shidduchim so she started to diet and became a size 2 and then she got engaged and married but she was so obsessed with the dieting that she was almost anorexic and she wasn’t getting pregnant and the doc told her to gain weight. I think it was a wake up call to the mothers of the boys who want a thin girl for their sons.

    in reply to: Starbucks Story #672315
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    Devorah…can you please tell us which starbucks you are referring to, as there are several in Rockland County. Maybe they have one with some kosher food?

    in reply to: Starbucks Story #672292
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    On the other hand, maybe they brought food from home and just bought some coffee there?

    in reply to: Starbucks Story #672291
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    how sad! Give them a gift certificate to Purple Pear! Devorah, seriously, why don’t you use the computer at the library or something so you don’t have to watch the “excitement” at Starbucks.

    in reply to: Is 3 Cups of Coffee a Day Too Much? #803356
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    I think twelve cups of coffee is way too much. I was told two cups is okay.

    in reply to: Is 3 Cups of Coffee a Day Too Much? #803353
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    Squeak, can you explain what simple brew is please?

    in reply to: Kid Off The Derech #625220
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    I am very touched by everyone’s responces, and Gitty loves it. thank you everyone. Mi keamcha yisroel.

    in reply to: Should We Let Our Kids Drive Straight Away??? #623455
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    As the mother of three daughters who are all driving, I share your concern about teen driving. But over here where I live in the suburbs driving is a necessity for them to get to college. Plus, when they get married they won’t have to learn how to drive when it’s harder cause there are young kids at home. I say let them learn how to drive (and PRAY). Also important is for them to take this special drivers ed course to educate them, and lots of lessons on the road and on the high way with a good driving teacher.

    in reply to: Is 3 Cups of Coffee a Day Too Much? #803349
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    I am off coffee since the sunday before yom kippur.

    in reply to: Good eating habits (dinner time) #623349
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    “political issue”, don’t you mean “a power struggle”? must be because of the election coming up….

    But I totally agree with you, chalish

    in reply to: Kid Off The Derech #625208
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    Chalish- why are you on the internet, it is even more dangerous than T.V. That to me is a mixed message.

    in reply to: Good eating habits (dinner time) #623346
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    Important to be calm/chilled about food with kids. forcing them to eat something won’t be good, but you can have the good foods like cut up fruit and veggies available. Cereal and milk is probably better than fast food, french fries and pizza, but I still think it is a good idea for a kid to get used to and eventually enjoy fruit and veggies, that way they will eat it as an adult.

    in reply to: Kid Off The Derech #625199
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    Chalish, it is wrong to say this about MO people, especially when there are so many types. In fact, I have several friends who are MO and their kids are wearing black hats and learning in the most yeshivish kollels. Please…we just had yom kippur. let’s not talk bad about our fellow yidden. What you wrote is very hurtful to MO people, plus it isn’t true.

    in reply to: Good eating habits (dinner time) #623339
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    At 12 years old a boy is usually not available to help cook the dinner of his choosings. Perhaps he can make a list of his favorate suppers? Although he is not eating chocolate and candy, I still think that cereal is not doing the job nutritionally, as you are missing out on the protien and veggies. My nephew is around this age and is a little finicky about food.

    in reply to: Kid Off The Derech #625190
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    David Bar-Magen, your post is intelligent, sensitive, and understanding, I am amazed by what people are writing in over here.

    in reply to: Kid Off The Derech #625187
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    thank you af al pi cain.

    in reply to: Kid Off The Derech #625159
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    I think in some Yeshivos they teach things very black and white, and you are not allowed to ask questions. Perhaps some teens think this is what all yeshivish people are like. But as we get older and more mature, we find there are many in the yeshivish circles that are more open and have ahavas yisroel, even if that person does not look or dress extremely yeshivish.

    in reply to: Kid Off The Derech #625155
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    Feif Un…thank you for sharing. You are a REAL BT.

    in reply to: Stop Being a Kanoi on Simchas Torah #623288
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    We have a hashkoma minyan so some people daven at Hashkoma and then come back for some hakafos and then go home. it is terrible when there is fighting in shul.

    in reply to: Kid Off The Derech #625147
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    with a name like shindy you may think that I am satmar but I am not. I would have been fine with gitty being MO and in fact switched her to a MO school because at the time we thought BY system was too strict for her. Halivay she should be MO, I wish. anyways, Boruch Hashem she is in a much better place than others.

    in reply to: margarine=oil #1099694
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    I use earth balance maragarine all the time. No transfat at all.

    in reply to: Kid Off The Derech #625141
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    Thank you, Bentzy18.

    in reply to: Shidduchim & Weight #625336
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    popa_bar_abba,

    A young lady should not make it a priority to be THIN. She should make it a priority to eat well and exercise and be besimcha with herself because she feels SHE is worth it!!! I see plenty of skinny girls who are not finding their shidduch so easily either. Some men like a more full figured girl, they don’t want to give a hug to a bag of bones. Uch. Thank G-d my husband finds skinny women very unattractive.

    in reply to: Shidduch Info- “check ’em out!” #663458
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    I understand it is important to check the shidduch out, but sometimes it gets to be too much, and people who dig too deep discourage me from trying to make shidduchim for their children. no wonder their kids are getting older and still not getting married.

    in reply to: Apple Cake #622880
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    I like to use cortland apples, now is the apple season!

    in reply to: An Impossible Wish #623903
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    KRUNCH, I also long for the days of my youth, when I was first becoming frum and everything was so special, and I did mitzvos and davened with geshmack. Now here I am, thirty years later, dreading eating in a freezing sukah,and UGH,I have to fast!!! now how low is that? I long for the times when I didn’t have to face the yeshivos and principals, when I had respect and trust for any yeshivish or frum person, I long for those days when I was so innocent and trusting, before I got so burned out by so called frum people. This is how life is, and that is how Hashem wants us to grow, it was just so much easier then!

    in reply to: What Kind of a Kapora is This??? #623214
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    My children used to insist on bringing along food and water for the chickens when we went to do kapporos. Then they refused to go. I have seen children chase and abuse kittens and dogs, my daughter once saved a kitten from being attacked by a crowd of boys.

    My husband just does it for us with money. The only way I could do it is if I raise my own chickens and bring them to the shochet. Just chickens are so noisy and MESSY.

    in reply to: Apple Cranberry Crunch #739590
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    good idea about the freezing, especially if you serve it room temp or cold.

    in reply to: Apple Cranberry Crunch #739588
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    You have to bring the tin you make it in to the table and everyone helps themselves, it’s not a cake or a kugel that slices. If you have a baking dish, bake it in the baking dish if you don’t like to serve in a disposable tin to the table.

    in reply to: What Kind of a Kapora is This??? #623205
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    I agree with you. This mass marketing of capporos chickens should be abolished.

    in reply to: How to Manage Tzaddaka Mailings #771779
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    I do throw them out, but very guiltily. We still do give plenty of tzaddakah, my husband has a good friend who he highly trusts and respects who collects for hachnosos kallah, so he just gave him a big check, and last night he gave to another person who was collecting for the poor. But he has no time for all these mailings, and it just accumulates on his desk. I just did a major cleaning of his desk and it is better for my sanity to throw them out then land up collecting dust.

    in reply to: Leaving children alone in the house #990843
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    “how do you send a child to sem in Israel when in most sems from Friday afternoon until Sunday, the sem has only the girl’s word where she is? I’m not judging, but I’ve always wondered.”

    Just me….FIRST of all, this girl is not a “child”, she is eighteen and probably has her license and is entitled to vote for president.

    SECOND of all, it’s shabbos, where do you think the girl is going? Do you expect the seminaries to keep them chained to the bed and report to them when they are going to use the facilities?

    THIRD of all, if the seminary finds that a girl is breaking rules, like going to the beach for shabbos and doing dangerous things, she will find herself on the next plane home, sans the money you paid for seminary.

    in reply to: Time Releasing Nutrition Capsule For Yom Kippur #622854
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    I don’t see what the problem would be with timed release nutrition if taken before yom kippur. After all, when we eat seudah mafsekes, the food we eat takes several hours to digest. So what really is the difference?

    in reply to: How to Manage Tzaddaka Mailings #771769
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    The Big One-

    Well, at least she gives to other worthy causes. Personally, I think giving to kollel is more important than giving to Shaarei Tzeddek. But to each his own. As long as we are giving. My husband wrote out a big check just now for hachnosas kallah to a reliable Rov/friend that we trust, may it be a zechus for my family. tzaddakah tatzil memoves. Just I feel bad I don’t have the $, time, or patience to respond to all these mailings!!!

    in reply to: How to Manage Tzaddaka Mailings #771764
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    I understand the need is very great, I always feel so guilty throwing out the mailings. I have noticed now that they are sending me appeals from Israel. And my daughter who came back from sem got on a list and now they are sending her appeals also (what money is she making when she is a student?) It’s gotten to be too much for me to handle, and I am very annoyed that my husband’s desk is COVERED with this. Did I write that I took them all and threw them out? I cannot take this mess any more. It’s baal tashchis for them to do such mass mailings to all these lists, I think most of us throw it out and they get just a few dollars, it has gotten way out of hand.

    in reply to: Leaving children alone in the house #990838
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    I agree with you oomis1105

    in reply to: Leaving children alone in the house #990835
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    Well, I am happy to report with all my nudging my sister has agreed to talk with her kid and to check the carbon monoxide detector. hurray!

    in reply to: Leaving children alone in the house #990834
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    “Is ten really so young? When I was six, I was able to walk one mile from my house to my best friend’s house. I guess it would depend on the child – is he responsible?”

    SJS, the child is responsible but SLEEPING so that is what gets me nervous. but to each his own. as long as a child is taught what to do in case of an emergency. and working smoke and carbon monoxide detectors in case of fire. hopefully a burgler won’t come breaking into the house. now i am getting a little paranoid.

    I doubt nowadays anyone would let a six year old walk one mile to a friend’s house, with all the stories of kidnapping going on.

    in reply to: Leaving children alone in the house #990832
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    Reb Yankyl, I asked my sister and she has working smoke and carbon monoxide detectors on all floors of the house. So that would wake the child up. Personally, I would not leave a ten year old alone sleeping, but it seems people feel differently than we do. and it’s not against the law either.

    in reply to: Leaving children alone in the house #990830
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    My girls have been working very VERY hard for four years of high school, and if they want to go to Israel I am all for it. They are actually very academic types and go to the more serious learning sems. I would prefer that they go to Israel and CHILL and yes have fun! When they come home, it’s already shidduch time and the pressure is on, let them have a year to relax and enjoy, but my girls like to work hard so they go to the sems that are more pressured. I leave it to them to decide.

    As far as the kids speaking loud on the bus, this is a matter of tznius, and I know many adult women who talk loudly on their cell phones, but listen, we have no control over these things we can only work on ourselves.

    I know nothing about the sems in gateshead but I am sure the girls there want to have fun and some may have more fun than is necessary but they are KIDS. As long as they are following the rules and not being kicked out. The girls nowadays are so stressed out, they have to be perfect and modest and say tehillim all day and learn shmiras haloshon and cook and clean for ima and they must be beautiful and size zero, GO TO ISRAEL AND CHILL OUT FOR THE YEAR!!!! Be yourself and crazy and wild and have fun, fun FUN! this is the time in their life for this!!!

    in reply to: Leaving children alone in the house #990828
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    “I live in Yerushalayim right now and am not so impressed with what I see of the girls in Sem.”

    Intellegent, not meaning to come across as a frummy, but this is loshon horah and we are in aseres yemai teshuvah. There are many types of sem and many types of girls, and I don’t know about you but when I was young I wasn’t such a Tzadaikes yet. I have learned to be less judgemental in my old age. gmar tov.

    in reply to: Leaving children alone in the house #990826
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    Just me-

    That is good to know that there are alternatives to Israel. My daughter is not interested in Gateshead, she wants to be in Israel. My older daughter went to sem in Israel and she had a great experience there. It is worth the money for my family at least.

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