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Aproudbyg, If you can’t get out of the house, Is there a way you can get yourself to therapy while living in the house? Your mother doesn’t even have to know about it. Some therapists may accept your insurance. Maybe you can find a kind teacher who can help you? I’d like for you to know that I’m going through the exact same thing right now. For several reasons, it is not practical for me to get out of the house. But I found some amazing mentors who are literrly saving my life. I can’t stress enough how important it is to reach out. Don’t allow urself to drown in it on your own. You want to do the right thing, you don’t want to go against your mothers wishes, but a person has a chiyuv to themselves first. You have to take care of yourself, try to look around you and see who you can trust. Get another trustworthy adult to help you make sense of it.
A mamin,funny I was thinking the same thing. I have a strong hunch there might be a reason.
you cn go to villadirect.com they have great rentals
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Thank you all for ur wishes! I appreciate it.
Really. But, One closer, yup but who knows how far it really is….
Maybe when i’ll be engaged (to a great person) already I’ll be able to say how much this time has helped me grow and shape me into the person i am today.:(
Unfortunately I don’t feel like that today. The shidduch that really sounded promising just fell apart. :(:(
LOL, i practically paired them up when yoni glanced at esther in the hospital when they were there with ariella, when she got that piece stuck in her ear or nose don’t remember..
They are pulling this engagement out reallllllllllly long!
Bpt,
does your family consist of girls only??
U stick up for them ALOT!!!
Betrayal
Health, Are you sure the word is Booveris?? My grandmother used to say Boorvesig
After cooking and baking on sunday, By monday i needed some fresh air.. Yes snow or no snow i was out…Got dressed and walked a couple of blocks! I must say i enjoyed it immensly. By tuesday i was back at work!! (and i was also a bit glad to be back)
Gotta love daffy’s, Loehmanns, Tj maxx, Marshalls,Century 21, Zara, Gap, Banana, Jcrew Off Fifth, Bloomingdales, Jersey Gardens, Woodbury Commons.
Orlando!
I was there with a couple of siblings.It was a no baby-no spouse trip!!
boy did we have a good time!
We rented a big villa with a pool and spa!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh BLISS!!!
The weather couldnt have been better and Dont even mention the family time!!
Mount tremblant is fantastic!! Fantastic! they have higher and very proffessional slopes!! I was there a year ago! We had the time of our life…
Dont forget to dress VERY warm, its biting cold out there. And, you’re out for a long time!
We were wearing 2 pairs socks under good boots..thermal pants, thermal underwear, on that regular clothing, Sweatshirt waterproof gloves,hat, hood shawls and we werent overdressed..
You can go to mount royale , they have snow tubing, skating skiing, and sleighing. It’s not far.. just a couple of minutes away and its loads of fun!
everything is done
and park the pony in your driveway on 13th ave.?
Sorry my post went up twice…
I am a very visual person. It’s a shocker to picture one thing and see quiet another.
Call me shallow or whatver but If the guy is bad looking and its the first time i saw him, all I will see the entire date is his face. It WILL bother me the entire time.
If it’s something I got used to already, because I studied it, then it wouldnt bother me half as much.
Cshapiro–No never, i’m a hermit
A picture doesnt make it or break it in any shidduch I am inquiring about.
It’s just that I need the picture to get used to the person’s face! Its a shocker to see a person’s face for the first time when you meet them..
A picture doesnt make it or break it in any shidduch I am inquiring about.
It’s just that I need the picture to get used to the person’s face! Its a shocker to see a person’s face for the first time when you meet them..
Do you remember the crybabies? I miss those!! t’was my favorite!!
Sour on the outside and bubble gum once you were brave enough to finish chewing.
The only thing we ever won was a box of legos!! serious!!!!!!!!!!
Still have my hopes high for a big jackpot though!!
!!!! I guess its a yiddish problem not an exclusive yeshivish one.
There’s a famous yiddish saying… with family essed men kugel…
If you can avoid it, Do so..
On the other hand, you have to know who you are dealing with. Sometimes you have a very trustworthy, respectful, erliche family member and you feel it could work out nicely, then you should give it a try.
Ok! then, you got something to argue about.. I’ll give you this one!!
Bpt, did you get married with a dining room set? I bet you did.. your kid also wants one.
ramateshkolian- You said it!!
SELF CONTROL BUILDS SELF RESPECT , Yes that is soo powerful. A couple of months ago I was struggling (and sometimes still am) with my own self esteem.
There wasnt much in me I felt could be respected or that I could feel good about.
Hashem had given me soo much- he gave me loads of talents, alot of charisma and a pretty face. But, I just didnt see it!
None of that meant anything to me..
I really was struggling…
Until someone pointed out to me to start working on my Self control.Every time I wanted to say something hurtful, or yell at the other person (and oh yes , they did deserve it) I would fight back the urge and instead I would take a deep breathe and count till 10 and the urge would slowly go away)
Once I started mastering it once, twice and several more times, the feeling that I am in control was the best self esteem booster there could ever be. Once I started feeling better about myself I started appreciating all the things hashem gave me.
Also, Push yourself to go out and volunteer. When an oppertunity arises dont say no! Fight that urge!!
Good Luck,
Hatzlacha!
No, I’m totally off on CHol hamoed, and purim
You work then too?
blueberrymuffin! It’s cute you brought it up, while i was posting my comment i had this in mind. I have this friend who does the exact same thing..Its really nice to get compliments but please keep it down to a limit…
People that are smiley and complimentary are a pleasure to be around…Everyone likes a good word,
But, it has to be sincere,fake flattery stinks..
I usually try to find something sincere and nice to say about the other person, although i should try to compliment a little more than I do!
BPT, Impressive!!
I’m in ! always work on holidays 🙁
WHICH REBBE?
WiseWoman
kallah dances? the kallah sways a bit…in the all the mitzvah tanz'(make that plural) I was by i never saw the kallah actually dancing.. Also, Mitzvah tanz is something that has deeper meaning , It isnt face value..
Agreed.. British accent!! Its sooo elegant, specially the singsong it comes along with..
blinky, did I ever give any male indications?
see why the gender under the name is important :P?
Sac,Hey!!
Iyh, when i get married though, I dont plan on giving any indications of my handywoman talents!! I think i’ll leave those jobs to my guy!!
Oh, that’s just my mouth talking.. I cant see myself waiting around for things to get done! what’s the big deal? you need to hang a frame, just bang some nails in with your hammer and it’s done! I coudlnt wait around until someone else decides to do it.
wheatabix
sac, I never knew there was something weird with shoveling snow!! I’ve been doing it for my grandma and now my parents for many years now 😉 It was my pleasure to help out!!
I’m also the girl who fixes things around the house with tools 🙂 no kidding!! if there are no boys around …you have to be the boy 😉
Poster! that quote hit home many more times than i’d like to admit!!
Front loaders have agitaters as opposed to front loaders which do not.. Agitaters can tear your laundry, the front loaders are more gentle while doing a really good job.
stone floors
Helping others/making others happy, Music, music, music and oh did i say good music? The Sunshine, Good company….
Up in The sky
Let a good man do good deeds with the same zeal that the evil man does bad ones.
The Belzer Rabbi
How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and the strong — because someday you will have been all of these.
George Washington
I have never been hurt by anything I didn’t say.
Calvin Coolidge
There’s a little truth behind every “just kidding”
a little curiosity behind every “just wondering”, a little knowledge behind every “I don’t know”, and a little emotion behind every “I don’t care”.
Hey, I think i’ll post it on asktherabbi.org
oh my goodness! that is really funny, because i do the exact same thing.. I am a very musical person and that’s the only way my heart and soul are in my davening…If you find out if its right or not right i’d really appreciate it if you’d let me know..
Go fish
Horrible fear of fire!
Some people get married with their own money as well.
Food just loses its appeal in those times..NO matter if its “heimish” or store bought. …If i do manage to push in, it comes right out….