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  • in reply to: Is an addiction considered a sin? #897555
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    Refueinu.

    in reply to: please pass along; cars being TOWED from toys r us parking lot!! #1017337
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    TCG: Right. I’m sure you were receptive about the criticism of being a vegetarian until now. Tell me about it.

    Shrek: By time you get back from the cleaners, you are at your car already. So how can they tow it once you are in the car, motor running?

    in reply to: Which American community it right for us? #897668
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    The cost of living for a frum consumer can widely differ from the cost of living for a secular American.

    For example, New York City has one of the highest cost of living expenses in America, yet for a frum/kosher consumer it can be a considerably lower cost of living to reside in NYC than almost anywhere else in the United States. This is because kosher food and yeshiva tuition costs considerably less in New York City (Brooklyn, etc.) than almost anywhere else. This is since NYC has a tremendous kosher food industry and that is where much kosher food originates from and thus is less expensive than elsewhere. And the school tuition is lower there than elsewhere for a myriad of reasons.

    in reply to: NYC Board of Health Votes to Regulate Bris Milah #1096338
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    Menachem Mendel Stern was a maskil and Kochvei Yitzchak was a publication of the haskala. Anything they published is suspect of forgery.

    in reply to: Which American community it right for us? #897657
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    Seems like everyone here is suggesting their own hometowns…

    in reply to: please pass along; cars being TOWED from toys r us parking lot!! #1017323
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    That’s why I’m tellin ‘ya to first go into one of the stores (best is Toys R Us since its closest to the water) and after spending two minutes inside go directly to the water. Do not stop at your car between leaving the store and leaving the parking lot / going to the water.

    in reply to: please pass along; cars being TOWED from toys r us parking lot!! #1017321
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    Cone on, lesschums… you gotta use a little yiddishe kup! That would be quite silly, wouldn’t it? Either you take your shopping bag with you to the water or if you really must deposit it into your car, dash back into one of the stores for two minutes before slipping out the Ocean.

    (Hey, you could even do that without shopping altogerher. heheheh. But if you get a receipt for even a two-dollar product it serves as an insurance policy if there’s an issue.)

    Y’know, a $250 towing fee is highway robbery far above anything reasonable and halachic.

    <bracing>

    in reply to: please pass along; cars being TOWED from toys r us parking lot!! #1017319
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    If you went shopping first and then to the water, how could they even know you aren’t still shopping — unless they are keeping track and following thousands of shoppers after they park, following them into the stores and following them to the water — all the while keeping track of which shopper own which one of the hundreds of cars parked in the lot?

    And if they towed, you could prove it was their error by producing the shopping receipt (and denying leaving the mall area.)

    in reply to: Which American community it right for us? #897651
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    takahmamash: The shechina weeps when a couple gets divorced. Please see to it that folks do not get divorced.

    in reply to: Is White Collar Crime An Aveirah? #897473
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    Blue collar crime is worse.

    in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182321
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    wow: CY simply printed the first 35 or so posts from this thread. Every month they pick one CR thread and reprint it in full or in part. (Without adding anything of their own.)

    in reply to: Help! Book Dilemma — Appropriate or not? #906387
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    zahavasdad: Which splendid literature did you educate yourself with that resulted in the English writing prowess you display every day on this board?

    in reply to: Beni Yishma'el #898053
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    I believe the seforim hakedoshim state that when Moshiach comes he will identify the real Kohanim and Leviim but that he will not identify someone who is technically a mamzer but not known to be one.

    in reply to: Beni Yishma'el #898043
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    The Church made it a crime, at penalty of death, for Europeans to convert to Judaism. So, although surely there were still converts during our stay in Europe, they were by far exceptional.

    in reply to: Beni Yishma'el #898035
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    Based on DNA, most of your ancestry is probably from converts (at least on the female side).

    Where did you get that drivel from?

    in reply to: Beni Yishma'el #898029
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    ibs: Yishmael’s descendants intermarried with the descendants of the non-Yishmaelim. So by now over 99% would be descendants of Yishmael through one line or another, from at least one side.

    in reply to: NYC Board of Health Votes to Regulate Bris Milah #1096314
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    Rav Samson Raphael Hirsh wanted MBP to be done. He once gave an exceptional heter to a particular case to forgo it, but he made clear he wanted MBP to be done regularly. The Maharam Schick and many Litvishe Gedolim insisted that MBP must be done.

    in reply to: Beni Yishma'el #898025
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    And, I suppose, most Europeans are not Bnei Eisev…

    In any event, via intermarriage and all, surely they all are descendants through one lineage or another.

    in reply to: NYC Board of Health Votes to Regulate Bris Milah #1096310
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    The general rate in the U.S. of neonatal herpes simplex is 1 in 3,000 infants. The rate of neonatal herpes simplex, as counted by the NYC DOH, among babies who had MBP is NO HIGHER than the rate of the general populace.

    Thus, we see that MBP carries no greater risk of herpes than a baby who does not have MBP or does not even have a Bris altogether!

    in reply to: know any frum vegetarians or vegans? #918569
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    “It actually says Elah baBasar and baYayin. And, that’s talking about YomTov, not Shabbos, when it is a Chiyuv to eat meat and drink wine…

    Y”D 341:1? See the Pischei Tshuva who is michalek between Shabbos and YomTov where there is a Chiyuv mitaam Simchas YomTov. And on Shabbos TishaBav and for an Avel there is a Chiyuv to eat meat, see Magen Avraham 13 in O”C 552 (and Machatzis Hashekel). And even from 341:1 I’m not sure it means that you *should* do what you want, maybe just that you could. See Tur O”C 242 where he says “Tzarich Liharbos” (and “Yesh LiAdam Lizarez Atzmo”) and Shulchan Aruch 250:2.

    So sometimes there is a Chiyuv to eat meat.

    Even according to the Biur Halacha, not only is there a Mitzva *if* you eat Basar, there is a Mitzva *to* eat Basar. See Mishna Brura 529:11.”

    by Kozov

    in reply to: inspiring Rosh Hashanah story #897176
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    aurora: Thank you for sharing your very touching story.

    in reply to: know any frum vegetarians or vegans? #918549
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    Sam2: Bad comparison. Rav Moshe Shternbuch never said not to do kapporos with chickens. He was simply promoting treating the animals properly — and then using them.

    TCG: Your vegetarian defensive logic that the animal was a living, walking, creature and therefore you cannot eat it is the antitheism of the Torah, whether you do or do not care or change.

    in reply to: The Luckiest Generation Ever #897246
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    Well said, akuperma.

    in reply to: Is it permissible to have a goy in a sukkah? #897681
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    What would be the possible problem of him entering the Suckah?

    in reply to: "Better Boys Than Girls??" #922849
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    “I have been hearing that the quality of the girls is dropping big time”

    You better marry quick, before the quality drops even further, precipitously so.

    in reply to: "Better Boys Than Girls??" #922845
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    It’s comparatively much much easier to be a good girl than to be a good guy. (Think of how little it takes to be a good girl whereas how much it takes to be a good guy.) Being a good guy is so much harder than being a good girl, therefore the good guys end up getting the great girls — since a great girl is the equivalent to being a good guy, while the regular guys get good girls — since that is their equivalent, and the mediocre guys get the average girls — since that is their equivalent.

    in reply to: Mochel Loch… time to forgive and be forgiven! #1184923
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    AYC: Please note this thread:

    Final post and request for mechila

    I believe it is something you were waiting for.

    in reply to: Final post and request for mechila #897194
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    Mochel Loch… time to forgive and be forgiven!

    AYC has returned. (And can’t access her original SN since it was taken.)

    And I too request mechila from everyone who I have wronged. And, of course, I grant the same.

    Ksiva v’chasima tova

    in reply to: Where to start becoming Jewish when family roots discovered #991173
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    “Reread her original post. She found out she is jewish which is why she wants the info.”

    Unless I misread aurora, I understand her original post to indicate she is assuming that her maternal great-grandmother may be Jewish based upon certain pseudo-Jewish practices she and her grandmother performed. But that she is uncertain, for a fact, that her maternal side is in fact Jewish, per Jewish law.

    Perhaps this point can be further clarified.

    in reply to: Jewish Judges on Secular Court #897079
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    Avi: Mesira would prohibit it.

    in reply to: Where to start becoming Jewish when family roots discovered #991172
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    I think many of the posters are forgetting that aurora is a gentile and thus she is not obligated to follow any Jewish law.

    Reread her original post. She found out she is jewish which is why she wants the info.

    in reply to: Becoming A Rov, Rebbe or Chacham #896726
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    Merely carrying a title of rabbi these days, isn’t saying much.

    in reply to: Mochel Loch… time to forgive and be forgiven! #1184921
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    AYC: You were sorely missed. I (and many others) hope you will choose to stay.`

    in reply to: Uncle Moishy Stole the Quote?! #897423
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    Uncle Moishy came up with it on his own. It is mere coincidence if someone else used something similar previously.

    in reply to: NYC Board of Health Votes to Regulate Bris Milah #1096210
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    I too would be thrilled to go to jail for this; standing up for the Torah HaKedosha. Nevertheless, failure to comply with this new NYC DOH regulation is only similar to parking in a No Parking zone or a restaurant violating how hot the NYC DOH requires meat be cooked at. (The latter example is, too, a NYC DOH regulatory violation.) All those violations, as well as violating this new NYC DOH rule on MBP, merely result in — at most — a fine.

    Except violating the Bris Milah regulation isn’t enforceable, as even in the unlikley event that the DOH can determine who the Mohel was (since neither the parents nor the mohelim will be answering the DOH’s questions), they still won’t be able to determine or prove whether metzitza was done b’peh or with a tube. (The latter remains unregulated and requires no consent form.)

    Aside from the fact they won’t even know which Bris Milahs to investigate (to issue a fine for not signing a form) in the first place. This is despite the fact that every Mohel performing MBP will now routinely be flouting this new regulation.

    in reply to: Do Over #896677
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    “I know another story where the mesader kidushin looked over the ksuba the next day and decided it needed to be redone so he had them do the kidushin again to comply with the date on the ksuba.”

    Often, years later people realize there is a problem with the Kesuba. They simply write a new Kesuba. They don’t do a new Kedushin.

    in reply to: NYC Board of Health Votes to Regulate Bris Milah #1096201
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    besalel: No. The new regulation requires that the parent be given a form to sign with specific language stating that MBP is dangerous and recommended against as it may cause brain damage or death. It is specifically designed to scare the parents away from doing MBP. And it is a lie.

    in reply to: Is there a way to tell if a girl will be a competent wife and mother #896784
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    I like uneeq’s brother’s approach. Thanks for sharing. I believe we should all emulate that.

    in reply to: Mochel Loch… time to forgive and be forgiven! #1184918
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    WB AYC!

    in reply to: Germs on Shofar? #1183739
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    Goq, you actually still remember what you posted so long ago?

    in reply to: Jewish Judges on Secular Court #897067
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    In addition to the example provided in the OP, the judge would have to recuse himself from all cases with even one Jewish litigant. Since he cannot rule against a Jewish litigant opposed by a gentile litigant if halacha favors the Jewish litigant while secular law favors the gentile litigant. And he presumably wouldn’t even know who the law favors (either secular law or Jewish law) unless he heard the case and all its details. So he would have to recuse himself from all cases involving any Jewish parties before hearing it, as it would be impractical to take the case – hear it in court as judge – and then recuse himself in middle of the case.

    What excuse is there for the cases that have a Jewish judge and a Jewish party in the case?

    And that is all in civil cases. This issue is even more pronounced for a Jewish criminal court judge who must pronounce sentence on accused Jews, with laws, rules of evidence, and punishments far different in secular law than in Jewish law. He has no right to jail or penalize a Jew with a penalty unwarranted under halacha.

    in reply to: Jewish Judges on Secular Court #897066
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    Can’t judges recuse themselves from cases?

    Not always. (And even when they can, they generally need to explain why they are doing so.)

    in reply to: How many wives? #1003446
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    repharim: You could probably make all the same arguments for having only one child.

    in reply to: Is there a way to tell if a girl will be a competent wife and mother #896740
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    Marry a Bas Talmid Chochom with good middos and Chazal advise us all will be well.

    in reply to: Bnos Sarah #897440
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    That it is a girls school.

    in reply to: How many wives? #1003441
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    So what *is* the reason Hashem allowed men to marry more than one wife (but not vice versa)?

    in reply to: Recommendations for coffee creamer #896484
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    7 – 10 days.

    in reply to: Sanz-Klausenberg Rebbe Speaks Out Forcefully Against NYC Health Department #896808
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    It is a constitutional violation of freedom of religion. You cannot regulate a purely religious ritual. And if you let this pass, the next step is they’ll ban it.

    in reply to: WIC #896376
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    Hmm, the OTD is occurring because one child is eating the food WIC really gave to his brother?

    in reply to: simple question: who decides when to close a thread? #896430
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    The matzav.

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